Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[HpHash]

Mate,

I have a doubt. Asking this so that I can better understand the context. When you say single encounter how do we understand. Lets assume if I have GF who is HIV positive and if I fuck her then do you mean theoretically if fuck her 2600 times I can catch HIV once or if lets assume a working girl has HIV I may not fuck her lets assume more than once in a life time then won't I get it. If I were one of 2500 customers that girl services I have chance or what..

Hello bro,

This is not to scare you. You can catch HIV in a single exposure too. 1 in 2600 times means, you can catch anytime during 1st intercourse to 2600th one. As I mentioned, if you are unlucky you can catch it in the first fuck and not in subsequent 2599's. It is a probability, so it may not happen even after 2600 exposures. It is not 100% sure that you will get HIV even after 2600 exposures. It is same with GF or WG. Say if you fuck 2600 girls who have HIV, there a (one) chance that you get HIV from one of the girls. It is your 2600 count not hers.

So basically don't take chances. Wear condom all the time.

[MySecretLife]

I got dr Lal test recently. STD package worth 2800. Everything good except HSV IGG. Can it be cured? Or is it going to be with me forever.

Hi SkypeKahinka Brother,

Dr. Lal provides combo result for HSV-I&II IgG and IgM antibodies. HSV is quite tricky, confusing and misleading test. I would suggest to consult a Venereologist or Doctor specialized in infectious diseases.

Coming back to your question, IgG indicates an earlier infection compared to IgM which indicates recent infection. Some times the combo tests of HSV-I&II could be equivocal or false-positive. I'm unsure if you've any noticeable / visible symptoms like sores / blisters, if you've any such symptoms, the more deterministic way to test is PCR method. If you don't have any such symptoms, you might want to get tested separately for HSI-I & HSV-II IgG & IgM antibodies.

Finally, to answer second part of your question, if one is infected with HSV, it will be dormant forever in the body, however, the symptoms could be managed and mitigated during outbreak by using Antiretroviral medication.

However, since Dr. Lal provides combo/composite result, it is good to isolate:

1.) Whether Test results are equivocal or false-positive.
2.) Type of the strain HSV-I or HSV-II.


Regards,

MSL.
Note:- I'm not a qualified medical professional.

[BellWeather]

OK just to be clear. I am a long time monger, I was on this site under a different name (letzlove) for many many years, then deleted old account due to personal reasons when I moved out of India. Even before ISG, I was a member in WSG. Long term mongers know what is WSG. Reason I am writing this is, time and again there is a post which talks about should I use two condoms, should I get BBBJ, should I do DATY. At certain point I felt I should write my thoughts on it. With many many conquests around the world, I am writing this from my experience.

First of all stop shitting yourself about HIV. It is not, let me stress again, it is not easy to catch HIV if you are heterosexual. If you have vaginal intercourse with a women who has HIV, the chance of you getting it is 1 in 2500 exposures. The other way for women is 1 in 1250 exposure. If you are a gay man and you are a top, then 1 on 909 exposure, if you are a bottom then 1 in 169 exposure. I am assuming you are in this forum because you are heterosexual. I cannot fathom the stupidity of someone taking PEP because their condom broke once. PEP takes a toll on your total body, it is not anacin for god's sake.

For other STD's, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphillis (GCS) chances of catching are at 30% from one encounter. So yes use single condoms for vaginal sex, if it breaks during sex, wait for couple of weeks to see if there are any symptoms. All of GCS can be cured, some of them with a single pill. So don't shit, it is not end of world. I stopped counting my encounters, it is in several hundreds, did my condom break in some of those? Absolute fucking-ly. What did I catch, UTI one time from a hooker in Germany. She probably takes 10 men in a day, so that's high standard for a high mileage girl..

Mate,

I have a doubt. Asking this so that I can better understand the context. When you say single encounter how do we understand. Lets assume if I have GF who is HIV positive and if I fuck her then do you mean theoretically if fuck her 2600 times I can catch HIV once or if lets assume a working girl has HIV I may not fuck her lets assume more than once in a life time then won't I get it. If I were one of 2500 customers that girl services I have chance or what.

Sorry mate I may sound stupid, I have always not been able understand probability from school days. Am asking this specifically because it's a risk every member in this forum needs to be aware so that our hobby does not consume our lives. In respect of PEP I completely agree as it's surely will impact liver and Gut as it's very strong drug. But you have no chance as you need to be on it.

With in 72 hours from an exposure. I suggest that PEP is taken if you are Barebacking by mistake types. Also doctors have said bad odour does not have any correlation with HIV.

