Bangkok Reports

[Llantarnam]

Yes, but to be fair, there are a lot of regulars as well and the problem I find is the regulars that you don't want to necessarily repeat with have an awful habit of remembering you even a year later! As happened me last week.

Between getting grabbed by one, harassed by a mangy plump MILF that didn't want to take no for an answer and a psychopath, I could get out of there quick enough this time.

The psychopath, realising I was in town, hung around the entrance of my hotel the following evening and tried to follow me when I was going for dinner. I wouldn't mind but she had been so disappointing that when I have picked her up before, I cut it short because she had been so bad. Obviously hadn't taken the hint.

It's a tough old world when you're popular with the ladies.

[OneParkPlacee]

My hotel seems to be a 10 min cab ride from Nana Plaza (37 min walk). Are freelancers ok with jumping into a cab?

Yes, but to be fair, there are a lot of regulars as well and the problem I find is the regulars that you don't want to necessarily repeat with have an awful habit of remembering you even a year later! As happened me last week.

Between getting grabbed by one, harassed by a mangy plump MILF that didn't want to take no for an answer and a psychopath, I could get out of there quick enough this time.

The psychopath, realising I was in town, hung around the entrance of my hotel the following evening and tried to follow me when I was going for dinner. I wouldn't mind but she had been so disappointing that when I have picked her up before, I cut it short because she had been so bad. Obviously hadn't taken the hint.

[Justdatip]

All these vloggers are sneaking in cameras both inside and outside thermae that if you want to be discreet with your mongering. Then this is not for you. Or where a facemask. The girls I chatted with all wanted 2 k. Definitely like a HS Prom atmosphere.

[PgReal]

Thermae. I'm in there 6 to 10 times a year and the stock rotates constantly.

Yes, but to be fair, there are a lot of regulars as well and the problem I find is the regulars that you don't want to necessarily repeat with have an awful habit of remembering you even a year later! As happened me last week.

Between getting grabbed by one, harassed by a mangy plump MILF that didn't want to take no for an answer and a psychopath, I could get out of there quick enough this time.

The psychopath, realising I was in town, hung around the entrance of my hotel the following evening and tried to follow me when I was going for dinner. I wouldn't mind but she had been so disappointing that when I have picked her up before, I cut it short because she had been so bad. Obviously hadn't taken the hint.

[HorseTrader]

Gentle suggestion. Having been in a tight Asian box or two over the years, I have a little bottle of silicone-based lubricant on hand. I recommend ID or Pjur brands. Girl will be a lot more comfortable than the guy who depends on the "spit and hit" method.

I agree that silicone based lubricants feel better than water based lubricants, but the big advantage is they don't get sticky and they last longer. The problem is they sometimes leave stains on fabrics that don't come out in standard cold water wash cycle, such as used at most Thai laundries. If you get that stuff on your clothes, I recommend you pretreat/scrub the stains before you send to the laundry. Good water based lubricants (e.g., KY Liquid or Astro Glide Gel) are almost as good as silicone and they don't give problems in the laundry. Don't expect any water based lubricant to last through 20 minutes of pumping the old gal before dumping.

[HellBboy3]

I went to Bangkok alone for a week. I stayed at Raumuchitt hotel. It is a good location between Nana plaza and soi cowboy, and near Thermae and the train. There is a short time hotel here for Thermae, so lots of traffic. And with Thermae next door, if you get a girl, it is a short walk to the hotel.

First night, I ordered an outcall massage to my room. Fa massage. Good girl, she wanted 4000 b for sex. After just an ok massage, I said what the hell and paid it and gave her the business. I love it when a girl loses control. This girl was young and horny and loved the sex. She gave me a robust kiss while I pounded her in mish.

Everyday I would walk around sukhumvit road. Being over 50, I really have to conserve my nuts so I can perform when I want to. But with boredom, I would go get a massage, and they seem to all lead to more. I purposely went to a professional spa for a massage, and the girl offered me a 1000 b HJ or 2000 b for BBBJ. I got the BJ, and she was toothy, so I had her kneel and came in her mouth. How wonderful BKK is!!

I tried an online escort service with beautiful pics of russian / european girls. I purposely told them to not send a girl if her pics were not real. They promised they were. They had me give them my name and room number in my hotel. They sent the girl, she comes to my room, and it was NOT the same girl. She was older, fake tits and lips, and not young. So dissapointing. What a mistake. And an expensive one 7500 b. I didn't want drama so I let her in, and she was an ok girl, with a good BBBJ, but wouldn't allow DATY, not that I wanted it with her, and complained about the sex lasting too long. The other online russian girl escort service I found online was flaky and didn't respond to LINE texts for long periods of time. They promised the pics were real too, but I didn't trust them. What a lesson learned. If its too good to be true, it is. Hot and young russians for 7500 when the hot russians on massagerepublic are asking for 10,000 b or more. So it was a big scam. I do trust massagerepublic more.

