GF Experience in Bangalore

[GF Experience]

A call girl or escort is not a sex worker in Bangalore who is not visible to the general public; nor does she usually work in an institution like a brothel, although she may be employed by an agency. The client must make an appointment, usually by calling a telephone number. Call girls often advertise their services in small ads in magazines and via the Internet, although an advertiser, such as an escort agency, may be involved in promoting more High profile escorts, while some may be handled by a Service Provider Call girls may work either incall, where the client comes to her place, or outcall where they go to the client's place.

The total number of Call Girls in Bangalore is not known. Some estimates state that there are more than 60,000 women and girls in prostitution in Bangalore.

According to some sources the most common form of trafficking consists in offering false promises or some offer of help out of a dead-end or crisis situation, force is used later after the call girl have already been sold."Mashis (brothel owners / older sex workers) use friendship, sympathy, also veiled threats to convince the women that it is now in their best interest to conform and begin working.

Celebrities and very wealthy men sometimes hire call girls for sex to avoid the problem of unreasonable infatuation, where their partner is unreasonably attracted to them (and won't let go of the relationship or accept refusal) because of their status. It also avoids the problem of "kiss and tell" stories, where the girl would sell the story to the press. Both parties understand their respective positions and do not go beyond them. Some of these people are even open about what their date is to those they're partying with, though call girls request they not be. Usually, the client will first hire the escort for a short date to determine if he or she wants to do longer ones with her. Here again, the escort's appearance, intelligence, manners, sociability and education also come into consideration. For some wealthy clients, these dates evolve into long-standing arrangements that more closely resemble keeping a mistress.

Some take up this profession because it is a way of making money while enjoying the pleasure of sex with different partners. Recently men have also jumped into these businesses, and provide sexual services to women. Some wealthy women who live far away from their husbands, or who like to have sex but lack partners, hire men for sex.

Most call girl agencies and independent call girls have their own websites. The internet has become the main medium through which customers find their desired escort. Generally, a picture of the girl is provided, and sometimes, the type of sexual services she is willing to offer. Some agencies also propose a higher fee for people of special interest.

AFAIK, Naidu1, BangaloreNikhi as well as BangaloreBoys are all fake IDs created by a pimp named Sanjay Shetty, who has created several websites / blogs / facebook pages dedicated to promoting his delusional vision for his pseudo-organization"

Guys, please stay away from this phony!

[GF Experience]

RETIREMENT AND SEX WORKERS. AUNTY SEX

Seasoned Gals.

What happens when prostitutes grow older? Well, in some cases, they get wiser. These veteran hookers say they're still in the game, and what's more, their clientele is still young.

TODAY, Revathy part of the core team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience is in excruciating pain. As she sits awkwardly back onto the sofa, covered in an elaborate, faded brown rug, the tall, sinuous-looking woman takes a deep and noticeable breath. The pinched nerve, shooting spasms of pain along the span of her back, is an irksome inconvenience-she has already had to reschedule a client.

At first glance, Revathy appears somewhat androgynous. A dramatic-looking lady in her Saree, she looks like either an incredibly handsome woman or an ingeniously talented drag queen. Her ample chest, tucked into a maroon Blouse, seems at odds with straight hips and a sensuous voice as gruff as gravel being dragged through mud.

At 39 years old, Revathy has seen it all. Her face lends several clues. Wrinkles gather around a generous mouth used to chain-smoking, insults, begging for dope,

Revathy is still a working girl, a working woman, a semi-retired street prostitute who pulls tricks, a professional who, quite frankly, enjoys her job. She started out in her "10s. 11s. 12s" and, some four decades later, she's as much on her game as any woman who has built a skill set over a lifetime. What's more, her expertise attracts young men, clients who are looking for a mature professional who's well-schooled and well-trained.

"In Mumbai, I got INR 20, 000 / one night. That was cool," she says casually. Revathy took the city of Mumbai to court last year after the police wrongfully strip-searched her. She won and took a vacation on the settlement."He was in his 30s and real cute. We put on a couple of videos, lay on the bed and massaged each other, had sex and that was it. It was real nice."

In Bangalore, Revathy came across several brothels specifically for older prostitutes."I met a 70-year-old hooker when I was in Bangalore," she says, her voice lowering in admiration."She was fine, you know. 70 years old. Not bad." At 39, Revathy doesn't exactly shirk the age thing-she knows she's slowing down-but, not one to cater to expectations, she simply sees aging as better business." (Older prostitutes) can talk, we can get a conversation going and we're willing to spend the time," she says."Some guys want mature women who aren't going to rip them off. So there's an advantage both ways."

Please Mr. Please.

IN Nandhni's DAY, there were five times as many prostitutes in Mumbai as there are today. During that early 2001, prostitutes were proficient teachers providing sexual initiation for young boys, who filled the local brothels on half days and holidays. A great way, it could be said, to spend a kid's lunch money.

Coming from Mumbai, a place where the sexy older woman historically exists, Nandhini, a somewhat gamine. 52-year-old prostitute, has that dry English with that lends an intellectual twist to her musings. Becoming a prostitute at 22, Nandhini saw her career change as a political move. When she picks up the telephone, a harsh, morning voice, deepened by nicotine, greets me, requesting me to phone her back-on my dime.

"I think what age gives you, regardless of what you do, is grounding wisdom and acceptance of human foibles," she says."I don't think age is a disability. Of course, I wish I looked 20 years younger, but I've gained other things." Those "other things," professionally speaking, as Nadhini touts them in her online ad on caigslist. Com, are giving "joy, integrity and compassion" to her clients. Or, as Nandhini puts it in person,"being older, sexier and very, very good."

