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[Explorer8939]

So if you are only talking about hookers, why do any of your questions matter? Nobody goes to a dentist and worries about all these things. Why the concern if the service is coming from a hooker? We are paying to fuck them sir. We are not paying to worry about whatever other shit they have going on in their lives.

You know the answer already.

A large percent of guys go to Thailand to monger, but end up falling for a Thai lady. Which can ruin their lives.

You've never met a guy who was throwing money at some bar girl?

Even our beloved SubCmdr has a gik, who he says "she's different".

[ThaiGoodTimes]

Given the nature of this board, I am talking about bar girls.

In general, however, if a Thai man has a girlfriend, and he goes with another lady, the consequences may be death. Farangs, not so much, because they don't count as real boyfriends, unless they are young hansum man.

That's not at all true for Thai men, and especially so in Isaan where the culture and language are basically shared with Laos.

The number of Thai men I know, and the number of true situational stories I have been told about this both in Phuket and Isaan, are numerous.

I know so many where they have a wife and family and have elso a known about, seen and accepted with them mia noi.

I've even gone to important things like birthdays and seen both mia and mia noi in the same room, and talking, interacting peacefully.

Thai men stray, and stray often, if the wife doesn't like or accept the mia noi, then it is separation and divorce, hence so many single divorced mothers.

Sometimes the newspapers print a story that she seeks revenge with a cock removal and feed to the ducks, but I can't recall a single story of a woman killing the husband.

There are many stories tho of the left / divorced man not handling it well and killing the lady tho in a drunken rage.

[SubCmdr]

SubCmdr, I don't think you understand Thai ladies in Pattaya much. This is not an insult, when you have more experience in Thailand, you will understand.

If you are referring to Bar Girl=Prostitutes then I don't know what you mean when you say I don't understand them. I do not have a need to get their life histories or relationship status. When I do talk to them I talk about their work (fascinated by their world). The closest relationship I am ever going have with a Prostitute is a friendly sexual one. Where maybe we do more than just fuck. We also hang out because we enjoy each other's company.

Beyond that what else to I need to know?

[SubCmdr]

I didn't come to Pattaya to try to outspend Koreans to get a lady.

I didn't come to Pattaya with the intention of staying here but I did. The entire money thing I simply do not understand. Why is anyone else concerned about how much anyone else spends doing what they like to do?

I didn't come here to sit around in my room and drink with ladies then have them sit on my face

SubCmdr is not a big fan of licking pussy.

No, I am not a big fan of paying to lick pussy. I am also not a big fan of even my favorite girls sitting on my face. That is real submissive fuck shit in my book. But that is me.

Pattaya does have its attractions outside of bars and bargirls

Other than low cost rent, low cost electricity, low cost municipal water, low cost internet, low mobile phone post paid plans, low transportation costs, low food costs and low general entertainment costs, I have not found those attractions you speak of. I did buy some damn good New Balance tennis shoes from the New Balance store in Central Mall. But they were not low cost. My stack could handle it.

What I have found that these low costs allow me to Ball out at will. So, I really don't understand all this focus of my spending habits. You shouldn't be International Trickin if you ain't got a stack. You need put some work in where you be at and produce a flow.

but if it becomes too expensive

Brothers, tell me where pussy is cheaper than in Pattaya. Certainly not in the Dominican Republic, Colombia or Mexico. Tell me where you can get the beauty and performance at 1000 THB equivalent price like you can in Pattaya, anywhere else in the world.

Please, help a Farang Dam out with that shit. One qualifier, good infrastructure is a must..

[Chop]

That's unusual for Thailand. Maybe it's related to Lao culture.

You could very well be right. For all you hear about, "Isaan is where you find the REAL Thai culture," the culture up here is definitely super Lao.

(But don't try to tell them that.).

[Explorer8939]

*Not* in the nature of this board, I live way up north near the Lao border. The number of Thai guys who've invited me to visit their homes *and second families* on the Lao side is mind blowing. At least it was at first. Now I've kind of gotten used to the fact that Thai men don't give two shits if wife #1 knows about wife #2. Seems to me that as long as both families are taken care of (simply housed, fed, school fees, etc.) it's just a shoulder shrug about the other family and that's the way life goes. The ladies don't make a fuss, and none of the guys seem to be fearing for their lives at all.

Different class of both men and women I suppose (not 20-something bar girls and similarly aged pseudo-pimps).

That's unusual for Thailand. Maybe it's related to Lao culture. I don't know much about that.

I knew a lady in Pattaya who became a mia noi (Mistress) for some local politician. His wife eventually found out, and threatened my lady friend, who had to leave town.

