2005 Bombay (Mumbai) Reports

[Deep Wet]

make her squirm,

then make her squirt:

female ejaculation

when it comes to turning a woman on, there’s wet, and then there’s wet. you can learn how to unleash a tidal wave of orgasmic juices in your bed.

females ejaculate? yes, they do. i'm talking about a gusher of fluid spurting out of her pussy as she comes. actually, to be more accurate, the fluid comes squirting out of her urethra. don’t let this gross you out, though; it’s not [CodeWord134]! female cum is a clear, odorless liquid produced by a small organ called the “female prostate,” or urethral sponge, which is located between the urethra and vagina. the fluid it produces just happens to come out of the [CodeWord134] hole, but...so does guys’ semen, right?

while some women may experience ejaculation naturally in the course of intercourse or other sex play, most require some concentrated stimulation of the g-spot. massaging the g-spot causes the urethral sponge to become engorged with fluid, which is then expelled during orgasm. and, as with an orgasm, ejaculation also requires the woman to “let go.” before ejaculating, the woman will feel as though she is going to [CodeWord134]. however, it is nearly impossible for her to [CodeWord111] while coming, because the muscular contractions of orgasm close off the bladder and prevent the passage of [CodeWord109].

use your hands

the most reliable way to induce female ejaculation is by manual stimulation. lay a towel on the bed before you begin (the amount of fluid released can be considerable). make sure your hands are clean and your nails well trimmed. get into a comfortable position between her legs, as achieving ejaculation can take half an hour or more. use lube if necessary to get started or in case she starts to feel dry.

find the g-spot

begin by stroking or licking her clit to get her aroused. once she begins to get turned on, insert two fingers, palm side up, into her vagina. about an inch to two inches inside the vaginal entrance, you should feel a round, roughened area on the front wall. this is the g-spot. stroke against this area using firm pressure. it should enlarge and begin to feel more solid. try touching or licking her clit as you manipulate the g-spot. follow her responses and pace yourself to prolong her period of arousal; the more time she’s aroused, the more juice is building up in there.

the urge to [CodeWord111]

as she gets closer to coming, she will start to feel as though she has to [CodeWord111]. that’s the cum beginning to flow into her urethra. in order for her ejaculate, she has to relax, let go, and push down and out with the same muscles she would use as if she were peeing. it may be hard to overcome the impulse to hold back, but you can reassure her, again, that if she is coming, she will not [CodeWord134].

instead, as she comes and pushes the fluid out, she should feel extra intense orgasmic pleasure, and you should be rewarded with a spurt of nectar that may range from gentle gush to a drenching spray.

hints and tips

attaining female ejaculation may take some practice and experimentation. you may find it easier to stimulate her g-spot if she gets on her hands and knees and you enter her from behind, pressing down on the g-spot instead of up. for more information and demonstrations, you can also check out fanny fatale’s video “how to female ejaculate,” which features women masturbating to ejaculation. as a woman gets more familiar with ejaculation and the sensations associated with it, it should be easier for her to achieve.

[Starchild2012]

LTL,

Wow, Cool Down Dude, It feels like we got to explore, lets meet up, after comng from Hyd, we could Rock mumbai together, as the fields are getting narrower each passing day, we could have done it much earlier, you were right .

Went to Sheetal Bar in chembur, No options left, It must be one of the Worst bar's in mumbai, filled with capacity crowd as no one has no were to go, babes are good lookin with "atiitudes", but the way the bar is managed, Its must have being dead by now, some how its one the oldest bar in mumbai, the seats are all rusted, no cushioning done for ages, only one air-conditiioning for 100 people, yet guys flock in 100's . some girls are taken the moment they step in, there are "regular", customers, as in they get bond with the bar.

Thought enough is enough, so i need to move on and explore, what's with the raid rumour on saturdays, so went to another one named hOTSpot its in chembur, you could see the bar near the shivaji statue in mumbai-pune road near deonar.

Beer was cheap 180, no pushy waiters, and the best thing it was all empty and the AC was turned on, very spacious, nice seating and lighting arrangements. Thought whats wroung in here, it has got everything yet no one's up here, got the answer right away, when i called up a girl, there was instant reaction, No touching or seating with a girl, just watch the dance, you can't gel in with the girl, like a prisnor, you can only give money or request from the your cage.

