Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[ActionOriented]

Bro AO, I have not purchased anything as I do stock up few items during my out of country trips.

-Dee.

I wonder, Dee or anyone else, who frequently travel outside the country, have you guys bought sex toys (for use on one or two WGs back in India)? I have seen several such items being peddled in the streets of Bangkok, however, I have never purchased them because they do not appear to be of decent quality. Cheap shit which can go fillibuster any moment. Any jurisdictions where such purchases are recommended?

[HornyBoyForU]

For oral action you can try Durex flavored lubes, they are easily available and pretty nice as well. Lots of varieties of flavors.

Thanks a lot dickaprio.

Could you put some light on any flevoured thing for oral action.

Could we use lube for this. Or any product available in market. ?

Can you any cream, delaying cream available in indian market or online easy shop.

[PoulDotPinto]

Bro Pinto, following should be ok for Basic Mongering Kit:

3-4 Condoms (u never know).

Personal lubricant.

Mouthwash.

Antibacterial wet wipes.

Customised kits can vary. Such as sex toys, costumes, gadgets, dental dams, pills, creams, delaying creams etc. And on and on.

Thanks a lot dickaprio.

Could you put some light on any flevoured thing for oral action.

Could we use lube for this. Or any product available in market. ?

Can you any cream, delaying cream available in indian market or online easy shop.

[Jollupaiya]

Have been new to the mongering world. Had tried couple of MP like exp and the famous Rose / Angel, but never done any other waterhole other than my own.

I am scared on the STD front, I get that if you use condi properly you could keep the most HIV at bay but I am more worried about the STDs. Some of the pics I have seen in google images are horrific. My worry is more about pasing it onto wife and she getting to know the wind of it. Need your expert opinion on.

1. How prevelant is the STD among the indes. I know I am asking a broad question, but for the seniors could probably know how safe it is.

2. Has anyone successfully managed a situation where your folks got the wind of it (thro transimision of the STDs to wife) or in any other means. Any tips on how to salvage would be greatly appreciated.

3. Any precautions on stds. I read that the condi alone is not fully safe.

Thanks,

Jollu

[Dickaprio]

One more thing.

What should we carry with us during mongering in out KIT bag. To make our visit safe and pleasant.

Pinto.

Bro Pinto, following should be ok for Basic Mongering Kit:

3-4 Condoms (u never know).

Personal lubricant.

Mouthwash.

Antibacterial wet wipes.

Customised kits can vary. Such as sex toys, costumes, gadgets, dental dams, pills, creams, delaying creams etc. And on and on.

[Dickaprio]

Instead, try KY Jelly from Jhonson & Jhonson. That's the best lubricant available in the market and its water based.

Agree with Dev987. Any water based personal lubricant should do.

[PoulDotPinto]

Instead, try KY Jelly from Jhonson & Jhonson. That's the best lubricant available in the market and its water based.

Thanks Dev.

I will try this lube for sure.

[Dev987]

Instead, try KY Jelly from Jhonson & Jhonson. That's the best lubricant available in the market and its water based.

Hello seniers,

Which personal lubricant is good for use?

Which is esily available in indian market.

I had tried durex lube. But it eatching. Not comfortable.

Please suggest some.

Thanks.

Pinto.

[PoulDotPinto]

One more thing.

What should we carry with us during mongering in out KIT bag. To make our visit safe and pleasant.

Like condomes.

Lube.

And what else.

Please seniers share some knowledge and experiences.

Thanks.

Pinto.

[PoulDotPinto]

Hello seniers,

Which personal lubricant is good for use?

Which is esily available in indian market.

I had tried durex lube. But it eatching. Not comfortable.

Please suggest some.

Thanks.

Pinto.

[Dickaprio]

Coming back to the main discussion point, has anyone tried ordering stuff (and not condoms) off the website listed in Dee's post? Any unpleasant experiences, please feel free to share.

Bro AO, I have not purchased anything as I do stock up few items during my out of country trips.

-Dee.

[Dickaprio]

IMHO, WGs in India do not get themselves tested for STIs unless they have a smelly pussy, warts, or other such explicit signs of infection and even then only if the clients complain. It is a big loss to business when a client walks in and notices things which make him suspect, and he walks out (with or without paying). Since the industry is neither regulated like Bangkok, Germany et al, where regular check ups for WGs are required and they are required to have valid STI free certificates (there are cases where quacks just hand out these certificates) before they can solicit.

I am glad to hear we rank so high on the charts of sexual awareness and usage of protection. Thankfully, years of marketing done by the various NGOs and media have managed to get the message across. However, there are still several WGs who regular offer bareback services to premium clients (or old clients), I am not judging their choice in this matter. They are free to explore BBFS and indulge in such sexual practises. Although, if use of condoms can indeed reduce the risks of STIs (which is fact, yet some chose to disagree), then promoting their use can only lead to a safer mongering environment for us all.

Again, hobbyists fall in the same bracket. Unless they notice overt signs of infection, they will avoid getting tested. I personally have had a couple of scary encounters where the condom has torn while pounding and have contemplated getting myself tested. Yet, I haven't, trusting that given that there were no lesions or open wounds on the tool, the chances of STIs were minimal. Still I think it is not that bad an idea to go for regular check ups (at least for those who hobby on a very regular basis), we avoid it for some pretext or another (like long working hours). But if you have generally been practising safe sex and you haven't had any scary incidents, I believe it is OK for the hobbyist to stay away from getting tests done at some hospital far far away so that he is not fearful of being recognized in a hospital close by.

