Stupid shit in Medellin

[Combo]

I don't think I totally misread you. Overreacted some just to make a point, but I get you. I have a problem with guys who feel the need to hang out in a place like this and brag about how they don't have to pay for it. Luckily there aren't a lot here like that, but they show up from time to time. What the hell are they even doing here then constantly flexing about not having to pay to play? This is a space reserved for men who, like the site's tagline says, believe that money is indeed the world's greatest aphrodisiac!

Why would one want to waste time on this forum if they're not into pay for play?

[The Cane]

You misread my post. First, I pay and will always pay because I also choose to do that because it's less drama involved. I'm actually trying to get legislation passed to legalize prostitution in the state where I live. My problem is concerning those that need to brag about paying for sex and those that bring the wrong kind of exposure to sex workers. Paying for sex is nothing to brag about especially if you are the type that can't get sex without paying for it. It's just pathetic listening to some of the lies and stories that guys post here.

I don't think I totally misread you. Overreacted some just to make a point, but I get you. I have a problem with guys who feel the need to hang out in a place like this and brag about how they don't have to pay for it. Luckily there aren't a lot here like that, but they show up from time to time. What the hell are they even doing here then constantly flexing about not having to pay to play? This is a space reserved for men who, like the site's tagline says, believe that money is indeed the world's greatest aphrodisiac!

[MisterJam]

I see the tinge of societal "put down" in your words. You have to pay for it. I broke through societal indoctrination and bullshit expectations around sex and relationships a long time ago. No, no, no! I want to pay for it in an open and transparent transaction between two consenting adults because I like doing that versus engaging in the bullshit, waste of time mind games polite (hypocritical) society tells you that you're supposed to play, allegedly leading to happiness forever after. Yeah right! I look around every day, and that's not the end result I see for most people playing by society's relationship rules. Some guys discover that they're much happier "paying for it" in a much more direct kind of way (we're always paying in one form or another anyway), and there are plenty of other guys who would do themselves good if they recognized and accepted the same thing for themselves too. Instead, they remain shackled to the pressures of societal norms and expectations when it comes to finding sexual partners.

I know it's really hard to throw off those shackles, and it took me a long time to do so (middle age), but now I'm free of those limiting rules with respect to obtaining a lot of sex from women who I find to be sexually appealing, and I don't do it to impress anyone. You'll never see me all over YouTube flexing. I do it because it makes me happy, and I'm here because I enjoy being part of an anonymous community for sharing with other men who think and feel about it like I do. I don't pay because I have to. No, I pay because I want to, because I like paying for it! It makes me happy. I have a buddy who told me this makes me one strange cat! I think I'm just being free to be me. Hell, the way I see it, I'm not doing anything different from guys who enjoy great fame and / or fortune. They leverage their wealth in that to fuck pretty pussy. I'm doing the same damn thing. Leveraging my own personal wealth in a direct kind of way to fuck lots and lots of pretty women. When you break it all down, I just don't see a lot of difference in the end result.

You misread my post. First, I pay and will always pay because I also choose to do that because it's less drama involved. I'm actually trying to get legislation passed to legalize prostitution in the state where I live. My problem is concerning those that need to brag about paying for sex and those that bring the wrong kind of exposure to sex workers. Paying for sex is nothing to brag about especially if you are the type that can't get sex without paying for it. It's just pathetic listening to some of the lies and stories that guys post here.

[JohnMong]

You're so right. These dudes brag about fucking chics and they are paying for it like that's something special. Those are the ones that can't get pussy without paying for it. You want to impress me, tell me you fucked beyonce, Taylor or Rhianna for $100 or better yet, they paid you The first thing they will say, is neither of them are my type. SMH fellas, you are paying for pussy to girls that would never be with you if you didn't pay.

But you were the one trying to telling me about your dated Facebook approach and telling me in doing something wrong. You project a lot. It comes off as if you think you yourself are special.

And you brag about being in DR or Colombia over 50 times. Bro if you got it like that why're you out here so often and on this site so often asking about what to do in Cali why not just stay home and fuck the pussy back home since you want to call dudes out for not getting pussy without paying for it. Probably because you need to pay for it too with your projecting ass LOL.

And also why do you have the mindset everyone here is trying to impress you with their reports? Or better yet why are you reading into all the reports ready to one up everyone? Let fools enjoy their little reports and reliving the experience of it.

And a lot of the things you're saying would impress you I have already gotten but don't feel the need to share because I don't use this site as an ego boost like you or some other users do. SMh Shaking my head LOL goofy ass.

