Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Phil50]

If you are reading this, here is what I wish you understood.

1. Based on our incomes (if you have a real job), our time is worth a lot of more than yours. Don't waste it by keeping us waiting. The same goes for replying to texts.

2. Don't play silly power games like 'you text me first' or 'I don't have tg, you download xyz'. You'll just piss us off, before we even start chatting.
It's the same when your profile has a list of things you don't want, but not why we should message you. Trashing men is not a good way to earn a lot from us.

3. There are 400 of you to choose from in Bangalore. It would be nice if you give me one reason to choose you. Like a sentence in your profile.

4. I know you can travel to me. It's because I'm paying and you don't have anything else to do. It costs me a lot less to meet people in my city.

5. When there are a large number of people texting me, I can't remember what you look like, based on a 5 second pic.

6. I can understand hiding your face in the profile, but if you are successful on seeking, I'm going to see you naked, so send your own private pics without enhancing them.

7. My membership is costly. My time is valuable. We both know why we are here. I like to get to the point. It saves our time if I know what allowance you expect, early in the chat.

8. I am paying you because I want to de-stress, not hear your personal problems.

9. Asking to be paid for the first coffee meet, is like asking to be paid to attend a job interview.

10. It not a good idea to be rude or sarcastic. Men dislike being insulted more than lost money.

[FunForSandy]

Hey folks,

So I've been actively following the SA forum the past few months and it's heartening to see the sharing that's been going on off late and kudos to all brothers contributing. But alas, that does not change the incorrigible situation that has become the hallmark of SA India off late.

Everyone's talking about GPS girls nowadays and for a very good reason because when I spoke to a few brothers who use SA in Europe and North America, they told me that they could meet much hotter girls in Europe for 300 (8377;27 k) for the whole day which is actually equal to, if not less than what mediocre BLR GPS girls are quoting for a mere 4-5 hours.

I took a subscription in Jan end and goodness gracious did I regret it and how!

From girls exhibiting a supercilious disposition to not responding promptly to DM's to quoting GPS rates to dealing with WG's to nearly getting scammed, it was basically the whole shebang!

I did notice a few good profiles and connected with them but it was just mostly one sided convo from my end with little to no interest or reciprocation from their end.

I'm honestly exasperated with the downright Machiavellian and deceitful demeanour of SA birds in Blr and the subscription I took was a complete exercise in futility (I've already made a post about how two girls tried to scam me by asking me to buy them stuff).

Then I asked myself "If I had a plethora of options like people do in Europe / NA, would I be upset about chasing these girls to no avail? It was obviously a rhetorical question as I would have just ignored them and moved on to better profiles if I had the options.

That's when I had an epiphany and realized the odds were never in our favor to begin with! Acceptance of the situation is the only option we guys in India have.

It's just better to meet few good indies / SP girls and have our fun.

Sure, SA girls are classy, well educated and someone you can take on a date with and also go on vacations with. Sure SA girls are someone who you have an amazing bond and connection with that goes beyond just the sex and blossoms into a meaningful friendship with and hey, that's why we are all on this platform in the first place!

But when the situation in India is this woefully abysmal, it's better to just satisfy our physical needs and move on.

Peace out!

Couldn't agree more. I moved to SA because I wanted a more meaningful connection with classier girl (s). I did meet a couple such. But to meet them one has to sift through almost 100 profiles. The efforts required to separate the wheat from the chaff is too much.

In my opinion all is not lost. But the ROI is extremely poor.

[Phil50]

That's when I had an epiphany and realized the odds were never in our favor to begin with! Acceptance of the situation is the only option we guys in India have.

It's just better to meet few good indies / SP girls and have our fun.

Sure, SA girls are classy, well educated and someone you can take on a date with and also go on vacations with. Sure SA girls are someone who you have an amazing bond and connection with that goes beyond just the sex and blossoms into a meaningful friendship with and hey, that's why we are all on this platform in the first place!

But when the situation in India is this woefully abysmal, it's better to just satisfy our physical needs and move on.

Peace out!

Totally agree. The last time I met someone really nice on SA be'lore, was back in 2019. Met just 2 since, then whom I've seen multiple times.
To find one classy well educated attractive one, requires us to message 200 (literally) girls, chat with 50+. I have found a few over my 10 years on SA India, but the effort is no longer worth it.

If one has to only satisfy a physical need, SA is not the platform for us.

[FunToosh6045]

So my Bombay adventure continues.

After a long day of meetings I had a couple of options lined up.

I was planning to meet A 37 yr old MILF.

Part 2: The night gets better.

I have a regular. A British MILF in Bombay. During this shitty meeting with the above. I texted her and told her I am in town as a surprise. She was free that evening so she quickly came over to the hotel and she went to the bar to have a drink and wait for me.

Buddy, care to share that 37 yrs old MILF sa link?