And Nandhini heartily admits to having lots of practice. Her initial training came during the 1990s, a time when the maxim "Nice girls don't" was replaced by the liberating mantra "Yes they do, and they like it, too." "The first quality of a good working girl is [determining], 'Were you a good ****? '"Nadhini says. Having hit 15 with a great pair of legs, just as the pill and the Chudhidhar into popular use, her answer is apparent."Yes! And I was damned good at it!"

Nandhini's ad, which caught the attention of many client's, Nandhini says."Men really want to be good lovers, but in a relationship, everything is so loaded. It's like, you'll get pussy, but then you have to spend the day with the mother-in-law. This offered men a chance to learn." A healthy contingent of young men eagerly responded to Nandhini's ad.

Nadhini admits she is always pleasantly surprised that younger men find her sexually attractive. And her time with them makes her appreciate what an older woman can give: experience."Men think they're supposed to like young, blond and bouncing," she says."I hear from younger guys, who are almost ashamed, that say they don't know why but they've always found older women attractive." Nandhini begins to laugh slyly."I tell them that mean you're very smart."

While declining the services of a 50-year-old prostitute donning a Mami's outfit, as "it wasn't [his] scene," he has slept with one whose age hovers around 40."I'd be just as happy with an older one. Older prostitutes are comfortable with their career. You don't get the feeling you're abusing them," he says. And generally, he finds less-attractive prostitutes tend to be more skilled in technique."The less attractive, usually the more attentive," he says. Not that age necessitates lack of beauty, but in prostitution, looks are not what's for sale. Sex is.

Paradoxically, within the parallel industry of S&M, age is actually a bonus. Malini a 27-year-old professional dominatrix, has found her clientele increasing as she heads toward 30."Some of the most successful women in BANGALORE are mature women whose expertise is appreciated and sought after by clients," she says. Malini will lie about her age because the experience is amplified by the appearance of authority. And authority equates with age."It's interesting, in this society that disempowers women who are 'too old' to be sexual, that I would find myself presenting myself as older," she says.

Malini, who is a graduate student, puts a decidedly academic spin on sex work and how older prostitutes challenge society's perception of it. She explains that in India, we tend to assign younger women victim status, assuming that they are too young to make their own decisions-especially when it comes to engaging in prostitution. However, when we see an older woman doing this work, it's more subversive."Everything we are told about sex work-that it's demeaning to women and always forced-is contradicted by a woman in her 40s or 50s," Malini says."At that age, she's supposed to be professional and make the right choice."

Mrs. Sowmya.

AS A SOCIETY, we now stand at a time when the course of our lives has gone beyond marrying and reproducing, straight to death."We have to stop equating aging with dying," says Mrs. Sowmya, sees old age as an outstanding phenomenon populated by pioneers with no social script."What we've done in the last 100 years is create a new life stage. We've added 30 years life expectancy in a century," she says."Our culture created old age-in terms of the species, this is brand new."

As far as older women are concerned, Mrs. Sowmya discovered that women find aging liberating."They don't worry so much about turning heads, or is their makeup just right," she says. While the initial transition into losing one's looks is difficult,"old women don't give a hoot. Once, it's gone, forget about it," she says."But women do stay sexually active."

Seeing women pursuing sex into old age challenges the traditional vision that consigns women to Biryani Cooking grandmas. It's a vision that counters the reality of many older women, including that of a local lady who remains nameless, is in her early 50s and who typically dates younger men. Describing herself as "still attractive enough to be intriguing," she says her younger lovers prize her for having the kind of sensuality that comes with wisdom and experience."They expect an older woman to know what she wants; she doesn't have the same fears as a younger woman about acceptance," she says.

Mrs. Sowmya recently posted a personal ad seeking a younger lover and the responses just tumbled in."I've always fantasized about being with an older woman-ever since I was barely old enough to have dirty thoughts," reads one response."To this day, my greatest fantasy remains unfulfilled."

Nandhini finds younger men, too, are stretching their roles."Young men in their 20s are much looser, they're less concerned with macho considerations," she says."There's much less front and they're open to the idea of learning-this isn't seen as a failure."

WHILE LONG GONE are the days when brothels were as tolerated as cafes and men said that "nature moved them to go to sport," older prostitutes, it seems, are still initiating the young. If anything, Malini's recent experience while shopping underlines the point, Malini across a rack of T-shirts in the GAP, had a conversation with a mother, who had her teenage daughter in tow. The mother, half-joking, said she had a couple of young boys and would love to send them to Malini when they were older."I thought, 'She's got it, there's no shame here, '" Maini says. The two women laughed because such a gesture would cost the mother custody of her children and Malini her freedom, but the sentiment was real.

"I think it's becoming the new fashion," Malini says, exhaling on her cigarette.

[GF Experience]

The relationship between escort and client is one of a subtle drive to maintain power and control. The time spent together can be extremely enjoyable and lucrative for both but can also be riddled with occasional discomfort if a few simple courtesies aren't kept in mind. As the hired professional, it is the escort's responsibility to define these parameters, and applying these tips will help keep you both safe and extremely satisfied.

Protect your private information by using a PO Box as the address on your driver's license, or get a second legal identification card that does not include your home address: you don't need a client knowing where you live. Or an internet-created account such as skype to initially contact your clients, and consider having a private cell-phone for further encounters that cannot be traced back to your home address. This provides a peace of mind just in case a client tries to get too personal, so you don't have to worry about complications outside the arranged time spent together.

