Stupid shit in Medellin

[Elvis 2008]

Remind me again why these guys do not just get a woman that cares about them and not the money. For some reason you are acting like these type of women (who must have the absolute best sex) do not exist, because you refuse to mention them. It is either ho or sugar baby (ho lite) with you.

You reminded me of the last time I had a regular date. There was a secretary type that was hungry and asked if I wanted to go to dinner. She was my age, overweight, and had health issues but she was friendly and a pleasant enough person. We start talking and she starts interviewing me as a boyfriend. This is not in my home city, and I wanted to ask her if she really thought she had a chance but I went with it. We start talking and I tell her that I doubted I would get married again. I also told her that I will not commit to one woman but I do not expect that commitment back. She then tells me, "Oh, I could never date a man like that. " I wanted to so badly say, "Oh, darn, I will have to spend the night with my sugar baby who was a former college cheerleader. "

Thing is the sugar baby was costing me just 20% of what I made that day, and I would listen to all my friends with their "my women like for me" * their assess off. They had to deal with the "I really need to know where we stand" and "I want to make sure I am not wasting my time" and those were some of the nicer comments. I have a female friend who went off on her boyfriend so hard in front of me she gave me a fucking headache.

And it is not like their women were a better bang for the buck. The guys were paying for the dates and fun things, and they were not sure sex was even a sure thing. Then there were the expensive gifts with holidays and birthdays. They would * about their sex lives, their GFs, their wives, and ask me about mine, and I would say, "Never been better". The guys said, "Oh, but you are paying for it. I could never do that. " I never told them that the price they were paying IMO was higher than what I was paying.

My female friend, a hottie herself, tried to tell me what I needed to do to get real girls like her friends. Unbeknownst to her, I banged one of her friends, offered her a part as my SB, and after an audition, I rejected her.

Let me be straight with you Mr. E. I was having the time of my life but the payment was as much protection for good behavior as it was for sex. These women were beautiful, great in bed, pleasant to be around, and like the typical attractive American woman, absolutely fucking batshit crazy and when the craziness got too much, I dumped them.

Now a lot of my sugar babies wanted to be my GF with hopes of marriage, but I always felt like they were angling for money. I could have been wrong, so when Latin women refused to take money, I was kind of the same way. "No, you take it. I do not want to deal with crazy" but eventually I saw them not asking for money as a compliment.

Point of all this is you are thinking your not paying for money is a static thing, and it is dynamic. I had sugar baby prospects who became GF, and I saw the GFs and wives of other guys as bigger hos than any SB. Maybe you are not paying for head Mr. E but to paraphrase Rodney Dangerfield, I think that you are paying for it with headache.

[Villainy]

I have never been to Mexico City so I cannot comment on the comparison, but I must say that what you wrote above would be centrepiece subject matter if I were to write a Ironic comedy sketch about MDE. These are the very things that I dislike about MDE, or that I thiink are so overrated that they are laughable. But hey, each to our own. Go ahead and enjoy the inspiring Colombian food, warm and dry MDE climate and interesting tourist attractions.

Your comments call into question whether you've been to Medellin either. There are a plethora of excellent restaurants in the Poblado area and also in the Parque Laureles area. The climate in Medellin is widely considered one of the best possible. Why don't you share your profound wisdom. Which cities have a better climate? Tourist attractions? I guess that depends a lot on what your interests are.

Here are a few other considerations:

Coffee? Most restaurants routinely have great coffee. Why? The beans are picked and roasted daily or every other day. The beans didn't sit in a warehouse for a month.

https://www.colombia.co/en/trade-wit...rlds-favorite/

How about the wealth of fruits and vegetables? They have a 12 month growing season. So Colombians don't need to add color chemicals or preservatives to keep the produce looking good so that they can extend the shelf-life. Here if fruits or vegetables start to look worn they replace them and send the aging produce to the poorer barrios. Have you ever tasted a Pitaya or Granadilla??

Colombia is one of the most bio-diverse countries in the world.

https://theculturetrip.com/south-ame...ries-on-earth/

What about beautiful women?

https://www.scoopwhoop.com/inotherne...autiful-women/

They rate Colombia as #5 for the most beautiful women. I think there might be some favoritism in that ranking. But this is something that is ALWAYS subjective.

