Medellin Reports

[The Cane]

Maybe a decent price in New York or London, but that is insane in Colombia.

You got to be kidding me right? These "softcore hoors" in places like New York and London are commanding more than twice that amount. For $300 bucks we're talking third third tier cities and, if you get lucky, maybe a second tier town from time to time.

[Triple Darknes]

Maybe a decent price in New York or London, but that is insane in Colombia.

Let him Live. Sure an experienced Monger or expat can say that's a ton of money but guys want fake situationships.

In one way going to Nairobi would be an eye opening experience in the sense that the LT ST shit doesn't exist you pay a maybe 40 or so bucks and she leaves when you want her to leave. If fact I monger may realize that she's winning because she's claiming you and soon you'll be sending money.

But fuck that maybe I'm an old jaded monger. All I'll say is there's the Sun Tzu saying of knowing yourself and knowing the enemy but that might go over guys heads.

The only thing I'll say is that Women even hoes are Human and if you're looking for more than a roll in the hay and a nut it depends on whether a woman feels like it at the time or not.

Asking for babysitting fees and platonic hang out time and going some place she's been to 500 times before or has no desire to go to because a bored and lonely monger wants to go is worth whatever she can negotiate. Fair exchange is never a robbery, Shit to me hanging around some foreign broad that I don't know would be work to me too. I'm retired and I still have more important things to do. I´m sure any women hoe or not has shit to do too.

Hope this Helps.

[Mr Enternational]

Doesn't sound too bad. 12 hours for under $300 usd?

Would be better if she was younger and allowed more action but seems like a decent price.

Maybe a decent price in New York or London, but that is insane in Colombia.

[Chico Bonito]

Incredible report! I had a very similar and totally unexpected experience when I traveled to Africa recently, so I understand exactly how amazing it must have felt. This gives me hope that I can find someone good during my September trip.

That sounds awesome, I would love to read that report if you wrote one. If not, then you should! I've never been to Africa, but I've been thinking more and more lately about traveling there in the near future if I can.

[KeviKev68]

Most of these pay-for-play chicas are already thinking time limits, usually defaulting to 1 hour. Time limits are of course a necessity in the casas, but chicas from the street and online dating platforms (if they're looking for "beneficios mutuos" or "diversion" or "nada serio", etc.) also operate on time for money. Like the chica in my report, these are escorts we're talking about most of the time here. Hoes.

What they have in mind isn't the semi-pro unicorn mindset of "yeah, I'll come over and chill and do whatever with you for as long as we want, no rules". What they're offering is "I'm coming over to fuck you for X amount of time maximum and then I'm out". From a few unfortunate encounters I have had, and from many reports I have seen other guys post on these forums in various countries over the years, if you don't set a clear agreement on the amount of time you're paying for, then many of these women will try to head out the door as soon as you cum. If you aren't clear about what you want, how long you want it for, and how much you will pay for it, then the chicas can take advantage of that..

I have been to Medellin dozens of time in the last 3 years. After the first 3 trips I stopped pulling from Parque Lleras. You're correct everyone in the park is on a "timer" as they have been conditioned to work by the hour. That's not to say that you can't have a good experience there. However, it's not the kind that I want.

I have better results on Tinder because so many girls are on there compared to Seeking. Seeking was great when I got there 3 years ago but now you have girls asking for 1 K USA dollars for 2 hours and everything covered. I have a few girls left from Seeking on my roster otherwise I stay away from there.

It's easy to screen Tinder girls you ask for their number. If they include their country code you know they have some discussions with foreigners. I get them to state how much they want. If they talk about dollars instead of pesos that is not a good sign.

I have about 8 to 10 girls that I rotate and it's pure GFE and MSOG and no time limits. I don't want toda la noche. It's not necessary but I don't like to feel that someone wants to get out fast. I get a nice Airbnb that has a separate bathroom with a shower and fragrant soap.

I pay between 200-400 k pesos not including Uber both ways that I always pay. There are a few Tinder girls with Instagram that I pay more. I love Tinder.