When booking an appointment with a new client, gather their basic information and do a background check. Get their full name (including middle) , personal phone number, email address, state of registration and any references from other escort experiences they may have. While new clients may not have references from other escorts, their names should be cleared from national blacklist sites and basic legal background checks. Also, asking for a few personal details to include in a google search may further guarantee that your client is who they present themselves to be and therefore poses less of a threat to you physically or legally. Be wary of new phone numbers / email addresses. While it is common for a client to be reluctant in giving you their personal information, they should be easily consoled that this is for your mutual safety and enjoyment and is a procedure only necessary before your first meeting.

Make it easy for your clients to know what to expect in the first few moments of your time together, and give yourself a routine to follow to ensure your safety from that point:

Upon arriving and after friendly introductions, check the client's identification and verify it with the information given upon booking the appointment.

If arranged, call a friend or service so that they know you are safe and what time you've met your client. They should also be called up leaving to ensure your safety and help to verify the time spent together.

The client should leave your compensation in clear sight so that you may pick it up without money passing between your hands. Put this in a (preferably) zippered compartment of your bag and keep it with you at all times, verifying the amount at a discreet time and when alone. If the client attempts to shortchange you of the agreed upon fee, don't fight back – just leave immediately. This points to a lack of understanding in the client that may bleed into other areas of you arrangement and put you in danger.

Check the space to make sure no one else is present, having specified to the client beforehand that your time together is only for the two of you.

It's a classy move for the client to have beverages on hand, a variety of alcoholic and non-alcoholic for both of you to enjoy. Specify that these bottles should be sealed when you arrive so that you can see them being opened in front of you. Slipping drugs into a drink is too easy of a way for you to be taken of guard.

After these points, excuse yourself to a restroom so that you both have a moment to collect yourselves. Keep your personal belongings with you at all times, so that there is not one shred out doubt that either of your things have been tampered with.

When possible, use a driver or taxi to get you to a client, and make it clear to the client that someone is outside waiting for you (even if they are not).

Take with you only what you need. Bring enough cash for a taxi if necessary, but avoid bringing any greater amounts or any identification that reveals your address.

Assess the public surroundings to make sure the time booked with you is private and respectful: is the room you're walking towards quiet or rowdy with loud music? Is the space clean? Can the doors be locked from the inside but not from the outside?

When meeting a client at a hotel, get their name and room number and confirm this with the hotel privately. If they've registered with a fake name with the hotel or given you one, this is a huge warning sign that should something go wrong between you, the client's identity will not be able to be confirmed.

If there is the tiniest bit of doubt that your client is an undercover police officer, take extra precautions upon your first meeting. Go a bit early and wait in the parking lot, looking for anyone checking out the space that might be there to alert someone inside.

Be aware of warning signs that something may not be quite right with a client. If they refuse to show you identification, insist on writing a check when you request cash, don't give you a personal phone number to communicate with etc, there's just too much gray area should something illegal happen between you. If they start to get angry or irritable, counter them with gentleness and try to light-heartedly change the subject, but don't be afraid to scream or start throwing things at walls / out windows to catch the attention of those nearby if you feel you're in danger.

Use the same common sense you would in any other compromising position. Watch your alcoholic intake and be aware of your surroundings. Taking a basic self-defense class is a comfort that in the chance you'll be in a physically compromised position, you can defend yourself with confidence.

Sometimes practice does make perfect, and it will take a few tries before these steps naturally fall into a routine and you almost don't notice them. Being safe will become second nature and you'll be able to enjoy the company of your clients without directly thinking about your own safety. Just remember that you are the one who needs to maintain a position of subtle power, and the time is yours for the taking.

[GF Experience]

Why Escorting.

I admit, my site had succeeded to this leval lately- on my end. Your comments and emails have been great, and I appreciate the communication we all have, but I've been slacking on my end- so I figured I owed an explanation.

I started on this Site internationalsexguide out of anger, in response to the positive press that the scandal had received. I wanted to get the other side out there- the real side of escorting. I wanted the world to know that it wasnt all big easy money and fun, there was a side not talked about. And I think I did a pretty good job at opening up and sharing that.

Recently it has gotten harder for me to see that. Like a bad relationship, after awhile you look back and the good seems better than it was, and the bad drifts away and leaves your memory. It becomes harder to recall, and although you know it is there the good parts plant themselves up front, creating the illusion of something better than it was.

I don't know if its the holidays, my relationship slowly straining, or my Girls who call day and night and night. I don't know if its monetary, emotional, or just some addiction that I can't escape, but escorting has been on my mind.

I guess thats why I haven't written too much on the subject lately. I'm a horrible liar, and I don't want to risk anyone reading something positive about escorting from me. Even if I never know, I don't want someone to come here and read something I've written and make the choice to escort. I want to continue to stress that its not the right choice, . I want to get to the point where it is out of the question, whatever the circumstances. I want you to become one of those strong women on tv who shudder at the thought, who believe in themselves, and would never, ever consider selling their temples.

I want youself to be strong someday, not someone with no respect for her self who contimplates selling herself to make ends meet. I just wonder how much long it will take. What do I need to do to get there? Is it even possible?

[GF Experience]

I used to read many stories and mastrubate on my own, I am going to narrate a story which happens in my real life one week before. My brother is working in MNC Chennai we are staying in Chennai my brother need to go US official last week so he went, I am working in am BPO as Team Manager so I used to go night shift and used to sleep in morning.