Thats it, well, Man has never got everything he ever desired. Just kept on staring and still staring untill, the bill arrrived, and waved good bye to the girls, hopefully to never return.

[Love The Ladies]

Where is there any places in Virar?
That place is very very different and very small.
Its poor, so it seems like the girls would be cheap.
But was there any place there before the raid?
LTL

[Santa3]

Ok folks for all those not in the loop. Bombay, Vashi and Thane is open as far as the Dance / Pick-up bars are concerned. Belapur, Panvel onwards is completely shut down. Now, an interesting development. Dahisar is open even after the checkpost folks. But after that upto Virar everything is shut. Sorry folks, for those who used to visit Mira Road, Bhayander areas.

But my 2 pence thoughts. This is just part of a larger picture. And eventually things will be back to normal. But it might take some time though! Till then its the private networks back on action. lol

LTL, That wildcat that you had inquired about is back in my loop !

[Uncle 35]

Please be noted that all bars outside th municipal limits of mumbai are closed officially. Meaning even if they are open and one takes a chance/risk of going there and in the event of a raid [which is more likely on saturday nights ...as the courts are closed on sundays and the police get more time to harrass you & extract more money] you can be in trouble.

Municipal limits are : till mulund .... till borivili .... till mankurd [just before vashi ] .....which means all bars in vashi / panvel / belapur / dahisar.

In fact all patrons going to bars outside borovili to dahisar like red horse / millenium / milli ect are coming to borivili dance bars .. Ref the article below published in mid-day [local newspaper] which will give a clear picture.
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Bars still open due to official confusion

April 7, 2005

A week after home minister RR Patil announced that dance bars outside Mumbai will be shut down, Thane is still gyrating to the beats of Dhoom Machale.

The reason is that there is still confusion over which bars in the city should be included in the home ministry‘s ban. According to the original plan, bars in Thane district were to be shut and the ones in Thane city were to remain open.

However, authorities say they are confused about the plan of action and don’t know which bars to shut. The government still has to issue an official notification demarcating the areas that fall under Thane district and the ones that are part of the city. And since the police hasn’t received any notification, they aren’t taking action.

Ravindra Shetty, a bar owner in Thane and a member of the Thane Bar and Restaurant Association, says, “There has been some confusion over which areas in Thane are to be included in the ban. The home ministry has now sent the proposal to the law department at Mantralaya and thus the ban has not been implemented.”

He adds, “As of now bars in Thane are allowed to be open till 1.30 am. After the government issues a notification, cops can shut them down. But before that they cannot do anything.”

According to Shetty, there are around 57 dance bars in Thane and more than 60,000 people will lose their livelihood if the government enforces the ban. These include bar dancers and waiters who serve food apart from the people who own and manage bars.

An official at the home ministry says that the proposal has been sent for examination to the law department and that an official notification will be issued soon.

An official from the Thane police headquarters says, “We haven’t taken any action against the bars because we are waiting for the government’s notification. Once we get that we will implement the decision.”

60,000
The number of people in Thane who will be affected by the ban

57
The total number of registered dance bars in Thane
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Borivli dance bars predict windfall

April 6, 2005

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The government’s decision last week to shut down all dance bars outside Mumbai may be the best news in recent times for Borivli dance bars, reports Borivli Metro.

The ruling has not been put into force yet, owing strong to opposition. But if it is eventually enforced, Borivli’s dance bars will enjoy a huge increase in business (up to 20 per cent), as the ban will apply to nearby Mira Road, Dahisar and Bhayandar.

“We are expecting a significant increase in the number of customers. People who frequent bars in Thane district will come to us, as we are closest,” said an employee of Ladlee Dance Bar at M G Road, Borivli (E).

“Approximately 60 people visit each dance bar every day. This figure would go up by at least 15,” estimates Manjunath Shetty, manager of Club 9 on M G Road, Borivli (E).

However, other suburban dance bars do not share the enthusiasm of Borivli dance bar owners.