[Mr Enternational]

I broke through societal indoctrination and bullshit expectations around sex and relationships a long time ago. No, no, no! I want to pay for it in an open and transparent transaction between two consenting adults because I like doing that versus engaging in the bullshit, waste of time mind games polite (hypocritical) society tells you that you're supposed to play, allegedly leading to happiness forever after.

I enjoy the company of normal people. It is not an inconvenience to me to be with a woman outside of the bedroom. That being said, I still dance to the beat of my own drum, not by what you are saying society tries to dictate.

The other day a chick who I met last time from bum fuck 2 hours away wanted to come see me in Barranquilla but she did not have money for the bus. I told her to go borrow the money. She wanted me to leave the confines of my comfortability at the time and go find a place to buy a ticket for her to come see me. I said fuck that. Like I told you, you need to go borrow the money. She said she would never do that and that I am the first man to tell her something like that. As they say in France, Oh Fucking Well. Like Prince said in Uptown, "She's just a crazy, crazy, crazy little mixed up dame. She's just a victim of society and all its games. Now where I come from, we don't let society tell us how it's supposed to be."

[The Cane]

You're so right. These dudes brag about fucking chics and they are paying for it like that's something special. Those are the ones that can't get pussy without paying for it. You want to impress me, tell me you fucked beyonce, Taylor or Rhianna for $100 or better yet, they paid you The first thing they will say, is neither of them are my type. SMH fellas, you are paying for pussy to girls that would never be with you if you didn't pay.

I see the tinge of societal "put down" in your words. You have to pay for it. I broke through societal indoctrination and bullshit expectations around sex and relationships a long time ago. No, no, no! I want to pay for it in an open and transparent transaction between two consenting adults because I like doing that versus engaging in the bullshit, waste of time mind games polite (hypocritical) society tells you that you're supposed to play, allegedly leading to happiness forever after. Yeah right! I look around every day, and that's not the end result I see for most people playing by society's relationship rules. Some guys discover that they're much happier "paying for it" in a much more direct kind of way (we're always paying in one form or another anyway), and there are plenty of other guys who would do themselves good if they recognized and accepted the same thing for themselves too. Instead, they remain shackled to the pressures of societal norms and expectations when it comes to finding sexual partners.

I know it's really hard to throw off those shackles, and it took me a long time to do so (middle age), but now I'm free of those limiting rules with respect to obtaining a lot of sex from women who I find to be sexually appealing, and I don't do it to impress anyone. You'll never see me all over YouTube flexing. I do it because it makes me happy, and I'm here because I enjoy being part of an anonymous community for sharing with other men who think and feel about it like I do. I don't pay because I have to. No, I pay because I want to, because I like paying for it! It makes me happy. I have a buddy who told me this makes me one strange cat! I think I'm just being free to be me. Hell, the way I see it, I'm not doing anything different from guys who enjoy great fame and / or fortune. They leverage their wealth in that to fuck pretty pussy. I'm doing the same damn thing. Leveraging my own personal wealth in a direct kind of way to fuck lots and lots of pretty women. When you break it all down, I just don't see a lot of difference in the end result.

[Orgasmico]

You're so right. These dudes brag about fucking chics and they are paying for it like that's something special.

P4P definitely isn't a Flex. Trying to make it a Flex is counter productive. It's about enjoying life; not trying to impress other dudes.

[GringoLoko]

You're so right. These dudes brag about fucking chics and they are paying for it like that's something special. Those are the ones that can't get pussy without paying for it. You want to impress me, tell me you fucked beyonce, Taylor or Rhianna for $100 or better yet, they paid you The first thing they will say, is neither of them are my type. SMH fellas, you are paying for pussy to girls that would never be with you if you didn't pay.

Everyone pays for pussy even married men. Marriage pussy is the most expensive.

[MisterJam]

It's a dumb mindset, usually by younger guys, or guys whose ego is wrapped up into getting women. "Your ego is not your amigo" when it comes to women.

I'm going thru a divorce right now. And I've spent more money to NOT fuck my wife the past few years, than I've ever spent on the dozens and dozens of pros and non-pros I've had in that same period of time. And some amazing, toe-curling orgasms were had.

I absolutely LOVE when they want money. Fucking love it. So long as we agree to the fee (per nut, per night, per week.) and everyone gets what they want, then it's all fair in my opinion. The worst thing to get is "free" pussy, because now she thinks she's entitled to your time, or your attention. I've had lots of no-pay pussy, and it always comes with strings and expectations.

