Bangkok Reports

[MikeMark]

After dinner I strolled up to Nana plaza for the first time in, I don't know, 10 years? I think I peeked into almost every bar there (including two ladyboy bars before quickly turning around), and sat down to sip on a drink in 5-6 of them. Bought a ladydrink for a friendly, but not my type of girl in one of them just to be polite. She was nice and friendly, if a bit desperate (rarely sees a guy as handsome as me no doubt). Sitting with me until I told her thanks and bye so as to not waste any more of her time.

I was planning on taking a girl with me for short-time tonight, but I just couldn't see anyone I'd pay to fuck. Bar a handful, I couldn't even see anyone I'd find it worth to go out and meet for coffee in the daytime in the hope of bringing them back to bed afterwards as an ordinary fuck. I'm not sure where the prettier daughters of Isaan are hiding at the moment, but it does not seem to be at Nana.

IMO soi cowboy, sans the arab's rip-off bars, while not exactly overflowing with pretties, is at least somewhat better at the moment.

Heading to Thailand next week. First trip in 8 years. Would you mind mentioning the Soi Cowboy "Arab" ripoff bars to avoid?

Thanks in advance.

[Crypton]

So plans have changed a little and I will only be staying in Thailand for 1 week in September.

It will be my first time visiting.

I was thinking maybe Parkroyal Suites?

Paolo in the Bangkok Hotel thread recommended maybe Novotel or Ibis Styles?

Are the $50-$100 hotels worth it to save money instead of splurging on something $100 or more per night?

Because I was also considering The Landmark.

Any and all thoughts / recommendations are much appreciated, thank you!

Also, does it go without question that these are all girl / guest friendly?

If I pay a bar fine is it implied that we would be going to my hotel?

I don't know the difference between that and like short time rooms / hotels? I'm confused about how things go with bargirls and logistics.

Please advise.

Obviously I am assuming staying around Nana is best.

There is Grand Majestic on Soi, I think and a JW Marriott nearby. I am not sure Landmark is girl-friendly. May want to double check.

[Werqweq]

After dinner I strolled up to Nana plaza for the first time in, I don't know, 10 years? I think I peeked into almost every bar there (including two ladyboy bars before quickly turning around), and sat down to sip on a drink in 5-6 of them. Bought a ladydrink for a friendly, but not my type of girl in one of them just to be polite. She was nice and friendly, if a bit desperate (rarely sees a guy as handsome as me no doubt). Sitting with me until I told her thanks and bye so as to not waste any more of her time.

I was planning on taking a girl with me for short-time tonight, but I just couldn't see anyone I'd pay to fuck. Bar a handful, I couldn't even see anyone I'd find it worth to go out and meet for coffee in the daytime in the hope of bringing them back to bed afterwards as an ordinary fuck. I'm not sure where the prettier daughters of Isaan are hiding at the moment, but it does not seem to be at Nana.

IMO soi cowboy, sans the arab's rip-off bars, while not exactly overflowing with pretties, is at least somewhat better at the moment.

[Werqweq]

Thai-friendly or Tinder Which one is better for finding freelancers?

Thaifriendly.

[Fever77]

So I matched up with this obese Thai BBW of a whale on tinder. She speaks and writes good English, educated and works for a large American company in BKk. Seems to be upper middle class, driving a car etc.

Anyway we have been chatting back and forth for about 3-4 days now and she seems very interested, also had an hour long video call with her and she is legit so chances of being cat fished are ruled out. She told me she loves sex etc and longing for a relationship and that she can't get a Thai man because of her being a whale!

I told her I'll be coming to BKK for a short weeks stay in about 2 months. Only problem is she says that if I want to meet her I must refrain from an mongering during my short stay in BKK.

She seems really clingy even in texting, good morning, good night etc.

Do you folks think I should cut my losses and give her a fib telling her I have cancelled my trip to Thailand all whilst secretly enjoying mongering in BKK without her knowing I'm there or cut my freedom and go visit her. My gut instinct tells me not to be a stupid and choose the former.

Why are you having your life dictated by a 'Thai whale' you have never met?