This incident happened two days before, in my home my father mother, my brother, Anni and me My Anni is very fair, face looks like Kajol actress. 36, 28, 36 house wife and she is just 23 age and slim, my self 28 and medium slim, my father and mother went to native place for a week so we both are alone in home. Once I came from night shift my anni used to give me horlicks and used to freshup I taken bath and drink it and will goto sleep then she will wake me up to have tiffen.

There is not water flow in my brother's bedroom so she is not able to take bath, she tried to wake me I was in half sleep she asked me whether water is comming in my bath room I said yes in half sleep and slept she went to take bath in my bathroom, once she finished her bath she came out in towel its really a nice smell hence I am in half sleep I can still remember her hamam soap smell which wakes me up,

I saw in half eye that she went to her room in towel I am gone seeing her in towel hence its my weekend off that evening I am in home only my self and my anni in home she have the habit of taking bath in night before sleep even I have the same habit I taken bath and slept she said shall I use my bathroom I said no need ask any permission anni use it, once again she came in a towel with like a fresh baby.

I act like I am in sleep she started wiping herself in my room itself thinking I am slept, I am watching her acting like sleeping, suddenly her towel felt down accidentally I can see her full back like a flash and half breast she turned to catch her towel she saw me I am wake she is stunned even I don't know what to do she went to her room taking her towel.

Next day morning is also my off its Sunday she is not able to see my eyes she gave me horlicks I drank she has not taken bath I said Anni I am sorry for yesterday I don't know you are there thats why I saw you, she said its k, I said anni even I like you so much she tries to went out I cought her hand and hugged her she restricted and turned I huged her from behind she said aravind its wrong please leave me I am your brother wife if he came to know it will be big problem, I said anni please I like you lot you are my angel today is a nice chance anni please allow me lets enjoy, she shouted at me and tries to pull me to bed I pulled her along with me and felt on bed she tried to get up from bed I rolled and came on top of her,

Hence no one is in home all rooms are closed I droped her down in bed and started to kiss her neck (neck is a powerful area af all female) she is restricting me pushing me away but I am strong to have her below me she said aravind its not fair I am your Anni please leave me I said I love you Anni and start removing her saree, she is shuting but not louder telling please don't make me to shout neighbors will come please leave me.

I said I need you anni and started kissing her lips she closed her lip and not opened I allowed my tounge to lick her lip she is turning her face left and right at the same time I started pumping her with her saree and started pressing her breast she is loosing control then she understand that I am not going to leave her she shouted k aravind listen to me I stoped but I am in top of her she said I will allow you but you should not enter in to me and not now first fresh up then we will have I thought its better then I hugged Anni and said I love you she said why aravind you have this much lust on me I said from the day I saw you I started thinking you and masturbating she said I will allow you but please maintain secret I said I am sure.

Then I taken bath she went to take bath and came in towel she know I will get her now she came out of bathroom I grabbed her and droped in bed and started kissing her neck she closed her eyes and said aravind we are doing wrong its a sin please don't do I said anni I love you a lot saying that I removed her towel she is not wearing any thing inside towel I started fondling her breast and kissing her lips first she closed her lips later she started responding I am only in shorts she also started to hug me and pnching me with nail I understand she is in full mood I removed her towel completely she is in full nude now wow how beaty she is she looks like angel I started kissing her breast and sucking it like mangoes.

She is out of control allow me to enjoy her full breast by raising her breast I sucked bot mellons like anything she is pressing my head hard in her breast I went some what down and kissed her thopple and then went down to pussy area she is having a pubic hair I inserted my mouth and started to suck she is raising her butt to show have her complete pussy.

I inserted my tongue and liked it she is moaning ahhhhhh iss ahh aravind ohhhh make lot of moaning noice I removed my shorts and my cock came out she immediately got up and said aravind please don't you enjoy me with out entering in to me I know I can seduce her I said k and felt over her we both are stark nude I am rolling her in bed she also started kissing me we had a long lip to lip kiss very passionate kiss then I inserted my finger in to her love hole and started finger fucking she is out of control.

I saw she closed her eyes and enjoying I stopped she is still closing her eyes I inserted my cock in to her she suddenly opened her eveys and said aravind please don't it's a sin I said Anni what we did till now is also a sin don't worry. I gave a thrust my cock went in she is telling I am your anni the like mother I said I love you Anni and started jerking.

She is moaning aravind please remove it please I never cared I started doing fast she is also started responding for my jerk she is raising her hip up when ever I gave her a jerk I started doing very fast to and fro room full of chap chap chap chap sound she is hugging me very tight she came after 20min. Of hard work she said please don't leave inside me I am out of control with in few jerks I also came inside her she hugged me very tight we sept like that nude for one hour.

Then she waked up and we both seperated she started she did a sin to my brother I said its ok if any thing is with four wall its not a sin I hugged her she also hugged me then we both went for anouther three rounds that day and also continued in night then we are having regular sex till today.

[GF Experience]

tonight i was on bangalore craigslist and ended up browsing the pages where women of the night advertise their services. many of the postings included pictures which i thought for sure couldn't be real. all of them included phone numbers, but fully half of them had already been removed as 'scams'.

my question is: what's the scam? what happens when you call? does someone who does not resemble the. jpg show up to your door? what happens then? are these even adult services or people looking to rob you? i guess i could've called myself just to see what happened, but didn't want them recording my phone number for any reason.

just to clarify, i'm not actually seeking a hooker or any illegal advice. i was just naively surprised that the pictures were not of broken-down, meth-ridden ladies, but women who looked like models. granted this is a large city so maybe there is a variety. i've never been with a hooker and not sure i've even see one in real life, which only encourages my fascination.