Knowing I can exchange a few dollars and get what I want, and then I don't have to text her the next day, or talk to her ever again is so freeing. Nothing is ever so fucking annoying as the "you forgot about me" texts that some women will send you when you're not giving them attention. I remember the first time it clicked: a chick texted me at 9 a saying she needed money, I told her come get it. She showed at 10 a, drained 2 nuts out of me bareback, and by 12:30 p I was back checking emails and doing work. Never seen her since. And she was pretty enough that I'd happily be seen around town with her if we were "dating".

The truth is that, as much as many of you consider yourselves mongers, you also pedestalize these women. You can see it with the ratings you give them ("she was an 8", "she was a 9", etc) and how smug some of you sound when talking about bitches you're fucking for money. Not realizing she was licking on some fat 60 yo's balls right before he blew a load in her mouth the night before you got with her, all because he tossed $500 at her. Cheap money.

You're so right. These dudes brag about fucking chics and they are paying for it like that's something special. Those are the ones that can't get pussy without paying for it. You want to impress me, tell me you fucked beyonce, Taylor or Rhianna for $100 or better yet, they paid you The first thing they will say, is neither of them are my type. SMH fellas, you are paying for pussy to girls that would never be with you if you didn't pay.

[SubCmdr]

I am so tired of the women as victim and men as assholes mindset.

Is this why your are a International Trick while being so pro Dis United States of America, that you are critical of me of doing the same thing as you. Or do you have issues with me being a International Trick for other reasons?

One huge difference between Colombia and the USA is it does not pay to be a victim in Colombia, and I wish the USA had way more of that.

How does it pay to be a victim in the Dis United States of America?

About half the women in Colombia I met off seeking arrangement had jobs, and about one in four were in college. To me, the much bigger issue was how many Colombian people are so poor that few can think long term about anything. They are too busy struggling in the moment.

Is this why you have become a International Trick? Because the Prostitutes that you hire are harder working and better educated than the Prostitutes in the Dis United States of America?

Millions of people in the Dis United States of America are busting their ass in a system that has been rigged against them by individuals (description of those individuals redacted) who are on top of the system and taking advantage of everyone else. Why don't you support the hard working citizens of your home country?

I am a socialist?

[Elvis 2008]

Do you really think they like what they have to do to pay for their living expenses, kids and family.

If they were born in the USA, they wouldn't be doing this.

If you go to 5:46 in this video, you can see an American woman glamorizing her life as escort, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDg0yegADQw I am so tired of the women as victim and men as assholes mindset. One huge difference between Colombia and the USA is it does not pay to be a victim in Colombia, and I wish the USA had way more of that.

About half the women in Colombia I met off seeking arrangement had jobs, and about one in four were in college. To me, the much bigger issue was how many Colombian people are so poor that few can think long term about anything. They are too busy struggling in the moment.

As the above video shows, all relationships are transactional but now American women are coming right out and bragging about sugaring. What has shocked me is how many American women were down to sell their bodies once the shame was gone and the safety concerns were addressed. I only know of only one or two hot women who did not cash in on their looks. Colombian women are actually raised to be much more open about this than American women, but American women are catching up.

And the women as caring angels hooking for the good of the family and the men taking advantage and preying on these women is another myth that needs to die.

https://datingredpill.com/why-rich-w...SU2_qjNThqkD1w

Researchers analyzed the entire Danish population from 2004 to 2018. Instead of relying on opinions or surveys, they used real income and birth data.

The variable was simple: a permanent 5% increase in income. The results were striking! Men with a 5% pay raise became more likely to have children.

Women with the same raise became significantly less likely to have children. The effect was strongest among those under 30, right in the prime family-forming years.

Ever notice how many of these "doing it for the children" hookers have the latest iphone, makeup, or boob jobs?

[SubCmdr]

Being a Prostitute is no different from any other job. A Prostitute provided a service for a cost. No different than visiting your mechanic, doctor or lawyer.

We all have choices. Are we International Tricks out of desperation because we cannot get sex in or country of origin? We are all desperate right?

So instead we choose to get a passport, buy a airline ticket, book a hotel, buy food at our location of choice and hire prostitutes outside our country of origin.

[FutureDeadGuy]

You have to be really out of touch with reality to believe that. So throughout history women have only been hookers because there have never been jobs available that pay enough? What even is "enough?" When I was in college the Navy paid me $100/ month. I ate eggs and bacon for breakfast. For lunch I ate 2 tacos at Taco Bell for 98 cents and brought my own cup to steal the drink. For dinner I ate 2 hot dogs and ramen noodles. Was I making enough? That is both relative and subjective.

Are you listening to yourself? You do realize that some people quit jobs that are paying what could be considered "enough" in order to be hookers? Some people were meant to be hookers and some people like being hookers.