Medellin is the most modern city in Colombia. They have an ever-expanding metro system and metro-cables that take people in gondola style lifts up the sides of the mountains that profile the city.

Medellin doesn't have horrible pollution like some other large cities and many areas of Medellin are flat so walking or biking is a pleasure. The altitude is not oppressive like MEX, BOG or UIO.

BTW on Sundays Medellin closes down some of the major avenues for "Ciclovia". This allows people to jog, walk, ride their bike, walk their pet, push their baby carriage on a paved street for most of the Sunday mornings.

[ShooBree]

Completely wrong. MDE is one step of above a ghetto. Not worth commenting. Obviously you have very low standards.

Not worth commenting. Obviously you are extremely ignorant and have never been to Medellin.

[Gabacho]

Completely wrong. MDE is one step of above a ghetto. Not worth commenting. Obviously you have very low standards.

Well obviously you and I have had very different experiences in MDE and CDMX. I frequented CDMX from 2015 until 2021 and started going to Colombia in 2018 (mostly Bogot at first, but I've been going to medellin and cucuta for the last 2 years now and plan to check out Cali on my next trip). Maybe I'm just tired of Mexico idk. I had been living in Tijuana and working in SD since 2015 also. I've probably fucked half the paraditas en la coahuila. To me Colombia is a blessing and I love it there, Mexico on the other hand is fucking boring to me, but hey to each his own.

PS: id take a ghetto with venezolana chicas over the nicest fucking place with mexicanas... There is no comparison, the sex, the attitudes, the connections.. I've been all over Mexico from TJ to DF to Tuxtla and various places in between like veracruz, Puebla, and even cancún and none of those places have shit on Medellin

[Elvis 2008]

I have never been to Mexico City so I cannot comment on the comparison, but I must say that what you wrote above would be centrepiece subject matter if I were to write a Ironic comedy sketch about MDE. These are the very things that I dislike about MDE, or that I thiink are so overrated that they are laughable. But hey, each to our own. Go ahead and enjoy the inspiring Colombian food, warm and dry MDE climate and interesting tourist attractions.

Mexico City is on the order of London, Paris, and NY, and the weather is better. Mexico City is one of those cities you would have to work at to be bored. There is always something going on, and the city has an incredible energy to it. The museums and parks are world class.

There is a Netflix show called Somebody feed Phil where he went to Mexico City, and I followed in his footsteps and ate at as many of the same places as he did. Unfuckingbelievable.

Then you have every good chain in Mexico and the USA there. The purists may scoff at this, but I took my gal to California Pizza Kitchen to try the Chicken Waldorf salad. I told her it is the best salad I have ever had in my life. She ordered it, loved it, and now insists we go to CPK every trip. Every steak house I have been to in Mexico has been better than anything in Colombia or Medellin.

Mexico City has a rainy season but even still there is less rain than Medellin. I will say Medellin does have Mexico City beat air pollution wise and with traffic, but I do not know what Gabacho is talking about with hotel costs. The Barcelo in Reforma in Mexico City is half the cost of the Medellin Marriott and is a nicer hotel. You can get 4 star hotels for under $100 and 3 star for $50 or so.

As I said on the low end, Medellin has Mexico City beat. If you want a 9 or 10, Mexico City is going to cost you. What would cost you $100 in Medellin on seeking / SA is $400 or so in Mexico City. The guys there have more money. OTOH, if you are willing to settle for a 8, you can get one for $75 in Medellin and $125 in Mexico City. You can find an 8+ escort for $50 to $125 in Mexico City.

So really the only reason to go to Medellin is the super cheap low end and the cheaper high, high end, and you can find plenty of Colombians and Vennies in Mexico City.

I did find two nice girls in Medellin who were not that bad, but for the most part though, the super high end women in Medellin were very cocky and very materialistic. The hotties in Mexico City wanted more money, but they did not have the uppity attitude the women from Medellin did.

[MarquisdeSade1]

I did write "if a girl looks sexy ". If a girl had a big dick flopping around while I was trying to give her one from behind, I don't think I would find that sexy. I am only sexually attracted to young women. But then again, I have never been in that situation so never say never!

So when you pick up a puta and it turns out to be a man.

What does your mouth do whilst 69 ing?

