Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[LonelyMonger30]

So I have been mongering quite frequently from the past one and a half years and a few weeks back I noticed a small pinkish / reddish slightly raised spot / sore on my penis. Its totally painless. By the time I noticed it, it was almost disappearing. I can still see it as of now but its kind of faintly visible. I want to see a doctor ASAP but lockdown here in karantaka is preventing me from doing so. Hope to visit the doc as soon as this lockdown is lifted.

You guys have any idea as to what it is? I'm attaching 2-3 photos. Hopefully its not Syphilis!

[WanderingIndia]

There is a plump doctor in Delhi talking about dick length extension operations. Frankly I've no clue if I am normal or not. And then again we don't have the maturity in Indian society to talk about this. What's your suggestions? Psychiatrist first? Or, escort services? Or, something else.

[Samasir143]

Anyone have any recommendations for anal relaxation cream to break in an anal virgin.

Lignox F Gel.

[AritraG88]

Anyone have any recommendations for anal relaxation cream to break in an anal virgin.

[Vineett]

Dear bro,

I am looking for suggestions from those who have either similar experience or who are medical professionals. I noticed pinkish semen for the first time about 5-6 days ago as I masturbated. After reading some websites, I understood that it may be something temporary and might have been caused by high blood pressure, vigorous masturbation, some cist / injury in the prostate, or some STD (herpes, chlamydia or gonorrhea). I did not engage in any sexual activity for the next 4-5 days and yesterday just to check if everything has become normal, I masturbated once again. Once again I found the semen to be pink, which has now made me anxious.

I am 40 years old without any high BP. I did not do anything exceptional while masturbating. I don't have any other kind of sexual problem as of now, although I have not tested for STD. I had unprotected sex for a short while with a WG in December, without any ejaculation till it was unprotected. After that I had only one more encounter with another WG in March when she provided me with BBBJ for a short while. Rest activities were protected. I am a little shy to discuss this with a doctor and moreover, the prevailing pandemic has made the consultation or any testing even more difficult.

Looking at my history, what do you suggest at the moment? Should I wait for a few more days to check if everything is fine? Or should I consult a doctor immediately? Do you suggest any medicine?

Please help. Thanks in advance.

Seek doctors help as soon as possible. This thing cannot be overlooked.

[HungryBird15]

Dear bro,

I am looking for suggestions from those who have either similar experience or who are medical professionals. I noticed pinkish semen for the first time about 5-6 days ago as I masturbated. After reading some websites, I understood that it may be something temporary and might have been caused by high blood pressure, vigorous masturbation, some cist / injury in the prostate, or some STD (herpes, chlamydia or gonorrhea). I did not engage in any sexual activity for the next 4-5 days and yesterday just to check if everything has become normal, I masturbated once again. Once again I found the semen to be pink, which has now made me anxious.

I am 40 years old without any high BP. I did not do anything exceptional while masturbating. I don't have any other kind of sexual problem as of now, although I have not tested for STD. I had unprotected sex for a short while with a WG in December, without any ejaculation till it was unprotected. After that I had only one more encounter with another WG in March when she provided me with BBBJ for a short while. Rest activities were protected. I am a little shy to discuss this with a doctor and moreover, the prevailing pandemic has made the consultation or any testing even more difficult.

Looking at my history, what do you suggest at the moment? Should I wait for a few more days to check if everything is fine? Or should I consult a doctor immediately? Do you suggest any medicine?

Please help. Thanks in advance.

[Dev13]

About 22 years ago, a Master Monger known as Surfer turned me on to so much wisdom, not the least of which was that I could buy 15 minute oral HIV tests from a clinic in Patpong for $10 a shot. These tests made by Abbott Labs are better than 99%.

Accurate for positive. It changed my travel world. I'm not a cheap fuck (like so many) so I stocked up on them and tested every ho I banged (yes, bareback) throughout SEA (that would be in the hundreds). You can buy these.

Kits anywhere now so what is the excuse?

When I read these forums, it's like you guys are clueless.

Although your experience is global, the self-testing option is regulated in India.

https://blog.ipleaders.in/hiv-self-test-option/

One can go for lab based tests or at best take own sample and ship to a lab.

https://drsafehands.com/blood-test-in-india/hiv-profile

[Bud Kona]

About 22 years ago, a Master Monger known as Surfer turned me on to so much wisdom, not the least of which was that I could buy 15 minute oral HIV tests from a clinic in Patpong for $10 a shot. These tests made by Abbott Labs are better than 99%.

Accurate for positive. It changed my travel world. I'm not a cheap fuck (like so many) so I stocked up on them and tested every ho I banged (yes, bareback) throughout SEA (that would be in the hundreds). You can buy these.

Kits anywhere now so what is the excuse?

