Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Nightmares]

Hi bros,

Anybody has interacted or met below profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...7-9838181ba3b9

[DrySpell123]

I agree with this. With age comes maturity and no point escalating it. On the flip side, this is the exact reason the girl continues to scam.

She just needs to meet a man who throws all logic and benefit cost analysis out of the door and gets even.

[Indian Pikachu]

The way you describe her that's how every urban 20-something-year-old talks, who come from well-to-do. A bit of exaggeration, a bit of pretentiousness, a bit of wannabe attitude. A lot of excitement, for new things and in-trend things. That's legit the kind of people I grew up around, and still talk to. I assume its an age thing, you are probably a lot older. If you hang out in Bombay urban circles, legit everyone talks like this. I am surprised you haven't encountered such people yet. I am 100% confident she went to a very rich kid school, or a very well-to-do crowd school where everyone speaks English, and follows everything USA. Like I said 2 different worlds. She sounds like she is from mine. Good luck on your future endeavors. Guess its a matter of choice and taste.

I understand what you are saying dude, But honestly, this was as if everything you have mentioned was turned to the extreme and to the point where it was too much. Allow me to explain.

It appears to me that you have not had a true sugar baby so you think this one could be a gem. But each to their own.

[SeductiveChip]

You are assuming the girl to be smart enough to have a lot of time and planning into it. With someone else's bank accounts in place, and all shadow channels so it isn't traced back to her. There's a chance she's not smart, people who scam by selling sex usually aren't. What you have outlined is the most extreme and negative possibilities in such a scenario. There are many other possibilities, with money and your influence placing you in a sweeter spot than her. If I was poor, and I know I was going to scam rich uncles, I would be scared because they have contacts. Thats a simple thing anyone would think. Whatever you outlined is very theoretical and likely would happen if you are the unluckiest man in the world, and it is the unluckiest day of your life and its not even 2% chance of that.

I work in business, yes I am ivy league educated, but my 1-year long stay in India and business scene. Let me make things very clear to you. All this theoretical BS about lawsuits, and women getting justice are truly BS. Everything runs on the money here, that's just a concept that urban teenagers like to draw from the west. Every day in business we have scams going on, people not paying back, and giving faulty products to the tune of crores, I know people who forged documents and sold land to other people, have court cases from 10+ year, and still buying mansions.

Some dude hit my car, I didn't care because wasn't worth my time. If you go to the police here and say "some auto guy stole my phone", they going to tell you to fuck off. We have to keep in touch with bureaucracy and politicians and have muscle guys to extract money bro. A friend hit and run some dude, his driver went to jail for him, he is chilling in usa today. You are stating something that happens in a perfect and just society, and India isn't that. No one cares, girl a hoe, and she will get ruined. You need balls. You are assuming, everyone will be against you, and nothing will work your way. You are assuming police will harass you. I would rather you bribe them up front to make her life hell..

Like, can you actually come up with a good FR for an SA bird in India or are you just going to keep bragging about your Ivy League degree on an anonymous platform for the millionth time?

[Shahiste72]

Got back from Bangalore a week ago and it has taken me a week to get over the experience I had in Bangalore.

I went to Bangalore on a work trip. Then I decided to combine it with a weekend so I had a good 3 days to relax either with family or alone. Of course, being the harami that I am, decided that at least one or two days should be by myself.

A few days prior to that, I was on Bangalore seeking and was chatting to a couple of women. I like my women educated, intelligent and mature and one seemed to have all the qualities. Her profile was called something along the lines "Princess Di" with a profile line along the lines of "the crown fits me". Or something like that. The profile has disappeared now so I assume she either deactivated it or has blocked me. She shared her real name with me and I saw that she was quite well know among certain circles and had lead quite a high profile life. As for looks, from what I found on the internet she was quite a good looking woman in the traditional Indian beauty kind of sense. And had a banging body.

We chatted for a bit and surprise surprise she was in Bangalore for some work and was staying at a nearby airbnb. We agreed for 50 K for 24 hours. All sounded great and the telephone conversation flowed really well so the hopes were high for this one.