[Elvis 2008]

Remind me again why these guys do not just get a woman that cares about them and not the money. For some reason you are acting like these type of women (who must have the absolute best sex) do not exist, because you refuse to mention them. It is either ho or sugar baby (ho lite) with you.

Nope, I changed that. I did not let a woman be a SB if she expected payment, and that is how it was with my last 3 sugar babies.

For me it is either ho or women that do not require gifts or money. Sorry, but I can not illude myself that a "sugar baby" is with me for me (and money). The test is all too simple. If the money is gone will she still accept me? I will go out on a limb and say that is a hard NO! If I am gone will she still accept my money? Hmmm.

Prostitution is an exchange of something of value for sex. https://shesaid.com/truth-married-me...t-prostitutes/.

When husbands approach their wives for sex, they want them; there's no conditions around it and it's all about the sex. Wives, on the other hand, can place conditions around sex. This is supported by the statistics that men who do more housework get more sex.

So if the man is having to do chores for his wife, something of value, then he is paying her and she is a ho. In fact, most wives in that sense are hos.

So maybe you are not giving them money but are you giving them something of value? If you are, then you are deluding yourself into thinking a ho is not one. You seem to be complaining about the demands women are putting on you.

Given that my gal wants to fuck me 4 X a day no matter what, so she is not a ho. At least she is not for now.

[JustTK]

Medellin has the upper hand when it comes to food besides tacos. Bandeja Paisa, Pollo Broaster, Costillas, Punta de Anca, Solomo, Sancocho, Arepas, the list goes on and on. The weather is perfect, not too hot, not too cold like Bogota, afternoon rain showers that are refreshing and never seem to last too long, cleaner streets, mountains, tons of shit to go do (Parque de las aguas, parque del Norte, parque explora, comuna 13) tons of Centro comerciales, Poblado, ... the place is amazing.

Mexico City

I have never been to Mexico City so I cannot comment on the comparison, but I must say that what you wrote above would be centrepiece subject matter if I were to write a Ironic comedy sketch about MDE. These are the very things that I dislike about MDE, or that I thiink are so overrated that they are laughable. But hey, each to our own. Go ahead and enjoy the inspiring Colombian food, warm and dry MDE climate and interesting tourist attractions.

[DramaFree11]

Medellin has the upper hand when it comes to food besides tacos. Bandeja Paisa, Pollo Broaster, Costillas, Punta de Anca, Solomo, Sancocho, Arepas, the list goes on and on. The weather is perfect, not too hot, not too cold like Bogota, afternoon rain showers that are refreshing and never seem to last too long, cleaner streets, mountains, tons of shit to go do (guatape day trip, Parque de las aguas, parque del Norte, parque explora, comuna 13) tons of Centro comerciales, Poblado, as mentioned there is a casa scene, the ground zero / Botero centro scene, parque lleras, Venezuelan women are way better looking and give way better service than Mexican women, and also the Colombianas. The people are nicer, the culture is more open and inviting, the place is amazing.

Mexico City: trash everywhere on the streets, especially anillo de circunvalacion. The hotels have fucking cockroaches, so many people everywhere you have to walk in the fucking streets bcuz you can't squeeze in on the sidewalks, same deal with the metro, 50 people in the doors 50 people out the doors all at the same time, with people pushing and shoving you. No decent fried chicken options, tacos are good especially the suadero, but food is priced higher than medellin, hotels are more expensive as well and the women tend to look indigenous, coming from places such as Oaxaca, Chiapas, Campeche, Puebla and Tabasco. The women often have bad attitude, not wanting to take off their shirts unless you pay 100 pesos more, same thing about blow jobs too, also most won't allow DATY, most do not shave either, and most have nasty vertical c-section scars too. Also you mentioned crime in Medellin ok sure there's crime everywhere, you must not frequent mercado tepito when you're in CDMX??

Completely wrong. MDE is one step of above a ghetto. Not worth commenting. Obviously you have very low standards.

[PVMonger]

Your personality speaks louder than your size. I used to be 5'8" (age also takes it toll on height, about 5'7 1/2" now) and weigh 195. I have some FB friends who I consider to be 7's and 8's. They never say anything about the size of my mid-section. Even when I tell them in person that I am fat, they say I'm not. They continue to return to see me, and I don't over pay. Right now, I pay between 200,000 and 250,000 COP, total including taxis.

