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[SubCmdr]

When I lived in the Dominican Republic I was challenged to visit Sosua because I had not. It was a valid observation. After two years of living in the Dominican Republic and developing a good life for myself I finally visited Sosua. It was an interesting experience but I found it to be somewhat lacking compared to the life I had built for myself in Santo Domingo Este. The person that challenged me to visit Sosua made the the post below.

I have never been to Thailand, nor have I any interest in doing so. I prefer the classic tropical beauties, don't like to have my pussy served up on a plate by pimp mamasans who you have to "get to know" so you can bust your stack to impress her, with "making it rain", "40 Lady drinks". Who's always happy to see you, until the money runs out.

Rules, bar fines, regulations, and fixed prices are for newbies, the socially inept, and ageing jaded mongers, who need help getting laid.

So here we have an opinion of Thailand from a person who has never even visited (by his own admission).

Personally I disagree on his (second hand) impression of Thailand. I lived in the Dominican Republic for 10 plus years. I find Thailand and Pattaya far superior due to the quality infrastructure it has and that it is an international destination that serves the wide range of visitors that arrive here. I find it curious that an individual who has never actually visited Thailand has such strong negative opinions of it. Now, if you have visited Thailand and you don't like it then I understand. But I have had half dozen friends who were fans of the Dominican Republic come to hang out with me in Thailand since I have been posted up in here and have stated without a doubt that Thailand is a superior location to the Dominican Republic.

I understand the principle to each their own But if you don't have any experience in a location how do you actually manage to develop such strong feeling about it? I would think you would want to visit and actually gain knowledge of Thailand before forming an opinion much like I was challenged to do so many years ago. I have knowledge of both the Dominican Republic and Thailand and I can say that without a doubt Thailand is superior to the Dominican Republic. Thailand has beautiful beaches. Which is really the only claim to fame the the Dominican Republic has.

[Newton York]

Here's a lady who stopped working bar and lives off Facebook. She has 5,000 lonely guys following her, and sending money.

She lives in the village with her Thai boyfriend. Strangely, she shows her Thai husband on FB, but then, about once a month, she posts sad faces on FB, implying that they broke up. I guess that gets her more cash, from lonely guys.

That's right, don't get suckered in by these chicks and their sob stories. At the end of the day, most of them will have half a dozen guys strung along on a monthly basis, and they probably be making more in a month than we do. In a lot of ways, we have it worst.

[Explorer8939]

I went to Maggie Mays yesterday, it was early, just past opening time, so most ladies were having lunch. Many will start lunch at 1 pm, and eat until they get a customer.

I bought drinks for a lady and bar fined her. Back in the condo, she left after 8 pm.

Her story was that she lived in one room with her young daughter. And her Thai boyfriend. And his baby (from another lady). And her adult son. And his wife.

Which means her phone is ringing all day long, since none of them can go to the toilet without calling her first.

[Explorer8939]

How do you know it is a Thai Man?

Because the lady has many customers but no money. Her Thai boyfriend extracts cash from her because he bets on cockfighting. And loses.

Meanwhile, I had a mamasan over for drinks, and she told me that business has really dropped off this month.

[SubCmdr]

I do not understand the concept of universal beauty. Not only because it has been proven scientifically that they don't exist, but because on a practical basis if we as men need to have agreement on universal beauty. Then we wind up like this guy:

When Japanese and Korean guys are present, the rest of us have problems competing with them too.

I don't have this problem. Because my standards of beauty are different from Japanese and Korean guys.

[SubCmdr]

Can someone please help me with the concept of Thai Girls don't have any ass?

My ISG brothers, if you are looking for ass there are any number of countries to visit other than Thailand that you can bury your face in it.

When I want to have beef, I goto a good steak restaurant. When I want to chicken I goto KYC. What I don't do is goto a great steakhouse and order chicken.

In my experience, Thai Girls excel in the software department. If you are looking for afro / latina body styles then maybe, just maybe, you should look in country other than Thailand.

Everyone does not have a type. I fuck what gets my dick hard in the moment. I have an ugly girl I see every once in a while. But her dick sucking skills have improved dramatically since she arrived in Thailand and she has good pussy. Plus she is a sweetheart. She write to me: would you like sex? No pretenses.

Software!

[SubCmdr]

Woke up this morning feeling good. Talked some shit on ISG. Made a real estate deal. Then hit the streets of Pattaya to run errands. Took my laundry to my usual shop. Met the owner who is always full of smiles for me. Making small talk about her enjoying her day off. Set the time when the laundry will be ready. Always thanks me for my business.

This is very different from the Dominican Republic I lived there for 10 plus years (not a claim my posts about the Dominican Republic is in the ISG records searchable by anyone with the desire) The business class in the Dominican Republic thinks they are better than you. In their minds they they are doing you a favor because they made their business available to you. That is one of the things I do not like about the Dominican Republic. 90% of the population lacks business sense and a work effort. It is a hustling culture to the core. These societal trends filter through to the chicas also. Explorer just got back from the place. I wonder what he thinks of what I have written.

