Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**DevSagar** · 09-18-23 03:58

Phil's a senior. His and mine modus operandi may be similar but umpteen times I listen to my dick and myself become a dick. My journey has been 4 years out of which 2 lost in pandemic, my exploits have not been that big in numbers of SA chicks as I have a mind set issue of not crossing a certain amount, can't take their shitty attitude because of pussy and my work and social / family responsibilities are such that either I am too vellah (business cycles) or damn tight in terms of time availability; right now till Jan 24 I have some heavy family, work and travel commitments to accomplish. Plus I am very short of patience; that's a drawback and I've lost money in business as well due to my nature but still God's been kind. Sometimes my health, physical and mental is that at times I do not have the energy and strength to date chicks, given upon them or unmatched them and have cancelled coffee meets. It's like you need peace around you, fuck these beeeteeeechheeezzzz. I am also convinced that all of us that are here are missing something in life.

Yes, I am an active player on dating apps. The game is similar be it any platform and I am not an SA member since 11 months. That's the reason I have taken a step back in reporting my exploits in this forum before anyone raises a finger. I have got 2 great friends wherein one I meet over a cup of coffee and we talk about life in general. Chicks come later, second one is active player on SA and the first quit it long back as he's enjoying a steady seeking arrangement since 1. 5 years and I am guilty of pushing him into it as he was not agreeing to it over umpteen meetings in Costa Coffee / Starbucks in Defence Colony, South Delhi. I myself am right now kinda stuck in a mongering dilemma and trying to sort it out. I can share many more of my dating experiences here but only if guys want to know about it.

I respect Phil's journey so far, learning and enriching experience for me as well; good luck to him and Best Wishes to all fuckers here.

Regards.

Originally Posted by SeductiveChip [View Original Post]

I see a lot of similarities between you and Devsagar bro. Always felt that way but never got the opportunity to say it on the forum.

**PuneGuy2006** · 09-17-23 18:05

Hey, did anyone tried this from SA in Pune.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-e9c53f323eec

**SeductiveChip** · 09-17-23 16:16

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

Dev's post resonated with me, as that's very similar to my story. Been on SA 9 years. I'm 50+. Short and average looking. I don't date women I work with and see SA as the only way I can enjoy the company of a young beautiful lady who looks like my GF and not a working girl. My pics on SA are real and I provide a detailed profile. I insist on a unpaid 'meet & greet' before we discuss an arrangement.

A lot of success is just the way you vibe with someone. I had a great time with a hot Youtube influencer, for 15 k, who happened to be checking out SA for a couple of weeks. Our first date was just dinner at a classy place. She's not someone who'd otherwise sleep with someone for money (and can get GPS rates if she wants to). There are 5 SA friends (I say friends since we are in touch years after ending the arrangement part of our relationship) whom I have each met 50+ times. My travel with SA partners has included trekking in the Himalayas and a culinary tour or Italy. My help to them has typically included college assignments, emergency financial help or internships. I have been duped enough times and had my share of disappointments, but I regard those as a learning experience.

For me, this is what SA should ideally be about.

I see a lot of similarities between you and Devsagar bro. Always felt that way but never got the opportunity to say it on the forum.

**RussianLover19** · 09-17-23 08:25

Originally Posted by VickyVerma [View Original Post]

Anyone met her? Is she genuine? She is asking for 5 k advance. I am against online payment to be such people are scammers. So any insight will be helpful.

Thanks in advance.

She was available a few months back in kolkata. I tried to get in touch with her and she seemed fake. Originally name of this girl is poppy biswas and you can find her on insta. Now if someone using her pics or it's really her -God knows!!

**EthunHunt69** · 09-17-23 06:32

Feedback appreciated for the Pune profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-684361c050b4

Anyone meet her.

**Phil50** · 09-17-23 06:22

Dev's post resonated with me, as that's very similar to my story. Been on SA 9 years. I'm 50+. Short and average looking. I don't date women I work with and see SA as the only way I can enjoy the company of a young beautiful lady who looks like my GF and not a working girl. My pics on SA are real and I provide a detailed profile. I insist on a unpaid 'meet & greet' before we discuss an arrangement.

