Stupid shit in Medellin

[Mr Enternational]

This proves two things.

1. They are not your girlfriends. Friends, fuck buddies, friends with benefits, hookers, yes. Because there is no commitment from either side.

Are you Dummy #2? You do not know what commitments that I have with anybody. Obviously you do not even know what a commitment is. Talking as if a person can only have one commitment to anything in life. Let you explain it, Mormons or Arabs can not have more than one wife because it somehow to you means they do not have a commitment, when they actually have multiple commitments. So now their wives are not their wives?

2. You are just a selfish jerk who only cares about his dick and doesn't care about his partners' feelings.

Did your father fuck hookers on the side while being married to your mom? (just because he wanted an occasional steak or a motorcycle ride?) If he did, no wonder you are doing the same shit and encouraging this kind of behavior.

Yes. And there are several members on this very website that have met him in different mongering places! (See how I have no problem answering a question as well as quoting what someone said? I lead by example. I do not just throw things out and hope they stick.).

Me reporting on my experience is encouraging nothing. I would hope that people here would be grown man enough to follow their own path; even if that path is staying in his mom's basement and jacking off to the 8's, 9's, and one 10 that he can not get, as you have done.

Another question that I know you will not answer because you just talk to talk. What is wrong with being selfish? Still have not said what is wrong with bragging so I do not really expect an answer to this either. According to you a chick should be able to be a selfish jerk and have a man to herself, but a guy should not be able to be a selfish jerk and live his life how he wants. Make that make sense.

You just throw words out like broads do in hopes of trying to offend or shame. I guess it works like a charm on you when a chick calls you cheap. That induces you to spend more money on her because it somehow hurts your ego to be called cheap. A mf like me would respond well you must be the same cheap that I am since you have not bothered to pay for it either. Stop letting those hos shame you man, because you should see already that shaming shit does not work when you try it on me. Boo hoo. I am selfish and brag. So the fuck what? Why is it your mission in life to get men not to be selfish and to stop bragging?

[Mr Enternational]

The girl Don and I were rushing to get was a chef and lawyer. In addition, I went out with a bank teller, civil engineer, government employee in Colombia's version of the EPA, elementary school teacher, nanny, nurse's aid, nurse, PE teacher, model, actress, two fitness instructors, salesperson for a rental truck agency, bartender, and office clerk.

So why is there an issue when I say that I date everyday women? Is that not what YOU just admitted to Dummy?

[Mr Enternational]

I personally was at a shake shack recently and saw this ko working the fryer. I didn't know how to flirt with her since she was not the cashier.

Tell the cashier to tell her that you want to marry her.

[Elvis 2008]

She just wants gifts and her rent taken care of. Let people believe the seeking, not a ho-ho they married, wasn't really a ho, because she didn't bang 2 guys a night at a terma.

We have all been to these types af places and see a 9 that's 18 or 19 and you want to offer her money but you don't because it's awkward. It's an interesting way to find a sb if you ask enough hotties at Taco Bell. I personally was at a shake shack recently and saw this ko working the fryer. She was 5'10 ddd natural, maybe 20, and 135 pounds. Should have been a model. I didn't know how to flirt with her since she was not the cashier.

LOL. The seeking website is set up to meet EXACTLY those kind of women, It exists so you do not have to have those awkward conversations in public.

In fact, seeking is so widely used that when I went to an American strip club, I would ask the women I was interested in if they had a profile. 90% did, but for most, there was not the huge payout they were expecting so they were not that active on the site. Still, every one of them had heard about it.

In the USA now, women talk openly about having a sugar daddy. These women would never admit to being hookers, yet the old out of it losers here still think they are the same.

So if I saw a hot woman at a fast food place, I would ask her if she had heard of seeking and if so, if she had a profile on it. I would be shocked if she had NOT heard of it.

What is funny about a guy like you is you think you know what is going on. Truth is if you publicly called out a known stripper and said she was a hooker, very few people would object. If you publicly called shake shack girl a hooker, and you have defined her as a hooker if she is on seeking, ten guys would look to punch you in the nose.