[Appalachian]

Doesn't sound too bad. 12 hours for under $300 usd?

Would be better if she was younger and allowed more action but seems like a decent price.

[Priint]

In April, one of my Tinder meets was a beautiful woman, 36 yo, long dark hair, sexy body, unemployed and trying to make money with event gigs and online hustles. I matched with her while I was back home, about a month before my trip, and we had a long chat on whatsapp that night. I asked her what she was looking for, and she replied, "the visa and you XD". She told me she was joking, and that honestly what she is looking for is financial assistance. She said because my Tinder status was "Nada Serio" (Short-Term Fun), she thought I might be open to an agreement of "beneficios mutuos". And that if I was looking for love and a relationship, that is something entirely different that requires a lot of time and attention to "conquer" her. I agreed with her that those things take time, that for now I'm not looking for anything serious, and that I was interested to hear what terms she had in mind.

Incredible report! I had a very similar and totally unexpected experience when I traveled to Africa recently, so I understand exactly how amazing it must have felt. This gives me hope that I can find someone good during my September trip.

Cheers.

[Chico Bonito]

Fortunately, I have found enough who will give me everything I want for 2 hours in the 350 k to 450 k price range. And one who was happy with 300 k for 2 hours, and another one who is coming over tonight for toda-la-noche for 750 k. I would be very interested to know where / how one can find good chicas for less than 300 k who aren't Centro crack-hoes.

In April, one of my Tinder meets was a beautiful woman, 36 yo, long dark hair, sexy body, unemployed and trying to make money with event gigs and online hustles. I matched with her while I was back home, about a month before my trip, and we had a long chat on whatsapp that night. I asked her what she was looking for, and she replied, "the visa and you XD". She told me she was joking, and that honestly what she is looking for is financial assistance. She said because my Tinder status was "Nada Serio" (Short-Term Fun), she thought I might be open to an agreement of "beneficios mutuos". And that if I was looking for love and a relationship, that is something entirely different that requires a lot of time and attention to "conquer" her. I agreed with her that those things take time, that for now I'm not looking for anything serious, and that I was interested to hear what terms she had in mind.

We talked a bit more, getting to know each other, flirting. I could tell that she had a lot of personality, good sense of humor, very blunt and outspoken in a refreshing way that gave me the impression that she is very honest for a Colombiana. We said good night, and then I didn't message her again until about a month later, a few days before my trip. Our chat picked up right where we left it, with her being very engaged and fun. We exchanged some pics, and I told her I would be arriving in Medellin in a few days. She told me she was excited to hear that, because she hadn't had any sex since her last relationship ended in December, and felt like her virginity had grown back.

From there, we talked about sex and relationships. Apparently, she gave up dating Colombians 12 years ago, because she says most of them demand a lot from women, but don't want to give in return. From her perspective, most Colombian men are too broke or selfish to provide for their women, so she only wants to date Gringos now. During the past 5 years she had long-term relationships with two Americans that she said were good boyfriends, especially one who provided for her a lot, without ever having to be asked. She told me that she likes being in a stable, monogamous relationship, but expects for a boyfriend / husband to take care of her financially. Speaking about Colombianas, especially Paisas, she said "we're all like that". But she said that a lot of men make big promises that they don't fulfill, so now she's trying to get that financial security up front, rather than waiting and hoping that a man will finally put a ring on it.

Talking about sex, she told me she can be very sexual when she likes someone. She seemed to be getting very turned on when I was talking about what I like sexually, and what women can do to make me happy (both sexually and otherwise). She said she was open to BBBJ, but sex had to be with condom, because she knows that I am going to be having sex with other women besides her, and she believes that 80% of the women in Medellin have diseases. She said doing it sin condom could be an option, but only if we both get tested, and both agree to only sleep with each other.

