Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Phil50]

That is one impressive stat. I do not count but mine would be worse because of Chennai. This scarcity has actually warped the Chennai market. There are men who pay hefty sum because of this and that spoils the overall market for rest of us. It may be true in other cities as well but this is quite acute in Chennai.

On SA I think there are just 3 cities with enough choice: Delhi NCR, Mumbai and Bangalore.

In other cities lower ratio of girls spoils the market, though I haven't mongered in any. Just going by SA listings.

Also, in cities like Chennai, fewer girls are from outside (unlike IT cities like Bangalore) or University towns (LPU or Amity) which attract outside girls with no parental controls.

[GCop123]

Just bought the membership. Can anyone recommend me some good profiles. Willing to reciprocate within my capacity.

[On The Wings]

That is one impressive stat. I do not count but mine would be worse because of Chennai. This scarcity has actually warped the Chennai market. There are men who pay hefty sum because of this and that spoils the overall market for rest of us. It may be true in other cities as well but this is quite acute in Chennai.

That is one impressive stat. I do not count but mine would be worse because of Chennai. This scarcity has actually warped the Chennai market. There are men who pay hefty sum because of this and that spoils the overall market for rest of us. It may be true in other cities as well but this is quite acute in Chennai.

This is partly true but the reality is totally different. Chennai is much of a Happening Place with the only difference. It won't be so deliberate and easy to figure out like it happens in other places like Mumbai Delhi and even Pune. Except the cheap road side show near Gemini Flyover / Mount Road Shanthi theatre subway / Beach side. You won't find anyone / groups waiting for pick-up. Chennai is hub for Cine industry with lot of second line actresses from local and AP thronging the market.

The only major problem of Chennai is the. In-between players, middle men who are NOT genuine and just vying for the opportunity to exploit and loot the mongers.

Finding one genuine SP / Agent is the only trick smart thing we can do to get into Chennai mongering. Or else just be a pseudo saint in Chennai.

One small trick. Just check-in the Hotels nearby AVM Theatre in Vadapalani. You will come to know how this market envelops in front of you. After that it is your choice. Play safe.

[Asdqwe1212]

Any reviews wrt this profile.

Enchanting girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-74ecbfc0d893

20 k for a short meet.

Video call confirmation done ☑65039;.

Planning on meeting her soon.

Request the forum members to please provide any information regarding this profile.

Regards.

Asd.

[MayanKanand]

It is slightly better than what my post suggested.
In B'lore for e.g There are about 400+ profiles active in the last 1 month, with 50 joining in the 1 month of membership. So potentially 450 to message in B'lore.

I ignore all those with WG vibe in their profile, all non Indians, visibly chubby / overweight, couples with a kink, online only, those who I know to be duplicate profiles, those I contacted earlier,
or those with no info in their profile. That will leave just over 200 profiles.
I make it clear in my opening message, that I don't want an escort and the first meet will be a non compensated 'meet & greet'.

The last time I was on SA (Bangalore, 1 month).

Wrote to 232.
Read my message: 171.
Saw my profile: 133.
Replied: 124.
Exchanged messages: 77.

From the 1st reply, those which I ignore are either rude, have high asks, too many conditions or scammer vibe. During the messaging, I ignore all those whose pics I don't like, those whose ask is 25 k or more (they might come down to 20, but I don't negotiate), those who are not in Bangalore, the rude ones, or asking for an advance.

Agreed to meet: 10.
Met for unpaid meet & greet: 8.
Would I like to meet again: 3.
Start an arrangement: 1.

That is one impressive stat. I do not count but mine would be worse because of Chennai. This scarcity has actually warped the Chennai market. There are men who pay hefty sum because of this and that spoils the overall market for rest of us. It may be true in other cities as well but this is quite acute in Chennai.

[Phil50]

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One girl told me she charges 50 k per night, and I was like then why are you meeting me for 8 k /2 ? It is not as if I look like Brad Pitt. Anyone in a corporate setup getting paid above 20-25 L, will most likely not be in these paid meets scenario. There might be exceptions of course, but your would need to be earning a magnitue or two higher than them to make it worth for them.