A lot of success is just the way you vibe with someone. I had a great time with a hot Youtube influencer, for 15 k, who happened to be checking out SA for a couple of weeks. Our first date was just dinner at a classy place. She's not someone who'd otherwise sleep with someone for money (and can get GPS rates if she wants to). There are 5 SA friends (I say friends since we are in touch years after ending the arrangement part of our relationship) whom I have each met 50+ times. My travel with SA partners has included trekking in the Himalayas and a culinary tour or Italy. My help to them has typically included college assignments, emergency financial help or internships. I have been duped enough times and had my share of disappointments, but I regard those as a learning experience.

For me, this is what SA should ideally be about.

**Rajiv155** · 09-16-23 11:02

Foxy - https://members.seeking.com/member/7...V4Z3VpZGUubmwv.

Met this profile with SA username Foxy very rude and time watcher seems proper WG sky high attitude and money greedy.

Dead fish in bed, looks disinterested in deed avoid to save your bucks.

**DevSagar** · 09-16-23 05:54

I have tried to respond to all your queries. I am a premium life member of 2 platforms; Tinder and Bumble. Tinder is shite in India whereas Bumble is fine, here and abroad. Abroad, Tinder is gold, trust me. No one single formula works on all the girls, each girl whom I have matched with and plugged taken me a bit of time and different route / approach as they are looking to earn pocket money not completely fund their life style through this. Age does matter with young girls; I've noticed this as my work experience is more than your age, so you can well imagine it, no offence mate. I keep myself fit, exercise, well groomed, eat healthy (very conscious of what goes into my tummy), primarily a one meal guy in a day that's breakfast, do not drink much and can give any young guy a run for his money as I fuck good and hard. 6 feet well-dressed appropriate weight humble guy, grounded and respectful. Not a cheap Charlie too and see to it that chick enjoys the date and experience with me either a coffee date or private time. Keep myself updated with what's happening around the world and have dabbled in various businesses, have failed more than succeeded but have tried. So have a fair bit of experience when I share my experience with chicks. No, I never and do not talk about the financials or look to take off their panty at the first date or when we start conversing after matching. In fact, I have the problem of plenty. I have seen enough poverty and wealth in my life so do not give a shit to their expectations. The chick that you posted and why we started this post is still in touch with me on app but I have not pinged her as yet for a private meet as I never ever do that. I will meet her first for coffee if she agrees as I am planning my Gurgaon meetings next week. There are some chicks that will shut their eyes and open their legs for money and some would first like to meet a guy over coffee or drink. I prefer those only as they are not available to anyone and everyone. Last year, I fucked a model in 15 K and did the stupid mistake of asking her if she would like to meet a friend. She gave me a piece of her mind and has never seen me again. Foolish of me. I matched with a girl from Bhutan, sexy chick. Met her in Hauz Khas village but not plugged her because didn't get the vibes. The doctor that I met thrice told me on coffee date itself that she isn't looking for relationship and has her time constraints. She also promised me that she will be flexible and accommodative to my timings and see to it that our schedules align. No money asked but I still gave her 10 K twice to buy something for herself. I have both good and bad tales to share. One SA chick Sreeja, I got her a job in my friends company but did not have the decency to even thank me for my gesture. That's her real name and I did not even fuck her, simply helped her as was in a position to do that. December, 2021 gave a chick viz Neha 25 K so that she could pay her MBA semester fees. She blocked me and has never seen me again. I got duped too, numerous times but I still do if I can. I am using your post because have received a couple of PMs on this subject. I do not have the time and energy to reply to all PMs. My apologies guys.

You asked me the trick. My knowledge is that men are visual and women emotional creatures. I try to connect with the chick, relate to her feelings, am somewhat decent with my usage of words and vocabulary. My profile is 100% genuine and original pictures, nothing fakes in my profile. The connect with the chick will not happen if I only look to plug her upon payment of money. Of course, we do discuss the money part but that I keep for the last. By that time the chick also gets comfortable and gets those positive vibes. No one shoe size fits all. Believe you me buddy last example as was invited by a spa chick to her wedding as well which I couldn't attend due to my schedule and it wasn't in Delhi. Of course when she was back in town, I gave her 2100/- sagan envelope, a box of chocolates and wished her well. She had tears in her eye, that's the kind of connection that I look for.

Happy Fucking weekend to all.

Regards.

Originally Posted by Lged821 [View Original Post]

I have more or less same story but on seeking only. I have forgotten the count how many from seeking I have met, it has to be probably above 80 girls for sure. Amazing experiences and shitty experiences both. LOL.

Some of them without alllownaces.