[KartikMacho]

OK just to be clear. I am a long time monger, I was on this site under a different name (letzlove) for many many years, then deleted old account due to personal reasons when I moved out of India. Even before ISG, I was a member in WSG. Long term mongers know what is WSG. Reason I am writing this is, time and again there is a post which talks about should I use two condoms, should I get BBBJ, should I do DATY. At certain point I felt I should write my thoughts on it. With many many conquests around the world, I am writing this from my experience.

First of all stop shitting yourself about HIV. It is not, let me stress again, it is not easy to catch HIV if you are heterosexual. If you have vaginal intercourse with a women who has HIV, the chance of you getting it is 1 in 2500 exposures. The other way for women is 1 in 1250 exposure. If you are a gay man and you are a top, then 1 on 909 exposure, if you are a bottom then 1 in 169 exposure. I am assuming you are in this forum because you are heterosexual. I cannot fathom the stupidity of someone taking PEP because their condom broke once. PEP takes a toll on your total body, it is not anacin for god's sake.

For other STD's, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphillis (GCS) chances of catching are at 30% from one encounter. So yes use single condoms for vaginal sex, if it breaks during sex, wait for couple of weeks to see if there are any symptoms. All of GCS can be cured, some of them with a single pill. So don't shit, it is not end of world. I stopped counting my encounters, it is in several hundreds, did my condom break in some of those? Absolute fucking-ly. What did I catch, UTI one time from a hooker in Germany. She probably takes 10 men in a day, so that's high standard for a high mileage girl.

From BBBJ, can you get HIV? Yes if the partner uses gallons and gallons of spit. So practically not possible. Who says there is no reported case on it. Can you catch other STD's from BBBJ? The chances are very less from a single encounter. Again I am not preaching to be callous with your attitude. Choose condoms in oral sex if you want, but don't shit about should I use it or not. If you want to go down on a girl, ask her to wash and if you feel it is clean, enjoy, if not move on.

On hygiene, it is different for everyone. I trim closely and I sweat minimum, so never had a problem. Use trimmer, easy cost effective.

DFK, for god's sake, nobody can ever catch anything other than common cold from DFK. If someone is so scared they use anti bacterial wipes before kissing a working girl, time to find a new hobby.

And as last words, Yes safety is important. Mongering is a game, like hunting. It is fun but like any other sport, it comes with its won risks. You can use all the protection you want, but still there is chance of something going wrong. We need to accept this risk as part of the sport we are in and enjoy the game.

I think there is already a sticky thread talking about all of this, please refer.

[SkypeKahinka]

I got dr Lal test recently. STD package worth 2800. Everything good except HSV IGG. Can it be cured? Or is it going to be with me forever.

[Member #4691]

Respected Seniors and fellow mongers,

Hope everyone mongering well and this forum giving lots of valuable information which related to it.

Have some of the questions and doubts which many people have in their mind may be. Have tried getting answers from google and got some healthy answers and some needs personal suggestions from the seniors and the people who are following.

1. using double condom during sex usually I was doing it before and recently saw some reply from seniors and also searched google and found it is very dangerous. Due to friction it can tear. I had many encounters consider some 30 using double condom but it was not happened for me. I remember during my second encounter with girl my condom was teared immediately I stopped the encounter and cleaned it using soap even though it was burning me. 3 years crossed and even I had HIV testing also and safe. My question in this in case of any serious intercourse what kind of treatment immediately we need to take to avoid getting STD after condom broken and had contact with girl vagina is there any tablets or injection or treatment we should take to avoid STD if so Do suggest best in Chennai..

1. Double condom always dangerous bro use latex materialized condom which almost impossible to allow the HIV virus even some of the premium condom are non latex so chose wisely latex and vigorous or light intercourse without protection or condom break will won't allow you to sleep until HIV report comeback which usually takes 90 days so always play on safe side.

2. DFK and BBJ almost equally carries the risk of STD most specifically herpes based on looks we can't assess the girl risk criteria and there s no specific vaccine kinda thing available for STD To prevent it.

[MySecretLife]

Dear community members,

Can some please guide how much shall be average time for penetrative sex. And how to get that improved. Even after dapotexine I never had more than 4 min. Any help. Will be highly appreciated. As these things can't be asked publicly.

SandyCool Brother,

From your previous posts, I presume you are from Delhi or NCR region. You need to consult an Andrologist or Urologist. You can post a query in the concerned city forum requesting recommendations for any Andrologist.

I assume you are taking Dapotexine with medical advice. IMHO, you should consult an Andrologist.

Regards,

MSL.

[SandyCool]

Dear community members,

Can some please guide how much shall be average time for penetrative sex. And how to get that improved. Even after dapotexine I never had more than 4 min. Any help. Will be highly appreciated. As these things can't be asked publicly.

[RandomIndiDude]

Dear all,

I would like to know if there are any sex therapists.