In fact, you are the one who is in the dark because you do not if she is on the site. In your head, for whatever reason, you have just imagined she is not. I would say the same to you than I said to the other guys. Sugar dating is mainstream now. Try talking to normal women who are not hookers, and you can confirm what I just said for yourself. The only land that pristine valley of virgins exists is in your head.

[Elvis 2008]

Yeah I did many times. You are just a dummy who chose not to see the answer. Because I want to..

Then the only women who would put up with you are complete losers. No wonder you have to say pussy is pussy. What guy would to take a woman seriously who let her partner go out and fuck hookers?

If your daughter went out with a guy like you, you would have a fucking heart attack.

My gal has an older, attractive friend. She has three kids, found out her husband was cheating on her, and she cut him off right then and raised the kids on her own. That is a strong woman. The women you are going out with are weak.

[MiamiBoy1]

Yeah I did many times. You are just a dummy who chose not to see the answer. Because I want to..

My car is so great but I still have a motorcycle, scooter, bicycle, and skates. My ribeye is so great but I still eat chicken, pizza, and hotdogs. Why do you believe that if a person has one great thing that they should not want anything else? (Not expecting a real answer as you never give one. For 3 years people have been on the edge of their seat waiting to hear what an elite woman is and all they have learned from you is it is one that is in demand. The line at New Life is out the door at lunchtime because chicks there are in demand. Which according to you means they must be elite.).

This proves two things.

1. They are not your girlfriends. Friends, fuck buddies, friends with benefits, hookers, yes. Because there is no commitment from either side.

2. You are just a selfish jerk who only cares about his dick and doesn't care about his partners' feelings.

Did your father fuck hookers on the side while being married to your mom? (just because he wanted an occasional steak or a motorcycle ride?) If he did, no wonder you are doing the same shit and encouraging this kind of behavior.

[MiamiBoy1]

I'll go over this again. Relationships are built on mutual respect and shared experiences. Online platforms bypass that and you make connections without the shared experiences, or mutual respect. You develop a familiarity which has no real foundation.

Online platforms don't bypass anything. They are used to connect / match, collect a phone number, then set up a date and go from there. Simple as that. At least this is how I've been using them. I don't chat with women online for a freaking year like you did. I'm not wasting my time in chatrooms. And I'm not a simp messaging some webcam girl out of mom's basement and begging her to show me a boob.

Any of the online platforms are best utilized as simply a tool to meet new people. Just new people, not girlfriends or wives. You meet, maybe go on a date, then decide where to go from there. It might lead to marriage, but all of the relationship issues should build from scratch.

This is what I just said above.

What I didn't do, what wouldn't have worked, was offer money for sex. I succeeded in building interest. I met the ones I most wanted and let the others slip away. With a few it was easy to move to sex, with my GF it took a long time. I wasn't in a hurry. Just as I've been saying, it built naturally, without unrealistic expectations. By the time we ended up in her bed we were completely comfortable with each other.

You were not in a hurry because you were fucking others and didn't care. And probably waiting for her to become of legal age. You are just an old pervert. Just a thought about seducing a girl who just finished high school and turned 18 was turning you on.

[SubCmdr]

The owner of Seeking said in an interview that everyone uses something to attract women. Some men are tall and handsome, some use their body by working out a lot, some use status, and some use money and or success. You use what you have. In the end, all relationship or one night stands or shallow. That's why nobody should care if you're paying or using something else. Love isn't real.

In complete agreement with you on this my ISG Brother. I just wish I had of understood this as a young man. I would be a lot richer!

[Mr Enternational]

Any of the online platforms are best utilized as simply a tool to meet new people. Just new people, not girlfriends or wives. You meet, maybe go on a date, then decide where to go from there. It might lead to marriage, but all of the relationship issues should build from scratch.

That is what I try to explain to women. It sounds dumb to say you are looking for a mate. That is putting the cart before the horse first of all. You have a fantasy and are looking for someone to step in to it.

The only thing you should be doing is looking to meet people. From there you get to know them and one of them may be right for you. It just sounds so stupid to me to say I am looking for a boyfriend or husband. Who has ever left their house and gone to the mall to look for friends? You would be a damn fool to do that. Friendships and relationships are just something that happen, not something you look for. You are in a class with 25 other people, yet only 1 or 2 of those you became friends with. You did not seek them out or pick them. It just developed that way.