Decide to meet in the morning for breakfast and take it from there. We meet at this famous dosa place and while I am a bit disappointed with the what she is wearing. She is in sweatpants and she has lost quite a bit of weight and not a fan of her new hair, but she is good looking.

The conversations starts to flow and I realise this woman can talk. I mean just talk and talk and talk. And most of it is trite rubbish. I get to know everything about her past, her ex husband, her friends, her hobbies, her likes and dislikes, her music tastes etc etc etc. It is only 9:30 am and I am exhausted.

But a commitment has been made, and like every masochistic idiot, I am going to push through and embrace this pain. Doesn't help that I haven't had sex in more than 10 days and I am getting antsy.

Back to the hotel and she promptly ordered some vodkas and was hitting them hard. Its 10:30 am.

She asks for some music and then starts to dance and drink by herself. While the woman can move well, there is something very unsexy about a woman in sweatpants getting plastered in the morning. Its only 11:00 am. This is going to be a long day.

Finally she makes her move and I said fuck it, at least now she will stop talking. Within minutes we are up against the wall and the day is looking brighter already. Good kisser and lovely perky boobs. On to the bed and get her sweats off and have to deal with legs that have not been shaved in a few weeks. I guess some women like it au natural. And besides, after everything this morning, this is a small turn off.

We start to go for it in missionary and she begins to talk. WTF. She starts to describe how it feels and what she wants me to do next. Porno level it wasn't. Cringy? Definitely. I am cringing as I hear "make this lady your", "I feel myself becoming yours". It is getting really hard to keep it up. So I decide to flip her over and push her head in to the pillow. This should shut her up.

I turn her around for doggy and as I start to pound away, I notice something is not quite right. I slow down and stare at her anus. It is bright pink, almost red, with a couple of small black patches on it. The curtains are drawn so I don't have the best view. I stop for a second and stare, and suddenly all my neurons are firing away in disgust. It's a fucking prolapsed anus and those black patches are either dried blood or shit. Either way, I want no part of this.

I start to retch and the heaving starts. I can feel the bile rising up my throat like a volcanic eruption. I cup my hands on my mouth, but it is too late. Some of it spurts out between my fingers all over her back, as I pull out and run to the bathroom. I end up throwing up my breakfast of dosa and vada. I keep dry heaving in to the toilet.

In the meanwhile, she has quietly walked in to the shower and washed off the bits of dosa / chutney / bile on her back and starts to get dressed up. I jump in the shower to cleanse myself and my mind.

Walk in to the living room and see her sheepishly finishing out her drink. I dropped the cash in to her bag and walked back in to the bedroom and not a single word was exchanged. I hear her leave the room and I sink in to the bed contemplating life, the universe and everything.

Took me 24 hours to look at myself in the mirror and a full week to be able to write about it. Quite over it now. But, that pink and black rosebud of an asshole will forever haunt my memories. Knowing my luck, this might be the last thing I see before I die. LMAO.

Yeah, so to all my fellow monger. Avoid this one unless this is a fetish of yours. Time to take another shower. LOL.

What a horrible experience.

[HituMonger]

I am assuming nothing. What I have posted are my real situations on SA and those of fellow mongers who have shared theirs. This is a forum where we learn from each other's actual experience. If, as you say, I don't understand how India works (never mind that I have worked for 3 decades and ran a business with 1000+ people), it would be useful if you can post your actual SA experiences in India, where you were able to take revenge on a scammer. I've not seen any actual FR of yours, or feedback on any profile. I'm not clear how most of what you post is relevant to our having a better SA experience.


I have been summoned to the police station by someone I tried to get even with. I sorted it out paying a small chai-pani, because I understand the law and thought it important to share with others what they might not know. Let's make this a forum where we learn from facts and real experiences, not judge people.

I find your views very balanced and experienced. Even small incidence with police interaction would take your peace for days. Its not worth.

[HituMonger]

You will hopefully realize with maturity that chasing after a girl trying to achieve some justice for her running away with some money is rather pointless and a waste of time. You also learn with age to laugh off such incidents and move on.

