Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[JPoppen]

ScarletCharming: If the pics are her, she is the model she says she is. Chats well. Wants 30 k for a couple of hours.

Did anyone meet ScarletCharming yet?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...2-e9d5e433d3a6

Like Phil bro posted, she is a model. Ready to do a vc. And wants 30 k for a short meet (=for a couple of hours).

[JPoppen]

Pics are not loading for me. SA website is super slow. Anyone else experiencing the same?

[Sasivad5014]

Hello any feedback on this bird? Bangalore claims to be a model.

[DevSagar]

Thanks Phil for your detailed response. One buddy did inform me that he keeps an excel sheet but he is there for the entire year, never quit SA. I need to keep a sheet for myself too.

I am majorly perplexed actually as I do repeat my old ones. I fear of losing them as I met one chick after 2 years and it took me a lot of effort to basically convince her to see me. She did and we rekindled the old sparks, it was truly heavenly and I learnt my lesson to not drop my old good chicks. My old chicks quit SA long back, working and not available as they are busy so it's kind of tough to match schedules. I like them but my this stint on SA has been a learning experience as 5% needles are still there in this haystack of chicks which need to be dissected with utmost caution and care. Yes, the current crop is different from what I encountered in the last 5 or 6 years. One chick, genuine one advised me to get off the app as this Gen Z will gobble me up; she understood that I am very sensitive and emotional fucker which hurts me in my hunting and meeting them. Another point I would like to add; a lot of mother fuckers also add to the misery of men who are truly looking for a sugar date experience, mis behave and since they paying think they own the body of women which scares that 5% genuine chicks. 95% are those chicks are no doubt baaaatttt. Ssssss of the first order. I am trying hard from my side to retain my old ones while trying new to add on to my roster.

Regards.

I retired early from the corporate world and am single so I have the time to pursue my 'hobby'.

If I am paying a large amount (we are charged US rates in India) for a 1 month sub, I might as well do it properly. I keep all data on a file for easy reference.
I know of college girls who keep the same kind of Excel sheet on their prospects.

I'd like to send a customized message to girls, but when there is nothing in their profile, cut-paste works fine and does not take time.

The first thing I ask is what they do and if they are in Bangalore. I don't continue with the make up artists, beauticians, event managers, preparing for exams girls or those who evade the question. They are all WGs. I also don't continue with anyone out of town. That has never worked for me when looking for long term.
If I don't like the pics, I don't continue.
If the quote is higher than what I pay (20 k) I don't negotiate. I just pass.
If she's not willing to do an unpaid first meet (I pay cab, maybe give a gift, if I like her) I pass.

All these filters make the message exchange fairly short for most girls.

[FunForSandy]

Sunshine is very moody. She drop one line message / question and then disappears. I know one person who met her. She is hot, passionate, does not watch time, is into the deed and charges 30 k+shopping.

When I was chatting with her she blocked after chatting for a few days. She shared her pics before that and she was actually very hot. Not sure what went wrong and she blocked me.

I had a very similar experience. We were chatting smoothly. She asked for pics to be exchanged and asked me to go first. I shared pics and bam I am blocked.

[JPoppen]

Yeah I realised later. No idea of Sunshine.

Sunshine is very moody. She drop one line message / question and then disappears. I know one person who met her. She is hot, passionate, does not watch time, is into the deed and charges 30 k+shopping.

When I was chatting with her she blocked after chatting for a few days. She shared her pics before that and she was actually very hot. Not sure what went wrong and she blocked me.

[FunForSandy]

Looks like her profile is deleted now and even her telegram is deleted. Or may be I am blocked on both.

SA profile has been deleted.

[Bachcha]

I have chatted with her but she has changed her ID and I cannot trace her from my notes. Can't read my chat on SA as my sub expired. If you can share even part of her tg, I can check.

Looks like her profile is deleted now and even her telegram is deleted. Or may be I am blocked on both.

[ScubaDo]

It's just Sunshine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-1a447c2452c4

Yeah I realised later. No idea of Sunshine.

[Phil50]

Anyone met her, any feedback.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...8-bd3fdfb32ac5

Asking 25 k for 2. 5 hrs.

I have chatted with her but she has changed her ID and I cannot trace her from my notes. Can't read my chat on SA as my sub expired. If you can share even part of her tg, I can check.

