Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[FunForSandy]

This is not about your post, but several like this I come across:

If someone does not reply / blocks / ignores you / does not turn up, drop them.

In our professional lives, we are generally in senior positions and would never run after a service provider who I can potentially give a lot of money to, but shows no interest in us.

If these girls had a real job, most would get a monthly salary that is the same as what they get for a couple of hours of 'service'. There's no other country that has the cost of sex being the same as monthly minimum wage. On a per hour basis, they get the same as the country's top CA's, surgeons. Consultants etc. I don't grudge them that. It's the reality of supply and demand in India.

However, I do expect them to be professional, polite, punctual etc. I would not tolerate a college kid being rude to me, or ghosting, or being disrespectful.

Wise words as always Phil. Usually I move on if two of my msgs are ignored. I am a little intrigued about this one, so was just checking.

[Phil50]

Hey friends,

Has anyone met or spoken to the sultry soul?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-45ae512c772b

While the profile looks good and is active, she is not responding to the msgs.

TIA.

This is not about your post, but several like this I come across:

If someone does not reply / blocks / ignores you / does not turn up, drop them.

In our professional lives, we are generally in senior positions and would never run after a service provider who I can potentially give a lot of money to, but shows no interest in us.

If these girls had a real job, most would get a monthly salary that is the same as what they get for a couple of hours of 'service'. There's no other country that has the cost of sex being the same as monthly minimum wage. On a per hour basis, they get the same as the country's top CA's, surgeons. Consultants etc. I don't grudge them that. It's the reality of supply and demand in India.

However, I do expect them to be professional, polite, punctual etc. I would not tolerate a college kid being rude to me, or ghosting, or being disrespectful.

[DevSagar]

Arvind, great to read your experiences. Man, I 100% can relate to each and everyone of it.

I wish and humbly request you put it out in Delhi forum to educate some Delhi punters who do not know what it is and how best to unearth gems.

Non experienced guys can learn a lot from your FR and how to best manage these SA chicks.

Thanks for sharing.

Regards.

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.

First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.

If you are however looking for genuine girls who will be with you long term and have the looks and the brains, SA requires patience. The first patient part is to weed out the 90% girls who are just looking for quick $$ That takes experience to read and see through. And a strong will to not get tempted by pictures or flirting.

I have had very good success in general. Some of my highlights include.

1) A really hot bisexual instagram influencer and content creator. I met her multiple times. She was 24. The highlight was when she and her lesbian partner gave me a show...

[FunForSandy]

Hey friends,

Has anyone met or spoken to the sultry soul?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-45ae512c772b

While the profile looks good and is active, she is not responding to the msgs.

TIA.

[MoreMoney]

Yep. Thats what she told me. I am in conversation with her.

She quoted me 15 k for 4 hours. I told her not happening.

She asked me what I will give, I told her I will think about it.

What is she quoting you??

I haven't asked for the quotation yet. She looks ₹3 k / shot at best.

I asked her for virtual fun and she said okay but for 2 K / Show.

[MidtownGuy]

Well done for putting up a great post.

I also feel that SA is a great platform. One has to be patient to dig gold. I took a month subscription (Jan. -23) and found enough genuine contacts. Have met many by now and am doing multiple meetups with 4-5 of my them.

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.

First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.

If you are however looking for genuine girls who will be with you long term and have the looks and the brains, SA requires patience. The first patient part is to weed out the 90% girls who are just looking for quick $$ That takes experience to read and see through. And a strong will to not get tempted by pictures or flirting.

I have had very good success in general. Some of my highlights include.

1) A really hot bisexual instagram influencer and content creator. I met her multiple times. She was 24. The highlight was when she and her lesbian partner gave me a show.

2) A final year medical student with whom I had a long term thing. There were no allowances after a couple of months. She just loved being with me and the kinks I am into. A squirter with a libido that had no limits. I mentored her for a bunch of post grad MBA entrances on the side. It was a proper rules based and reward / punishment driven approach to motivate her and help her structure her prep.

[ImVirat]

Any reviews on her? She's been a member since Nov 2022.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-f355381f32b3

Regards.

Bro. Did you meet her.

[ImVirat]

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.

First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.

If you are however looking for genuine girls who will be with you long term and have the looks and the brains, SA requires patience. The first patient part is to weed out the 90% girls who are just looking for quick $$ That takes experience to read and see through. And a strong will to not get tempted by pictures or flirting.

I have had very good success in general. Some of my highlights include.

1) A really hot bisexual instagram influencer and content creator. I met her multiple times. She was 24. The highlight was when she and her lesbian partner gave me a show...

Such posts are really very helpful. Appreciate your insights.

Were all the above from SA. I suppose Bangalore. Right?

[Ge148]

I was in touch with her too but said no to BJ (strict no) so I didn't proceed even for free 😀.

