Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Mad Hatter]

Thanks for your encouraging words. I have had come close to finding SBs but it hasn't materialised yet.

My question to you and others who have been successful is how long did it take for you to find your first genuine SB?

It's been 3 months for me (subscribed twice) - I don't know whether I should persist or not.

Thanks.

Outside India the hit rate was about 1 out of every 3 girls that I would meet. By that I mean, 1 out of every 3 girls checked the right boxes. I would have ended up sleeping with all 3 of the girls. But to actively spend time with regularly, it was about 1 out of every 3 on average.

In India, the hit rate is closer to 1 out of every 5/6 girls. The problem in India is getting to the meeting stage. This is due to all the problems with low class women, scammers, pimps ets. Essentially, thanks to us wonderful Indians, we tend to ruin every good thing we have.

[FunForSandy]

Sunshine. Profile looked good. Chatted well and suddenly blocked me after I shared my pics (she asked for pics). I am above average in looks and height. And I am fit. Probably a time passer.

Dhanya: claims to be in Coimbatore. Says has a real estate business. I smell scam.

Fiercevenus looks genuine though the profile pic is fake. Does anyone have any feedback about her?

[FunForSandy]

I have been going through the past few pages of Seeking. For anyone jumping on board, this forum is just all doom and gloom.

To all these punters, I just want to say, there is a silver lining.

What you see here, are mainly profiles that are bad. Most good profiles are not shared because that goes against the very nature of a SB.

A good SB is someone who has a career, is classy, NOT a WG and can become a friend.

I know, I have met a few and have a few regulars / friends that I can call on. I will not share these contacts because, they are not WGs, they are SBs. They themselves do not want me to share their contact. And as importantly, I don't want to share their contacts because it could ruin a good thing (either through too many arrangements, increasing prices, or bad behaviour by punters. This is a seriously big problem).

So when you go through the forum you will automatically think that situation is bad in India. The truth is, India is not as good as Asia, Africa or Europe in seeking. But there are gems that can be had with a bit of work and some common sense.

Use this forum as a guide on how to approach SBs and which profiles to avoid.

Do not be disheartened by the moaning of old farts like myself and others. We yearn for a better time that only exists in the fog of nostalgia.

Thanks for your encouraging words. I have had come close to finding SBs but it hasn't materialised yet.

My question to you and others who have been successful is how long did it take for you to find your first genuine SB?

It's been 3 months for me (subscribed twice) - I don't know whether I should persist or not.

Thanks.

[Mad Hatter]

I have been going through the past few pages of Seeking. For anyone jumping on board, this forum is just all doom and gloom.

To all these punters, I just want to say, there is a silver lining.

What you see here, are mainly profiles that are bad. Most good profiles are not shared because that goes against the very nature of a SB.

A good SB is someone who has a career, is classy, NOT a WG and can become a friend.

I know, I have met a few and have a few regulars / friends that I can call on. I will not share these contacts because, they are not WGs, they are SBs. They themselves do not want me to share their contact. And as importantly, I don't want to share their contacts because it could ruin a good thing (either through too many arrangements, increasing prices, or bad behaviour by punters. This is a seriously big problem).

So when you go through the forum you will automatically think that situation is bad in India. The truth is, India is not as good as Asia, Africa or Europe in seeking. But there are gems that can be had with a bit of work and some common sense.

Use this forum as a guide on how to approach SBs and which profiles to avoid.

Do not be disheartened by the moaning of old farts like myself and others. We yearn for a better time that only exists in the fog of nostalgia.

[NaughyBoy]

Arey itna Sannata kyon hai Bhai? This forum quite since last 2 days.

[Phil50]

My paid sub is ending. Feedback on a few profiles before I sign off.

ScarletCharming: If the pics are her, she is the model she says she is. Chats well. Wants 30 k for a couple of hours.

A profile in the same league (pics, quality of chat) was Hadid, who has been discussed. She is also at 30 k. They both seem to know what to quote, so this is probably the top end in quality / price among the be'lore profiles.

Abhi. Andhra girl, Profile says 25 years, looks older, 15 k.

Vinu. Met her. Looks good but a waste of time, unsure about the SA thing and not really looking for someone. She's into makeup / small time modelling, not in IT / Biotech as she conveyed in her chat.

Afsu. Wants platonic only.

New profile Rithika (with good pics) is now Krithika (22 why. O Delhi girl in the description). Pics can be traced to someone else's insta account.

The reason for all the fake profiles are probably a 'bait & switch' tactic. If one has booked the hotel and wants some action, you are less likely to turn down a reasonably passable girl, who does not match the profile pics.

Brightseductress: Wants virtual 'at first'. I don't think there will be anything more than virtual.

[FunForSandy]

Her pic is very interesting! The overall pic is of a Korean influencer whose pic is on Instagram. However, an Indian face has been morphed onto the body. This can be easily done in face swap websites. Nice catch Sandy here is the original image.

https://images.app.goo.gl/6JtUkpQd5fDrmnVb6

Good catch by you Christmas. I just had the inkling that something was off, had no idea that girls / scammers / SPs have progressed to this level.

Thanks man.