[Mr Enternational]

Given the nature of this board, I am talking about bar girls.

So if you are only talking about hookers, why do any of your questions matter? Nobody goes to a dentist and worries about all these things. Why the concern if the service is coming from a hooker? We are paying to fuck them sir. We are not paying to worry about whatever other shit they have going on in their lives.

[Chop]

Given the nature of this board, I am talking about bar girls.

In general, however, if a Thai man has a girlfriend, and he goes with another lady, the consequences may be death.

*Not* in the nature of this board, I live way up north near the Lao border. The number of Thai guys who've invited me to visit their homes *and second families* on the Lao side is mind blowing. At least it was at first. Now I've kind of gotten used to the fact that Thai men don't give two shits if wife #1 knows about wife #2. Seems to me that as long as both families are taken care of (simply housed, fed, school fees, etc.) it's just a shoulder shrug about the other family and that's the way life goes. The ladies don't make a fuss, and none of the guys seem to be fearing for their lives at all.

Different class of both men and women I suppose (not 20-something bar girls and similarly aged pseudo-pimps).

[Explorer8939]

Where do you come up with this stuff? The question is how do you get into these chicks' heads or at least think you are getting into their heads? Are your posts only about hookers? Because you tend to use ambiguos wording as if what you are saying applies to the general population. What you profess is 180 degrees from my experience whether hookers or non-hookers.

I have a girlfriend, but she always tells me to go out and butterfly. I do not pay my girlfriend and she has never asked any money of me. She works at neither a bar or a shop.

My cousin is in town for the first time and brought his actual wife and actual girlfriend from the States. They are all together. Nobody is training for anything or has certain motives in their minds.

Your relationship is what you make it to be. The relationship does not get into you. You choose the kind of relationship you want to get into. So you saying having a girlfriend or frequent hooker or wife is going to be some cookie cutter thing is ridiculous.

If I am pursuing a chick and she tells me that if I am in a relationship with her then I can no longer eat steak and have to give her godmother $100/ month, then guess what I am free to do? Not get into the fucking relationship! Enough of this acting like someone is trapping you into being part of something you are not signing up to be in.

Given the nature of this board, I am talking about bar girls.

In general, however, if a Thai man has a girlfriend, and he goes with another lady, the consequences may be death. Farangs, not so much, because they don't count as real boyfriends, unless they are young hansum man.

[SubCmdr]

I am doing just fine in Pattaya My finances are solid. I don't have Bar Girls rummaging through my wallet. My Big Black Dick is penetrating the mouth, pussy and asses of Thai Girls on a regular basis at a price point that is agreeable to me. Like Biggie Smalls says: I get more butt than an ashtray. Sometimes I bust in their eye so they can see me coming. ROTFLMAO!.

I don't have girls sitting on my face nor am I getting on my knees while they stand in front of me to lick their pussies. I got nothing against guys who like to lick pussy. Even I do it sometime. What I don't get is guy who pay for that privilege. A girl that get the Big Pink Tongue on their clit is getting a unique gift from me.

A 20 year OG Vet wrote this to me in the public forum:

SubCmdr, I don't think you understand Thai ladies in Pattaya much. This is not an insult, when you have more experience in Thailand, you will understand.

What more is it that I need to know about Thai ladies in Pattaya when I am getting everything I need from them without them rummaging through bank account or calling me so much emotional or mental distress to do another 20 year OG Vet describes:

Since you're still new there you'll wind up losing your stack, your gik, getting into tax trouble preceding your deportation, and you may wind up joining the prestigious Pattaya Flying Club (google it you dumb motherfucker).

One OG Vet says I do not understand girls in Pattaya. Another is telling me I am going to lose all my money, get deported and kill myself.

So, what is up with this campaign from OG Vets to educate me? When I spend more time in Thailand than either of my Educators. What is in it for them to constantly talk down to me and call me a newbie who does not understand Pattaya or Thailand?

[Mr Enternational]

There is a difference between a Thai girlfriend and having a regular lady who has no problem if you go with other ladies. I have a dozen regulars who wouldn't care if I fucked another lady in front of them. On the other hand, a girlfriend is a wife in training (in her mind), and she is thinking about a future where she doesn't have to work in her shop or bar because the Farang will support her.

Of course, in Pattaya, a regular or girlfriend may have a Thai man on the side, since Farangs don't count as real boyfriends.

Where do you come up with this stuff? The question is how do you get into these chicks' heads or at least think you are getting into their heads? Are your posts only about hookers? Because you tend to use ambiguos wording as if what you are saying applies to the general population. What you profess is 180 degrees from my experience whether hookers or non-hookers.