“The customers Mira Road bars attract are very different from ours. The bars on this side of town are not pick-up joints, so customers will not come so far only to watch girls dancing,” said Rakesh Sharma, manager, Jharna Bar and Restaurant.
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[Mrpusa]

Hi All, (Meaning SAnta, HK GUY, Love the Ladies, Born Loser, etc)
Could you guys update those of us who reside abroad, NRI, ex-pats,
westerners, etc as to the effect of the ban on places in Belapur, ex. Nigthingales and Manorama, in Daishar ex, Red Horse and of course Panvel, ex. Gopitka and Sun City etc as to the status of getting any. Is it business as usual (though a bit slow) or are they actually closed! Armed with this information, we can act accordingly or by-pass these establishments altogether!! Thanks! Forwarned is Forarmed!!

[Lover01]

I had this unfortunate experience and thought I must share it with you. Needed some company and called a MP from the TOI classifieds. The deal was struck at 5 K and a girl came came from the suburbs. her name is 'Simran' and she calls herself a model. Collected the money upfront. Extremely bad service. Wouldnt like to smooch as she has misgivings. Wouldnt let you touch her boobs. Got so irritated that I packed her off. The MP didnt take responsibility too. Hence be careful and strike a deal after clarifying all issues.

[Love The Ladies]

I'm not sure if we haven't met the smartest guy in India or the world.
Dude, we have to meet. Either to monger or to make millions. Your choice.

Anyhow, I agree with Yogesh to a point. Yet the Mumbai Dance bars are fairly regulated and more about (indian style) eroticness compared to out right flesh trade.
I have yet to be laid at a dance bar. Either the prices are too high, or my lack of hindi (i get the numbers, but can't do anything with them) or the deceitfulness by the girls. Plus, the cops sit outside them at closing time and you have to meet the girl in a rickshaw somewhere down the street if you are to meet. Or get her cell and call her at some other time.
Now, the service bars are a bit easier to get a piece of tail at.

Yogesh, it would be nice for it to be legalized. Yet, it would never happen. The funny thing is. Prostitution is soooo widely accepted here!!! Now, I"m comparing this to america where paying for sex is HIGHLY taboo. Its just an accepted part of life in Mumbai. Yet since sex is such a "dirty" subject. It won't be legalized, yet will continue to happen. Now, as Yogesh pointed out. Disease and Aids will continue to run rampant because of this ignorance of the society and the greed of the politicians.

Guys, if sex were legal to trade here, I would be the first to throw up a sex bar and do all the things Yogesh pointed out. (great music, decor, disease free women, great service from the women, teaching women the value of condoms, educating the women so they be productive members of the society after their bodies wear out. (age 28 or so they are no longer useful) Yet if we get them reading english and speaking well, they can work in a call center and make 10K per month or some other productive work.)


Anyhow, if this country were as straight forward as western society, your businesses would boom. Yet deceitfulness and cunning is part of your way.
Its sad, but as Loser said, India is about taking (when it comes to business and politics) Trust is incredibly hard to build here. Thus, big business is very tricky here. And running a brothel would even be trickier. Though I would freely share my profits with the government. Questions though. Would the girls be subject to VAT tax.
LTL

Wish, it was true, If we had such an open mind toward sex and our society was so considerate and sensitive on "issues", Do you think we would still be a third world country, we could have beaten this world it self by now, if we had the kind of spirit you are talking about, so straight forward, simple and powerful.

It just shows the attitude of the whole society, not just in case of sexual legalisation, but in all areas of governance.

!! Remember The Golden Rule Folks, Indians Are Takers Not Givers !!

[Green Fun]

Yogesh,

Stakes of politicians and police is too high for this business to close or get legalised. Both ways they stand to loose. This is an arm twisting tool to get some money out from the industry. There are other factors like shifting of business to Panvel or Vashi suburbs has hit the business in main Mumbai. This might have prompted this move.

[Starchild2012]

Yogesh,

Wish, it was true, If we had such an open mind toward sex and our society was so considerate and sensitive on "issues", Do you think we would still be a third world country, we could have beaten this world it self by now, if we had the kind of spirit you are talking about, so straight forward, simple and powerful.

It just shows the attitude of the whole society, not just in case of sexual legalisation, but in all areas of governance.

!! Remember The Golden Rule Folks, Indians Are Takers Not Givers !!

