Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[JPoppen]

After seeing your post I messaged her again. She was the same cold, rude person. 😁.

LOL FunForSandy. I take my words back. Its not the same girl but the rudeness is same. One bro DMed to tell me that she does not do a VC. When I asked her for VC she turned into the same rude person. She definitely has something to hide. So I have dropped her.

[Christmas Tre]

How do you guys do it? Is wading through dozens of fake profiles / pimps / scams to find a single gem so rewarding?

There are hardly ten verified profiles on SA in Delhi and none of them are to my liking. I've started talking to some of the unverified ones and most seem to be either out for a quick scam or pimps. I might change my tone if I find the perfect SB but for now, I don't think SA is worth it.

For starters. Its a nice distraction to have a SA membership and juggling / chatting with so many girls trying to find a nice one. I think a lot of guys take this very seriously and wind up getting stressed about it. Just enjoy it. SA is like Tom & Jerry. Both sides trying to up each other.

You are likely to blow up about a lakh the month you have a membership. If you take this much money seriously, then you are bound to get stressed out. If you can throw it and forget about it, I would sanction such a budget.

Unfortunately there is nothing better for the 40+ age group to use in India but this app. Tinder is not kind on our age group. I agree SA is not worth it these days. But not much choice there!

[FunForSandy]

On the same old profile EnchantingGirl, it looks like there is a different girl now. And it is for good.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-74ecbfc0d893

The previous girl (whose pictures are still on the profile. And remember the old pic with a girl in white bikiny in a pool?) . She used to be rude, very slow in responding and she asked me 50K. She shared her pics as well, her body same as her profile pics, and I dropped her at that time due to price.

The new girl, she is hot, tall, quicker to respond, respectful, and asks for 20 K.

I am yet to meet the new EnchantingGirl. Some Bro said he was meeting her to lets hear of anyone has any recent feedback.

Cheers!

After seeing your post I messaged her again. She was the same cold, rude person. 😁.

[BrandNewMonge]

How do you guys do it? Is wading through dozens of fake profiles / pimps / scams to find a single gem so rewarding?

There are hardly ten verified profiles on SA in Delhi and none of them are to my liking. I've started talking to some of the unverified ones and most seem to be either out for a quick scam or pimps. I might change my tone if I find the perfect SB but for now, I don't think SA is worth it.

[Christmas Tre]

You are great. You are an encyclopaedia. How do you do it?

Without revealing any secrets, let's just say 'optimal use of technology' We need all the help we can gather to battle the scammers and pimps!

[FunForSandy]

I also like SBs for whom my allowance makes a visible difference and shares my own attitude to money (that I worked hard for it and don't like to waste it). If a 20 y.o talks of getting LV handbags, or drinking 3 single malts in half an hour, or going to spas in a 5 star, I'll drop her after our first casual meet, because I will invariably be in a bidding war with others she is seeing and she will not value my company as much as other girls will, or as much as the guy paying more.
The ideal person for me is someone in a full time job or a serious student, who needs a bit of money to move from struggling to comfortable, values experiences that she can't afford and does not have the time to meet more than 2-3 times a month (does not see the need for more than 1 SD).

So wise as always Phil.
This last part resonates with me completely. This is what I would want a sugar babe to be. But to quote an old U2 song - but I still haven't found what I am looking for..

[FunForSandy]

The pics are fake. Lifted from an Instagram model.

You are great. You are an encyclopedia. How do you do it?

[NaughyBoy]

Don't fall for a DP, if they clearly showing face pic means chances are it's fake. All Genuine SB I met in SA never displayed in SA and all share later.

Hi friends.

Anyone met this one Izza John from SA Bangalore?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-bcd587fbbd66

Thanks.

SW.

[SymonWestt]

Thanks for your response.

The pics are fake. Lifted from an Instagram model.

[Christmas Tre]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this one Izza John from SA Bangalore?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-bcd587fbbd66

Thanks.

SW.

The pics are fake. Lifted from an Instagram model.

[ScubaDo]

The pics are too good and the language is too bad. Stay away!

Agreed. Is violating two of the checklist items:

1) Face shown.

2) Bad English / grammar.

[FunForSandy]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this one Izza John from SA Bangalore?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-bcd587fbbd66

Thanks.

SW.

The pics are too good and the language is too bad. Stay away!

[SymonWestt]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this one Izza John from SA Bangalore?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-bcd587fbbd66

Thanks.

SW.

[Oddeven123]

I understand where the OP is coming from, though I think the reality is more nuanced.

All girls who do not consider themselves to be WGs have stories of how men pay them huge sums just to talk to, cuddle, read poetry etc. That is one of the reasons their peers inflate prices.
If I have to pay someone a large sum to talk to, it would have to be my lawyer or CA and he'd have to be really good.

That said, I do pay for platonic dates, even if all they want is platonic. That's because it attracts a class of girls who are not in this for money and genuinely like the other things like a successful older man can being to the table. However, there are a lot of caveats:

- I pay 6 k for platonic, so it weeds out all the working girls, yet compensates her for her time.
- Either this is part of a long term arrangement with a mix of platonic and intimate dates, or we meet very infrequently, when I need attractive arm candy and she too likes the occasion.
- She has to be not just gorgeous, but have common interests with me and comfortable in the environment I move in, looking like my GF and not a WG.

I have met such people who come from affluent families had interests I would learn from and are now doing well professionally, but this very difficult to find on SA today.

I also like SBs for whom my allowance makes a visible difference and shares my own attitude to money (that I worked hard for it and don't like to waste it). If a 20 y.o talks of getting LV handbags, or drinking 3 single malts in half an hour, or going to spas in a 5 star, I'll drop her after our first casual meet, because I will invariably be in a bidding war with others she is seeing and she will not value my company as much as other girls will, or as much as the guy paying more.
The ideal person for me is someone in a full time job or a serious student, who needs a bit of money to move from struggling to comfortable, values experiences that she can't afford and does not have the time to meet more than 2-3 times a month (does not see the need for more than 1 SD).

The last paragraph is summary of my thought process too. Basically, Dealing with working gals (SA, spa Or dating apps) is a game of rejection till you find a combo of your choice gal with value and price (plus minus 10-20%.

Scarcity of time, easy money and dheela naada are the main factors why a 5 k gal expects 25-30 k on SA and I see that trend not stopping anytime soon.

Got a feedback from a seasoned monger about the Aweful experience recently at SA as he renewed his membership but no good stuff available below 15 k. So the cream is eaten by the rich and extravagant guys and leaving mediocre stuff for the Ameatuers.

Best strategy is to focus on our strength and price points and find gemselse there will be disappointment in my opinion.

I a a spa person and after reading almost 200 pages of SA page, hardly found 5-10 happy experience so far, so woder if it's worth it after so much money and efforts. In fact, dating apps have been much better in terms if conversation and experience.

Happy mongering.

[WaterBoy747]

Humbleprincess: 29 years Nice pics. Same person. But looks 5 yrs older. Bengali girl with big floppy tits, short and stout. Polite and friendly conversationalist. Heavy smoker. Such a heavy smoker that the smell of smoke from her kisses on my hand didn't go even till the next day. Different soaps didn't work. I had to spray some industrial grade odour neutralizer on my hand for it to go. Strong working girl vibes but has a marketing job, a boyfriend etc etc on her Instagram. 15 k damages. WIR. No.

Think she even visited Chennai recently. Agreed for 10 k but never went ahead with it. Felt some strong photoshop vibes on her pics.