/ coach who provide experiential sex therapy to improve your skills, especially help in dealing with premature ejaculation and reticle dysfunction.

This is different from the traditional sex therapy as the latter one is purely clinical based while the former is medical plus Experientially training. It is common in the west but IDK about it here.

[MySecretLife]

Hi SaranMonger31,

Dear Seniors.
Is it safe to have uncovered blow job?
And DATY or other sort of sexual intercourse with out protection may lead to serious illness like HIV and many more STDs.

1.) With uncovered blow job, the chances of contracting HIV is very less or NIL unless the receiving person has any open-cuts / wounds / sores / abrasions on the penis. However, there is a chance of contracting many other STIs and UTI from a BBBJ. Same is the case with DATY also. You can use oral-dam as a barrier for DATY. You can convert an unused condom as a oral-dam. There is a plenty of online reading material about converting an unused condom into a oral-dam.

2.) With a commercial sex worker, it is not advisable to have a penetrative sex with out condom. Apart from risk of infections, there is a risk of pregnancy.

Help juniors by sharing your FR and what all are the precautions need to be taken or these kind of BJ / DATY should be avoided?

Most of the time STIs are asymptomatic till they manifest as STDs. For example, consider HSV, if there is an outbreak, you might see HSV sores, else, it might not have any visible and noticeable symptoms. Avoid DATY or BBBJ when either of you has any active ulcers / sores in the mouth or bleeding gums. Also, avoid DATY, if there is a foul smell near the genitalia of the provider.

I have seen Thailand and phil forums many foreigners doing sex with out cover and I don't know how they are free from STD or is there any tablets should be taken before and after deed and how the girl allow them to enter with out cover feeling surprised.

There is no silver bullet here. After all, it is an individual choice and the extent of willingness to take a risk. You might also want to read through the Safe sex thread of the corresponding countries you mentioned, where people report contracting UTIs and other STIs.

Note:- I am not a qualified medical professional.

[SaranMonger31]

Damage 8 k 2 hrs + Room 1. 5 k, Based on her FB Update "People who were asking for deepthroat BJ, Cum in mouth and rimming and fingering (Giving) !! Do inbox. I don't host. This is for people who can host " Meet her by booking a Room in K mangala. Good Deep Throat BJ without Cover, and Cum in mouth and good anal licking and fingering!! Sad part she only takes but she sd strict no to give or nor allowed me to fuck her butt hole.

Base: 8/10 . She has a lovely big soft butt.

Friendliness. 8/10 She is sweet.

Face. 6/10.

Figure. 6/10.

Not a time watcher.

Best Position. Cowgirl (Very good in Butt shaking) .

Dear Seniors.

Is it safe to have uncovered blow job?

And DATY or other sort of sexual intercourse with out protection may lead to serious illness like HIV and many more STDs.

Help juniors by sharing your FR and what all are the precautions need to be taken or these kind of BJ / DATY should be avoided?

I have seen Thailand and phil forums many foreigners doing sex with out cover and I don't know how they are free from STD or is there any tablets should be taken before and after deed and how the girl allow them to enter with out cover feeling surprised.

[DarkDevilsGuy]

Hi,

I came across this old site today. Just wanted to share.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/bangalo...w/36615940.cms

[Member #4622]

I love both experiences but I read there risks of STD via BBJ, DATY and DFK. How do you evaluate this risk?

Also do you do regular STD tests? Which labs do you use and how often? How much does it cost and how do you ask them? Thanks!

Hi friend,

Apart from HIV, there are other things to consider like syphilis, herpes, hepatitis etc. They can easily transmit if we are using condom also. So be cautious about the girls you are choosing. I think you try this only with high range escorts because many times it's safer and also decent college girls.

There are test available on some private on this thing.

Play it safely bro.

[BellWeather]

Siddha preparation poonaikali is the worst ED medicine. Please never advice anybody to try this. Did you crack a fast one. It gave me a loss of night sleep. I also had excretory issues.

No Tirrence. Don't mention about medicines which I have not had. The Siddha drug is a powerful nerve tonic and it helped me in achieving and retaining erection for around 6 to 8 minutes. Not sure if you had any other condition which you did not mention in the post. Also for any of Siddha medicines to give benefit it will take 21 days at minimum. You can't have symptoms of drugs immediately and hope you bought Poonakali from IMcops or any authorized pharma company.

Regards.

[MySecretLife]

I love both experiences but I read there risks of STD via BBJ, DATY and DFK. How do you evaluate this risk?

Also do you do regular STD tests? Which labs do you use and how often? How much does it cost and how do you ask them? Thanks!

Hi DecadentGuyy,

You can read through earlier posts of sexual wellness thread, also you can read through my earlier posts. If you still have any questions, feel free to PM me and please note that I'm not a medical professional.

Regards,

MSL.