I've met over 100 women in 9 years on SA. I go for educated, fluent English ones. Hardly anyone had a salary over 50 k (adjusting for inflation, maybe 75 k today).

After deducting rent etc, savings are 0. They look for 20-30 k from a couple of dates a month on SA. When their salary gives them that extra 20-30 k, they tend to quit SA.

Someone earning 20+ lacs may do it to climb the corporate ladder. Of course there are exceptions, but I tend to be sceptical of claims of high salary or high charges on SA.

[BeStill]

Yes. For someone who makes it clear that I don't want an escort and wants long term, I have a high ratio of replies to my first message (which is detailed).
The nonsense starts after that. Message exchange to meet ratio is low because:

Oh yes of course. I would still have thought that for long term arrangements, the numbers would be higher. Basically 3 girls in Bangalore are comfortable with a long term arrangement. Seems pretty low.

Or might be that they aren't aware of how this works. And making a quick buck is perhaps more lucrative, and allows them to not be tied down.

[Phil50]

232:1.

Damn. Those are some low conversion ratios. Not a slight on you, just how much nonsense is present in the market.

Yes. For someone who makes it clear that I don't want an escort and wants long term, I have a high ratio of replies to my first message (which is detailed).
The nonsense starts after that. Message exchange to meet ratio is low because:

- Unattractive pics (We have different standards, but these will be below average for most of us).
- GPS.
- Rude / arrogant vibe.
- Does not reply / suddenly stops.
- Not in Bangalore.
- Wants online only and disclosing it later.
- Wants advance / money for coffee meet.

After all this, 1 in 3 who agree to meet, will ghost.

[BeStill]

Some examples of BS from the girls:

No girl I have interacted with is a 'doctor'. They are mostly medical students from 3rd rate colleges. Some lab assts. There is one such med college in Bangalore where several girls are on SA together and compete for the highest rates. One of them has been preparing for her PG exam for the last 3 years.

I have met only 1 model (of several who have claimed to be). The others have portfolios, some have done an amateur shoot, or had pics published for free.
Working in IT = Entry level with salary just above min wage.
Working for MNC = Call centre, or remote problem solving.
Event management = Unemployed, unless the agency needs several girls for an event.
Starting their own business = they want a lot money from you as a 'loan'.
I am very selective = haven't found anyone dumb enough to pay what I want.
I can't share pics as they have been misused = I'm unattractive, but you might pay when we meet, if you are desperate enough.

Pin this comment too at the top.

One girl told me she charges 50 k per night, and I was like then why are you meeting me for 8 k /2 ? It is not as if I look like Brad Pitt. Anyone in a corporate setup getting paid above 20-25 L, will most likely not be in these paid meets scenario. There might be exceptions of course, but your would need to be earning a magnitue or two higher than them to make it worth for them.

[BeStill]

It is slightly better than what my post suggested.

Wrote to 232.
Read my message: 171.
Saw my profile: 133.
Replied: 124.
Exchanged messages: 77.

From the 1st reply, those which I ignore are either rude, have high asks, too many conditions or scammer vibe. During the messaging, I ignore all those whose pics I don't like, those whose ask is 25 k or more (they might come down to 20, but I don't negotiate), those who are not in Bangalore, the rude ones, or asking for an advance.

Agreed to meet: 10.
Met for unpaid meet & greet: 8.
Would I like to meet again: 3.
Start an arrangement: 1.

232:1.

Damn. Those are some low conversion ratios. Not a slight on you, just how much nonsense is present in the market.

[Phil50]

And you trust her with her bull shit. Come on Dude, you will hear more of similar trash from these delusional chicks living in fantasy I Phone world of make believe.

Some examples of BS from the girls:

No girl I have interacted with is a 'doctor'. They are mostly medical students from 3rd rate colleges. Some lab assts. There is one such med college in Bangalore where several girls are on SA together and compete for the highest rates. One of them has been preparing for her PG exam for the last 3 years.