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the larger the city the less likely those hookers are exclusively broken down meth addicts. that said i doubt high-end call girls populate craigslist. but as i have no experience (i swear!) i couldn't say for certain.

as to seeing a hooker. a game that my friends and i have played in bangalore is to sit in the lobbies of high-end hotels in mg road and brigade road and look for 20-something women on the arms of 50-something men.

these women are likely (high-end) hookers. i'm pretty sure bangalore has some high-end hotels where this can be done.

i was just naively surprised that the pictures were not of broken-down, meth-ridden ladies, but women who looked like models.

i have met very few sex workers who looked like models, but i've met plenty of sex workers who are quite attractive in person and who looked absolutely gorgeous in their most flattering photographs.

people who advertise for clients for their sex work on craigslist are generally reasonably market-savvy and computer-savvy professionals, not people who are debilitated by out-of-control addictions.

the broken down meth addict hookers blow guys for inr 2000 / in an alley and don't use the interwebs to advertise their services. the inr 2000 / soish ladies will be quite normal to good looking. however many advertisers on craigslist will put photos of other people and misrepresent themselves. what happens when she shows up at your door and she looks nothing like the photo? well, you can either tell her to go away or invite her in. but these days many of the ladies advertising on craigslist are really traps set by the police so it is not the best way to procure a "date" for the evening.

for fun, you can use a tineye. com to compare said courtesan to other photos on the web. that is, the photo may be a porn actress you've never heard of, or that photo is advertised in every city in the country. how she can be in chennai, mysore and hyderabad, mumbai at the same time is beyond me. and like any other ad, if it sounds too good to be true, it is probably too good to be true. the call girls will troll the lounges of high end bars in hotels i realized i was getting old when these ladies started propositioning me.

mahesh

i had a roommate who told me her former clients were often surprised that she actually looked like her photo. this makes me think that most women don't match the photo. besides, the number may be for a service, and they may send over who is still available.

i had a friend who was a craigslist sex worker for a while. she worked through an agency so that, although the picture was of her (and the most flattering picture she had at that) , the phone number was the agency's. she didn't advertise very often; they were encouraged to gather a few regular clients and avoid making new ones, for the most part. when called, she would then try to get a feel for the prospective client, making sure he or she wasn't creepy. after that, they would first meet at a neutral, public location. sometimes, they would do this more than once before she decided to take someone on as a client. i recall her telling me that she was encouraged to bail out at any point if she felt uncomfortable and to let the agency know about it.

anyway, that's one way it works when it's not a scam. i don't know about how it goes on the scamming end.

nilesh.

some websites (maybe not craigslist) , ostensibly use a system to report back from clients to assure the photographs that sex workers use are genuine. i can imagine there is a strong incentive for both sides to weed out scams or fakers, even if they're not always successful. craigslist is probably more hit and miss, but i really don't know.

satish

craigslist's removal message is generic, so you have no way of telling whether it is prohibited, spam / overpost, mirep001egorized, etc. (there is no 'scam' option, btw) i am guessing since adult services has been removed in the last year, that all these posts are "prohibited".

aside from cop sting ops and sending an uglier girl than pictured, i don't think there's much of a scam to be had in prostitution; it's pretty profitable anyways.

babu.

aside from cop and sending an uglier girl than pictured, i don't think there's much of a scam to be had in prostitution people still work the badger game (where the would-be getting robbed instead of serviced) , actually.

ramesh.

through another ask me question, i discovered the blog of college callgirl. she didn't put her photo or phone number in her craigslist ad, but did put in text adverts and an email address. clients would then email and the negotiations (and photo exchanges) would begin. i think in one of her posts she talked about the ones who had photos and phone numbers were agency girls, and if 'shreya' (in the photo) wasn't available, the agency would try to send you some one else.

raj kumar.

well, the police, the undercover police officer asks you to meet her at a hotel, you go, she asks you what you want from the "menu," and then once you hand over the money, a bunch more police dudes and ladies bust in the door and arrest you.

ram.

some sex workers can be accused of false advertising, most will stretch their truth. but their body is their brand and it's in their best interest to attract as many enquiries as possible. they're betting that you'll be so overcome with anticipating horniness that you'll take the person that turns up even if they've stretched the truth.

and sometimes the scam is that you'll be robbed by some boofy bloke who now knows you are currently alone with possibly a few hundred cash on you, and possibly unlikely to call the police for fear of being exposed.

but please note:

they're called sex workers. it's a legitimate profession where you pay people for their services. my physio uses her body to manipulate mine. i'm in my underwear, there's oil involved and moans of delight and agony from me. and you would have seen sex worker in real life. they're everywhere and can look like your mum, sister, wife or grandmother. or uncle, father, brother. anyone really. pejorative language about sex workers and their work is unhelpful and marginalising.

salman reddy.

i was just naively surprised that the pictures were not of broken-down, meth-ridden ladies, but women who looked like models.

i'm surprised you're surprised. sex workers are everywhere, but i guess if you were not wise to the presentation and prevelence, you might not notice them. if you want to know how a typical cash for sex transaction takes place,

i get a lot of calls like the one you didn't want to make. someone posted my name, number and a presumably glowing review of my services as a sex worker on a site somewhere. sadly, the only paid services i provide are unrelated to the immediate wants and needs of these callers (i'm a web designer and developer) , but they have uniformly been polite and only about a third of them withhold their number.

