Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[KoolDude28]

Igg means its not active anymore. Active infection will come under igm. Hsv 1 is related mostly with oral herpes and hsv2 with genital herpes. Being said that one can have hsv1 in genital areas and hsv2 in oral areas. Until and unless you have an active infection and a test is being done by taking sample from that region it's difficult to say whether you are having oral or genital herpes. Since you have a history of mouth ulcers most likely you have oral herpes but that need not be true. Since its igg I don't think tingling sensation in your genital area is related to this but I may be wrong.

Herpes are not life threatening but for sure an inconvenience. It is recommended not to go for herpes test unless you have any symptoms. Most people who are herpes positive never get any symptoms or have very mild symptoms. Worst part of herpes is the virus can be active in you without any symptoms. So you won't be knowing it and unknowingly pass it to someone else. This is why it spreads so much. If we all mongers go for a herpes test 75% will turn out to be positive. So don't worry, you are not alone.

When you are having any tingling sensation in your genital areas try avoiding having any sex or getting cozy with your partner where your partner might touch your genital area. Remember herpes is a skin disease and spreads with any form of skin contact to the affected area. So better to take precautions as you don't know for sure which part of your body is affected.

Treatment wise I have heard homeopathy and ayurveda can keep it dormant for years.

I took an STD panel test and got my results which is negative for all except HSV 1 IgG with a value of 1. 57.

I a. Very scared and confused right now as I have read that HSV is not curable. I have not yet had any sores in my mouth but I some times get mouth ulcers (canker sores) since my school days. The ulcers used to automatically heal within 2 weeks.

I am having a tingling sensation in my penis since last 5 days. Its as if there is some amount of urine still left. There is no severe pain but it is very discomforting.

I want to know whether I can live a normal life with HSV 1, whether I can get married and have kids in future.

[Lamboos]

I don't smoke. Drink once a week. No much porn. Sometimes I go 10 days without porn. BP and diabetes are not a problem for me as a thirty year old.

Nowadays even 20 year olds are having BP & diabetes, so your age doesn't matter. Now, if you are sure that your problem is not physiological, then it could be sexual performance anxiety which another bro has mentioned below. Try googling it and you should see a lot of articles on the same. Go through them and see if your experience is similar.

[ThisFun]

I am suffering from PE during my first round. Second round lasts a little longer. How can I improve my PE for first round? I usually energetic during my first round only and horniness wanes during my second round. I am 30, quite fit since I lift heavy in the gym and do heavy cardio once a week. What should I do now?

Hey buddy! I faced a similar problem at the beginning of my mongering time (used to get done within 1 or 2 minutes of penetration). This happens mainly because of the excited state of mind and the reverse psychology of fear of cumming early. However, I was given very wise advice by one of the indies I met that's applicable everywhere. I will summarize what she said.

1. Mind is the best aphrodisiac, it is also the best way to control and prolong your orgasms.

2. Always try and please your partner, put their needs before yours. That way they'll make sure that you get what you need.

3. Spend time generously on foreplay. It will boost your confidence which is a key to last long.

4. While you are in the act, enjoy your time. However, do not get entangled in the worry of not lasting long, you'll last longer.

5. Practice makes a man perfect. The more sessions you have, the better you'll get at the timing.

Personal advice:

A. It's important to have asexual interaction before the act. A playful hug or some frank conversations help a lot in containing the excitement.

B. Go slow! Its not a race. Try and enjoy your time.

C. Try changing positions or taking it out and engaging in foreplay again if you think you are close.

D. There are climax delay condoms which have sensation numbing cream at the tip, they do help if used properly. I haven't tried but I have seen a guys using numbing spray on his dick when I had a threesome. Maybe works, no harm in trying.

E. Kegel exercises, very easy and very effective if done consistently.

F. Pinching the tip when you are close to orgasm helps in the timing. (pic attached).

G. You can also try diverting your mind if you feel the sensations are overwhelming, and come back to reality once they are in control. (I used to count in my head backwards from 100 to 1 or count the tiles or estimate the room dimensions).

In the end, the human mind is inherently subjective. What worked for me might not work for you. But I sincerely hope this helps! Others may add something if I missed out.

-ThisFun.

[BadBoyLucifer]

If you smoke, watch too much porn or masturbate, stop those. Do some blood tests like testosterone, estrogen, BP, etc and check if things are normal. Stress and anxiety can also cause PE. As a short tem solution, you can wank off an hour or so before you meet the girl.

