Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Handrix]

Guys today I went for a massage there the therapist gave me a Anal fingering. She inserted her finger deeply and hold it inside for 5-10 seconds and repeated it for 3 times. Now I am worried. What are the chances of getting std or sti from this act.

And also I did a dry kiss and she bited my lip, there is no fluid exchange. Is there any risk in this activity?

Please share your knowledge. My brain started overthinking.

Chill bro. No one developes any STI / STD with fingering.

Lots of infections spread with skin to skin contact so you'll have to be cautious because in most of the massage parlours they switch off lights and you won't be able to see any genital lesions. Best thing to do is keep the lights on so you can see if their genital area is clean or not.

Now, coming to the kissing part, if a bird's lips have blisters you can get infected with a HSV. That's why it's always important to check out the bird's body before doing anything specially DFK and DATY.

[SimpleMonger]

I took an STD panel test and got my results which is negative for all except HSV 1 IgG with a value of 1. 57.

I a. Very scared and confused right now as I have read that HSV is not curable. I have not yet had any sores in my mouth but I some times get mouth ulcers (canker sores) since my school days. The ulcers used to automatically heal within 2 weeks.

I am having a tingling sensation in my penis since last 5 days. Its as if there is some amount of urine still left. There is no severe pain but it is very discomforting.

I want to know whether I can live a normal life with HSV 1, whether I can get married and have kids in future.

HSV 1 causes infection in the facial region. Only HSV 2 is related to the genital area. It will be present in many individuals hiding in our body irrespective of sexual activity. Normally it causes cold sores when activated. So, there's nothing to worry about.

[Member #4793]

Guys today I went for a massage there the therapist gave me a Anal fingering. She inserted her finger deeply and hold it inside for 5-10 seconds and repeated it for 3 times. Now I am worried. What are the chances of getting std or sti from this act.

And also I did a dry kiss and she bited my lip, there is no fluid exchange. Is there any risk in this activity?

Please share your knowledge. My brain started overthinking.

[Member #4793]

I took an STD panel test and got my results which is negative for all except HSV 1 IgG with a value of 1. 57.

I a. Very scared and confused right now as I have read that HSV is not curable. I have not yet had any sores in my mouth but I some times get mouth ulcers (canker sores) since my school days. The ulcers used to automatically heal within 2 weeks.

I am having a tingling sensation in my penis since last 5 days. Its as if there is some amount of urine still left. There is no severe pain but it is very discomforting.

I want to know whether I can live a normal life with HSV 1, whether I can get married and have kids in future.

Nothing to be worried. I had have symptoms but test are negative. I tested thrice but all negative. Doctor gave me a tablet for 7 days after that treatment he said it will be under control and nothing to be worried. Incase if the symptoms reoccurring he said he will give art treatment.

You can marry and live a normal live.

Visit a doctor and take treatment. Be happy bro.

[JackyDan]

Brothers.

I noticed atleast some of you use over the counter use of sildenafil and our group mostly have people in their 40's or even 50's. I wouldn't recommend the sildenafil especially who are taking medication for any heart illness or hypertension. Sildenafil especially taken with nitrates would and can lead to fatal complications. So seniormost seniors please consult a doc before taking these.

Regards.

[IndianSexGuy]

I took an STD panel test and got my results which is negative for all except HSV 1 IgG with a value of 1. 57.

I a. Very scared and confused right now as I have read that HSV is not curable. I have not yet had any sores in my mouth but I some times get mouth ulcers (canker sores) since my school days. The ulcers used to automatically heal within 2 weeks.

I am having a tingling sensation in my penis since last 5 days. Its as if there is some amount of urine still left. There is no severe pain but it is very discomforting.

I want to know whether I can live a normal life with HSV 1, whether I can get married and have kids in future.

Did you do DATY on a WG? If yes then high chances of oral hsv. Go to a venereologist and discuss symptoms. You are either having antibodies for hsv1 or it's a false positive. With anti viral drugs hsv can be controlled, though virus will remain forever and outbreaks can happen time to time.

[Selva0610]

I took an STD panel test and got my results which is negative for all except HSV 1 IgG with a value of 1. 57.