raju.

having been a fashion photographer in another lifetime, i can tell you that not even all models are models. the camera is a funny thing, it distorts in most unpredictable ways. some women i photographed were (imho) downright freakish / ugly, but something about their facial bone structure worked for the camera. and of course, the #1 factor: makeup. i always worked with a team of makeup artists. what these folks could do would blow your mind. bottom line: the photos may be of the very woman you see at the door, even if she looks like nothing in the photo. if she's a pro who values advertising, she'll get photographed professionally, and at the end of that process may look like a different person. that's even before photoshop, which these days is routine

murali reddy.

there's a pretty large number of sex workers who actually don't do face-to-face meetings (rather, it's paid phone sex, sex texting, sex emails, etc). they advertise their services on craigslist using models' photos (usually just "real" looking enough to not seem like a pro) that they pay for on content sites specifically for this purpose. some workers are just paid promoters for larger company's offering phone / text services, and they hit craigslist and other, similar sites with ads suggesting they are available for face-to-face meetings when they are not. tips and tricks for getting around craigslist's phone / ip verifications are as rampant as seo tricks. so some of these "hookers" may not be hookers at all, but rather are selling something else entirely under a persona that's not really them.

raghu ram.

most of them are people trying to get by in a competitive and illegal business. so those pictures are often of them but often in better times: younger, more makeup, better lighting, a little photoshop, etc. sometimes they are representative and sometimes they are not; there is no hard and fast rule. as to what happens: typically you need to go to them (outcall) instead of them coming to you (incall) as they value their own safety a great deal more than yours. again individuals vary but a common technique is to have you drive to a location, get out of your car, then call them on your cell and they will tell you exactly what street address to go to.

search for phone numbers on cl or "police" for extra fun.

kumar shetty.

[GF Experience]

A call girl or escort is not a sex worker who is not visible to the general public; nor does she usually work in an institution like a brothel, although she may be employed by an agency. The client must make an appointment, usually by calling a telephone number. Call girls often advertise their services in small ads in magazines and via the Internet, although an advertiser, such as an escort agency, may be involved in promoting more High profile escorts, while some may be handled by a Service Provider Call girls may work either incall, where the client comes to her place, or outcall where they go to the client's place.

The total number of Call Girls in Bangalore is not known. Some estimates state that there are more than 60, 000 women and girls in prostitution in Bangalore.

According to some sources the most common form of trafficking consists in offering false promises or some offer of help out of a dead-end or crisis situation, force is used later after the call girl have already been sold."Mashis (brothel owners / older sex workers) use friendship, sympathy, also veiled threats to convince the women that it is now in their best interest to conform and begin working.

Celebrities and very wealthy men sometimes hire call girls for sex to avoid the problem of unreasonable infatuation, where their partner is unreasonably attracted to them (and won't let go of the relationship or accept refusal) because of their status. It also avoids the problem of "kiss and tell" stories, where the girl would sell the story to the press. Both parties understand their respective positions and do not go beyond them. Some of these people are even open about what their date is to those they're partying with, though call girls request they not be. Usually, the client will first hire the escort for a short date to determine if he or she wants to do longer ones with her. Here again, the escort's appearance, intelligence, manners, sociability and education also come into consideration. For some wealthy clients, these dates evolve into long-standing arrangements that more closely resemble keeping a mistress.

Some take up this profession because it is a way of making money while enjoying the pleasure of sex with different partners. Recently men have also jumped into these businesses, and provide sexual services to women. Some wealthy women who live far away from their husbands, or who like to have sex but lack partners, hire men for sex.

Most call girl agencies and independent call girls have their own websites. The internet has become the main medium through which customers find their desired escort. Generally, a picture of the girl is provided, and sometimes, the type of sexual services she is willing to offer. Some agencies also propose a higher fee for people of special interest.

[GF Experience]

"a high end escort in bangalore speaks"

sex is too easy to get today. we live in a society where everything is easy, and that can be a turn-off. that's not what the men who contact me want. these are very wealthy and successful men, some from well-known companies, and they can get sex anywhere. they like to be challenged and want something more subtle, and the successful women in this business offer them that.

seduction is an endangered skill, and that's my favourite part of the process. when i interact with someone, even from the first email, what we are trying to do is seduce each other. it's like a dance. i use the term "companionship" for what i do, because there is a spectrum. on one side you have straightforward sex for money, and on the other you have full-blown relationships. i see myself as being somewhere along that continuum.

i charge inr 20, 000 / a day, and spend no less than two days with a client. i do it no more than once a month. i always take time to get to know the person first. we email, have lunch and talk on the phone. so i have never been in a situation where i have felt scared. we might go to a social or business event. they introduce me as their friend from wherever- or it might be more personal and romantic. they know that we're going to get some private time afterwards, but the sex is just the icing on the cake.

so much today is not clear. if you go on a date is the guy supposed to open the door for you or not? are you supposed to offer to pay? in this sort of relationship, each party's responsibilities are clearer. i enjoy that. men i go out with are very intelligent people, and it is a mutually stimulating environment.

i think it is a common female fantasy to be in this business. i get a lot of emails saying: "it's so exciting, i've always wanted to do it." anyone can do it but the numbers are against it: it's like wanting to be a ballet dancer. i always wanted to do it, since i was little. it was mysterious, and i like intelligent and influential men. the women in this business are quite influential, too. i've helped people close business deals. there is that free consultation component.