I don't smoke. Drink once a week. No much porn. Sometimes I go 10 days without porn. BP and diabetes are not a problem for me as a thirty year old.

[Lamboos]

I am suffering from PE during my first round. Second round lasts a little longer. How can I improve my PE for first round? I usually energetic during my first round only and horniness wanes during my second round. I am 30, quite fit since I lift heavy in the gym and do heavy cardio once a week. What should I do now?

If you smoke, watch too much porn or masturbate, stop those. Do some blood tests like testosterone, estrogen, BP, etc and check if things are normal. Stress and anxiety can also cause PE. As a short tem solution, you can wank off an hour or so before you meet the girl.

[BadBoyLucifer]

I am suffering from PE during my first round. Second round lasts a little longer. How can I improve my PE for first round? I usually energetic during my first round only and horniness wanes during my second round. I am 30, quite fit since I lift heavy in the gym and do heavy cardio once a week. What should I do now?

[ThatOneGuy24]

Two to three licks where?In her Pu**why? Ok don't be panic go and do STI panel tests in LAL Path lab in a month and three three months from the date of exposure.

Okay bro. Thanks for the help.

[Selva0610]

So I went to a MP today and had a session. In the heat of the moment, w / o thinking I gave her two to three licks. Then sense came back to me and I stopped immediately.

Anyways, now I'm a bit scared that I might have potentially caught an STI. I know chances are less, but anyways I'm Planning on taking tests in lab to give me mental peace.

Please help me out in what, where, how, when I can test myself for potential STIs. And Also, when is the optimal period after exposure to take tests.

-T.

Two to three licks where?In her Pu**why? Ok don't be panic go and do STI panel tests in LAL Path lab in a month and three three months from the date of exposure.

[ThatOneGuy24]

So I went to a MP today and had a session. In the heat of the moment, w / o thinking I gave her two to three licks. Then sense came back to me and I stopped immediately.

Anyways, now I'm a bit scared that I might have potentially caught an STI. I know chances are less, but anyways I'm Planning on taking tests in lab to give me mental peace.

Please help me out in what, where, how, when I can test myself for potential STIs. And Also, when is the optimal period after exposure to take tests.

-T.

[MySecretLife]

STIs would be transmitted through breast milk.

Cold is fine. I am asking about STD infection bro. Anybody has any info.

[Godfather2018]

There is a risk of infection through Breast Milk. Last year I met one lactating NE therapist, she was having mild cold. I sucked her breasts, I contracted cold within a day.

Cold is fine. I am asking about STD infection bro. Anybody has any info.

[Lamboos]

HSV 1 causes infection in the facial region. Only HSV 2 is related to the genital area. It will be present in many individuals hiding in our body irrespective of sexual activity. Normally it causes cold sores when activated. So, there's nothing to worry about.

Not true. Both HSV1 and HSV2 can infect your mouth or genital regions. HSV2 is called genital herpes because it is predominantly found in the genital region. If you perform DATY on a female who has HSV2 in her genitals, then you will get HSV2 in your mouth. Similarly if a bird who has HSV1 infection in her mouth performs oral sex on you, you can get HSV1 in your genitals.

[MySecretLife]

There is a risk of infection through Breast Milk. Last year I met one lactating NE therapist, she was having mild cold. I sucked her breasts, I contracted cold within a day.

Any issues if we drink drop of breast milk while sucking the boobs of the girls. While I try not to get any fluid contact but this is becoming difficult for me during boob sucking. Please give your opinion.

[Godfather2018]

Any issues if we drink drop of breast milk while sucking the boobs of the girls. While I try not to get any fluid contact but this is becoming difficult for me during boob sucking. Please give your opinion.

[Member #4793]

Chill bro. No one developes any STI / STD with fingering.

Lots of infections spread with skin to skin contact so you'll have to be cautious because in most of the massage parlours they switch off lights and you won't be able to see any genital lesions. Best thing to do is keep the lights on so you can see if their genital area is clean or not.

Now, coming to the kissing part, if a bird's lips have blisters you can get infected with a HSV. That's why it's always important to check out the bird's body before doing anything specially DFK and DATY.

Hi brother,

Thanks you so much for the reply. I wish it shouldn't be anything serious I took Azithromycin for 2 days and stopped it. I will take a std test after 3 month.

It's easy to go have sex with stranger but after that it kills the peace of mind.