[ScubaDo]

Her pic is very interesting! The overall pic is of a Korean influencer whose pic is on Instagram. However, an Indian face has been morphed onto the body. This can be easily done in face swap websites. Nice catch Sandy here is the original image.

https://images.app.goo.gl/6JtUkpQd5fDrmnVb6

Woah! I need to learn your still at this.

[Christmas Tre]

Hello guys,

Any feedback on her:

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...5-b3a782bafbfe

Thanks.

Her pic is very interesting! The overall pic is of a Korean influencer whose pic is on Instagram. However, an Indian face has been morphed onto the body. This can be easily done in face swap websites. Nice catch Sandy here is the original image.

https://images.app.goo.gl/6JtUkpQd5fDrmnVb6

[NaughyBoy]

You have beard? Then you qualify as per her bio.

Hello guys,

Any feedback on her:

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...5-b3a782bafbfe

Thanks.

[SfoCowboy]

I've been very particular about not getting too much into mentorship or into the personal life of any girl. Give basic gyan that you make your choice and I'll support etc but I don't get involved. The only time was helping this girl with her SOP flow and interview prep. Not made any recommendations or offered any internships.

I would agree with FunforSandy. These cases are an exception.

The women you describe are exactly the kind I have platonic dates with. For 6 k.

One of them, who I met when she turned 18, could communicate better than I did. Wrote poetry and newspaper columns in 2 languages. She runs a consulting firm abroad while still in her 20's and can interact with cabinet ministers, or CEOs.
Another had a net worth higher than mine and a knowledge of western cities, art, culture, fine dining etc way higher than mine.
Both were far better looking than the average person on SA who asks 20 k.
I'm single. If I want someone who can understand me like a spouse, I have a travel partner in her 40's (in better shape than SA girls half her age) who does not even expect compensation for a platonic date. It is these kind of finds that had made SA attractive, but like I've been saying, finding such gems is rare..

[Garam Hawa]

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[FunForSandy]

Hello guys,

Any feedback on her:

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...5-b3a782bafbfe

Thanks.

[Phil50]

I didn't mean any disrespect. It is just slightly farfetched. If he is pulling it off, then kudos to him. There is lots to learn.

In my professional career, I have never heard of successfull female startup founders meeting old men for 6 k for platonic dates. They can definitely meet to acquire more funding / open gates / gain access. But 6 k? I don't think that happens. But hey, if they say that happens, then so be it.

I don't have any proof to refute that. So I will pause this discussion here.

You've mixed different people with different time frames, to reach an entirely wrong conclusion.
I have mentioned the background of these girls to make the point that even they are not the type who will get 50 k for a platonic date. Nor do they need SA today.

Person 1 - I met her when she was 18, 10 years ago. She was and is, an excellent writer and poet. I've been a mentor on platonic dates during her undergrad (no payment but picked up the odd expense) and wrote a seminal policy paper with her, which helped her get admission into one of the top Univ's in the US. That's when our dating ended, though we remain in touch. She moved to one of the world's leading think tanks on foreign policy and has now set up her own firm in the US.
Perhaps if you and I get to the stage of having a beer together, I'll share her name and you can google not just her background, but the articles we jointly published.

Person 2 - Is someone I've been seeing for the last 6 years and I also met when in college. She has set up her own small business (along with her regular job). I mentioned it to illustrate that she's smart and not your typical WG on SA. It would be creating the wrong impression to say 'startup founder'. In fact, I'm helping her pitch for a small grant for women entrepreneurs, which will be her only external funding. Real startup founders pay me for the same advice.
She comes from the same community as Ash Rai, so it is possible to have the same features, light hair, eyes and figure.

Our last platonic date involved attending a quiz at our local pub. I was a keen quizzer in my college days, but am not in touch with the music and popular culture of recent years, as she is.
She's not into quizzing so it was a new experience and a thrilling moment for her when we won (thanks to 3 questions she knew). The 6k was incidental, as the experience worth a lot more
to her than getting paid 3 X for sex. I feel good when, being the oldest guy in the pub, I'm with the hottest girl, who proudly introduced me to her friends.
Platonic date to me is not paying a pretty girl to sit next to me when I have a beer.

I was fortunate to have met them at a stage where I could make a good contribution to their lives, and in the brief period they were on SA. Such people have no reason to be on SA for long,
which is why I avoid those that have. These long term relationships involved being there when they needed support, getting back after a break up and doing things we're both excited about.

I mention this not to boast (I've also spoken of stupid mistakes) but share what worked for me in a long term relationship. Namely:

- Find common interests.
- Can you enrich her life in a way that goes beyond money.
- Are you genuinely excited to be with each other.

[FunForSandy]

I didn't mean any disrespect. It is just slightly farfetched. If he is pulling it off, then kudos to him. There is lots to learn.

In my professional career, I have never heard of successfull female startup founders meeting old men for 6 k for platonic dates. They can definitely meet to acquire more funding / open gates / gain access. But 6 k? I don't think that happens. But hey, if they say that happens, then so be it.

I don't have any proof to refute that. So I will pause this discussion here.

Appreciated buddy.