[Elvis 2008]

If she's on Tinder, Bumble, Seeking, Colombian Cupid, or any other "dating" site, your chance of a real connection goes down. It's not impossible, but if you're looking for a long-term relationship, or marriage, you've chosen a very difficult path. However, if you're just looking for someone for a date, or someone for sex, those are good choices. If your goal is to find a wife, then your greatest chance for success is to branch out within your community.

MB, have you ever noticed with JJBee there is never a source for anything he says? He meets his woman in the community and that is what is best. LOL. It is all mental masturbation with him and if you doubt him, it is, "Let's take an IQ test. ".

Whatever I meet a woman off an on line, her on line profile is out of mind within minutes. It is amazing how these guys make all these dumb judgments about individual people based on what websites they are on and do not see how the hypocrisy could be pointed at them.

Here you have a guy on ISG who is going out with someone 40 years younger than him, fucking hookers on the side, and he has the balls to think he knows where to find good marriage prospects.

It is not wonder they have to do personal attacks. What choice do they have given their hypocrisy?

[Mr Enternational]

I will ask the same question I asked to Mr. E, and he did not answer. If your "girlfriends" are so great, why are you still seeing hookers on the side?

Yeah I did many times. You are just a dummy who chose not to see the answer. Because I want to..

My car is so great but I still have a motorcycle, scooter, bicycle, and skates. My ribeye is so great but I still eat chicken, pizza, and hotdogs. Why do you believe that if a person has one great thing that they should not want anything else? (Not expecting a real answer as you never give one. For 3 years people have been on the edge of their seat waiting to hear what an elite woman is and all they have learned from you is it is one that is in demand. The line at New Life is out the door at lunchtime because chicks there are in demand. Which according to you means they must be elite.).

[Elvis 2008]

All those women on SA are hos of one sort or another. If you were a decent woman with a decent job, independent and all of that, you wouldn't be on Seeking Bobob.

The girl Don and I were rushing to get was a chef and lawyer. In addition, I went out with a bank teller, civil engineer, government employee in Colombia's version of the EPA, elementary school teacher, nanny, nurse's aid, nurse, PE teacher, model, actress, two fitness instructors, salesperson for a rental truck agency, bartender, and office clerk. One beauty queen in Bogota worked at a clothing store in the mall, and the one in Cartagena worked for a collections agency.

From what I recall in Colombia, these women made between $300 and $900 per month and for some reason you think that none had the need to care for a sick mother or child with special needs or to pay down student debt. They all had jobs and they had more money than they could ever want in a lifetime at an average $500 per month.

Now why would you think that? I got it. Because you are a completely pigheaded moron incapable of seeing any one else's POV and you have to react with hostility to anything that does not fit into your narrow fucked up view of the world.

Maybe you need to hang around women that are not full time hookers. You might learn something. I doubt it, but you never know until you try.

[TjBrazil]

There was a guy on Reddit or one of those types of forums that said he looks for his sugar babies at minimum wage type jobs like Walmart or fast food places and makes sure she can see he is wealthy. He then feels her out to see if she might be game. We have all been to these types af places and see a 9 that's 18 or 19 and you want to offer her money but you don't because it's awkward. It's an interesting way to find a sb if you ask enough hotties at Taco Bell. I personally was at a shake shack recently and saw this ko working the fryer. She was 5'10 ddd natural, maybe 20, and 135 pounds. Should have been a model. I didn't know how to flirt with her since she was not the cashier. I might go back more often so I can drool.

[TjBrazil]

Is there anyone in the world more stupid than you? All those women on SA are hos of one sort or another. If you were a decent woman with a decent job, independent and all of that, you wouldn't be on Seeking Bobob.

This forum likes to classify hoes in different rankings. The street ho, the brothel ho, and the so called Seeking.com not a ho- ho. She just wants gifts and her rent taken care of. Let people believe the seeking, not a ho-ho they married, wasn't really a ho, because she didn't bang 2 guys a night at a terma.

