Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[SeductiveChip]

Any reviews on her? She's been a member since Nov 2022.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-f355381f32b3

Regards,

SC.

So, I have been speaking to her for a while on TG. She's working as a Yoga Teacher near Sarjapur. She seemed genuine enough, sounded well educated and seemed to be coming from a good family. She had some back issues 2 weeks back and she also showed me her X-rays and it looked genuine to me. We were planning to do a VC soon and take this forward. Today the VC happened but ended badly.

She did the VC and told me she is calling from a hospital and needs funds for her treatment urgently today (she did not ask all of a sudden and was telling me from a few days that she wanted to meet someone from SA to take care of her medical expenses), she asked me for 7 k upfront, we haven't had either a dinner date or intimate date before, so I politely told her its not possible. She told me she is calling from the washroom of the hospital but it didn't look like one tbf and looked like some mall washroom. After I declined by telling her that since we haven't met before, a sense of credibility has not been established so I won't pay her, she was still friendly on call and we ended the call on good terms.

She later messaged me on TG telling me she's no longer interested in meeting me and wished me luck but was very polite in communication (she probably thought I would go behind her apologizing and offer up some money). Then I replied saying good luck to her as well. As soon as she got that message from me and knew she couldn't get any payment from me, she became rude and asked me how I am on a sugar dating website if I can't even afford to pay her 7 k. I told her, 7 k isn't a big amount for me but there is no way I'm parting with it to someone I haven't met before and she instantly blocked me afterwards.

The SA scene nowadays is downright abysmal. Entitled chicks thinking they can get away with anything. Another young college chick wanted me to buy her a 4 k vape without even doing VC and when I told her I won't pay since we haven't met before, she too replied in the same manner asking if 4 k is too much for me and how am I on Seeking if I can't even afford that much!?

The sense of entitlement with SA birds nowadays is rather preposterous. I had bought SA subscription in Jan and I genuinely regret spending every rupee on it. Could have donated it to an orphanage instead.

The scene in BLR is so bad now that I'm contemplating quitting mongering altogether and just making a Thailand trip once every 3-4 months.

P.S.: please don't request for her TG ID as it's hidden and shows up as "Unknown".

[RussianLover19]

Anyone spoke to this girl?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...2-dcec9b43d8cc

[ArvindNene]

Nothing wrong in your approach and thought process. Which is why I started the post by acknowledging that this is not for those who are looking just for sex.

All excellent points.

However, folks meet girls for different reasons. I have zero interest in intellectual talks with the indies I sleep with. A decent conversation is enough for me. I have plenty of female friends who excite me intellectually and with whom I love having discussions on career guidance, professional lives etc.

Here, I just want sex. Good sex. Everything else is secondary (except hygiene). So I don't mind if they are hookers or genuine indies. Maybe that is why I don't get Massage parlours as well. Pay someone to give you a HJ or a B2 B? Not for me. Paying for coffee dates? Never.

Maybe I am a bit young as compared to some of the senior folks here and later on I will also follow their footsteps.

This isn't a criticism of the senior members and how they use SA. It is their money and their right to do what they want. It is just that some of us like something else.

[Shegoy]

Well said and well done Sir. Cheers to your sexcapades.

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.


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Lastly, the benefits that stem from earning trust and going longer with one girl are really worth it. It opens doors, exploration and horizons that one off meets just cannot. And if you play it right, it is not as expensive as one would thing. For the record. No girl has ever wanted a six figure monthly allowance. For that matter even a high five figure monthly allowance.

[Enjoyi]

"ElegantAphrodite" from Hyderabad SA.

Brothers, please help me with feedback, if any of you have met her? Is she genuine? She claims to be a Medico student from Kothapet.

[MayanKanand]

It's like this: To find a good, you probably have to message 100+ profiles. In Bangalore, where I am based, I typically message 200 girls when I take a 1 month SA membership. I end up meeting 6-8 and going ahead with 1-2.

SA Chennai has a fraction of the girls Bangalore has in a city of similar size. There are probably suitable girls in Chennai but a lot of more difficult to find.
Girls in Bangalore I know routinely get messages from mongers in Chennai / Coimbatore, because of the lack of quality in their cities.

True. And after messaging a lot of profiles, there is no guarantee that you will find anyone. The ratio is so skewed that on comparison, what one may find at say 12-15 k in Bangalore / Pune, will easily charge you 30-40 k and have one of the worst attitudes. Some folks I know from here have stopped subscribing.

[BeStill]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this girl called StylishSocialite from SA Bangalore.

She keeps changing her profile name, earlier it was Natasha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-a38f45ade918

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-ca2aadaf13a7

Thanks.

SW.

Chatted with her a while ago and everything seemed to be going on well. She sounded genuine on all the voice notes she sent me. However, she backed off when I told her my age and said that she doesn't meet anyone so young. Gave me a lecture on I should be focusing on my life instead of spending money like this. I was amused but anyway.