There is a strong possibility that exposing her will invite trouble. Sure, tell her parents, and all she has to do do is deny everything and say someone is stalking her. I don't know where you live but it is very easy for a woman to file a complaint here in Bangalore. Women have a separate helpline. Yes, it is easy for us to use our connections to close everything, but when that happens, you will perhaps be quite regretful. Much of the knowledge shared here has been on how to stay out of such a situation and I don't think any of the learned members here have ever written a post on how to get back at a wg. Clearly, there appears to be some collective wisdom I that points towards refraining from it.

Not all the SA girls are hookers operating out of a shack. Many are quite well educated to know how to fight back.

Assuming that some of the senior members here do not know how this country functions is naive on your part. Perhaps some field reports of your actual encounters on SA will be more educative.

Absolutely agree with you. Getting back to Wg or trying to set a score is absolutely childish act. Howsoever good connection you have. When things go wrong even best of connection cannot help you.

[TheOscillator]

I chatted with her.

She was bang average on pics, asked 15 k for full night. So I rejected her.

But seemed like a genuine person.

Hi Bro,

You were right. Experience was avg. She is short and plump North Ktka girl. Damage was 12 k for ST.

OCLTR.

[Nightmares]

How was her looks and service like? Do you make these a long term thing or a one and done thing.

Hi,

She is bengali girl, slim body. Worth a try for short term.

[Christmas Tre]

You will hopefully realize with maturity that chasing after a girl trying to achieve some justice for her running away with some money is rather pointless and a waste of time. You also learn with age to laugh off such incidents and move on.

There is a strong possibility that exposing her will invite trouble. Sure, tell her parents, and all she has to do do is deny everything and say someone is stalking her. I don't know where you live but it is very easy for a woman to file a complaint here in Bangalore. Women have a separate helpline. Yes, it is easy for us to use our connections to close everything, but when that happens, you will perhaps be quite regretful. Much of the knowledge shared here has been on how to stay out of such a situation and I don't think any of the learned members here have ever written a post on how to get back at a wg. Clearly, there appears to be some collective wisdom I that points towards refraining from it.

Not all the SA girls are hookers operating out of a shack. Many are quite well educated to know how to fight back.

Assuming that some of the senior members here do not know how this country functions is naive on your part. Perhaps some field reports of your actual encounters on SA will be more educative.

You are assuming the girl to be smart enough to h
ave a lot of time and planning into it. With someone else's bank accounts in place, and all shadow channels so it isn't traced back to her. There's a chance she's not smart, people who scam by selling sex usually aren't. What you have outlined is the most extreme and negative possibilities in such a scenario. There are many other possibilities, with money and your influence placing you in a sweeter spot than her. If I was poor, and I know I was going to scam rich uncles, I would be scared because they have contacts. Thats a simple thing anyone would think. Whatever you outlined is very theoretical and likely would happen if you are the unluckiest man in the world, and it is the unluckiest day of your life and its not even 2% chance of that.

Some dude hit my car, I didn't care because wasn't worth my time. If you go to the police here and say "some auto guy stole my phone", they going to tell you to fuck off. We have to keep in touch with bureaucracy and politicians and have muscle guys to extract money bro. A friend hit and run some dude, his driver went to jail for him, he is chilling in usa today. You are stating something that happens in a perfect and just society, and India isn't that. No one cares, girl a hoe, and she will get ruined. You need balls. You are assuming, everyone will be against you, and nothing will work your way. You are assuming police will harass you. I would rather you bribe them up front to make her life hell.

Idk man, I feel you don't know the real India, or maybe you are part of a very educated urban community. I am in the business community so things for us are as real as it gets in the third world. Maybe I would think differently if I got an education and did job and stayed in discipline with rules all my life. I chose a different path. Theres a lot of ways to get back to her, the most direct being direct harassment, but if its too much for you, I get it.

[Shnshan7]

The point I want to make is, don't ever pay advance. Chances are you will get scammed. If you are scammed, you will probably make things worse by trying to get even. That can happen if act without understanding some of the consequences. My experience is that its best to learn from mistakes and move on. I've been on SA 9 years. I pay by bank transfers, so its not that I feel scared.

Agreed and noted.

[Phil50]

How was her looks and service like? Do you make these a long term thing or a one and done thing.

Slim, dusky, long hair, Bengali girl. She has done amateur modelling.