[LittleBigMan]

T-Ded 99 is in Saphan Kwai. The street runs from Phahonyothin to Ratchada. It's called the Suthisan area. T-Ded 99 is a go go bar that runs a hostess system instead of a lady drink system. However it's so cheap it does not matter.

Here is the bar you are talking about: https://maps.app.goo.gl/sDRpqqup1WeC...s.preview.copy.

It is located in the Raminthra area. It's a hostess bar and not a go go bar. There is no bar fine system like T-Ded 99. In this area there are plenty of hostess bars and gents clubs for Thai people. I've been to most of them. You can take girls out after their shift.

Greatly appreciate, got family coming in October from HK, they love places like this will also try to hit T99

[Cowboy Bebop]

I was in Bangkok for a few days and I decided to try ThaiFriendly for the first time. I saw Mink active on ThaiFriendly around 2 am Friday back in June 2024. As per attached screenshot, Mink included in her ThaiFriendly profile that she is a freelancer, 19 years old, 170 cm tall, 45 kg. For TLDR purposes ("Too Long; Didn't Read" I will now do a quick summary of this trip report. Mink was 100% lady (not ladyboy). Her English skills were limited but good enough. She was girly and friendly and not bitchy. She didn't rush at any point and didn't ask me to hurry up. She was clean and smelled good. She wasn't thrilled about me taking photos, but agreed to proceed if she covered her face and back tattoos. We started with BJ, and her BJ skills were good enough that I asked her to keep going with BJ for a bit longer. We then moved to 69. She probably had a 1 day growth of pubic hair, and her pussy didn't have a bad smell or taste. I didn't want to blow my load from her BJ, so we flipped from 69 to cowgirl. Her pussy was just the right amount of tight and wet. From cowgirl to missionary, then to spoon, then to doggy. All up, the whole session from 69 to doggy took around a little over an hour. She rested for a couple of minutes, then took a nice long shower. I gave her the 2200 baht plus a nice tip, a quick kiss and she was on her way.

I knew that I was only going to be in Bangkok for a few days this trip, so I read a few of the reports here and decided that using ThaiFriendly and walking along Patpong and Thaniya road (since my hotel was near Patpong) might be a good way for me to get a freelancer. Time, opportunity, and patience were limited in this trip so I decided to skip Thermae and Nana Plaza on Sukhumvit for this trip. As recommended here by a few posters, I upgraded to the Premium version of ThaiFriendly (for 1 month) so that I can have access to the extra features like unlimited messages and advanced search. I made a rookie mistake of sending too many chats and messages to the many girls that showed up in the advanced search result matching the criteria that I was looking for. From the many chats and messages I sent, I only received a couple of replies. In hindsight, sending too many chats and messages days before arriving in Bangkok proved to be a rookie mistake and a complete waste of time. The two girls that I ended up getting from ThaiFriendly were freelance girls that were online at the time and were actively looking for a customer who was ready to meet immediately (within the hour). The other lesson was that having the Line app and a Bangkok sim card came particularly handy in the ThaiFriendly process.

Mink hadn't shown up on any of my previous ThaiFriendly search results, so I can only guess that her ThaiFriendly account is only active / not hidden only when she's looking for a customer. I sent her a message in ThaiFriendly asking her "how much for short time", she replied back with her Line app account / number. We continued our chat via the Line app and we agreed on 2200 baht for short time. I gave her my hotel details and she replied back that she just needs to change her clothes and will be on her way. After 30 minutes she sent me a screenshot of a map showing that she is approximately 20 minutes away from my hotel, and sure enough after 20 minutes she sent me a chat on the Line app saying that she had arrived and asked me to come down and collect her outside the doors of my hotel. I looked at the time stamp of our chat on the Line app and it was exactly 1 hour from the time that I sent my first message to her to the time that she said she had arrived at the hotel. I replied back to her saying that I was on my way down to collect her. She was waiting just outside the hotel doors in her girly dress and gave me a big and somewhat shy smile. We walked through the hotel doors and walked past the hotel reception and straight to the elevator, there was no prompt from the hotel reception staff about the need for Mink to sign-in as my guest. In the elevator Mink asked me if she looked different in person compared to her photo in ThaiFriendly and her photos in the Line app, I said that she looked taller and more mature in person. She pointed to the tall heel shoes she was wearing and to the pigtails she was wearing in her ThaiFriendly profile photo. Up close she looked about 22 years old, which is to say that she did not look like a 30 or 40 year old woman. And up close, she looked exactly like the slim and long legged girly girl that I'm attracted to. So I couldn't wait to get her out of that dress. . to be continued.