i had to learn myself. about two years ago, i saw the blogging phenomenon and thought, what can i do that's novel? i thought the business was sleazy, and i wanted to make it less so. my first time i was nervous, but we had fun and still keep in touch.

an escort needs a combination of talents. you don't need to be a supermodel. i'm a tall, slim, but there are more beautiful women out there. it can be intimidating for men if you are incredibly stunning. they want someone subtle, intelligent and well versed in life. they have to feel comfortable talking to you about anything, whether business or their family.

about 50 per cent are married. i've heard that sometimes their wives know. in a lot of cases they no longer have sex. surprisingly, some women feel less threatened if a man hires someone like me than if he had an affair with his secretary. i don't see what i do as wrong. if he's married then something is dysfunctional or some part of the relationship must be broken. maybe he can't get divorced because he's worth a crore rupees.

i do have relationships, with clients and others. it can be tricky. i think jealousy is a human trait, and a healthy one, so i treat it on a case-by-case basis. you have to judge at what stage to tell them. fundamentally i am a romantic person, and i don't feel that's a contradiction. i want to share as much of my life as i can with my partner, and eventually all of my life. i do want to get married. there is a strong romantic component to what i do: it's all about mystery and seduction. if we have a good time for a weekend then sometimes it is quite sad to leave.

i'm not worried that my future husband might be appalled by what i do. the men i get along with are typically very moral people but they have their own internal compass. it means they are a little unconventional, and that's why we have that fit. my past doesn't change who i am: it just makes me a little more colourful. recently, the majority of my [non-paying] partners have known what i do. or part of it. you don't have to tell everything.

my family don't know what i do, and i would prefer them not to. my close friends know. my ability to pull it off doesn't surprise them. they know i'm good at multi-tasking. and i don't think anyone has been shocked.

for me, this is a temporary thing, although i cannot put an exact date on when i will stop. it's a very good way to learn about people. what makes them happy and sad.

i have also changed my approach to wealth: i get to see extremely wealthy people and they face the same challenges as everyone else. it makes me more philosophical. it doesn't mean anything to have an apartment in bangalore and a house in mysore you may be locked into an unhappy marriage or not able to find a woman to share your life with. it actually becomes harder to date. you don't know who's genuinely looking for love and who's looking at your money. for lots of young, successful men, wealth above a certain level can be a barrier to a good relationship.

the reality is that the market for this is very small. it's kind of like a bell curve. most of the market is in the middle. straightforward sex for money. the higher end requires not just more money but more time. and in our society time is the most precious thing of all.

[Member #4157]

GF Experience is a pimp named Sanjay, who has created several websites / blogs / facebook pages dedicated to promoting his delusional vision for his pseudo-organization.

Guys, please stay away from this phony!

[GF Experience]

I've had a week to recover and contemplate the experience I had with Bangalore girls.

There is no doubt that my stay with you and your girls was beyond my wildest fantasies. The ladies are not only gorgeous, but they have warm and complete personalities. It was refreshing to be able to have more than a quick impersonal roll in the hay. In spite of language barriers, the intelligence of the girls was obvious. The warmth and giving nature of these girls is amazing.

It was truly like having a great girlfriend. My entire five day stay seemed like a really hot date with four different super models. All are different, yet all the same. No surprises or disappointments. You have created magic.

As if the romance wasn't enough, . I felt like a king, with my every wish being accommodated.

Without the companionship you would get my Five Star award, with it I know I have had the once in a lifetime experience we often talk about, but rarely experience.

Again my compliments and my gratitude for an incredibly upbeat and uplifting experience.

My regards to you and your girls.

[GF Experience]

As a couple, we were a bit apprehensive about how other would respond to a woman in what is highlighted as a man's fantasy. We were pleased to find that they accepted my presence the same as they did my husband. In the evening, we all gathered on the terrace around the table and talked, drank and laughed together. In fact, we have started a friendship that looks like we will be returning as a group.

The women captivated us. Their obvious beauty is only one dimension of their qualities. They are rich with warmth and they have an untarnished, trusting spirit about them that touches you deeply and you find yourself feeling close to them. I think this is what most of your male guests describe as the feeling of having a beautiful girlfriend. They discover, as we did, the inside of the person is as delightful as the outside.

The sex is more than a romp in the hay, so for those who would prefer just getting to it, they should rather go to a brothel for primitive pleasure, pay the painted lady & go home. The girls we experienced gave us their tender young bodies, their affection and their sincere eagerness to please us. They danced with us, walked in Mg road hand-in-hand with us, accompanied us out to dinner, kissed us and laughed with us. And, with the help of some charades to overcome some language hurdles, they loved us and we loved them. We did not want to leave them blissful feeling of being free to be ourselves without care or censure. From my perspective, it's not just a gentleman's paradise. It's a non-gender haven for romantic sexual expression without promises or pledges.

[GF Experience]

The Airport.

This was my first time to Bangalore and I was a little nervous. You will complete immigration and customs information and purchase a tourist card for $10. The exit from the immigrations area takes you directly to baggage claim and then through random customs inspections. From there you are only a few steps away from the exit door to the airport.

Upon exiting the airport prepare to be approached by many friendly people offering to provide a taxi or help you with luggage. Several flights arrive in the early afternoon and the exit area of the airport was very hectic. I missed the initial connection and waited about 30 minutes before Vinudha came to my rescue. (During this time I wished I had purchased a cell phone for international service as my PHONE phone was useless.)

