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[SubCmdr]

Let me tell you how I see it. Pattaya is a huge playground for adults.

Damn straight. I've been to Jakarta, Medellin, Santo Domingo, Sosua, Punta Cana and for me Pattaya beats them all. Pattaya if it was a horse in a race, it would be crossing the finish line while the rest are are just turning onto the backstretch! Yeah! I said it!

The gents clubs will have one or two at each. Then there is soi 6. Each bar will have a few but there are just so many bars. Yes they have a lot of pressure to buy drinks and I get that, but about talent, it's is clearly there. Have prices gone up, yes. Times are changing. Then there is walking street. The good go go bars will have groups of stunners, but you will need to spend big. Then there is TF. This is the best way for you in my opinion to find stunners in Pattaya. The prices will be reasonable and drinks are completely out of the equation. My opinion on pats is there is more variety and P4 P is easier to find, cheaper and the action can be dirty as fuck. This means it's easier to get BBFS, easier to find a threesome and easier to walk into a club like Maggie Mays and get in bar action.

Well said! In my opinion, when I read about complains about Pattaya they are from those who have a Poverty Mentality or they are living in the Glory Days. Like if I was to compare my raw athletic abilities on the Tennis Court 20 years ago to now. Of course they would not compare whatsoever. I don't know why individuals don't understand that. Plus, what the fuck you going to do about the passage of time. That is bigger than all of us. For every old mother fuck complaining about Pattaya, there is a newbie like me just getting off the plane and loving it. It is the cycle of life.

This is my 2 cents Goats. Pattaya is a great place to visit, but the hunt is becoming less and less attractive to me. Now I have my spots like Maggie Mays, club fate, XS and Pin Up just to name a few. That's all I need. I'm not one to try new places in Patts anymore. Heaven Above is on my to do list though. About TF in Patts, it's just too easy. Log in, choose a girl, invite her over and that's it.

Yep, that is about the value I place on your posts, 2 cents. Many times I have found that to be substantially overvalued. LOL!

My final thoughts, in the words of Tony Soprano, remember when is the lowest form of conversation. This meaning I don't dwell on the past and what once was. I just adapt.

Now you are keeping it real!

How you like me now?

[SubCmdr]

I got 8 million ways to write a post. I dont have to choose one!

However, despite "loss of face" being important in Thailand, the ladies will feign ignorance. And of course, they will claim they don't have a Thai boyfriend.

So is lying about having a Thai boyfriend to prevent loss of face of them or the person they are telling the lie to?

You are in Thailand, you can ask the ladies you meet these questions.

Without Jedi Mind Tricks and Vulcan Mind Melds how am I to know that I gettin truthful answers. Besides I prefer to spend my time with my dick in the mouth, pussy and asses of Thai girls that I am paying for that privilege rather than drinking with them, talking to them and having them sit on my face. I would rather talk about fuck shit and discuss it among my fellow International Tricks.

You are in Thailand, you can ask the ladies you meet these questions.

However, despite "loss of face" being important in Thailand, the ladies will feign ignorance. And of course, they will claim they don't have a Thai boyfriend.

[Explorer8939]

What is the definition of cheating in Thailand? Does it depend on the type of relationship? Does it depend upon the occupation of the girl? Does it depend on how you met the girl? Is there such a thing as a monogamous relationship in Thailand?

What exactly is loss of face? Is that when someone cheats and their partner finds out about it? Does lose of face only occur of others know about it? Does loss of face occur only by the partner that got cheated on? Or can the cheating partner lose face also cause they got caught? Are there different rules for loss of face when it comes Thai people and Farang people?

Is any of this related to sitting on face or coming on face?

You are in Thailand, you can ask the ladies you meet these questions.

However, despite "loss of face" being important in Thailand, the ladies will feign ignorance. And of course, they will claim they don't have a Thai boyfriend.

[SubCmdr]

My input is that it is possible to go to work and enjoy your work!

So a girl can work in the entertainment industry and enjoy her work in general. Like any job there are going to bad days and good days. But these sweeping statement where people project their feelings onto others are just blatantly false! When I was working, there were things that I enjoyed at work and things that I did not. But I would have never showed up at work if I was not getting paid.

Then there is chemistry. I liken hiring a prostitute to taking your car to a mechanic. That is a bad analogy. Because I leave my car with the mechanic and my dick stays attached to me. So when I hire a dick mechanic to drain my balls, sometimes we share chemistry. Good chemistry is something that exists between human beings and is way more than the concept some proffer as just good customer service. Chemistry is something that is shared between to human beings for a moment or a lifetime and has nothing to do with money. It is similar to when you like some of your co-workers or people you do business and others well they are just (Compound Profanity redacted).