[SladeWilson]

Thai-friendly or Tinder Which one is better for finding freelancers?

[HorseTrader]

...Anyway we have been chatting back and forth for about 3-4 days now and she seems very interested, also had an hour long video call with her and she is legit so chances of being cat fished are ruled out. She told me she loves sex etc and longing for a relationship and that she can't get a Thai man because of her being a whale!
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Do you folks think I should cut my losses and give her a fib telling her I have cancelled my trip to Thailand all whilst secretly enjoying mongering in BKK without her knowing I'm there or cut my freedom and go visit her. My gut instinct tells me not to be a stupid and choose the former.

Good gosh VickyCooper, why lie to her? Just tell her that you aren't the right man for her to build a relationship and she should look elsewhere. You can even tell her that you aren't ready to stop mongering. Or, you can tell her whatever is truly on your mind. She knows this is Thailand.

3-4 days of chatting plus an hour video call is not much of an investment for either you or for her. At this stage you can get slow with your chat replies or you can simply ghost her.

[Paolo99]

Who goes to Shark?

Name BF LD Beer ST. LG.

Spanky's Gogo Bar 700 170 170 2-3 K 4-5 K.

Billboard *# 800 185 170 2-3 K 4-5 K.

There are some inaccuracy in that list.

Price of a drink and ladydrink is more expensive than 170 in Spanky, I saw their menu when I past in front of the place a few weeks ago, it's 200 or 220.

You can have a beer for 155 in Billboard.

Shark is shit now. You'll be ordered to pay a drink by a shit faced rude waitress the moment you pop your head in the place.

[Werqweq]

So I matched up with this obese Thai BBW of a whale on tinder. She speaks and writes good English, educated and works for a large American company in BKk. Seems to be upper middle class, driving a car etc.

Anyway we have been chatting back and forth for about 3-4 days now and she seems very interested, also had an hour long video call with her and she is legit so chances of being cat fished are ruled out. She told me she loves sex etc and longing for a relationship and that she can't get a Thai man because of her being a whale!

I told her I'll be coming to BKK for a short weeks stay in about 2 months. Only problem is she says that if I want to meet her I must refrain from an mongering during my short stay in BKK.

She seems really clingy even in texting, good morning, good night etc.

Do you folks think I should cut my losses and give her a fib telling her I have cancelled my trip to Thailand all whilst secretly enjoying mongering in BKK without her knowing I'm there or cut my freedom and go visit her. My gut instinct tells me not to be a stupid and choose the former.

Dude, how can you even consider the second option? In a land filled with nubile, slim, young girls? She'd have to be Black Widow or Wonder Woman for any sane man to even consider that idea.

Just tell her, in a slightly more polite way if you want, that you are not her BF and that you don't like women telling you what to do. Then just wait for her to respond.

Should she, unlike what I expect, not respond, just message her when you're here, or shortly before if you really want to see her, and ask if she wants to meet up. She's hardly drowning in offers for guys to bang her, so she'd be a bit of a silly cow to reject your offer.

[Werqweq]

After exiting Marriot M. On Sukhumvit Soi 22 (In the 6-7 years I've been visiting Bangkok, the quality of this buffet has gone down a little, but it it's still the best buffet afaik between Nana and Phrom Phrong) some hours ago, I was caught by the beginning rain, so I escaped into I the second or third massage shop further down the road, as one of the women in front was the first I saw that looked reasonably pretty. Around 35 now I guess, but still looked fine enough. Slim too. 15 years ago she was a cutie I'm sure.

Booked an hour Thai massage at 300 baht and up we went after a foot wash. She'd been chatting slightly with me, but unlike the farang on the other side of the room, who it sounded like had selected to get massaged by two women at the same time and was jabbering away loudly in some god awful horrible Thai that was annoying even to my ears, I didn't say much as I prefer to just close my eyes and relax.

