Hyderabad / Andhra Pradesh

[JstaCoolGuy]

Bowenpally lady. Best to ignore please. Pretty pedestrian stuff.

Thank you for your suggestion.

[BabyKutu]

Hey guys, any suggestions on how to procure a burner phone number for mongering? How do you guys do it?

You can buy a burner however SIM has to be bought using your credentials my friend, unless you are traveling outside of India it is now very difficult to get a SIM without documentation.

[SturdyMan37]

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[Monger19]

Fellow mongers,

I have been a lurker for a long long time, couldn't really post anything so far since I've not been in India for last 6 years and use different websites here in states.

Although I have been pretty successful in finding good WGs of many ethnicities, I haven't had a chance to try proper desi / Telugu Indie.

I will be traveling to Hyderabad for a week next month and would wish to try out some local birds. Searches around the internet were not fruitful, and also not really looking to get scammed.

Hope you can help out a fellow monger with some Indie / SP contacts that are reliable (PM is open, recently got a subscription). I am more into experience rather than looks, and appreciative of true GFE.

Money is not an issue, but at the same time I will be making sure to keep the market rates in mind and not looking to overpay (thereby hurting all of us).

Though I am not in a position right now to reciprocate with contacts in Hyderabad, I can however share good contacts in northeastern states of US or Canada, if anyone is looking.

From the FRs I've read, I would really appreciate contacts of someone like 7 G or Mirrorwali who are more into experience.

Thank you!

[Grey666]

Hey guys, any suggestions on how to procure a burner phone number for mongering? How do you guys do it?

[KamalKhanan]

Hello bro,

Its common phenomenon in long term relationships and married life all peoples get bored with wife in certain time period and its happens with every one.

Men are from Mars and women are venus both think differently.

For men sex and love are different things, men can love wife soo much and still he can have sex with other women for his fantasy. For men having sex with other women is fun not love. But for women sex and love are not different and they have sex whom they love that's why soo much queral between men and women. In reality no women can understand men and no men cannot understand women..

What a philosophy!

You should apply for copyrights.

[SearchForLove]

Thank you BabyKutu, Markymark27, Sri5657, Sakku07, Ajay Lucky, Achilies, SureshRaj and all the brothers for your valuable time in sharing these suggestions.

Respect and love each of your opinion. All your suggestions definitely are a sigh of relief for my brain, which is struggling hard to make things work out for me.

After reading out everything that has been shared, I think it's equally important to share the outcome or the impact that I have had on my thought process (I can definitely ask this on quora, but I feel much better that I have asked this here).

Would pursue mongering when required and if I feel the need, without worrying about the other stuff, since I believe it would ease things.

As long as I love her, as you rightly pointed out; I feel this should not be a problem provided I only pursue this for fun and not for any relationship.

And thanks to the suggestion about sugar daddy concept, and clearing out. You are definitely right in sharing about expenses. For a second, may be I was thinking of a decent company; but time and effort does not make a good investment out there.

At place and all. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Will go with Indies first who have a place, and once I get there; I would go with hotels to avoid any second thoughts.

Thank you again for all your time, and sharing such valuable insights. While I won't bluff saying that I am 100% clear now, I can definitely say that you have made this sticky thought of cheating and all go away from my brain now, and I feel much better now.

Thanks again!

Bro,

Welcome to ISG family, let me take a stab at your below points. Firstly all of us end up in this forum to share experiences. Its takes a lot to come out in the open and share what's on your mind and seek advise, most of us do not come out so openly. Kudos Bro!

Firstly all married men in the forum do love their wives and there is no two ways about it. Period. That is not even a contentious question. However we seek out pleasures outside of spousal relationship is due to varied factors, mostly emotional security. Cheating or not. That's a personal view, in a way yes it tantamount to cheating whichever way you look at it. The need to seek out pleasure with a professional SW / WG is purely to satisfy our carnal desires driven by the need to explore and seek change. The issue is getting into a relationship outside of marriage which is disastrous, as long as it is pay..

[SureshRaj]

Hello mongers,

I am 27 married, and can't have a good sexual life because of lack of interest in my partner; and a medical condition she has.

Never ever in my life, I thought that something like this would happen since I had different plans for life. I am not requesting help for contacts since that would be so early to ask and don't think I am prepared as well mentally.

I have been looking for escort websites like scar*blue, dating and swinging sites like adult**be where some couples are OK with fwb for singles, sugar daddy sites like Seeking etc. I can find girls may be if I can try. But would really love your thoughts on the following:

1. I love my wife. But, I am human and have some needs as well which make me look for the kind of feelings in others. I am confused and I am unable to concentrate on work or anything for about 2 months thinking if I am cheating or doing something which I should not be. But, I could not resist my feelings as well. What can be done in a situation like this? How did you feel when you are about to meet a girl outside of your marriage?.