Then we started talking about the arrangement. She said she could spend all day with me until midnight, or all night with me until morning, and for that she wanted 1 million pesos each time. She added that she wanted to start out like this, and if we end up falling in love and something more serious develops over time, then things could change. And that if I can honor this financial arrangement, then that would keep her happy and she would be always loyal and available to me.

She then told me that whenever she gets to this part, guys always end up ghosting her, so she hasn't been able to close any deals. I actually believe her saying how she hadn't had any sex for months, and how other guys from the app who she has propositioned all "ran away from her" once they got to the details. She seems genuinely new at this, and she blurs the lines too much I think for most guys' comfort. I think that for Gringo guys who really are coming to Colombia looking for a serious girlfriend or wife, the idea of paying money turns them off and would make the relationship feel fake. And for the Gringo guys who are just looking for sex, not many want to pay as much as 1 million pesos for toda-la-noche, and are trying to get 1 or 2 hours for 400 k or less.

I'm kinda one of those guys. I countered her proposition with an offer of 500 k + taxis for the all-day or all-night deal. She said "no, amor". Then I offered instead of 12 hours, we do 2 hours for 300 k. She replied "No, let's just leave it there, it was very nice having talked with you, take care of yourself and I wish you the best". I responded, "If you would be willing to negotiate, perhaps we can arrive at an agreement that we can both be satisfied with". Then she went off. Saying how "All you guys who come to Medellin are the same. What can you even do in just 1 hour? If that's how you want to treat me then I'll treat you the same, 400 k for 1 hour or 1 million for 3 hours, everything with condom, and no going out together". I think she got offended because my offer of shorter time for less money made her feel like a hoe, when she doesn't think of herself as a hoe. After that, I didn't reply to her.

A few days later, now in Medellin and already having a lot of fun, I received a message from her. She asked me if I had arrived, and what I had been doing these past few days. Then she told me she had been thinking about me, and explained that she had gotten angry the other night because she felt we had a great connection and thought things would be different with me than with the other guys from Tinder that she had talked to. I explained to her that I thought she would be a wonderful woman to spend the night with, but that 1 million pesos was more than what I wanted to spend per encounter. She responded that if we agree to multiple dates instead of just one, we could level it out to 750 k. "I know that 750,000 looks like a lot of zeros, but it's really not that much money". I told her that seemed fairer to me.

We set up a date for the following Monday, since I already had meets scheduled with other chicas for the next few days. But my Saturday date fell through, so I messaged her to see if she wanted to see me that night, and she jumped at the chance. She happens to live in Laureles, which is the area where I was staying, so that made things convenient for us. I invited her to a live music show at a cute little cafe in the area, and said that we can see how the night goes from there, with dinner afterwards, and then making love all night in my hotel room. She said it sounded like a great plan, and hoped that everything would flow well between us and that we like each other when we meet. I told her to wear something sexy for me, and meet me at the cafe at 7 pm.

She arrived half an hour late (not bad for a Latina), looking like a knockout in a short skirt, white blouse tied halfway to show off her smooth midriff, and thigh-high fuck-me boots. I already had a table for us right in front of the music performers, it actually ending up being like a full-blown intimate concert with an amazing singer who was giving Gwen Stefani vibes. (Not just some scruffy dude playing acoustic guitar covers like I was kinda expecting). My chica was a bit shy at first, even telling me "I feel shy" as we were sitting together, getting to know each other face to face now in hushed voices. But she warmed up quickly, especially after I held her hand and placed my other hand on her knee. I told her, "your hand is so soft", and she smiled and replied, "all of me is soft", getting back into the sexually flirtatious mood of our whatsapp chats. We had a great time for the next hour or so of the concert, enjoying the performance and each other.

Afterwards I took us to a cool funky restaurant nearby that I had been wanting to check out. The food and atmosphere were both great, and she and I really hit it off with our conversation. She talked a lot about her past, and her past relationships, and wanted to know a lot about my own. We had really good rapport, lots of laughter, no awkward silences. We took some photos together in front of the funky decor of this strange yet fancy restaurant and then walked two blocks back to my hotel.

