Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Pygmalion2012]

Any feedback on her? Claims to be a super model who appears in ads and what not. Also claims to have many model friends who would be willing to join for a threesome. The asking price is high.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-abbba31608c3

[QuietBoi]

Hi,

Has anyone experience of meeting EndearingMiss from Delhi. Clearly not the best looker out there but was curious to try. Being a SA noob also grateful for some tips on whom to begin the seeking game with? Appreciate the heads up.

[Pdv55]

Hello,

Thanks to everyone for their suggestions. The people here are very helpful.

I ended up meeting the girl and insisting on cash for the sake of privacy. She agreed to it.

Now about the date. It was a casual date. No sex or intimacy involved. She told me beforehand that she likes to get intimate only if there's a bond between her and the date. A lot of you are thinking - "why would you agree to pay for that?

The reason is very straightforward. I am new to mongering and to SA, so I wanted to understand what kind of girl I'm likely to meet and was comfortable going for a casual date and testing the waters.

So what were my concerns:

1) Was this a WG or just a regular chick? - She was a regular person looking for cash (obviously).

2) Since this is a date and if it works would likely be more than just sex, so is she fun to go out with? - Not really, you should go on tinder, bumble or some regular dating site if that's what you're looking for. Though, this date wasn't horrible either. It was below average, could've been worse.

Others may correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think your requirements match with the others on this forum. You may be better served by a dating app.

[Adonis12]

About to meet a girl today from SA. She wants me to to pay via gpay after the date and not cash.

Is it safe? Gpay would reveal my identity to her. Many people seem to be paying via gpay over here, but I'm sceptical.

Please let me know if there's any alternative that's anonymous. Also I'd like to your opinions on the matter.

Thanks!

Hello,

Thanks to everyone for their suggestions. The people here are very helpful.

I ended up meeting the girl and insisting on cash for the sake of privacy. She agreed to it.

Now about the date. It was a casual date. No sex or intimacy involved. She told me beforehand that she likes to get intimate only if there's a bond between her and the date. A lot of you are thinking - "why would you agree to pay for that?

The reason is very straightforward. I am new to mongering and to SA, so I wanted to understand what kind of girl I'm likely to meet and was comfortable going for a casual date and testing the waters.

So what were my concerns:

1) Was this a WG or just a regular chick? - She was a regular person looking for cash (obviously).

2) Since this is a date and if it works would likely be more than just sex, so is she fun to go out with? - Not really, you should go on tinder, bumble or some regular dating site if that's what you're looking for. Though, this date wasn't horrible either. It was below average, could've been worse.

3) Does she look good? - to me just a hot bod doesn't do it, she's got to have a pretty face too. That's one of the reasons why I chose seeking and paid for their membership. Short answer. Not a pretty face, which is to be expected I guess since her face was covered in her picture on seeking. She looked even skinnier than her pics, not in a attractive way.

If hypothetically I had met this chick for a hookup and booked a hotel room. I would've been disappointed and most likely not gone ahead with the deed.

Would highly recommend doing a video call with these girls before you meet them in person. The pictures can be very misleading.

She asked me towards the end of the date, if there was going to be a second date. There isn't. She wasn't attractive. I was turned off after the date.

Hope this was helpful to some of the newer people here.

Cheers!

[Chandforuonly]

Genuine girls do not ask advance.

Any one asking advance is scam and even you get blackmailed.

I had given some profile names earlier.

They have changed names and photos and come as new profiles.

Be aware of this clearly.

Any one asking above 10 k also may not be really good. They are well experienced pro then any normal girls.

Control your urge.

Hi,

This could be a chicken and egg situation. Some feel its not safe but a very few (me included) see no harm.

We reveal are true identities when checking into a hotel. A girl from SA may not always be a WG so this first meet could open up to more meets and other interesting adventures if we both click well.

With everybody accepting UPI, we do so many transactions now a days from small amounts to a few thousand and these include to grocery stores, monthly bills sometimes lending money to friends as well. Many of these accounts are in individual names (generally neighborhood small shops) so why worry if you are paying yet another individual.

[Phil50]

I chatted with her, exchanged pics, also spoke over phone. That time her location was shown as Hyderabad and I was trying to fix up something in Hyderabad. She told me she is from Bangalore and will be visiting Hyderabad.

Pics are attractive but lady seems to have temper issues. She quoted 20 K, I asked her to bring it down to about 12-15 range. She said if you fuck me regularly then it will go down from 20 to 15 to 12 to 10 etc etc.

But you men are creeps, you want to fuck different different girls. I was like, what the fuck, why are you behaving like a GF / Wife. Blocked her on SA and Telegram. Cannot handle unnecessary drama.

I had the same experience. Met for a drink and decided not to go ahead. Too much drama. Made unnecessary and hurtful comments on TG later and had to block.

[Phil50]

I've been a veteran on SA. Good to see this thread. I was on ISG years ago and have re-registered. First joined SA in 2014. Tried it in Mumbai, Delhi and (mostly) in Bangalore.