[Your Guest]

Hey folks,

We have had a representative of the bar girls complaining that the closure of bars would force the bar girls into the flesh trade.!!!??? Friends what are they in now?

This ban on bars isn't a gimmick hopefully. The only thing that our law makers should understand is that banning is no solution, it only further criminalises the trade.

I suggest,

1. Legalise the trade.

2. Give licenses to the operaters and tax them.

3. Give licenses to the women with regular health checks and tax them.

4. Pump the money from the licenses into regulating the trade, only licensed operaters and licensed women should be allowed to function.

5. This I think would make the trade safer in terms of health for the women and their customers, security for the women preventing their exploitation from pimps, goons and cops and peace of mind for the customers too.

6. Legalising would have these bars competiting with each other to provide the best, the best service, the best music, the best decor, disease free women etc.

What say folks?

Yogesh

[Bombay Guy]

Has anyone tried women through the classified ads for massage services in the Times of India. In case anybody has, could they post their experience(s).

[Starchild2012]

The new tone coming from Home Ministry, the bars outside mumbai, can remain open, but the girls can only serve, they can't dance.

Ysterday most of the bars in the area were open, but with fear of raids, so business were low.

Ministry has to pass a law to take effect and that would go in the sate assembly, expect some six months to get anything closer to law.

So for the time being its business as usual, looks like the shettys too got some tricks in their hands.

[HK Guy]

LTL,

What happened was very routine, minister/politician makes anouncement threatening to ban service/product, and hints or sends message to industry association to come and "settle" matter (usually tabacco, beer bar are usually victim). Here also same happened. When minister sent message to Mr Sethi who represented bar owners and asked for Rs.12 crore (approx 2.5 million US$), all they had to do was pay up or not pay up and negotiate.

Here this guy referred to this demand in media, and that is never tolerated by politicians, so Home minister sent his goons (read NCP activists) to do scene outside Karishma bar.

Also once u mention in media that u r asked for money to settle matter by politician, you force that minister to ban the product and not settle matter as not banning it would prove he asked for money. So it seems Sethi shot his own foot.

Every year new bribe/license fees are added on this industry which explains why things cost so much. If you spend Rs.1000 at bar and girl, chances are upto Rs.500 goes to cops and our beloved leaders who keep our youth from being corrupted.

In 3-4 days matter would be settled as Mr Sethi would be replaced by someone else as representative who would say no such demand was made and money would change hands (Rs.10 crore or so) and minister would say they would permit bar but would be strictly enforcing law etc...

If you want to read above in newspaper, read.. Minister found dance bar outside mumbai corrupt youth and some youth even steal/kill for this, but dance bar in mumbai don't seem to be corrupting youth so he didn't see reason to ban them (or atleast wanted some committe of bureaucrats to study if mumbai bars are corrupting youth).

LTL,

Thanks Buddy,
Its horrible, horrible and horrible , see the game, yesterday, the NCP activist, shouted slogans in front of the bar in dadar, which is owned by the president of the bar association and they damaged some property and abused him.

Whts the reaction, he decides, instead of closing down the bar as decided earlier, lets just open it to show our strength, hahahaha, too smart, Mr, manjit singh, you done it again, so all the crack talk, earlier of storming his home, with all mumbai bar girls, gone down the drain.

Plan executed to perfection.

Today his statments in newspapers speak's for itself, he has decided to call of strike earlier planned for 2nd april due to vandalising his bar and other bar in the area by the NCP activists, so instead of closing down, they have decided to open the bar.

As we were never aware of it, Mr. singh, you are too smart,

[On Road]

LTL,

Today his statments in newspapers speak's for itself, he has decided to call of strike earlier planned for 2nd april due to vandalising his bar and other bar in the area by the NCP activists, so instead of closing down, they have decided to open the bar.

As we were never aware of it, Mr. singh, you are too smart,

Good hunting guys!

This was well planned, they (Govt.) wanted to create a facton between the Beer Bar association of Mumbai and outside mumbai and they got it.

It was well executed plan.

But I guess things will be back to ormal in few months.

The brighter side (or pathetic side) is the earlier beer bar girls (who were in to prostitution) will come much cheaper/easy, but only if you know the right people..its going back to old black marketing days.