I have met only 1 model (of several who have claimed to be). The others have portfolios, some have done an amateur shoot, or had pics published for free.
Working in IT = Entry level with salary just above min wage.
Working for MNC = Call centre, or remote problem solving.
Event management = Unemployed, unless the agency needs several girls for an event.
Starting their own business = they want a lot money from you as a 'loan'.
I am very selective = haven't found anyone dumb enough to pay what I want.
I can't share pics as they have been misused = I'm unattractive, but you might pay when we meet, if you are desperate enough.

[Phil50]

This means we are talking about 1% success rate at best case. Chances will be even lesser if the criterion is limited to "slim / ath / avg" and then skin tone let alone its smoothness. After that, comes essential attributes like safety, hygiene, attitude. Then the price ranges. "Kink / sultry / sensuality" are just good to have. That's a lot smaller fraction.

Perhaps we can build a database to easily filter out profiles with out collective experience and objective feedback.

It is slightly better than what my post suggested.
In B'lore for e.g There are about 400+ profiles active in the last 1 month, with 50 joining in the 1 month of membership. So potentially 450 to message in B'lore.

I ignore all those with WG vibe in their profile, all non Indians, visibly chubby / overweight, couples with a kink, online only, those who I know to be duplicate profiles, those I contacted earlier,
or those with no info in their profile. That will leave just over 200 profiles.
I make it clear in my opening message, that I don't want an escort and the first meet will be a non compensated 'meet & greet'.

The last time I was on SA (Bangalore, 1 month).

Wrote to 232.
Read my message: 171.
Saw my profile: 133.
Replied: 124.
Exchanged messages: 77.

From the 1st reply, those which I ignore are either rude, have high asks, too many conditions or scammer vibe. During the messaging, I ignore all those whose pics I don't like, those whose ask is 25 k or more (they might come down to 20, but I don't negotiate), those who are not in Bangalore, the rude ones, or asking for an advance.

Agreed to meet: 10.
Met for unpaid meet & greet: 8.
Would I like to meet again: 3.
Start an arrangement: 1.

[Phil50]

Met a chick today who's Sugar daddy splashed 3.2 L on her just to pop her cherry. LOL. The world of SA is getting crazier and crazier.

What these guys don't realize is that guys like us are also banging these chicks at a lower price and all they are doing is inflating the egos of these GPS. I banged this chick for just 15 k and her daddy paid her 3.2 L. ROFL.

I've had long term relationships with a couple of women who gave me access to their SA.

These are women who have good pics, will chat well, have no difficulty getting 15-25 K, depending on how often they need it, time etc.

I looked at a lot of data, Barely 10% of men will offer more than 25 k. Some of those that do, give scammer vibes.
Women who say they get a lot more are delusional. Or they compete with their college friends who see who gets more. They won't talk of the low offers they accept, but will invariably exaggerate.
If they did this in a real job, they would be laughed out of business.

[DevSagar]

And you trust her with her bull shit. Come on Dude, you will hear more of similar trash from these delusional chicks living in fantasy I Phone world of make believe.

Met a chick today who's Sugar daddy splashed 3.2 L on her just to pop her cherry. LOL. The world of SA is getting crazier and crazier.

What these guys don't realize is that guys like us are also banging these chicks at a lower price and all they are doing is inflating the egos of these GPS. I banged this chick for just 15 k and her daddy paid her 3.2 L. ROFL.

[LustyLeo98]

I have had a chat with a few girls and some are expecting Long term commitment upfront. Crazy females, how the heck am I going to commit to anything without knowing / meeting her.

One of my favorite dialogues as a retort in situations where they question your wealth is to reply. 'I joined SA to find a sugarbaby, if I wanted to meet a beggar, I would just stop my car at a traffic signal'.

I assure you, that stings them like hell, especially when they have invested some time to engage in conversation with you.

I too have stopped SA in Bangalore and usually make a subscription to contact girls in other countries. I travel every few months and get my fix abroad. In Bangalore, my fuck buddies keep me happy.