When I read these forums, it's like you guys are clueless.

[Stealth Boy]

"Low risk" of transmission is only for oral intercourse. If proof is all you need, here you go:

https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/estimat...behaviors.html

P.S. The term 'low risk' can be subjective. Monger responsibly and do not bet on numbers.

Cheers.

Stay safe.

[BellWeather]

LonelyMonger is correct. I also googled and found similar things here is the article: https://stanfordhealthcare.org/medic...-exposure.html#text=It%20 is%20 estimated%20 the%20 risk,1%20 transmission%20 per%201%2 C250%20 exposures).

Check insertive vaginal is 0.03% - 0. 09%.

I don't think I will get HIV because she was not a pro. She was 22 years and just got into this business. But I will do a test after 3 months or even earlier if I suspect anything suspicious with my chota bhai.

Mate,

I don't get into an argument with others in this forum. Since this relating health and some other persons life I forcing my self to respond. The issue is, you are bringing in science in some part of your argument and others parts of your arguments are non scientific. To explain.

1. She is 22 and not a pro so she won't have HIV: HIV has no age mate and it is not driven by profession. In fact, with a Pro you may be careful and wear a rubber. For eg, you have affair with a neighbour, you may lower your guard and not wear condom thinking she is not a pro. But if her husband has played else where and infects her you will be at risk mate. So disease spread is not dependent on all these factors.

2. HIV once enters can be dormant for years. So not only your Chotabhai but even Badabhai won't have problems for years.

3. Going with probabilities is a pseudo scientific approach. That too in matters of sexual encounters many patients lie. No one can really find which encounter lead to hIV. The subjects is that are being studied are not virgins and the study does not involve experimenting them with encounters with HIV person in a lab and then doing the tests and coming with probabilities after controlled experiments. These are done based on studies on already HIV positive patients and they would use a questionnaire which will give the doctor insights to evaluate the risks.

If the window is open please speak to a doctor and start PEP. Scientifically, that's the only chance you have. If that window is passed and if this your first encounter with out rubber, please meet that girl and get her HIV status checked. That will give you atleast peace of mind. Please don't Google in matters of health and it's better to speak to the doctor who is a virologist.

Its your life mate. Take care.

[Member #4720]

Am not a professional. But there was a time when the condom broke in one of my encounters way back in 2012.

And I was shit scared. Did lot of R&D at that time.

Keypoints.

The probability of getting HIV from one act of unprotected sex with an HIV positive female is one in a million. Provided there are no exposed cuts and bruises. However if the number of sexual partners and encounters of unprotected sex are more the probability increases exponentially.

Unprotected Anal Sex is very very dangerous. And to be avoided at any cost.

Regards,

Badman.

Uncircumcised bareback adventures poses a greater risk than one would imagine as well. Yes, multiple mistakes of same nature ends up costing dearly. All said and done, covering up cuts out 99% chances of transmission of whatever risk (3 in 10 daring acts of unprotected sex tends to transmits HIV), so best to rubber up nonetheless.

[Member #4720]

Reply:

Buddy sorry to say but your logic towards HIVs cannot get transmitted via vaginal penetration from a HIV infected female to a male are baseless.

I should not reveal few things socially but being a professional hazard for me to counsel others and taken an oath to save others beyond myself.

I would like to correct you that HIV transmission has no barrier of human race, color, gender, etc etc.

Rather as others are pointing out, best advice is to take STDs inspection and monitor after 6 months again.

I hope others also in this group are more sensible towards the fatalities of mongering so at least be very stern on using 'C' and avoiding DATY as much as possible unless you are very sure the girl and you both are HIV negative.

I pity our erudite friend who is on the receiving end of rebuke by ignorant folks laying claim to knowing it all. He doesn't state that it absolutely "cannot" spread but explicitly mentions rather of slim chances due to the odd foolish encounter or two. Guess what, he is logically sound! Albert Einstein was a renowned Theoretical Physicist and Mathematician BTW, not a VDRL emeritus. I wish you'd taken a moment to peruse through my trailing post to understand the biochemical intricacies behind why possibly the lowest risk for HIV transmission is through heterosexual vaginal intercourse.

Nobody here knows better than decades worth of tireless research and statistical analysis so going by established facts, high-risk groups for HIV spread comprises of the 4-Hs-homosexuality (anal sex-no vaginal epithelial and mucosal defence barrier at play plus due to it being highly vascular past dentate line), heroin abusers (shared needles), Haiti (African flesh traders) and haemophiliacs. Homosexuals contributed to the AIDS endemic of 80's in Miami (USA). Has it's origin in 1920's when DRC cannibals butchered and consumed raw meat of primates infected with SIV.