Stopped by my bakery and picked a loaf of Fuckaccia Bread. Met by the workers who know me. I stop by once or twice a week. All smiles, always. They are always trying to see me more than I can eat. I tell them I cannot because I don't want to become an old, ugly, fat mother fuck like the ones I see walking about, riding motorbikes and sitting in bars on a daily basis in Pattaya.

Stopped by my grocery store. This is grocery store is one where the homophobic among us:

Nyezhov, Allover, HotDog666, Oakie or MwenByen

Could not go. You see a Ladyboy works in this store. They have worked there the entire time I have been a customer at this store. No problems when I interact. Always a consummate professional. It is so sad to read posts by individuals who use their narrow minded western ideas about sexuality as bludgeon to insult others in the forums. Individuals they know nothing about. Yet, they are comfortable hurtling insults at them.

Back in my room now typing this and sipping on some coffee. I'm not sure why individuals who have never visited Thailand, Pattaya or Cockbang, have the ideas they do about day to day life here.

[SubCmdr]

There is no more expensive babysitter than a Thai man.

How do you know it is a Thai Man?

[Explorer8939]

For Gentlemens' clubs away from central Pattaya, the number of customers and ladies is the same, year round. Since the customers are mostly expats, they don't disappear during Low Season.

I had a lady messenging me almost every day while I was traveling, complaining about not having any customers. So, now that I'm back, I invited her to come to my condo, and she told me she couldn't, her customer boyfriend has come to Pattaya. Maybe he's been in Pattaya the whole time. Good for her.

I bought drinks for an older lady at Free Willy. Her complaint in life is that her daughter popped out a baby and left it with her after a couple of years. So the lady's boyfriend has to take care of the baby every night until her bar closes.

There is no more expensive babysitter than a Thai man.

[Mr Enternational]

Sometimes the early bird gets eaten by a snake. - - Wow! That is probably the worst mixed metaphor I've ever used!

LOL. But it is definitely true!

[Gordita Lover]

Hard to tell from your post, but perhaps you can do better by being more selective in the women you choose.

"Choose the puppy who chooses you" means look for the girl who proactively makes eye contact a with you and smiles. Choose the ones who look like they REALLY want you to choose them. If you are just tagging the hottest babe you see you have no idea if she likes you or if she can even stand to be near you. Sure they will all take your money, but that doesn't mean they will perform.

Next: Don't wait until you have dropped a huge roll on lady drinks before you ask her one simple question: "Can I bar fine you?" If she doesn't eagerly say yes, don't bother buying any drinks and move on. There are thousands of women there, high season or low, and you only need ONE to make you happy. Be patient, be selective, ask questions, set expectations before you invest too much money or time. This ain't love. It's business. So evaluate and negotiate, then consummate.

I did. She came out of a line of girls and was very flirty and playful. This was Soi 6. You just go upstairs. She was very touchy and playful the entire time until I suggested we go upstairs.

[SubCmdr]

My best experiences have come from my approach, which is why it is "my approach. "!

Bro, I'm in complete agreement with you. I have always been an advocate of trying different approaches and even combining parts of or elements that others share into my approach!

I use a combination of: 1. Does she please my eye? 2. Do I have chemistry with her? 3. Is she choosing me?

Does she please my eye?

I do not work off a numeric scale. I either want to fuck or I don't. That is called dickean logic (similar to boolean logic except for my dick).

Do I have chemistry with her?

This can only be determined in person. I pay a lot of attention to this during in person encounters because they will always more expensive than Beach Road or Thai Friendly

Is she choosing me?

This a big one for me. I'm in a bar on Soi 6 and the answers to 1 and 2 are in the affirmative. I bought her a drink, I'm feeling her ass, kissing her neck, she is showing me her breasts and then asks me if I will take her upstairs. I tell her sure. She says 4000. I say no. Check Bill please!

She did not choose me because she wants to charge me 2500 more than the going rate up in dis ***** fail!

[Nyezhov]

Me either. In 20 years I have had maybe 3 bad experiences. And those had nothing to do with sex. Those were because the hoes were crazy and it never even got to the sex.

I got pickpocketed once by a Soi 4 Viet, I discovered this as we were heading out the door at the old upstairs ST hotel at Nana and I ended up pulling bills out of her undies.

She knew how to suck though, that's how she got me.

[MrHappyKat]

I would advise the opposite. An empty wagon makes the most noise. A puppy looking like that may just really want out of the pound and could give a fuck less who it is with. Go up to who you like and decide if that is the person, not the person trying to draw your attention. That one tries to draw everyone's attention.

Have you ever been to a soapy? Every chick on the platform proactively makes eye contact and smiles.

There are too many variables in this process that will affect the outcome. If you do better with your approach, do your approach and have fun. My best experiences have come from my approach, which is why it is "my approach. " And there are an unlimited number of other strategies that work better or worse for others.

My point, which I suppose I did not articulate well, is to take your time and consider more than just physical appearance on some subjective / arbitrary "hotness scale. " Even you qualified your advice by saying ". Decide if that is the person. ".

Sometimes the early bird gets eaten by a snake. - - Wow! That is probably the worst mixed metaphor I've ever used!

[Explorer8939]

This is the point of High Season when the popular ladies are tired. They have been with customers constantly for three or four months, the ones with Thai boyfriends are fucking all day, and then at night if they don't have a LT customer. It's a real grind.