[JjBee62]

As always, you totally missed my point. Who said any girl on Tinder is looking for sex only (p4 p or not)? There is plenty of girls looking for a relationship that can possibly lead to a marriage. Same applies to Seeking, maybe to a lesser extent. You just need to use your brain (which is difficult for you, despite 170+ iq score) and weed out the prostitutes and non-wife material. Also, there is Colombian Cupid, there is Bumble and other apps, where you can find non-pros / normal girls. Facebook is even better. It is the most popular social media platform in the world. Yes, dumbass, people can use it to connect, start dating and end up marrying. Not only to find prostitutes, which is actually a MDE thing. Isn't your "girlfriend" a Facebook chick, that you somehow managed to weed out of 2000 prostitutes? Or or she just one of them?

If she's on Tinder, Bumble, Seeking, Colombian Cupid, or any other "dating" site, your chance of a real connection goes down. It's not impossible, but if you're looking for a long-term relationship, or marriage, you've chosen a very difficult path. However, if you're just looking for someone for a date, or someone for sex, those are good choices.

I'll go over this again. Relationships are built on mutual respect and shared experiences. Online platforms bypass that and you make connections without the shared experiences, or mutual respect. You develop a familiarity which has no real foundation.

If your goal is to find a wife, then your greatest chance for success is to branch out within your community. Join local organizations, get involved within the community. You will have a better chance of finding someone with mutual interests and who is socially and financially your equal.

Sure, you can use Facebook in that way. I never said you couldn't. However, most often I see it used to connect or reconnect with people already known. That's really how it's setup. I've met many new people, friends of friends, but it's still bypassing the necessary personal interaction required to build a solid relationship. Any of the online platforms are best utilized as simply a tool to meet new people. Just new people, not girlfriends or wives. You meet, maybe go on a date, then decide where to go from there. It might lead to marriage, but all of the relationship issues should build from scratch.

I'll give a somewhat related example.

From 1996 to 2002 I was making a lot of connections online and then meeting in person, when I was in the area. Most meets led to sex. One woman, who I had talked with over a period of several months, wanted to meet me. I was a few days away from where she lived, when she started talking about all the things she wanted to do with me, or more precisely, that she wanted me to do to her. I stopped her and told her we were just meeting, no expectations. Whatever happened would happen naturally, or not at all. She kept insisting on talking about all her expectations. Against my better judgment, I met her. It was one of the most uncomfortable experiences of my life. She was incredibly nervous, wouldn't even sit next to me. Conversation was terrible, all because she had built a picture in her mind that had no foundation in reality. Eventually I left and shortly after she was messaging, asking why we didn't fuck. How are we supposed to fuck when you can't even talk to me?

Something similar is likely to happen when setting expectations from an online connection. What you expect becomes more difficult, because nothing has created the real connections necessary for things to progress naturally.

And no, I didn't meet my girl through Facebook. She has both Facebook and Instagram and likes a lot of posts, including some of mine, but she's never active on her own page. This is another thing I've covered before.

Shortly before the onset of the pandemic I noticed a trend. There was a huge uptick in livestream users. TikTok, Bigo, LiveMe and several others were growing rapidly. The pandemic, shutdowns and quarantines created another surge. I checked it out and saw a lot of Colombians. I decided to see if some of the girls, complete new to chatrooms, would be approachable. They were.

My girlfriend, her sister and several friends were all checking it out. With all schools closed, most activities canceled and quarantines they were bored. My Spanish is sufficient to carry on a conversation and I have a great deal of experience in chatrooms. Instead of being one of the guys begging to see something, I was connecting with the girls. I collected Whatsapp numbers and just began the process of weeding them out. Nobody could travel, so it was a way to learn about the girls and to build their interest in me.

What I didn't do, what wouldn't have worked, was offer money for sex. I succeeded in building interest. I met the ones I most wanted and let the others slip away. With a few it was easy to move to sex, with my GF it took a long time. I wasn't in a hurry. Just as I've been saying, it built naturally, without unrealistic expectations. By the time we ended up in her bed we were completely comfortable with each other.