4-5 chicks whom I met 20+ times wanted to be GF even marriage. Just got rid (hopefully) of one chick who was 20 yro from Sonipat, HR met on seeking whom I met so many times but wanted GF, told her I want to end things, then she said she doesn't want anything, just want to keep the sex going without any allowance (I met her 30+ times may be, paid allowance 1-2 times and sometimes cab, got her saree, few clothes), but I was done banging her, even if free, so blocked her from everywhere, long story.

Anyways, I have a question. About the dating apps. So I tried one tinder, bumble in 2018-19 and with swiping so many times, I gave up. No matches whatsoever and even if a match, no initiation was done. I never got premium. Now since 3 days I got into bumble again, got lifetime account LOL, and I keep swiping left but nothing man. I prolly swiped left like 500+ times already. Just nothing.

Is there a trick? I am decent looking with 31 yro, bit out of shape and in bio, I put genuine stuff. How come you get so many matches? Have you put like sugardaddy type stuff on bumble on bio that chicks get attracted to? If yes, tell us more. If not, then how come chicks ask you $$ what chat do you do with them, straight to money stuff or what? I have few cousins living in Delhi so I get bit scared to write stuff like that openly in bio hence I am comfy with seeking.

You or anybody with tips, please let me know.

**Phil50** · 09-16-23 03:44

Originally Posted by MadHatter [View Original Post]

For 5 lakhs a night she better be Sridevi come back from the dead. Jesus. What is wrong with these people.

Since SA is free for the girls, some just join to get a kick from guys chasing them, even after they quote outrageous prices. Best not to waste time on these.

**KaranSharma14** · 09-15-23 20:44

She is quite good in service, loves to drink wine and cigarette, then she is very well into the game as GFE and enjoys the act too.

Originally Posted by RakeshK2021 [View Original Post]

Hey Bros,

Can anyone share genuine feedback on this indie who goes by name Yashika and from west Delhi I guess. Meets on outcall. Specially wants to know her service, attitude hygiene etc.

Only one review by Ronnie Bro in Delhi Forum there but looking for more genuine feedback.

Thanks in advance.

**Jenko Dude** · 09-15-23 15:59

Originally Posted by Lged821 [View Original Post]

The pics are real. She is on my WhatsApp too. I have been with her. She is damn short (the way I like them). She is beautiful but she has quite loose kitty. She even mentioned she had some UTI (urinary tract infection) before. I was damn careful and had see on with her. Great face, great body, awesomely not tall but she is quite open down there. Told me she had only one BF, prolly a lie.

However I don't know about this specifically profile, I connected with her 2-3 months back on a diff ID. She has a friend too who is on SA and has a SD. They are into 3 some too, however I had only her. This ID might be fake. But the pics and the person I know myself is real. She lives in GGN, and has a day job, if I remember correctly she is from UT. So proceed with caution on the ID. Do DM me the TG ID she gives you, so I can double check.

Also, idk about people scamming her but she was into platonic, and I picked her up, for a date, long drive, came to my place to talk. I didn't insist on coming up to my flat but she did. Anyways, we talked and talked and one thing led to another. This platonic date was agreed without allowance, neither she asked when I got her the cab later.

She is in Hyderabad currently from her whatsapp status. Idk if she is back or old pics on WA status.

Thanks man you mentioned UTI in very first line and I loose all the interest deleting her chat. Because her DP always entice me. Yes she's from UT lives in gurugram. Her TG ID ends with 2000.

**Jenko Dude** · 09-15-23 15:29

Originally Posted by DesiGuy3 [View Original Post]

This is a old FR. Met her in August. Do not remember all the details but will not repeat her.

Profile Link.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-21e7519d0f30

Allowance - 15 K.

Time Watcher. Yes.

Face - 8/10.

Figure - 5/10 has baby fat.

Color. Fair.

Kissing. No.

BJ - 5/10.

Boobs - 6/10 Small.

WIR. No.

She quoted me 10 k for 3-4 hrs didn't go for her as she wasn't showing pics without hijab. Also she's just 19. My previous experiences with 19-20 years old didn't go well.

**RakeshK2021** · 09-15-23 11:44

Hey Bros,

Can anyone share genuine feedback on this indie who goes by name Yashika and from west Delhi I guess. Meets on outcall. Specially wants to know her service, attitude hygiene etc.

Only one review by Ronnie Bro in Delhi Forum there but looking for more genuine feedback.

Thanks in advance.