Planning my second visit and this FR is of help. Replying so that this FR stays on top for others like who are planning their trips.

[Fargler]

I have a little bottle of silicone-based lubricant on hand. I recommend ID or Pjur brands. Girl will be a lot more comfortable than the guy who depends on the "spit and hit" method. .

Me too! I keep a bottle in the hotel room and recently purchased a small bottle that rides in my cargo pocket if I'm going out hunting. Some of these girls are quite small!

[TKOman]

So I've been to Toy Bar and Aftersk**l and enjoyed the scene, but I'm interested to find a place where there's out-in-the-open sex acts between punters and the WGs. I'm picturing guys getting blown and girls getting fingered. I know that this is available in Pattaya, but I don't want to travel there. It seems that nobody knows where to get this kind of freak on in BKK.

[Sam Sanuk]

"...Call them civvies, non-pros, etc, many prefer a girl who isn't a prostitute, but is willing to be a prostitute. ... Ever since the closure of Nana Disco and the Nipponification of Thermae, everybody has been looking for the easy pick up joint in lower Sukhimvit. Unfortunately all such brick and mortar freelance venues since have either failed or come up short. Good luck and enjoy BKK, AR.

Just remember, there is a little bit of working girl in every lady and a little bit of lady in every working girl.

As for freelance venues since the original Nana Disco, anybody had the guts to check out the basement club at the Grace Hotel recently? "In its day", pickings were comparable to the Thermae at the time (30 years ago).

Sam.

[Asian Rain]

It sucks getting rejected by the 1 or 2 girls I want most.

Yes, the reason why most whiteys struggle with Thermae is that they are not used to any rejection. In this situation, it will help to put the past aside and reframe to the present. Now many of the girls have choices, but it is not a foregone conclusion that precludes you from getting what you want from a provider you want.

There was a really hot girl who rejected my last time, who I got this time. I paid 5000 in order to get her. She told me she she never goes with white guys due to size. She was a really sweet woman, really good experience but the poor woman was in pain half the time. I regret pushing for it by paying extra. I ended the session early. I felt bad for her afterward.

Don't regret. Good on you for getting what you wanted. Learn to improve and optimize for success. Gentle suggestion. Having been in a tight Asian box or two over the years, I have a little bottle of silicone-based lubricant on hand. I recommend ID or Pjur brands. Girl will be a lot more comfortable than the guy who depends on the "spit and hit" method.

May I ask, what do you think are the best alternatives to thermae for meeting girls who do sex work on the side.

I think there are many guys looking for the same. Call them civvies, non-pros, etc, many prefer a girl who isn't a prostitute, but is willing to be a prostitute. IMHO, this is just a mental hangup and just adds unnecessary dimensions to the list of physical and service characteristics that should be primary concerns. As to the options, I see several good replies, most notable are the suggestions for Thai Friendly and massage parlors. There are dedicated threads on both of these options. Ever since the closure of Nana Disco and the Nipponification of Thermae, everybody has been looking for the easy pick up joint in lower Sukhimvit. Unfortunately all such brick and mortar freelance venues since have either failed or come up short. Good luck and enjoy BKK, AR.

[DeepThoughts7]

I'm a white guy who goes there every night when on vacation. Yes I notice the same girls night after night. I'd estimate that the majority of them are full time sex workers. A minority do it on the side. I'm a decent looking guy but I got rejected a lot in the past. My social skills have improved a bit this time and I find that I'm doing a bit better. It sucks getting rejected by the 1 or 2 girls I want most. And then some older obese Japanese guy walks away with her, but that's life. Got to man up son!

There was a really hot girl who rejected my last time, who I got this time. I paid 5000 in order to get her. She told me she she never goes with white guys due to size.

Hi, I take it you paid a "premium" to meet this lady? I personally would not pay more to meet a lady who in a sense discriminates against me. I would not reward that behavior, as there are other ladies to choose from.

However, if that was her standard rate, then sorry for misunderstanding the situation. I want to politely mention these are my personal thoughts and everyone is different. I also do appreciate you sharing this story.

[Axel Heyst]

Wow2222, I am very reluctant to buy the girl's story that your dick was too big. LOL. So how was the foreplay? Did you guys fool around in the shower together? Did she give you a good BBBJ? Did you go down on her to get her juices flowing? Th answer to these questions will tell the tale. It is far more likely that she just did not want to do you with any enthusiasm and that she did not want to turn down the overly generous offer. I could be wrong but doubt it.