I actually keep a record of all SA meets. Met over 80 girls (more than half did not go beyond the unpaid meet & greet). I typically take a 1 month membership once or max twice a year. That gives a decent pipeline of girls. Done a dozen trips in India and abroad with my long term partners.

Some things that have helped:

It takes some effort to avoid the WG (they seem to be increasing). Someone active at 2 am, or has pics too good to be true tends to be a WG.

Prices need not go above 15 k. (more if its a full night). I've learnt to avoid those who are delusional about what they expect.

A lot of toe dippers too, chat and suddenly ghost. That is inevitable if you have to avoid the WG and try for the girl next door.

I have been scammed a couple of times. I put it down as a learning experience. If I am 'less than happy' with 10% of my spend, I think its quite worth it.

A video call before the meet helps you see how she looks and if she is really keen about the meet.

The girls seem better networked than we are. They have friends in the same college or workplace on SA and compare notes.

If you're a decent guy, willing to pay the going rate and treat the girls well, its not at all difficult to find someone suitable who can be a long term partner.

[Duder03]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-c7296bddaf07

If you have met this profile, kindly share your experience and allowance paid.

[DesiGuy3]

Hello brothers,

Has anyone this SA girl from Mumbai, please share Feedback service and damages.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-b5e95f243149

Thanks.

30 k for night.

[Pdv55]

About to meet a girl today from SA. She wants me to to pay via gpay after the date and not cash.

Is it safe? Gpay would reveal my identity to her. Many people seem to be paying via gpay over here, but I'm sceptical.

Please let me know if there's any alternative that's anonymous. Also I'd like to your opinions on the matter.

Have done this a few times for video calls during lockdown.

Unless you have a very rare name, I don't think its that much of an issue.

Do remember you get their real name as well.

The ones who insist on * hotels also ask you to send screenshots of booking confirmation which would also have your name.

[Rishabh78]

You can go ahead with digital transaction. Point is one bro earlier mentioned that once you do check in at any hotel, you will be providing them your identity + cctv is already there for vigilance, so there is already enough thing for recognition of your identity. Girl asking via UPI might be reason she just want hassle free mode of transaction instead of going bank carrying cash and depositing in account, I've used upi quite a time when couldn't visit ATM for cash.

About to meet a girl today from SA. She wants me to to pay via gpay after the date and not cash.

Is it safe? Gpay would reveal my identity to her. Many people seem to be paying via gpay over here, but I'm sceptical.

Please let me know if there's any alternative that's anonymous. Also I'd like to your opinions on the matter.

Thanks!

[Bloodline]

Hello brothers,

Has anyone this SA girl from Mumbai, please share Feedback service and damages.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-b5e95f243149

Thanks.

[Daddy112]

Don't t be that naive. Only cash. And keep yourself on incognito at the hotel.

Hi,

This could be a chicken and egg situation. Some feel its not safe but a very few (me included) see no harm.

We reveal are true identities when checking into a hotel. A girl from SA may not always be a WG so this first meet could open up to more meets and other interesting adventures if we both click well.

With everybody accepting UPI, we do so many transactions now a days from small amounts to a few thousand and these include to grocery stores, monthly bills sometimes lending money to friends as well. Many of these accounts are in individual names (generally neighborhood small shops) so why worry if you are paying yet another individual.

But yes, if you are using an alias for your identity, an international number for WA etc etc. You will definitely reveal your true identity to her. But I don't think there could be any harm. Worst case scenario, you can always claim that the amount was sent by error. As you can end up typing a wrong number right.

[Bond Bond]

Hi,

This could be a chicken and egg situation. Some feel its not safe but a very few (me included) see no harm.

We reveal are true identities when checking into a hotel. A girl from SA may not always be a WG so this first meet could open up to more meets and other interesting adventures if we both click well.

With everybody accepting UPI, we do so many transactions now a days from small amounts to a few thousand and these include to grocery stores, monthly bills sometimes lending money to friends as well. Many of these accounts are in individual names (generally neighborhood small shops) so why worry if you are paying yet another individual.

But yes, if you are using an alias for your identity, an international number for WA etc etc. You will definitely reveal your true identity to her. But I don't think there could be any harm. Worst case scenario, you can always claim that the amount was sent by error. As you can end up typing a wrong number right.

THESE ARE JUST MY THOUHTS. And many may not agree (am sure) So no offence meant.

Cheers!

About to meet a girl today from SA. She wants me to to pay via gpay after the date and not cash.

Is it safe? Gpay would reveal my identity to her. Many people seem to be paying via gpay over here, but I'm sceptical.

Please let me know if there's any alternative that's anonymous. Also I'd like to your opinions on the matter.

Thanks!

[DesiGuy3]

About to meet a girl today from SA. She wants me to to pay via gpay after the date and not cash.

Is it safe? Gpay would reveal my identity to her. Many people seem to be paying via gpay over here, but I'm sceptical.

Please let me know if there's any alternative that's anonymous. Also I'd like to your opinions on the matter.

It is your choice. Your privacy is important. I had an encounter with SA girl and she wants money to be deposited into her account but I decline. As this can expose my privacy.