Question you need to ask yourself is, is this going to be a temporary condition where you can't indulge in sex with your partner, in which case ride it out or do something which strains you out like a heavy gym. But if this is not going to end any time soon, you need to think hard if that would be a acceptable situation for you to keep mongering outside feeling guilty since you are only 27, and clearly looking forward to sex.

[BabyKutu]

Hi guys,

Need your inputs on these independent birds if someone has tried.

Second one quoting 3 k but don't have a place.

First one, HW quoting 4 k 2st, have a place.

Bowenpally lady. Best to ignore please. Pretty pedestrian stuff.

[Cocobolo23]

Bro,

Welcome to ISG family, let me take a stab at your below points. Firstly all of us end up in this forum to share experiences. Its takes a lot to come out in the open and share what's on your mind and seek advise, most of us do not come out so openly. Kudos Bro!

Firstly all married men in the forum do love their wives and there is no two ways about it. Period. That is not even a contentious question. However we seek out pleasures outside of spousal relationship is due to varied factors, mostly emotional security. Cheating or not. That's a personal view, in a way yes it tantamount to cheating whichever way you look at it. The need to seek out pleasure with a professional SW / WG is purely to satisfy our carnal desires driven by the need to explore and seek change. The issue is getting into a relationship outside of marriage which is disastrous, as long as it is pay. Hump and go you should be fine..

Very well written bhai. It helped me too. Thanks.

[AceHole1]

I have been using the SA for some time. What I do is make an ID and take the trail membership for 7 days, searching in the location that I am travelling too and start chatting with people I like and then move the chat to kik or WhatsApp, all this in 7 days.

I don't upgrade to the monthly membership after the free trail has.

Expired, I just simply delete my account. When I am going to a new location again, I just recreat a new ID using the same email ID and avail the free trail again.

In SA once you delete your account all the data is deleted and when you make a new account using the same email you get the 7 days trail option again.

Rather than paying 89.99 $ I pay 24.99 $ for 7 days trail and create a new account when I am traveling after a few months.

Did they remove the 7 day trial option? Can't find it in the site.

[Achilies]

Hello mongers,

I am 27 married, and can't have a good sexual life because of lack of interest in my partner; and a medical condition she has.

Never ever in my life, I thought that something like this would happen since I had different plans for life. I am not requesting help for contacts since that would be so early to ask and don't think I am prepared as well mentally.

I have been looking for escort websites like scar*blue, dating and swinging sites like adult**be where some couples are OK with fwb for singles, sugar daddy sites like Seeking etc. I can find girls may be if I can try. But would really love your thoughts on the following:

1. I love my wife. But, I am human and have some needs as well which make me look for the kind of feelings in others. I am confused and I am unable to concentrate on work or anything for about 2 months thinking if I am cheating or doing something which I should not be. But, I could not resist my feelings as well. What can be done in a situation like this? How did you feel when you are about to meet a girl outside of your marriage?

2. If I find a contact or if a girl is interested, how can we proceed. Can we try apartment rentals like air* are they safe? I don't know if hotels can be a good bet. But in case hotels are to be booked; how to stay out of the society preying eyes and LE tensions?.

No one goes to coaching centre or do a course on mongering!!it's easy when you once start going but going in this way is rite? Or Wrong? This completely depends on your on conscience! I don't think it's wrong if you keep loving your wife and fulfilling her requirements and keeping her happy! But if you go over the board it can damage your personal life, do when you need don't make it as your need! All the best when it's come to place first go through profiles which has place after gaining some confidence you can book hotels not much of a problem if you choose good areas!

[AjayLucky]

Hello mongers,

I am 27 married, and can't have a good sexual life because of lack of interest in my partner; and a medical condition she has.

Never ever in my life, I thought that something like this would happen since I had different plans for life. I am not requesting help for contacts since that would be so early to ask and don't think I am prepared as well mentally.

I have been looking for escort websites like scar*blue, dating and swinging sites like adult**be where some couples are OK with fwb for singles, sugar daddy sites like Seeking etc. I can find girls may be if I can try. But would really love your thoughts on the following:

1. I love my wife. But, I am human and have some needs as well which make me look for the kind of feelings in others. I am confused and I am unable to concentrate on work or anything for about 2 months thinking if I am cheating or doing something which I should not be. But, I could not resist my feelings as well. What can be done in a situation like this? How did you feel when you are about to meet a girl outside of your marriage?

2. If I find a contact or if a girl is interested, how can we proceed. Can we try apartment rentals like air* are they safe? I don't know if hotels can be a good bet. But in case hotels are to be booked; how to stay out of the society preying eyes and LE tensions?