Yep, I said it!

[MrHappyKat]

I agree. The only question comes in is when the customer talks about how much someone they are paying for a service likes them or something they do. Maybe they do not like them or what they are doing at all, but are just giving good customer service.

Like if I jump in the back of my Uber and put my feet on the seats, yet the driver keeps smiling, could I actually state the driver loves when I put my feet on the seats, or does he just keep smiling because he does not want me to give him 1 star or lose my business?

Mongers tend to talk about how much someone they are paying for a service are into them or what they are doing.

Fortunately, after 40+ years of mongering, my ego is more concerned about how well I am getting fucked than about how well I am fucking. But that took me several years (and TBH thousands of SIMP dollars pissed away) to figure out. And I'll carve out the case for long-term Sugar Babies, at least in the US. The "cost of acquisition" to get a really good SB onboarded into my rotation (I currently have 8), is high in terms of money and especially time. Once a good (I. E. : Hot, enthusiastic, and capable) SB is acquired, it costs less to keep her happy and coming back on the regular than it does to replace her frequently.

I guess deep down, I'm really a "Cheap Charlie. " LOL.

[SubCmdr]

What is the definition of cheating in Thailand? Does it depend on the type of relationship? Does it depend upon the occupation of the girl? Does it depend on how you met the girl? Is there such a thing as a monogamous relationship in Thailand?

What exactly is loss of face? Is that when someone cheats and their partner finds out about it? Does lose of face only occur of others know about it? Does loss of face occur only by the partner that got cheated on? Or can the cheating partner lose face also cause they got caught? Are there different rules for loss of face when it comes Thai people and Farang people?

Is any of this related to sitting on face or coming on face?

[Mr Enternational]

And so we come full circle back to "My dick, my money, my time. " LOL.

To each his own. As long as I like who I fuck, and I like how they fuck me, I'll be getting the value I want.

I agree. The only question comes in is when the customer talks about how much someone they are paying for a service likes them or something they do. Maybe they do not like them or what they are doing at all, but are just giving good customer service.

Like if I jump in the back of my Uber and put my feet on the seats, yet the driver keeps smiling, could I actually state the driver loves when I put my feet on the seats, or does he just keep smiling because he does not want me to give him 1 star or lose my business?

Mongers tend to talk about how much someone they are paying for a service are into them or what they are doing.

[Explorer8939]

I should start with the referenced issue is based on a goal for a 3 week girlfriend. And I'm partial to 30 yo + with decent English skills. I need to choose between Thai & Latin experience. I stress. Not looking for bar girls but am recruiting from Cupid & Seeking with many responses for both.

Recently I have been told that the Latin ladies (Colombia & Brazil) are more transactional vs Thai's who prefer a mini-relationship.

Your thoughts are very welcome.

"Mini relationship" = customer boyfriend who sends the lady money when he goes home.

[PilotPete]

I should start with the referenced issue is based on a goal for a 3 week girlfriend. And I'm partial to 30 yo + with decent English skills. I need to choose between Thai & Latin experience. I stress. Not looking for bar girls but am recruiting from Cupid & Seeking with many responses for both.

Recently I have been told that the Latin ladies (Colombia & Brazil) are more transactional vs Thai's who prefer a mini-relationship.

Your thoughts are very welcome.

[Werqweq]

And so we come full circle back to "My dick, my money, my time. " LOL.

Of course. I was just curious about that particular girl, but then went off on some tangent for no particularly good reason.

[SubCmdr]

And so we come full circle back to "My dick, my money, my time. " LOL.

Super simple concept. Hard for some to execute.

To each his own. As long as I like who I fuck, and I like how they fuck me, I'll be getting the value I want.

Damn straight! I worry not about what others have to say about the price point I seek when hiring my prostitutes, nor their location from which I hire my prostitutes, nor the opinions from others who have neither seen the prostitutes I hire nor post pictures of their own.

ROI is not only about the cost, it's also about the value of the return. And that calculus works differently, even uniquely for each of us.

Yes, my Cost Per Orgasm calculation has much more to do with my experience and the service the girl provides than her attractiveness. If she is a 6 and provides 10 service I prefer that over a 10 that provides 6 level service.

I am now 66 days away from wheels up. Just think of the number of new girls that will start work between now and the day I land!

I spend more time doing my cardio and figuring out what I want to eat for the day than I do deciding who I want to put my Big Black Dick and what orifice I want to put it in to blow my splooge! I am about my International Trickin not being critical of the choices of others.