In any case, Thermae is not my kind of place. I am a Go Go, nightclub, and soapy kind of punter. I think you will find more accommodating girls in the better Go Go's and nightclubs and you can test drive these girls to establish a connection and make sure the vibe between you is good. In the higher end and better soapys, one relies on the bordello's reputation which guarantees a certain minimum level of performance / satisfaction and from there depending on the girl and the vibe you can hit the jackpot with a little luck. I never fool around with amateurs. It is a waste of time unless you are living in Thailand, have a lot of time on your hands, and can speak Thai fluently.

I'm a white guy who goes there every night when on vacation. Yes I notice the same girls night after night. I'd estimate that the majority of them are full time sex workers. A minority do it on the side. I'm a decent looking guy but I got rejected a lot in the past. My social skills have improved a bit this time and I find that I'm doing a bit better. It sucks getting rejected by the 1 or 2 girls I want most. And then some older obese Japanese guy walks away with her, but that's life. Got to man up son!

There was a really hot girl who rejected my last time, who I got this time. I paid 5000 in order to get her. She told me she she never goes with white guys due to size.

She was a really sweet woman, really good experience but the poor woman was in pain half the time. I regret pushing for it by paying extra. I ended the session early. I felt bad for her afterward.

[Nyezhov]

I'm a white guy who goes there every night when on vacation. Yes I notice the same girls night after night. I'd estimate that the majority of them are full time sex workers. A minority do it on the side. I'm a decent looking guy but I got rejected a lot in the past. My social skills have improved a bit this time and I find that I'm doing a bit better. It sucks getting rejected by the 1 or 2 girls I want most. And then some older obese Japanese guy walks away with her, but that's life. Got to man up son!

There was a really hot girl who rejected my last time, who I got this time. I paid 5000 in order to get her. She told me she she never goes with white guys due to size.

She was a really sweet woman, really good experience but the poor woman was in pain half the time. I regret pushing for it by paying extra. I ended the session early. I felt bad for her afterward.

Another thing,

I'm still trying to stop making the mistake of settling for "be-grade" girls partly due to a lack of options. That's why I need to find an alternative to thermae.

Thermae. I'm in there 6 to 10 times a year and the stock rotates constantly.

[PgReal]

I'm a white guy who goes there every night when on vacation. Yes I notice the same girls night after night. I'd estimate that the majority of them are full time sex workers. A minority do it on the side. I'm a decent looking guy but I got rejected a lot in the past. My social skills have improved a bit this time and I find that I'm doing a bit better. It sucks getting rejected by the 1 or 2 girls I want most. And then some older obese Japanese guy walks away with her, but that's life. Got to man up son!

There was a really hot girl who rejected my last time, who I got this time. I paid 5000 in order to get her. She told me she she never goes with white guys due to size.

She was a really sweet woman, really good experience but the poor woman was in pain half the time. I regret pushing for it by paying extra. I ended the session early. I felt bad for her afterward.

Another thing,

I'm still trying to stop making the mistake of settling for "be-grade" girls partly due to a lack of options. That's why I need to find an alternative to thermae.

I want to meet girls who have something else going on in life besides full time sex work. Like the uni student you fucked recently. (BTW I checked that place out twice and unfortunately I didn't see them.

May I ask, what do you think are the best alternatives to thermae for meeting girls who do sex work on the side.

Like which places will have the highest percent of office workers, students etc that do sex work on the side.

TF app is the best place to find part-timers.

If you want a good going over with a hot girl guaranteed, then go and get an outcall from one of the many MP shops, prices are more or less the the same as you'll spend in Thermae, but service will most likely be hotter.

[Wow2222]

I am encouraged, but it would take quite a bit more consistency and durability to up my star rating, especially for the services I consider important to me. Although I had relegated Thermae many years ago, I have recently reconsidered given the change in dynamic. Now that the Japanese clientele has receded (both in absolute numbers as well as purchasing power of the remainder) with the massive decline of the Japanese Yen, I have observed a significant vacuum into which Koreans, Chinese (mainland mostly), Arabs and even Indians and Africans have stepped in.

This is driven by social media and the changing dynamic of tourism. Take this example of a Chinese sex tourism influencer describe the "Shemei Coffee" scene. https://youtu.be/pPvlaBRLnsk?si=0opKwM_5N27MPXre&t=170.

I found the subtitled commentary interesting, enlightening and brutal. First, I concur the student / part-time freelancer image is a delusion. The reality is that a high majority of girls are full-time fixtures, so frequent visitors will see the same girls night after night. Second, the narrator makes a claim that some cliques of girls maintain LINE groups where the girls gossip and compare notes about the punters (which ones are tourists, etc). So as punters are using social media to identify better providers, the girls are using it to identify easier punters.

Could you maybe message me on here. I was wondering if we could hang out for a bit. I can buy you a drink at thermae.