Felt genuine throughout if that is what you are looking for.

[BeStill]

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.

First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.

All excellent points.

However, folks meet girls for different reasons. I have zero interest in intellectual talks with the indies I sleep with. A decent conversation is enough for me. I have plenty of female friends who excite me intellectually and with whom I love having discussions on career guidance, professional lives etc.

Here, I just want sex. Good sex. Everything else is secondary (except hygiene). So I don't mind if they are hookers or genuine indies. Maybe that is why I don't get Massage parlours as well. Pay someone to give you a HJ or a B2 B? Not for me. Paying for coffee dates? Never.

Maybe I am a bit young as compared to some of the senior folks here and later on I will also follow their footsteps.

This isn't a criticism of the senior members and how they use SA. It is their money and their right to do what they want. It is just that some of us like something else.

[DecloTofen]

Is shehnaazkhan a legit escort service? Anyone tried it?

Or it's a hoax?

[FunForSandy]

This is not about your post, but several like this I come across:

If someone does not reply / blocks / ignores you / does not turn up, drop them.

In our professional lives, we are generally in senior positions and would never run after a service provider who I can potentially give a lot of money to, but shows no interest in us.

If these girls had a real job, most would get a monthly salary that is the same as what they get for a couple of hours of 'service'. There's no other country that has the cost of sex being the same as monthly minimum wage. On a per hour basis, they get the same as the country's top CA's, surgeons. Consultants etc. I don't grudge them that. It's the reality of supply and demand in India.

However, I do expect them to be professional, polite, punctual etc. I would not tolerate a college kid being rude to me, or ghosting, or being disrespectful.

Wise words as always Phil. Usually I move on if two of my msgs are ignored. I am a little intrigued about this one, so was just checking.

[Phil50]

Hey friends,

Has anyone met or spoken to the sultry soul?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-45ae512c772b

While the profile looks good and is active, she is not responding to the msgs.

TIA.

This is not about your post, but several like this I come across:

If someone does not reply / blocks / ignores you / does not turn up, drop them.

In our professional lives, we are generally in senior positions and would never run after a service provider who I can potentially give a lot of money to, but shows no interest in us.

If these girls had a real job, most would get a monthly salary that is the same as what they get for a couple of hours of 'service'. There's no other country that has the cost of sex being the same as monthly minimum wage. On a per hour basis, they get the same as the country's top CA's, surgeons. Consultants etc. I don't grudge them that. It's the reality of supply and demand in India.

However, I do expect them to be professional, polite, punctual etc. I would not tolerate a college kid being rude to me, or ghosting, or being disrespectful.

[DevSagar]

Arvind, great to read your experiences. Man, I 100% can relate to each and everyone of it.

I wish and humbly request you put it out in Delhi forum to educate some Delhi punters who do not know what it is and how best to unearth gems.

Non experienced guys can learn a lot from your FR and how to best manage these SA chicks.

Thanks for sharing.

Regards.

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.

First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.

If you are however looking for genuine girls who will be with you long term and have the looks and the brains, SA requires patience. The first patient part is to weed out the 90% girls who are just looking for quick $$ That takes experience to read and see through. And a strong will to not get tempted by pictures or flirting.

I have had very good success in general. Some of my highlights include.

1) A really hot bisexual instagram influencer and content creator. I met her multiple times. She was 24. The highlight was when she and her lesbian partner gave me a show...

[FunForSandy]

Hey friends,

Has anyone met or spoken to the sultry soul?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-45ae512c772b

While the profile looks good and is active, she is not responding to the msgs.

TIA.

[MoreMoney]

Yep. Thats what she told me. I am in conversation with her.

She quoted me 15 k for 4 hours. I told her not happening.

She asked me what I will give, I told her I will think about it.

What is she quoting you??

I haven't asked for the quotation yet. She looks ₹3 k / shot at best.

I asked her for virtual fun and she said okay but for 2 K / Show.

[MidtownGuy]

Well done for putting up a great post.

I also feel that SA is a great platform. One has to be patient to dig gold. I took a month subscription (Jan. -23) and found enough genuine contacts. Have met many by now and am doing multiple meetups with 4-5 of my them.

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.

First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.

If you are however looking for genuine girls who will be with you long term and have the looks and the brains, SA requires patience. The first patient part is to weed out the 90% girls who are just looking for quick $$ That takes experience to read and see through. And a strong will to not get tempted by pictures or flirting.

I have had very good success in general. Some of my highlights include.

1) A really hot bisexual instagram influencer and content creator. I met her multiple times. She was 24. The highlight was when she and her lesbian partner gave me a show.

2) A final year medical student with whom I had a long term thing. There were no allowances after a couple of months. She just loved being with me and the kinks I am into. A squirter with a libido that had no limits. I mentored her for a bunch of post grad MBA entrances on the side. It was a proper rules based and reward / punishment driven approach to motivate her and help her structure her prep.