And people making a living working on the back of a garbage truck, or folks making a living cleaning offices, or people making a living changing shitty diapers in old folks homes, or people making a living waiting tables for rude ass customers are doing it because of why? We all have choices and the choices we make have positives and negatives. Maybe you could not deal with the negatives of one person's choices, while there are others that could not deal with the negatives of your choices. But they are probably not going around saying if it was not for "this certain reason" you would not have made the choice you made that led to a negative that they could not deal with. There are indeed different strokes for different folks.

Completely agree with you. I know hookers in the US that absolutely do it even though they have other options. I've had them tell me they could either put up with some shitty manager and customers doing retail, or make more in an hour fucking than they would in a week at retail. It's not always out of desperation, in fact, I'd say it's minority.

You are completely out of touch to believe what you wrote. These girls have very little to look forward to. There are no opportunities for them, no future, no JOBS.

Do you really think they like what they have to do to pay for their living expenses, kids and family.

If they were born in the USA, they wouldn't be doing this.

By the way, no one here cares about your college days and how the navy paid you $100 a month.

Why are you speaking for everyone? I'm interested. I think you're the delusional one here, with your all hookers are desperate victims bullshit.

[Mr Enternational]

You are completely out of touch to believe what you wrote. These girls have very little to look forward to. There are no opportunities for them, no future, no JOBS.

Do you really think they like what they have to do to pay for their living expenses, kids and family.

If they were born in the USA, they wouldn't be doing this.

So there are no hookers in the USA? Like I said, you are definitely out of touch if you believe that and everyone can see it from that statement you just made. And a lot of them travel around the world to make more money cleaning houses? No. It is to sell pussy! It appears that you have not been on Instagram lately if you are saying they have very little to look forward to. Because last time I saw them all on boats and private jets, and in front of the Eiffel Tower smiling their asses off.

[ChrisD1680]

The last women who did something for me without expecting anything in return were my mother, my aunts, and my sisters. Other than them, every woman I've ever interacted withespecially in a sexual natureexpected something back, whether it was time, money, or a favor. At this point in my life, I'm just not willing to agree to those terms anymore.

Maybe it's me, maybe it's my philosophy, or maybe it's my mindset but one thing I can tell you is that ever since I started paying for sex, no one has expected anything from me after it's over.

​I've had zero arguments with women, zero confrontations, and zero accusations. You are here to give me sex, I'm here to give you money, you go your way, and I go my way. An even swap is not a swindle.

​I don't know why men get so upset with other men who pay for sex. I had a wife, and at the end of the day, when she was tired of my ass, she was able to take me to the river and clean me out for everything I had at the time. Thank God I was able to bounce back.

​Like I said before, when a man pays for sex or when I pay for sex I no longer have to argue or debate with the woman. Once the deal is set and both parties agree, when the deed is done, she goes her way and I go mine.

​Please explain to me what the problem is with this. I can honestly say that ever since I started paying for sex, I no longer have disagreements with the opposite sex. They know what's expected, I know what's expected of me, and everything turns out fine. An even swap is no swindle. Stay vigilant. PN!

It's a dumb mindset, usually by younger guys, or guys whose ego is wrapped up into getting women. "Your ego is not your amigo" when it comes to women.

I'm going thru a divorce right now. And I've spent more money to NOT fuck my wife the past few years, than I've ever spent on the dozens and dozens of pros and non-pros I've had in that same period of time. And some amazing, toe-curling orgasms were had.

I absolutely LOVE when they want money. Fucking love it. So long as we agree to the fee (per nut, per night, per week.) and everyone gets what they want, then it's all fair in my opinion. The worst thing to get is "free" pussy, because now she thinks she's entitled to your time, or your attention. I've had lots of no-pay pussy, and it always comes with strings and expectations.

Knowing I can exchange a few dollars and get what I want, and then I don't have to text her the next day, or talk to her ever again is so freeing. Nothing is ever so fucking annoying as the "you forgot about me" texts that some women will send you when you're not giving them attention. I remember the first time it clicked: a chick texted me at 9 a saying she needed money, I told her come get it. She showed at 10 a, drained 2 nuts out of me bareback, and by 12:30 p I was back checking emails and doing work. Never seen her since. And she was pretty enough that I'd happily be seen around town with her if we were "dating".

The truth is that, as much as many of you consider yourselves mongers, you also pedestalize these women. You can see it with the ratings you give them ("she was an 8", "she was a 9", etc) and how smug some of you sound when talking about bitches you're fucking for money. Not realizing she was licking on some fat 60 yo's balls right before he blew a load in her mouth the night before you got with her, all because he tossed $500 at her. Cheap money.