And the british MILF is she a companion for hire or just your friend and can't be shared?

[DirtyPervert]

Any review on her? Pics look hot, ask is 15 k for a few hours but not sure how she is in bed.

Don't care if she is a WG or can't hold a conversation, only want good hot sex.

[SeductiveChip]

Hey folks,

So I've been actively following the SA forum the past few months and it's heartening to see the sharing that's been going on off late and kudos to all brothers contributing. But alas, that does not change the incorrigible situation that has become the hallmark of SA India off late.

Everyone's talking about GPS girls nowadays and for a very good reason because when I spoke to a few brothers who use SA in Europe and North America, they told me that they could meet much hotter girls in Europe for €300 (8377;27 k) for the whole day which is actually equal to, if not less than what mediocre BLR GPS girls are quoting for a mere 4-5 hours.

I took a subscription in Jan end and goodness gracious did I regret it and how!

From girls exhibiting a supercilious disposition to not responding promptly to DM's to quoting GPS rates to dealing with WG's to nearly getting scammed, it was basically the whole shebang!

I did notice a few good profiles and connected with them but it was just mostly one sided convo from my end with little to no interest or reciprocation from their end.

I'm honestly exasperated with the downright Machiavellian and deceitful demeanour of SA birds in Blr and the subscription I took was a complete exercise in futility (I've already made a post about how two girls tried to scam me by asking me to buy them stuff).

Then I asked myself "If I had a plethora of options like people do in Europe / NA, would I be upset about chasing these girls to no avail? It was obviously a rhetorical question as I would have just ignored them and moved on to better profiles if I had the options.

That's when I had an epiphany and realized the odds were never in our favor to begin with! Acceptance of the situation is the only option we guys in India have.

It's just better to meet few good indies / SP girls and have our fun.

Sure, SA girls are classy, well educated and someone you can take on a date with and also go on vacations with. Sure SA girls are someone who you have an amazing bond and connection with that goes beyond just the sex and blossoms into a meaningful friendship with and hey, that's why we are all on this platform in the first place!

But when the situation in India is this woefully abysmal, it's better to just satisfy our physical needs and move on.

Peace out!

[FunForSandy]

HelpfullMiss is time waste profile.

She / he only interested in chatting.

Not willing for VC or coffee meet or direct meet.

Have met HelpfulMiss. She is genuine but very moody. Ghosted me once without any intimation. But then met me over coffee without much ado. Regular girl next door types. Can be very funny when she wants but also very unresponsive at times.

So yes, she is high effort. Hence I didn't take it further.

[SymonWestt]

HelpfullMiss is time waste profile.

She / he only interested in chatting.

Not willing for VC or coffee meet or direct meet.

Ammykh quoted 15 k.

Mnmi 20 k.

HelpfulMiss 15 k.

Foxygorgeous 20 k.

[Mad Hatter]

I understand that you don't want to spend the money. But if 10 K subscription is too much, then this is not the game for you.

I will not share TG or numbers of seeking girls. Contact them yourself through seeking.

And most of all, I will not contact profiles on your behalf and get their TG / numbers to share with you. I am not your pimp.

[Mad Hatter]

So my Bombay adventure continues.

After a long day of meetings I had a couple of options lined up.

I was planning to meet A 37 yr old MILF. But at the last minute she turned around and told me she could only meet for 2 hours. I cancelled that immediately. Claiming some work had come up for me.

Next on the list was: https://members.seeking.com/member/5...0-6dfcebe4892e

Initial chats were good although a bit dry. We did a VC and she was very close to her pics and English was good. Agreed 30 K for the night and she came over to my hotel near the airport.

She walked in and all seemed ok. We decided to go up to the room thanks to some conference happening here. And total chaos in the lounges.

Ordered a few beers and got chatting. And what followed was the most epically stupid things I have ever heard. She claimed she wasn't an entrepreneur, but an innovator. And was working on "Hydrid AI". Lots of little buzz words and mentions of the genius of Steve jobs & musk. She claimed she was running a startup where they are working on "Hydrid Ai" and her being a tough boss to her team. About 30 minutes later she told me her startup was just her and she worked from home. She tells me she has had tons of interest from investors but needs the right investor who believes in her vision.

Her Vision: To use AI to calculate all the requirements etc for space travel. And then build the rockets to go to Jupiter in Navi Mumbai where land is cheap. It took everything not to laugh.

She then told me, people laughed at Henry Ford, Ferrari, Jobs, Musk etc. Now look at them.

It was obvious she was a poorly educated WG. And a special kind of WG. Someone with the Dunning Krueger effect and delusions of grandeur. To shut it up I quickly initiated sex. Was horny and was now in too deep.

Was some of the worst sex ever. A BJ where she barely took it in and lasted 15 seconds. No kissing. And only missionary in a position where she brought her legs together to cause a lot more friction and make you cum. I closed my eyes, thought of some porn and nutted quickly. And sent her on her way.