3. You may consider me a coward in getting started, and have no problem in thinking so. But these thoughts are running all over my mind where it says go have fun with a beautiful girl one time, and then back to the trauma of thinking that I am not genuine to the relationship..

Hello bro,

Its common phenomenon in long term relationships and married life all peoples get bored with wife in certain time period and its happens with every one.

Men are from Mars and women are venus both think differently.

For men sex and love are different things, men can love wife soo much and still he can have sex with other women for his fantasy. For men having sex with other women is fun not love. But for women sex and love are not different and they have sex whom they love that's why soo much queral between men and women. In reality no women can understand men and no men cannot understand women.

As per human physiology men are polygamy and women are monogamy.

Men sex center is mind and mind will get bored if we do repetitive things and its always having fantasy and exploring new things.

Don't worry your perfectly normal and it's all men's problem.

Once in a while having sex with other women it's good and meanwhile take care of your wife also.

Basically we have to balance both.

Don't think about cheating and morality this all created from our social suppression.

Do whatever you want and ensure your wife never know these things.

Almost 90% men do this things your not new and its happened always and it will happen always due to our social dogmas and suppressed thoughts.

I suggest you to start with Indies they are safe, they will have place less tension.

Enjoy your life. Cheers to join the league.

[Sakku07]

I'm not married, but I can kind of get what you're going through.

1. Tough to answer that, depends on person to person. But having a fling, just like a stressbuster, is kind of fine for me. There's hardly any emotional connect if it's a one time fling.

2. I'd prefer OYO. In Hyderabad, I can vouch for the ones around Hitech city, Kondapur or Madhapur areas.

3. Similar to 1.

Personally, I'd prefer to meet an indie / WG / SP over going to a spa. All the best! Don't overthink, just go with the flow and play safe.

Hello mongers,

I am 27 married, and can't have a good sexual life because of lack of interest in my partner; and a medical condition she has.

Never ever in my life, I thought that something like this would happen since I had different plans for life. I am not requesting help for contacts since that would be so early to ask and don't think I am prepared as well mentally.

I have been looking for escort websites like scar*blue, dating and swinging sites like adult**be where some couples are OK with fwb for singles, sugar daddy sites like Seeking etc. I can find girls may be if I can try. But would really love your thoughts on the following:

1. I love my wife. But, I am human and have some needs as well which make me look for the kind of feelings in others. I am confused and I am unable to concentrate on work or anything for about 2 months thinking if I am cheating or doing something which I should not be. But, I could not resist my feelings as well. What can be done in a situation like this? How did you feel when you are about to meet a girl outside of your marriage?

2. If I find a contact or if a girl is interested, how can we proceed. Can we try apartment rentals like air* are they safe? I don't know if hotels can be a good bet. But in case hotels are to be booked; how to stay out of the society preying eyes and LE tensions?

3. You may consider me a coward in getting started, and have no problem in thinking so. But these thoughts are running all over my mind where it says go have fun with a beautiful girl one time, and then back to the trauma of thinking that I am not genuine to the relationship.

Things have been going real bad, and I am totally confused as to what is happening. Afraid of meeting a psychiatrist since such discussion would make people judge.

Thought this forum is a place for similar people who pursue mongering out of many reasons. In case you can share any advice, I would really appreciate as to how to get started without thoughts running in mind that I am doing something wrong.

And, also please suggest some spa in Hyderabad where I can go without any stress in mind, weird looks of reception or LE tension; and get some good massage from a female. May be that is the right way for me to start?

Have seen seniors suggesting O2, cloudvi in some threads. Please confirm.

Looking forward for your advice, and thank you for taking your time and sharing any inputs.

[Sri5657]

I have been through what you are experiencing now. I suggest you to reach out for some counselling as it really helps. Don't worry about someone being judgmental, it's for your own goos. All the best.

Hello mongers,

I am 27 married, and can't have a good sexual life because of lack of interest in my partner; and a medical condition she has.

Never ever in my life, I thought that something like this would happen since I had different plans for life. I am not requesting help for contacts since that would be so early to ask and don't think I am prepared as well mentally.

I have been looking for escort websites like scar*blue, dating and swinging sites like adult**be where some couples are OK with fwb for singles, sugar daddy sites like Seeking etc. I can find girls may be if I can try. But would really love your thoughts on the following:

1. I love my wife. But, I am human and have some needs as well which make me look for the kind of feelings in others. I am confused and I am unable to concentrate on work or anything for about 2 months thinking if I am cheating or doing something which I should not be. But, I could not resist my feelings as well. What can be done in a situation like this? How did you feel when you are about to meet a girl outside of your marriage?

2. If I find a contact or if a girl is interested, how can we proceed. Can we try apartment rentals like air* are they safe? I don't know if hotels can be a good bet. But in case hotels are to be booked; how to stay out of the society preying eyes and LE tensions?.