The "Competition"

Don't be concerned that you won't fit in. A typical reaction of guests, (and most of us) , was to select a girl quickly to get the "best" available. What the girls have in common is they are all young and beautiful. Just like everyone else you know, they are individuals with distinct personalities. I wish I had spent a little time to meet the girls before deciding whom to hook up with for the first night.

It's hard to explain, but the selection process just happened. The first girl I talked with was already with someone, but in the next conversation I had a date for the evening. The girls don't want to be alone for the night and there are more women available than men. So do the math!

By day I had decided to change partners and either came to mutual agreement or asked Vinudha to inquire for them. I changed once and found the process to be very comfortable. The first girl I was with had some items in my room, but there was no problem changing partners. I was more uncomfortable with the change than the girls were. Within a few hours of the switch, I was playing cards with both girls in my Room.

Other Anxieties and Issues.

It is easy to get to know almost everyone if you want to. One night a few of us decided to have a romantic dinner on a restaurant in nearby Mysore. The food was great and the companionship was better.

In between exercise sessions there was plenty to do. Several evenings a few of us went into town to "disco".

It took a few days to realize the Girls really meant what they said by,"if there's anything you need, just ask". From midnight snacks to premium liquors, all you have to do is ask. No request is treated as trivial and they will bend over backwards to try to make your stay enjoyable.

In summary the best advice I can offer is to relax, relax, relax. Kick back and prepare yourself for the best vacation you will ever have!

I can't wait to go back.

[GF Experience]

The Airport.

This was my first time to Bangalore and I was a little nervous. You will complete immigration and customs information and purchase a tourist card for $10. The exit from the immigrations area takes you directly to baggage claim and then through random customs inspections. From there you are only a few steps away from the exit door to the airport.

Upon exiting the airport prepare to be approached by many friendly people offering to provide a taxi or help you with luggage. Several flights arrive in the early afternoon and the exit area of the airport was very hectic. I missed the initial connection and waited about 30 minutes before Vinudha came to my rescue. (During this time I wished I had purchased a cell phone for international service as my PHONE phone was useless.)

The "Competition"

Don't be concerned that you won't fit in. A typical reaction of guests, (and most of us) , was to select a girl quickly to get the "best" available. What the girls have in common is they are all young and beautiful. Just like everyone else you know, they are individuals with distinct personalities. I wish I had spent a little time to meet the girls before deciding whom to hook up with for the first night.

It's hard to explain, but the selection process just happened. The first girl I talked with was already with someone, but in the next conversation I had a date for the evening. The girls don't want to be alone for the night and there are more women available than men. So do the math!

By day I had decided to change partners and either came to mutual agreement or asked Vinudha to inquire for them. I changed once and found the process to be very comfortable. The first girl I was with had some items in my room, but there was no problem changing partners. I was more uncomfortable with the change than the girls were. Within a few hours of the switch, I was playing cards with both girls in my Room.

Other Anxieties and Issues.

It is easy to get to know almost everyone if you want to. One night a few of us decided to have a romantic dinner on a restaurant in nearby Mysore. The food was great and the companionship was better.

In between exercise sessions there was plenty to do. Several evenings a few of us went into town to "disco".

It took a few days to realize the Girls really meant what they said by,"if there's anything you need, just ask". From midnight snacks to premium liquors, all you have to do is ask. No request is treated as trivial and they will bend over backwards to try to make your stay enjoyable.

In summary the best advice I can offer is to relax, relax, relax. Kick back and prepare yourself for the best vacation you will ever have!

I can't wait to go back.

[GF Experience]

You would think that after 3 visits to Bangalore I would pretty well know what to expect, after all you have fulfilled my fantasies every time, yet each visit you come up with things I can't even imagine. The experience just gets better and better and better.

The addition in Girls (on my first trip it consisted of only Tharani and Maheshwari) has taken a big load off your shoulders and they all are doing a great job. Since I had been through the experience prior to them coming on board I can still see the hand of Sanjay guiding everything. You really amaze me the way you orchestrate so many logistics and still be the most exceptional host I have ever encountered. Wish we had more time to visit, but I knew how many things you had going on.

By the way,

I guess your terrific success means that the secret is out. Yet, you have taken that success, not to the bank, but to expanding the experience for your guest. I can hardly wait to see where it goes from here.

The girls this year were absolutely exceptional. They all were far more beautiful, They seemed to be fresher, softer, and totally committed to being girlfriends as well as hostesses.

I was really lucky, I swear that Natasha (Natalia) actually chose me during the ride in from the airport. At least when we arrived and I learned she was available there really was no way I was going to mess with that destiny. She was fantastic, perfectly affectionate and passionate as well. She was at my side every moment and let no one ever doubt that she was my girl and I was her guy. I couldn't help but notice that all the of the girls treated their guys the same way, but Natasha was the cream of the crop: it makes a guy feel 10' tall.

I would appreciate it if you would convey to her how tremendous she made my trip. Maybe the little rings in her ears will convey the message.

Many thanks for the upgrade the last night. You are always the gracious host and it is appreciated.

As in the past, please never fail to offer my e-mail address as reference to any doubters. Anything I can do on this side of the big pond please never hesitate to ask.

Again, many thanks for a great few days living a dream come true.

[GF Experience]

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Hi.

I am in Bangalore on business I am looking for some action with preferably a foreign lady.

Or good looking local lady.

Can somebody pm details. Ideally want some fun today.

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