Part 2: The night gets better.

I have a regular. A British MILF in Bombay. During this shitty meeting with the above. I texted her and told her I am in town as a surprise. She was free that evening so she quickly came over to the hotel and she went to the bar to have a drink and wait for me.

While waiting for me, she kept sending me recordings. Which were essentially recordings of the guys trying to hit on her. A cute British Woman at the hotel bar on her own appears to be the perfect target for drunk horny travelers.

It was very interesting to see how Indian men proposition women. One claimed to be an industrialist from Dubai and asked her to come party with him and his friends. One guy straight up said, I will give you lots of money, come to room.

By that time I was done with the above girl. Took a shower to clean up and went down to the bar. As I approached her, there was a young dude, telling her that he was the owner of Reddy Pharmaceuticals and he had noticed her that night and wanted to get to know her. Bless her heart, when she said I am waiting for my guy.

I walked up and tapped her shoulder and she throws herself in my arms, giving me a long kiss on my cheeks. Poor guy. Felt awkward for him.

She then proceeds to flirt, touch and rub up against me every opportunity while we had drinks and caught up on each other's lives. After downing 2 bottles of wine, it was up to the room and some super passionate sex until 2/3 am. Then wake up and more sex.

I have a few more days in Bombay, and going to give the search for a new girl another shot tomorrow. Going to go grab some chaat and kebabs and have a relaxed evening tonight.

[FunForSandy]

Some more info:

Babydoll. A new profile. GPS - wants 45 k.

Hotbabe and Honestingenue have the same pic.

Aliya, Shikha 17, kh8295 and Ariel are not responsive.

HotNerd is strange: blows hot and cold, very enthusiastic for some moments and then disappears for a day or two. Profile shows Bangalore, but says that she is based out of Chennai. Don't know what to make of her.

[Phil50]

Stylish Shreya is a scammer. She will send you a lot of pics incl 2 nudes and ask Rs 1500 for more.

The pics are taken from the Insta account of a model in Lucknow.

If you do send the money, you can be accused of misusing private pics of the owner (since your UPI details can be traced and the actual owner has no role in this).
Legally, you might prove you were an innocent victim, but most people would rather pay to avoid complications.

There is a group of escorts who say they live in the MG road area (Honey and Flirtygeek are 2 known to me). If you are invited to meet for a drink before discussing allowance
(with no allowance agreed for the meet), there is a risk she will create a scene and demand money. It happened to me once.
There was another instance where a monger, in the heat of the moment, called the girl a working girl within earshot of others. He was picked up by the cops for 'outraging the modesty of a woman'.
This is perfectly legal. He had to bribe his way out to avoid the publicity.

By all means, meet people for an unpaid causal meet (as I do), but be careful if the girl suggests it first. Choose a place you are comfortable with and keep the screenshot where you have said the meet is unpaid and it is discuss dating (or keep the chat where she mentions her rate and the services she provides).

[FunForSandy]

The only 2 air hostesses I met (I was in a senior position in the industry) scammed me. They are Spoorti (NE girl) and CheekyAngel. Those who genuinely are (most are not) will be difficult to meet and have an inflated sense of their worth. A bus conductor has an intellectually more demanding job than they do.

That last line cracked me up. 😂128514;.

[NaughyBoy]

Some observation that is. My only two bits. Most of them calling themselves doctors are physiotherapist. SA is increasingly / rapidly shifting towards a pimp / escorts site rather than amateurs. This is my reading for the past 8 years. Oh. And in all probability there are no air hostesses too. Have tries a few wh said they were. It was clear they were not.

I met one Bengali cabin crew in 2018 at Delhi through a friend, it was 20 k per night, stayed till next morning, had nice time too, but had to delete that contact due to some personal reason.

Charlotte smith who was a girl in Bangalore claimed to be a cabin crew so met her for short time 20 k, but she was bluffing, found to be a normal college girl from yelhanka, however she was nothing less than a cabin crew, but now she is asking for 35 k plus for shortime. Hence not repeating.

Some be grade actresses from Ullu app were in touch in Mumbai SA. However not tried and dint see any feedback anywhere so dropped.

[Phil50]

Some observation that is. My only two bits. Most of them calling themselves doctors are physiotherapist. SA is increasingly / rapidly shifting towards a pimp / escorts site rather than amateurs. This is my reading for the past 8 years. Oh. And in all probability there are no air hostesses too. Have tries a few wh said they were. It was clear they were not.

The only 2 air hostesses I met (I was in a senior position in the industry) scammed me. They are Spoorti (NE girl) and CheekyAngel. Those who genuinely are (most are not) will be difficult to meet and have an inflated sense of their worth. A bus conductor has an intellectually more demanding job than they do.