I have a girlfriend, but she always tells me to go out and butterfly. I do not pay my girlfriend and she has never asked any money of me. She works at neither a bar or a shop.

My cousin is in town for the first time and brought his actual wife and actual girlfriend from the States. They are all together. Nobody is training for anything or has certain motives in their minds.

Your relationship is what you make it to be. The relationship does not get into you. You choose the kind of relationship you want to get into. So you saying having a girlfriend or frequent hooker or wife is going to be some cookie cutter thing is ridiculous.

If I am pursuing a chick and she tells me that if I am in a relationship with her then I can no longer eat steak and have to give her godmother $100/ month, then guess what I am free to do? Not get into the fucking relationship! Enough of this acting like someone is trapping you into being part of something you are not signing up to be in.

[Explorer8939]

SubCmdr,

I don't think you understand Thai ladies in Pattaya much.

This is not an insult, when you have more experience in Thailand, you will understand.

Here's a question for you: what does your kik get out of the relationship with you?

[SubCmdr]

OG Vets around here that are full of themselves need to understand something quick fast and a hurry and not get their thinking processes twisted.

If you would have them come to your condo instead of meeting them in the bar, then you would essentially be copying my style. Over time, I have amassed a rotation of ladies.

The only style you ever find me coping is that of YyzTravel. He is true gentlemen that has shown me how to really live and truly enjoy life. He has made my LIFE better! Everything he writes on ISG is 100. That man is not lying on his dick. How do I know? Because I seen it.

There is a difference between a Thai girlfriend and having a regular lady who has no problem if you go with other ladies.

No there is not! This difference only exists in the minds of some people that really do not understand the basics of relationships. A relationship is either open sexually or it is closed.

I have have amassed a rotation of ladies worldwide!

I know what a girlfriend is. I don't need a OG Vet to tell me. Girlfriends are not special in Pattaya or in Thailand or different from any other place in the world. You see I define my own relationships. I have many girlfriends. I have, one in Colombia. Two in the Dominican Republic and one in Thailand. They are open relationships. All of them. Even my kik or my gik (I don't know how to define my current relationship). It is open. All of my relationships are open. Therefore monogamy is not a component. Once you remove monogamy as a component then all this talk about who the girl is fucking (no matter what title you give her or define her relationship to you in her life) matters.

This is the reason I do not need Jedi Mind Tricks or Vulcan Mind Melds while using alcohol as truth serum in order to learn life history and relationship statuses of the girl I am fucking. Worrying about if a a girl has a Thai Boyfriend or Thai Husband or Tomboy or LadyBoy lesbian girlfriend is Poverty Thinking. It is also very negative and shows me a sign that the man who thinks like that has low self esteem. If I am fucking a girl that has a Thai Boyfriend or Thai Husband I am thinking that the Thai Boyfriend or Thai Husband has the problem not me. If she is doing it behind his back then she IS cheating and that is her partners problem. If she is not doing it behind his back then she is NOT cheating and it is not a problem.

Next, OG Vets are going to tell me because I am new that I don't understand Pattaya or Thailand. Nothing could be further from the truth. Simply reading the posts of certain OG Vets shows me that many have very narrow minded thinking. They have made up their mind that stereotypes are all true and that: 1. All girls in Pattaya are Bar Girls 2. All girls cheat on their partners. 3. All girls are are have been prostitutes. That they will be prostitutes in the future if the right situation presents itself. 4. OG Vets that have been in Thailand for the last 20 years are the only individuals who know what time it is in Thailand. 5. That is impossible for someone they consider to be a newbie to have respect for them or for them to know anything they might not.

Lastly, you will never find me taking relationship advice from a International Trick or a SexPat Ever!

[Explorer8939]

There is a difference between a Thai girlfriend and having a regular lady who has no problem if you go with other ladies. I have a dozen regulars who wouldn't care if I fucked another lady in front of them. On the other hand, a girlfriend is a wife in training (in her mind), and she is thinking about a future where she doesn't have to work in her shop or bar because the Farang will support her.

Of course, in Pattaya, a regular or girlfriend may have a Thai man on the side, since Farangs don't count as real boyfriends.

[Explorer8939]

I have plenty of girls asking for repeat appointments to see me. Only the best performers get a return visit!

If you would have them come to your condo instead of meeting them in the bar, then you would essentially be copying my style. Over time, I have amassed a rotation of ladies.

The only problem is that I lose 50% every High Season to Farang customer boyfriends, who give them money to go live in the village, or take them to another country to live. Which requires me to find new ladies every year.