I have found that most Latin American chicas like guys that are overweight. In fact, there was a recent article on-line that I read that confirmed it.

IMHO it comes from the fact that most Latin Americans are relatively poor and anyone who is overweight is seen as someone who can provide food.

[ShooBree]

I dunno mate. I dunno why people can not read what others wrote and then make up their own interpretations. I never said she was not trans.

You mean he.

[ShooBree]

I don't seek them out. But if a girl is sexy, why exclude her? Why be prejudiced against someone based on what some doctor said 20 years ago?!

I am not interested in knowing if someone is scientifically female. I mean, I don't want children, so why should I care if she has ovaries? But if a girl looks sexy and is happy to give me a BJ or let me fk her in her vagina or arse, then I am a happy man. Her sex doesn't come in to it.

Each to his own. To me it's disgusting, but good for you.

[Gabacho]

If you are cheap, like drugs, enjoy being around a bunch of fat / lazy sex tourists, and you have low standards yes, maybe MDE is better. This is crazy. I can go on bad food, terrible service, crappy music. MDE is one step up from a ghetto with a couple of nice places. If you have any game and a decent budget you can have an amazing experience in Mexico City and meet amazing girls, that are professionals and educated. From what you have described you are not looking for this. Maybe you can find this in other cities in Colombia, but I doubt it.

I was very clear I do not do the street game. MDE is low end at best, if that is your thing, then you are in paradise. I forgot to mention it rains all the time and humid. Also, the crime and drugs, yes MDE is Paradise!

Medellin has the upper hand when it comes to food besides tacos. Bandeja Paisa, Pollo Broaster, Costillas, Punta de Anca, Solomo, Sancocho, Arepas, the list goes on and on. The weather is perfect, not too hot, not too cold like Bogota, afternoon rain showers that are refreshing and never seem to last too long, cleaner streets, mountains, tons of shit to go do (guatape day trip, Parque de las aguas, parque del Norte, parque explora, comuna 13) tons of Centro comerciales, Poblado, as mentioned there is a casa scene, the ground zero / Botero centro scene, parque lleras, Venezuelan women are way better looking and give way better service than Mexican women, and also the Colombianas. The people are nicer, the culture is more open and inviting, the place is amazing.

Mexico City: trash everywhere on the streets, especially anillo de circunvalacion. The hotels have fucking cockroaches, so many people everywhere you have to walk in the fucking streets bcuz you can't squeeze in on the sidewalks, same deal with the metro, 50 people in the doors 50 people out the doors all at the same time, with people pushing and shoving you. No decent fried chicken options, tacos are good especially the suadero, but food is priced higher than medellin, hotels are more expensive as well and the women tend to look indigenous, coming from places such as Oaxaca, Chiapas, Campeche, Puebla and Tabasco. The women often have bad attitude, not wanting to take off their shirts unless you pay 100 pesos more, same thing about blow jobs too, also most won't allow DATY, most do not shave either, and most have nasty vertical c-section scars too. Also you mentioned crime in Medellin ok sure there's crime everywhere, you must not frequent mercado tepito when you're in CDMX??

[LuvMexicanas]

It is either ho or sugar baby (ho lite) with you.

For me it is either ho or women that do not require gifts or money.

Do not waste your time with the clinically insane. He'd argue there's a difference between pregnant and almost pregnant.

[Mr Enternational]

With a ho, you just care about sex, and she just cares about the money. With a SB, you care about the sex and her. She cares about the money and you.

Yeah, I have heard you guys knocking this as stupid for the last few years, but look at guys who have been doing it and having a great time with it. It was easy to knock it when it was just me but now you have dozens of guys doing it. When you have that many, and you have not tried it, then you are the one who is delusional.

Remind me again why these guys do not just get a woman that cares about them and not the money. For some reason you are acting like these type of women (who must have the absolute best sex) do not exist, because you refuse to mention them. It is either ho or sugar baby (ho lite) with you.

For me it is either ho or women that do not require gifts or money. Sorry, but I can not illude myself that a "sugar baby" is with me for me (and money). The test is all too simple. If the money is gone will she still accept me? I will go out on a limb and say that is a hard NO! If I am gone will she still accept my money? Hmmm.