[Phil50]

You are assuming the girl to be smart enough to have a lot of time and planning into it. With someone else's bank accounts in place, and all shadow channels so it isn't traced back to her. There's a chance she's not smart, people who scam by selling sex usually aren't. What you have outlined is the most extreme and negative possibilities in such a scenario. There are many other possibilities, with money and your influence placing you in a sweeter spot than her. If I was poor, and I know I was going to scam rich uncles, I would be scared because they have contacts. Thats a simple thing anyone would think. Whatever you outlined is very theoretical and likely would happen if you are the unluckiest man in the world, and it is the unluckiest day of your life and its not even 2% chance of that.

I work in business, yes I am ivy league educated, but my 1-year long stay in India and business scene. Let me make things very clear to you. All this theoretical BS about lawsuits, and women getting justice are truly BS. Everything runs on the money here, that's just a concept that urban teenagers like to draw from the west. Every day in business we have scams going on, people not paying back, and giving faulty products to the tune of crores, I know people who forged documents and sold land to other people, have court cases from 10+ year, and still buying mansions.

Some dude hit my car, I didn't care because wasn't worth my time. If you go to the police here and say "some auto guy stole my phone", they going to tell you to fuck off. We have to keep in touch with bureaucracy and politicians and have muscle guys to extract money bro. A friend hit and run some dude, his driver went to jail for him, he is chilling in usa today. You are stating something that happens in a perfect and just society, and India isn't that. No one cares, girl a hoe, and she will get ruined. You need balls. You are assuming, everyone will be against you, and nothing will work your way. You are assuming police will harass you. I would rather you bribe them up front to make her life hell.

Idk man, I feel you don't know the real India, or maybe you are part of a very educated urban community. I am in the business community so things for us are as real as it gets in the third world. Maybe I would think differently if I got an education and did job and stayed in discipline with rules all my life. I chose a different path. Theres a lot of ways to get back to her, the most direct being direct harassment, but if its too much for you, I get it.

I am assuming nothing. What I have posted are my real situations on SA and those of fellow mongers who have shared theirs. This is a forum where we learn from each other's actual experience. If, as you say, I don't understand how India works (never mind that I have worked for 3 decades and ran a business with 1000+ people), it would be useful if you can post your actual SA experiences in India, where you were able to take revenge on a scammer. I've not seen any actual FR of yours, or feedback on any profile. I'm not clear how most of what you post is relevant to our having a better SA experience.

To take your own example. You say you will bribe the cops (or pay others to harass) because, as you rightly say, cops are not bothered if someone has damaged your car. So, if you have been scammed for Rs 5000, how much of a bribe are you going to pay (or how much will you pay someone to trace her and then to get even) ? I can and have traced people and have the contacts, but I'd rather use them for something more important than some girl who cheated me of what I would have spent on lunch. If, as you say, whatever I've posted is BS, please tell us, in an actual situation you faced, in India, what you did differently to get your revenge.

I recently posted about a girl who took the cab fare from me and ghosted (we never met). Her name. Which I traced from the QR code of the UPI is unique. I know the CEO of the MNC she works in. It is not worth my time and the embarrassment to take it up with him. I cannot speak for others whose time and professional reputation is worth less. I also posted about another one (Spoorti) who scammed me. I know her employer and can expose her, but the chances of success and possible damage to my reputation are unknown. That's a call only I can take.

I have been summoned to the police station by someone I tried to get even with. I sorted it out paying a small chai-pani, because I understand the law and thought it important to share with others what they might not know. Let's make this a forum where we learn from facts and real experiences, not judge people.

[Phil50]

Hi bros,

Meet this gal, her ask was 20 k, was in touch with her for a while. Finally negotiated and she agreed for 15 k.

Couple of session, Gives good company.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-4aaae83ba7ad

Cheers.

I had a 'meet & greet' with her. She quoted the same (15) to me. I am selective and looking for one long term partner, so I passed, else I would have gone ahead.

[Newbie1998]

Hi bros,

Meet this gal, her ask was 20 k, was in touch with her for a while. Finally negotiated and she agreed for 15 k.

Couple of session, Gives good company.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-4aaae83ba7ad

Cheers.

How was her looks and service like? Do you make these a long term thing or a one and done thing.