Anyhow, near the end of the hour she naturally asked if I wanted "hand". I have my own hand, so no, thank you, but instead pushed her head down towards my dick. There's a dozen ways you can do that of course, and if you have no idea how to do that in a playful and polite manner, my suggestion is to not even try, as odds are you will do it in a rude and obnoxious way and ruin any friendly feelings the woman might have towards you. Instead indicate in some other way that you want a BJ. E. g. , try to politely point at her mouth with a finger while smiling. Anyway, she did not open her mouth while her lips were pressed against the bulge in my massage pants, but just laughed, and then had me change position so she could do the standard head massage that's near the end of the massage, me laying in her lap.

She made some other joke about my hand while doing this, and I said if she gave me a BJ instead, it would be better. She asked how much, and I held up one finger (1000 baht). She told me there were only 5 minutes left now now, and asked if it was enough? I said I'm not sure. If she sucked good, maybe, but if not so good, no, not enough time. She had a small think about this, and then said ok, 10 minutes. She was friendly enough and I did not make her work too hard, but instead nutted in her mouth after 6-7 minutes. I encouraged her to swallow, but she politely declined.

The little talking we did was in Thai, so as long as the woman is not an idiot that will be enough for her to understand you are not going to pay her some fantasy tourist fee of 2000 for a BJ, but even if you don't speak a word of Thai, there's not really any reason to pay more than 1,000 for a BJ here. There was a dude getting a massage on the mattress next to us (fortunately not that loud mouthed farang), so FS was obviously not an option at the moment. Otherwise I suspect she might have suggested that instead of a BJ.

I then paid the 300 for massage, and also gave her an additional 100 baht tip for the regular massage, which was decent enough and ran a bit into overtime due to the BJ.

BTW, the two massage shops at the being of the Soi, close to each others, Kinaree I think one of them is named, seem to consistently have the best looking women, bar the one or two hidden gems you can find further down in some random shop, but the one or two times I've gone there, the massage was sub-par, and I did not get any BJ. I no longer remember if they insisted on 2,000, or what the problem was, but the experience turned me off to them and I've not been back. Perhaps time to make another visit I think to see if things have improved during the last one or two years I guess. My experience is however that the nearer the start of the soi, the more tourists they get, and this affects both their attitude and price, both for regular massage and extras.

[Llantarnam]

Park Royal is pretty decent as it's quiet but very close to Nana. Rooms are very big with separate living room, kitchen, balcony.

Ibis Styles there's a few & it's pretty stylish .......... I've stayed in Silom & Ratchada branches but not aware of one really close to Nana.

Thought there was an Ibis Styles on Soi 4, about 100 m from Nana?

[Member #4836]

So I matched up with this obese Thai BBW of a whale on tinder. She speaks and writes good English, educated and works for a large American company in BKk. Seems to be upper middle class, driving a car etc.

Anyway we have been chatting back and forth for about 3-4 days now and she seems very interested, also had an hour long video call with her and she is legit so chances of being cat fished are ruled out. She told me she loves sex etc and longing for a relationship and that she can't get a Thai man because of her being a whale!

I told her I'll be coming to BKK for a short weeks stay in about 2 months. Only problem is she says that if I want to meet her I must refrain from an mongering during my short stay in BKK.

She seems really clingy even in texting, good morning, good night etc.

Do you folks think I should cut my losses and give her a fib telling her I have cancelled my trip to Thailand all whilst secretly enjoying mongering in BKK without her knowing I'm there or cut my freedom and go visit her. My gut instinct tells me not to be a stupid and choose the former.

[EverythingThai]

Yo bro, was that place open before Covid? There are several clubs there, right? I haven't hung out in that area for about 6 years and the memory section of my brain is the consistency of warm farina. I had a fabulous hardbody up there. I thought Covid closed the strip up because it doesn't get a lot of mention. The Thai dudes there were very cool too.

Yes it's the same place. A few places didn't last through Covid but, this place is one of the few that survived. Consistent talent every night.