I a. Very scared and confused right now as I have read that HSV is not curable. I have not yet had any sores in my mouth but I some times get mouth ulcers (canker sores) since my school days. The ulcers used to automatically heal within 2 weeks.

I am having a tingling sensation in my penis since last 5 days. Its as if there is some amount of urine still left. There is no severe pain but it is very discomforting.

I want to know whether I can live a normal life with HSV 1, whether I can get married and have kids in future.

Hi bro,

Sorry to know that. Don't worry or panic it's shows that you had a exposure in the past and your body had developed antibodies for that. When was your last exposure? This test result is known for high false positive results I. E shows positive even negative due to some other factors so consult a venerologist to rule out active disease and to confirm further with some other tests and to have expert answers for all your questions. Take care.

[Tylder]

I took an STD panel test and got my results which is negative for all except HSV 1 IgG with a value of 1. 57.

I a. Very scared and confused right now as I have read that HSV is not curable. I have not yet had any sores in my mouth but I some times get mouth ulcers (canker sores) since my school days. The ulcers used to automatically heal within 2 weeks.

I am having a tingling sensation in my penis since last 5 days. Its as if there is some amount of urine still left. There is no severe pain but it is very discomforting.

I want to know whether I can live a normal life with HSV 1, whether I can get married and have kids in future.

[IndianSexGuy]

How did you took half of it I mean, it doesn't have any line to break. I heard medicine become ineffective if we break that which doesn't have any line drawn.

Just to test this, I had kept half tablet in original packaging, and used it after a month. It worked absolutely fine. So don't worry about it becoming ineffective.

[Vancha]

The sildenafil or dapox doesn't work after heavy meal. It takes very long to absorb after heavy meal. Maybe try it on empty stomach. I have tried it twice and both times on empty stomach, just half tablet, and it has worked great.

I have seen that ashwagandha, Gokshura daily and yoga has helped a lot for me.

[NuttyProff]

Hi,

I have faced this frequently when trying FS at MP's and with WG, if I make out with co and dom on with full erection, I end up cuming with 3-5 minutes and if make out without one, I'm go on for a good 20 minutes or so. I even tried using man50 tablet with the said precautions as mentioned in the forum earlier but haven't got the said extensions.

Please advise.

[MongerMonk1]

Hi folks, let me tell you first that this query may seem weird for some. I am meeting a girl (not WG, a personal contact) next weekend and we will be having some fun time over the weekend. We discussed the level of fun beforehand. The problem is that while she is okay with all sorts of foreplay, she doesn't budge for any sort of insertion or BJ at all. This means I can have foreplay as much as I want, but can't really cum. As I haven't had any intimate sessions in the last couple of months, I am afraid that I may cum soon if the foreplay gets intense. What can I do to prevent this? Is taking dapoxetine tablets such as duralast 30 advisable? Is it risky if I take the tablet and don't do penetration for a few hous? My plan is eventually to warm her up and have a full fledged session as we go with the flow, but the process is going to take time, at least a good few hours. Can why'all please suggest?

[IndianSexGuy]

Thanks for your response. Will try himalaya brand tabs to increase testosorone and see how it goes

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The sildenafil or dapox doesn't work after heavy meal. It takes very long to absorb after heavy meal. Maybe try it on empty stomach. I have tried it twice and both times on empty stomach, just half tablet, and it has worked great.

[Binmbb]

Thanks for your response. Will try himalaya brand tabs to increase testosorone and see how it goes

I did some research on this yesterday after reading your post about tablet not working. Apparently it's extremely rare for sildenafil drug resistance. It seems other issue, either some underlying condition or low testosterone. Get tested. If everything normal then try visiting doctor.

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[IndianSexGuy]

I used to have normal erection buy I had pe issues.

I used to have one tablet once in 3 months. I got way better erection and pe issue solved. But now. Pe is same as before erection worse. Guess like you said my body must have become immune to the medicines. Don't know what to do.

I did some research on this yesterday after reading your post about tablet not working. Apparently it's extremely rare for sildenafil drug resistance. It seems other issue, either some underlying condition or low testosterone. Get tested. If everything normal then try visiting doctor.