Now I'm not endorsing bareback acts with a sex worker in a country where HIV is prevalent as it's still very much possible to contract HIV via unprotected coitus (30% risk still isn't a valid excuse), hence I back Psybram that OP initially get screened via ELISA / Western Blot (gold standard due to high sensitivity) and only get PEP (Truvada+lopinavir+lamivudine) within 72 hours from contact if tests return positive. Presuming that she ought be HIV negative since she is just 22 isn't wise. Women hit menarche from 13 on average and data has proven that low socio-economic class of society is exponentially more sexually active, be it for money or child-bearing in the younger years. Lack of knowledge into STDs and raging carnal appetite is a recipe for health disaster. I speak from a Professional background in Medicine, FYKI. Oh and thanks 'InterCourser', for the kind acknowledgement. Be well and cover up. Not worth it, condom-less sex is overrated.

[Bad Man]

Am not a professional. But there was a time when the condom broke in one of my encounters way back in 2012.

And I was shit scared. Did lot of R&D at that time.

Keypoints.

The probability of getting HIV from one act of unprotected sex with an HIV positive female is one in a million. Provided there are no exposed cuts and bruises. However if the number of sexual partners and encounters of unprotected sex are more the probability increases exponentially.

Unprotected Anal Sex is very very dangerous. And to be avoided at any cost.

Regards,

Badman.

Reply:

Buddy sorry to say but your logic towards HIVs cannot get transmitted via vaginal penetration from a HIV infected female to a male are baseless.

I should not reveal few things socially but being a professional hazard for me to counsel others and taken an oath to save others beyond myself.

I would like to correct you that HIV transmission has no barrier of human race, color, gender, etc etc.

Rather as others are pointing out, best advice is to take STDs inspection and monitor after 6 months again.

I hope others also in this group are more sensible towards the fatalities of mongering so at least be very stern on using 'C' and avoiding DATY as much as possible unless you are very sure the girl and you both are HIV negative.

[SBlack0070]

Do not worry about HIV / AIDS. The chance of HIV spreading from a woman to a man via unprotected sex is very low (although it can happen), it mostly transmits easier from a man to a woman via vaginal and mostly anal intercourse. In your case you are more at risk from Syphilis, Herpes; Gonorrhea, Hepatitis etc. I would suggest you wait for a month from your date of unprotected sex and then get a complete STD panel test after consulting your physician & then repeat once again after 3 months from you date of exposure. For your test results to be valid and conclusive its important you not engage in further unprotected sex (both vaginal & oral) and always be honest with your doctor. Good luck!

Reply:

Buddy sorry to say but your logic towards HIVs cannot get transmitted via vaginal penetration from a HIV infected female to a male are baseless.

I should not reveal few things socially but being a professional hazard for me to counsel others and taken an oath to save others beyond myself.

I would like to correct you that HIV transmission has no barrier of human race, color, gender, etc etc.

Rather as others are pointing out, best advice is to take STDs inspection and monitor after 6 months again.

I hope others also in this group are more sensible towards the fatalities of mongering so at least be very stern on using 'C' and avoiding DATY as much as possible unless you are very sure the girl and you both are HIV negative.

[Intercourser]

And I can't think of anyone better than the MP from Kerallah to explain the technical details in his own style.

Stealth'Boy', 'LonelyMonger' has got his facts straight, albeit with caveat emptor! That being of gross oversight pertaining to vaginal micro-environment homeostasis, presuming that it's in sync and physiological harmony; which tbh, in a harlot's lifestyle and routine is most likely altered. So let's cut him some slack, not lambast and chastise for redeeming fundamental right of expressing his two cents on what is nonetheless a split-second lapse in judgement which could potentially cost OP his peace of mind and health for years to follow. Immature move OP, even a remote possibility of an iota of lethal outcome is best circumvented.

Although a Board-certified and licensed Medical Practitioner, I will make an educated attempt to justify my above stand and not ask you to blindly take my "expert" opinion at face value. A woman's Gynaecologic establishment is thoroughly evolved in the pursuit of innate hygiene, immunity, complex via epithelial defense against virulent invasion via pathogens and surprisingly efficient in self-cleansing. The vaginal microbiota is comprised primarily of Lactobacilli which maintains an acidic pH (natural spermicidal-paradox for propagation BTW), thereby biochemically inhibiting proliferation of varios other flora and micro-organisms by default, HIV expression within intriotus including. Now this phenomenon gets disrupted through unsanitary practises leading to bacterial vaginosis, Candidiasis, Trichomoniasis and the likes. Which is quite likely the case if you're going bareback on paisa-worth cum dumpsters who couldn't give two shits about ever suctioning and fumigating them privates. Hence in a nutshell, the flesh sell-out isn't the ideal candidate whom your willy ought to penetrate nilly as that would be utterly silly..