Yep. Thats what she told me. I am in conversation with her.

She quoted me 15 k for 4 hours. I told her not happening.

She asked me what I will give, I told her I will think about it.

What is she quoting you??

[Preston503]

Anyone tried her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...5-69fd319be6ee

After years of trying SP girls, I'm tired and so finally got premium on SA. Thinking of proceeding with this girl. Says she is based in Chat*pur.

Yep. Thats what she told me. I am in conversation with her.

She quoted me 15 k for 4 hours. I told her not happening.

She asked me what I will give, I told her I will think about it.

What is she quoting you??

[ArvindNene]

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.

First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.

If you are however looking for genuine girls who will be with you long term and have the looks and the brains, SA requires patience. The first patient part is to weed out the 90% girls who are just looking for quick $$ That takes experience to read and see through. And a strong will to not get tempted by pictures or flirting.

I have had very good success in general. Some of my highlights include.

1) A really hot bisexual instagram influencer and content creator. I met her multiple times. She was 24. The highlight was when she and her lesbian partner gave me a show.

2) A final year medical student with whom I had a long term thing. There were no allowances after a couple of months. She just loved being with me and the kinks I am into. A squirter with a libido that had no limits. I mentored her for a bunch of post grad MBA entrances on the side. It was a proper rules based and reward / punishment driven approach to motivate her and help her structure her prep.

3) An 18 year old student from Christ College. We were at it for about 7 or 8 months and I helped her out when she needed. Never gave her an allowance. Bought her the tiniest of dresses from Forever21 that she wore to our dates. And we did PDA like no tomorrow at Shiro several times, made out in the parking lot of UB City, drove around with a dildo in her and a vibrator on her and did even nastier things in the hotel when we did get there. All it took was being nice to her, some salmon and wine at Shiro and a kinky as fuck brain.

4) A dental student who was 20 and super hot. Was with her for over 6 months between Wave 1 ease off and Wave 2. I know where she now practices. Nearly 2. 5 years later in Dec last year I visited her by deliberately booking a cleaning appointment with her. She recognised me and knew I had booking her deliberately. We met again after that over drinks but never went further since she is now dating someone seriously. She still looks as hot, if not hotter.

5) A 19 year old student with a huge Daddy kink.

6) A married woman who wanted some fun on the side and was super kinky too.

I have also had my share of PPMs and fallen into things I should not have. I have had my share of coffee or dinner dates that have not led to anything. That happens about 50-60% of the time if not more. But that is a part of the learning process and the patience piece that I called out.

So what makes meaningful things happen off SA?

First. Talk to them like a genuine, empathetic person. Earn trust. Don't come across as crazy or creepy or just wanting to fuck her at the first chance. Second. It is a fact that there are girls on SA who are on SA because intelligence, personality and success is what attracts them to a man. So don't hesitate from coming across as having those qualities. Along with empathy. Third. Give her time and space but draw a boundary. I do not do endless dates over coffee or dinner. But I do want to give her time to get comfortable. And I am okay to invest 5 k or 6 k to give her that confidence if I think there is potential. Over time, you learn to draw the line and your judgement evolves so you make less of these unsuccessful investments. Fourth. Be honest. Just like you don't enjoy being flaked or ghosted or being stood up, neither does she. Fifth. You need to focus on her as well in bed. Several of these girls have kinks and want to orgasm / cum as well. And if you can make sure she has as good a time as you did, then she's likely to want to be with you again. Needless to say, always respect boundaries. Once you earn trust, boundaries do ease off slowly.

Lastly, the benefits that stem from earning trust and going longer with one girl are really worth it. It opens doors, exploration and horizons that one off meets just cannot. And if you play it right, it is not as expensive as one would thing. For the record. No girl has ever wanted a six figure monthly allowance. For that matter even a high five figure monthly allowance.

[JPoppen]

Hi Bro,

I know her. She is atleast 10 shades darker than the fair pics she shares. However, genuine and can hold a conversation. Sex was at best 6 but then to each its own. Not more than 12 k to 15 k is the right price.

Regards,

SD.

Thanks for the quick revert Bro!

[SexDivine78]

Hey folks.

She has been on SA since 2018 but I could not find any FR: https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-390cc524cbad.

Has anyone contacted / met her?

Hi Bro,

I know her. She is atleast 10 shades darker than the fair pics she shares. However, genuine and can hold a conversation. Sex was at best 6 but then to each its own. Not more than 12 k to 15 k is the right price.

Regards,

SD.

[JPoppen]

Hey folks.

She has been on SA since 2018 but I could not find any FR: https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-390cc524cbad.

Has anyone contacted / met her?

[SymonWestt]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this girl called StylishSocialite from SA Bangalore.

She keeps changing her profile name, earlier it was Natasha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-a38f45ade918

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-ca2aadaf13a7

Thanks.

SW.