I second on your thoughts. A regularized environment is required but prostitution is still considered illegal. In Singapore they have a regularized district for this but they are very strict on the use of protection. Our society are slowly opening up but yeah, it may take some time to reach such levels.

[ActionOriented]

Coming back to the main discussion point, has anyone tried ordering stuff (and not condoms) off the website listed in Dee's post? Any unpleasant experiences, please feel free to share.

[ActionOriented]

Thanks brothers AFF, BK and AO for your encouraging notes. I did realize from various posts that there are many out there in India forum who are not aware of these different sexual wellness products. Additionally there were some discussions going on enhancing pills and variety of condoms. Thus thought of sharing it with the Brethren but then rather than putting a report in one city forum, thought of creating this Thread. Am glad that it shall help many of us.

AO Bro, coming to your point on BBFS, as you rightly said, there are many sex tourism cities which boasts about it however the awareness about safe sex with bareback entry is almost nil when it comes to WGs in India. Here I have seen many WGs demand for even two condoms. At the same time, I am hoping that there could be some groups out there experimenting and enjoying such risky but fun filled activities. Personally, I am not comfortable doing the deed sans cover. If you look at different sex surveys, one can notice that Indians are the at the top (again just numbers) when it comes to safer sex (using condoms) and Europeans and South americans probably the bottom ones. Additionally, I don't know how many WGs regularly go for check ups and keep them tested. Most of them are probably not even aware of such periodical tests (am assuming and I could be wrong). How many of us (hobbyists) regularly go and get ours tested?

I think both parties or a group can have these bareback fun provided they can continuously prove that parties involved in the deed are regularly tested and are negative! For sex outside such groups, they should again have to resort on condoms. Some kind of regularized mongering events! Those events shall remain costly (include periodic tests too) as there is always risk involved in the bare drills. My two cents.

Finally, happy and safe mongering. LOL! (As we all know the deadly effects of unsafe sex) .

-Dee.

IMHO, WGs in India do not get themselves tested for STIs unless they have a smelly pussy, warts, or other such explicit signs of infection and even then only if the clients complain. It is a big loss to business when a client walks in and notices things which make him suspect, and he walks out (with or without paying). Since the industry is neither regulated like Bangkok, Germany et al, where regular check ups for WGs are required and they are required to have valid STI free certificates (there are cases where quacks just hand out these certificates) before they can solicit.

I am glad to hear we rank so high on the charts of sexual awareness and usage of protection. Thankfully, years of marketing done by the various NGOs and media have managed to get the message across. However, there are still several WGs who regular offer bareback services to premium clients (or old clients), I am not judging their choice in this matter. They are free to explore BBFS and indulge in such sexual practises. Although, if use of condoms can indeed reduce the risks of STIs (which is fact, yet some chose to disagree), then promoting their use can only lead to a safer mongering environment for us all.

Again, hobbyists fall in the same bracket. Unless they notice overt signs of infection, they will avoid getting tested. I personally have had a couple of scary encounters where the condom has torn while pounding and have contemplated getting myself tested. Yet, I haven't, trusting that given that there were no lesions or open wounds on the tool, the chances of STIs were minimal. Still I think it is not that bad an idea to go for regular check ups (at least for those who hobby on a very regular basis), we avoid it for some pretext or another (like long working hours). But if you have generally been practising safe sex and you haven't had any scary incidents, I believe it is OK for the hobbyist to stay away from getting tests done at some hospital far far away so that he is not fearful of being recognized in a hospital close by.

[Dickaprio]

Thanks brothers AFF, BK and AO for your encouraging notes. I did realize from various posts that there are many out there in India forum who are not aware of these different sexual wellness products. Additionally there were some discussions going on enhancing pills and variety of condoms. Thus thought of sharing it with the Brethren but then rather than putting a report in one city forum, thought of creating this Thread. Am glad that it shall help many of us.

AO Bro, coming to your point on BBFS, as you rightly said, there are many sex tourism cities which boasts about it however the awareness about safe sex with bareback entry is almost nil when it comes to WGs in India. Here I have seen many WGs demand for even two condoms. At the same time, I am hoping that there could be some groups out there experimenting and enjoying such risky but fun filled activities. Personally, I am not comfortable doing the deed sans cover. If you look at different sex surveys, one can notice that Indians are the at the top (again just numbers) when it comes to safer sex (using condoms) and Europeans and South americans probably the bottom ones. Additionally, I don't know how many WGs regularly go for check ups and keep them tested. Most of them are probably not even aware of such periodical tests (am assuming and I could be wrong). How many of us (hobbyists) regularly go and get ours tested?

I think both parties or a group can have these bareback fun provided they can continuously prove that parties involved in the deed are regularly tested and are negative! For sex outside such groups, they should again have to resort on condoms. Some kind of regularized mongering events! Those events shall remain costly (include periodic tests too) as there is always risk involved in the bare drills. My two cents.

Finally, happy and safe mongering. LOL! (As we all know the deadly effects of unsafe sex) .

-Dee.