From there it was game on. Chick was on fire. Passionate kissing, passionate fucking. Her body was so hot under me and on top of me. Her tits were big and soft and all natural, and her big nipples felt so good rolling around my tongue. She gave good head, although she didn't like doing it for very long, alternating it with her hands, which she was also really good with. We did it in multiple positions, but she was best on top, which she also seemed to love the most. We did it twice, and she looked and sounded so sexy when she was cumming. After the second round she told me she was exhausted, but that we could do it again in the morning. She slept over and kept her word, riding my cock again with even more energy after we woke up. Then we got dressed and I paid her, sent her home in an uber, and walked off to go find myself some breakfast, feeling like a king. We were together for a little over 13 hours, 100% GFE.

I saw her again on Monday, she came over to my hotel around 3 pm and we fucked again for a few hours. Then we went down to Poblado to the group dance lessons I had mentioned in a previous post. It was all basic Salsa steps, but I could use the refresher. She told me that next time I'm in Medellin she'll take me out dancing and show me some moves. I would also like to go back to the dance school to take advantage of their private lessons too. After the dance class, we walked around the Parque Lleras area a bit, and found a nice rooftop restaurant for dinner. Sent her home in an uber at midnight, and I went back to my hotel. We chatted some more on whatsapp that night, after we both got back to our places. She thanked me for everything, I told her I was already missing her, and she felt the same and said it totally took her by surprise how well we connect.

I hadn't originally planned on seeing her more than these two times. But the next day, as I was having brunch and planning out my day and deciding which chica I would see next, I kept thinking about her. So I sent her a message asking if she was free to meet me again and she said absolutely. She just had a few errands she was in the middle of, and then would go right home to wash up and dress up to get ready for me. I picked her up in an uber at her apartment, and we went to Centro to check out a big public art gallery in one of the malls there. It was awesome, three floors packed with paintings and sculptures, much better than the Museo de Antioquia in front of Plaza Botero. And awesome that she shared my interest in art. Saw some sneakers at the mall that I thought would look good on her, on sale for 100 k. She tried them on and liked them, so I bought them for her, and she was smiling from ear to ear.

She insisted on leaving the area before sundown, saying that Centro wasn't safe after dark, and she didn't even want me to speak when we were outside the mall because she was afraid that bad people might hear my accent. So we went back to Laureles and had dinner at a nice little Mexican restaurant near my hotel. Then back to my hotel for sex.

During pillow-talk, she called me her "sugar daddy". I told her that I didn't like the sound of that, since in my country and language, that term has a stigma for being for old men who have to pay young women to sleep with them and pretend to be their girlfriends. She told me she thought it just meant a sexy older man. I replied that "silver fox" or "DILF" are probably better terms for that, but all good, I'll take the compliment. (I'm in my late 40's BTW, so not that much older). But thinking back on the whole experience with her and our arrangement, it does make me feel like I was her sugar daddy and she was my sugar baby, even though I'm not that much of a daddy and she's not that much of a baby. She really is a perfect little rent-a-girlfriend. Great beauty, great sex, great personality, great chemistry. She had me feeling like I won the jackpot with her.

We have kept in touch with each other since then, almost 2 months ago. She kept asking when I would be coming back to Medellin, I'm planning on seeing her again when I go back to the city tomorrow. 750 k per night felt worth it at the time, but I don't think I could keep up with that cost long term, for me that's a lot of money to pay any woman each time I want to see her. I would like to transition her to a more affordable arrangement, although I don't know how to go about doing that successfully, and I'm not sure if she'll go for that.

[Ray42]

So is it dangerous to travel to Medellin as a single male? If I go, I would go by myself. I hear stories where supposedly single males get drugged and robbed. Also, I've read that Colombian authorities refuse entry to single males travelling from the US. Any advice would help.