[Bachcha]

Anyone met her, any feedback.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...8-bd3fdfb32ac5

Asking 25 k for 2. 5 hrs.

[FunForSandy]

Do you mean Sunshine Pop? I'd messaged her but no response.

FierceVenus profile pic is of a fitness model / influencer in the US. I'd been in touch with her and she's great to chat with but did not do a video call but shared some "too good to be true" pics. My instinct is to avoid. I did not reach till discussion of arrangement.

It's just Sunshine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-1a447c2452c4

[Phil50]

Hey Phil, how are you managing all this dude. All of this data compilation, keeping a tab on chicks meeting, pinging, getting responses and then reverting to them chicks. I got overwhelmed and went into a kind of depressive state of mind as couldn't handle more than 50 messages in my inbox and then telegram. I simply did not log into my seeking account for a week to get over it as it was affecting my work and peace of mind. What's your secret, mind sharing it here?
Regards.

I retired early from the corporate world and am single so I have the time to pursue my 'hobby'.

If I am paying a large amount (we are charged US rates in India) for a 1 month sub, I might as well do it properly. I keep all data on a file for easy reference.
I know of college girls who keep the same kind of Excel sheet on their prospects.

I'd like to send a customized message to girls, but when there is nothing in their profile, cut-paste works fine and does not take time.

The first thing I ask is what they do and if they are in Bangalore. I don't continue with the make up artists, beauticians, event managers, preparing for exams girls or those who evade the question. They are all WGs. I also don't continue with anyone out of town. That has never worked for me when looking for long term.
If I don't like the pics, I don't continue.
If the quote is higher than what I pay (20 k) I don't negotiate. I just pass.
If she's not willing to do an unpaid first meet (I pay cab, maybe give a gift, if I like her) I pass.

All these filters make the message exchange fairly short for most girls.

[DevSagar]

Hey Phil, how are you managing all this dude. All of this data compilation, keeping a tab on chicks meeting, pinging, getting responses and then reverting to them chicks. I got overwhelmed and went into a kind of depressive state of mind as couldn't handle more than 50 messages in my inbox and then telegram. I simply did not log into my seeking account for a week to get over it as it was affecting my work and peace of mind. What's your secret, mind sharing it here?

Yeah, I did satisfy my SA itch after more than one and a half years as my dating game was not going well in March and April with a lot of cat fishing and chicks developing cold feet at the last moment; Delhi sucks too. I got realllyyyyyy frustrated one fine evening and became a premium member of SA.

Regards.

There are some ways to check how well you are doing in the 'funnel'. This time for e.g (in Bangalore).

In my 1 month membership, I messaged 271 girls in B'lore. 170 replied.

75% of those you message should read it and 75% of those should reply.
You'd get around 50 replies per 100 messages, rarely more than 60% (if you are selective).
The number I message has been increasing each time, though I am more selective. That is the positive part of SA.
For e.g. 2019-2022 I would not be able to message more than 200 profiles in Bangalore.
The percentage who read and replied have also been fairly consistent.

Of the 170 replies, there are messages exchanged with 80. That resulted in 8 meets (you have to chat with 10 to get 1 meet).
2 ghosted, so I was left with 6, though I have one more prospect to meet.

Most of these message exchanges are fairly short.

[JediBaller]

A very MBAesque breakdown of the funnel. Enjoyed reading it. I guess the numbers have been similiar for me also in terms of percentages.

The one thing hitting this funnel is the expectations the SB keeps for a PPM or allowance. I've always maintianed the stance unless one does a few PPMs and figure out compatibility, one cannot commit to an allowance (unless its just for namesake).

I guess part of the doom and gloom is from the horrible expectations from profiles on the site.

There are some ways to check how well you are doing in the 'funnel'. This time for e.g (in Bangalore).

In my 1 month membership, I messaged 271 girls in B'lore. 170 replied.

75% of those you message should read it and 75% of those should reply.
You'd get around 50 replies per 100 messages, rarely more than 60% (if you are selective).
The number I message has been increasing each time, though I am more selective. That is the positive part of SA.
For e.g. 2019-2022 I would not be able to message more than 200 profiles in Bangalore.
The percentage who read and replied have also been fairly consistent.

Of the 170 replies, there are messages exchanged with 80. That resulted in 8 meets (you have to chat with 10 to get 1 meet).
2 ghosted, so I was left with 6, though I have one more prospect to meet.

Most of these message exchanges are fairly short.