Looking forward to reading more trip reports before I arrive.

Me too. LOL!

[MrHappyKat]

And so we come full circle back to "My dick, my money, my time. " LOL.

To each his own. As long as I like who I fuck, and I like how they fuck me, I'll be getting the value I want.

ROI is not only about the cost, it's also about the value of the return. And that calculus works differently, even uniquely for each of us.

I am now 66 days away from wheels up. Just think of the number of new girls that will start work between now and the day I land!

Looking forward to reading more trip reports before I arrive.

[Gaijin Gigolo]

By test-drive I meant the girl you mentioned who wanted to test-drive your toy. Examples:

1) On Wednesday I met a 19 yo normal girl from thaifriendly in the park, talked / sat together there for an hour, then spent another hour walking back to my place, picking up a couple pizzas take-away on the way. Banged her three times before she left early next morning, with me offering up my phone so she could book grab taxi for herself as the only expense, sans her half of the pizzas.

2) Later in the afternoon I paid 2 x00 for one hour with an older, somewhat less attractive girl, at one of the sex-shops.

Which way is cheapest?

Price aside, I usually prefer 1) regardless, even if it takes some work. That way it's also possible to meet girls you genuinely like, and who genuinely like you too. Even if it's only for one night.

All those "take me out shopping", "take me to an expensive restaurant", etc. before sex chicks are just 2)-chicks pretending to be 1)-chicks. I'd, like you I guess, rather just pay 2100 at mango massage, or wherever, than to suffer their fakeness and golden-pussy-syndrome for an evening. I would not put them in the "freebie" category (1)) though. Any chick expecting anything more than a cup of coffee is in the 2)-category, not 1).

That's the way to do it. So much more fun to find one like no. 1. I'm headed to BKK in February and have no interest in paying bar fines, overpriced massages or gogos or the like. I'm exclusively searching for 'regular' girls who are just looking to meet a farang and have some fun.

[Newton York]

Has anyone seen further mention or confirmation of this?

Here is a 4 1/2 minute video on the subject:

"No Plan" by Thai Immigration to Require "TaxID" for Visa Extension?

https://youtu.be/BwBztcmfKbQ?si=rm4Qp-qoKi_p_a1d

And here is the link for Thai Immigration showing that, as of this writing, there is no mention of a TaxID, any tax information or tax document required in order to extend a Long Stay Retirement Visa (O, O-A Non Immigrant or whatever) in 2025:

IMMIGRATION BUREAU
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ROYAL THAI POLICE

https://www.immigration.go.th/

Scroll down to "Request for extension of stay" and #22 in that list is the option most pertinent to me and perhaps many other expats reading this.

Unfortunately, also as of this writing, 3,000,000 THB in health insurance coverage, or some variation on that theme, is still required in order to extend my type of visa in 2025 despite reports that the required amount of coverage was going to return to where it was before.

You guys, now I know I'm super old. I read this and for like a hot minute I really thought it was 'Taxi ID' and I was thinking to myself, does that mean I need my pasport just to get into a Grab? Haha! But it's TaxID! Which will never apply to me cause I'll never be lucky enough to live in Bangkok long term for retirement, if I even ever get to retire like you lucky mugs. Enjoy Thailand dudes, don't worry too much about the red tape.

Take it from an old man like me. Life is always full of crap, red tape, bureaucracy, issues, you name it. When you're at death's door, you're going to wish you lived more than worried about nonsense like that.

[Gaijin Gigolo]

By test-drive I meant the girl you mentioned who wanted to test-drive your toy. Examples:

1) On Wednesday I met a 19 yo normal girl from thaifriendly in the park, talked / sat together there for an hour, then spent another hour walking back to my place, picking up a couple pizzas take-away on the way. Banged her three times before she left early next morning, with me offering up my phone so she could book grab taxi for herself as the only expense, sans her half of the pizzas.

2) Later in the afternoon I paid 2 x00 for one hour with an older, somewhat less attractive girl, at one of the sex-shops.

Which way is cheapest?

Price aside, I usually prefer 1) regardless, even if it takes some work. That way it's also possible to meet girls you genuinely like, and who genuinely like you too. Even if it's only for one night. .

Well done, and well stated. And a lot of older guys, like me, we've been there, done that with the bars and the gogos and what not. The thrill is in the chase, like you bedding a hot young freebie with some eagerness and personality. It's not at all about just dumping your load in some overpriced skank with golden pussy syndrome. Zero interest in that at all.