I didn't get asked a single question coming in. Far as staying safe. When I go to meet a girl go to a Motel de horas (2 hour booking) I bring a old iphone with a broken screen that only has whatsapp and uber on it. The cash for the date. And a single CC. Its like the jungle if you're not one of the slower antelopes your not worth the cheetah's time. There's plenty of fools coming down here thinking a hooker's going to fall in love with them bring them multiple nights to their apartment with their laptop.

And also there's plenty of high end places like Loutron and la Isla where at least short term a girls not likely to rob you cause the club's got her ID, she makes a lot of money there not worth the risk for her. Now if your seeing each other often outside the club that could change.

[Ray42]

Please enable DM. I have a trip planned but might be after yours; wanted to connect anyways.

I enabled my DMS. And for anyone else who wants to hit up chica clubs in Medellin please DM, I'm goin on a romp these next 2 weeks.

[Chico Bonito]

I will be down in Medellin for a week and interested in some day time options for some fun. I will be there with some others and can probably sneak away during the day once or twice. I will be staying fairly close to the Lleras Park area.

Besides the various daytime casas near Laureles and Centro, (which have been talked about here recently so you can look for that info / reports by searching the thread for "casas"), going out to incalls with prepagos from the escort websites is another good daytime option. Many of those escorts have their own apartments for providing discrete service.

Stay safe and have fun!

[DiscoverFL]

So is it dangerous to travel to Medellin as a single male? If I go, I would go by myself. I hear stories where supposedly single males get drugged and robbed. Also, I've read that Colombian authorities refuse entry to single males travelling from the US. Any advice would help.

Since you want a yes or no answer, I'll give you a simple one: No.

It is not dangerous if you know what you are doing, just as it is not dangerous to ride a motorcycle, fly an airplane, or drive a car if you know what you're doing.

[Chico Bonito]

I try to tell people that Tinder is the place to go. It requires very little effort and you can negotiate what you easily. The only thing I would say there's no need to bring ups time limits. The money they are being paid is more than enough for you to not be on a timer.
It kills the mood when someone says that want to charge for an hour. That's the type of experience you get with an escort and that is normally not better than a civilian.

Most of these pay-for-play chicas are already thinking time limits, usually defaulting to 1 hour. Time limits are of course a necessity in the casas, but chicas from the street and online dating platforms (if they're looking for "beneficios mutuos" or "diversion" or "nada serio", etc.) also operate on time for money. Like the chica in my report, these are escorts we're talking about most of the time here. Hoes.

What they have in mind isn't the semi-pro unicorn mindset of "yeah, I'll come over and chill and do whatever with you for as long as we want, no rules". What they're offering is "I'm coming over to fuck you for X amount of time maximum and then I'm out". From a few unfortunate encounters I have had, and from many reports I have seen other guys post on these forums in various countries over the years, if you don't set a clear agreement on the amount of time you're paying for, then many of these women will try to head out the door as soon as you cum. If you aren't clear about what you want, how long you want it for, and how much you will pay for it, then the chicas can take advantage of that.

If you can find semi-pro chicas who are more informal about the whole thing and don't watch the clock, that's awesome. But most guys (and gals) coming to Medellin are going to be meeting the chicas in Parque Lleras, in the casas / strip clubs, on the escort websites, or the "beneficios mutuos" chicas on Tinder. And my advice for guys (and gals) with these pros is, if she doesn't explicitly state time limits, then definitely make sure that you do. Also make sure that if you want more than one round / ejaculation with her, that you come to an agreement on that too. Since some of them will try to leave after just one round, no matter how quickly you finish, even if an hour or longer was what was agreed upon.

[ElAventurero]

So is it dangerous to travel to Medellin as a single male? If I go, I would go by myself. I hear stories where supposedly single males get drugged and robbed. Also, I've read that Colombian authorities refuse entry to single males travelling from the US. Any advice would help.

[TnGentleman2]

Hi Gents,

I will be down in Medellin for a week and interested in some day time options for some fun. I will be there with some others and can probably sneak away during the day once or twice. I will be staying fairly close to the Lleras Park area.

I've been to Medellin several times, so somewhat familiar with the area.

TIA for any suggestions.