Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[FunForSandy]

On the same old profile EnchantingGirl, it looks like there is a different girl now. And it is for good.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-74ecbfc0d893

The previous girl (whose pictures are still on the profile. And remember the old pic with a girl in white bikiny in a pool?) . She used to be rude, very slow in responding and she asked me 50K. She shared her pics as well, her body same as her profile pics, and I dropped her at that time due to price.

The new girl, she is hot, tall, quicker to respond, respectful, and asks for 20 K.

I am yet to meet the new EnchantingGirl. Some Bro said he was meeting her to lets hear of anyone has any recent feedback.

Cheers!

After seeing your post I messaged her again. She was the same cold, rude person. 😁.

[Christmas Tre]

You are great. You are an encyclopaedia. How do you do it?

Without revealing any secrets, let's just say 'optimal use of technology' We need all the help we can gather to battle the scammers and pimps!

[FunForSandy]

I also like SBs for whom my allowance makes a visible difference and shares my own attitude to money (that I worked hard for it and don't like to waste it). If a 20 y.o talks of getting LV handbags, or drinking 3 single malts in half an hour, or going to spas in a 5 star, I'll drop her after our first casual meet, because I will invariably be in a bidding war with others she is seeing and she will not value my company as much as other girls will, or as much as the guy paying more.
The ideal person for me is someone in a full time job or a serious student, who needs a bit of money to move from struggling to comfortable, values experiences that she can't afford and does not have the time to meet more than 2-3 times a month (does not see the need for more than 1 SD).

So wise as always Phil.
This last part resonates with me completely. This is what I would want a sugar babe to be. But to quote an old U2 song - but I still haven't found what I am looking for..

[FunForSandy]

The pics are fake. Lifted from an Instagram model.

You are great. You are an encyclopedia. How do you do it?

[SymonWestt]

Thanks for your response.

The pics are fake. Lifted from an Instagram model.

[Christmas Tre]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this one Izza John from SA Bangalore?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-bcd587fbbd66

Thanks.

SW.

The pics are fake. Lifted from an Instagram model.

[FunForSandy]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this one Izza John from SA Bangalore?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-bcd587fbbd66

Thanks.

SW.

The pics are too good and the language is too bad. Stay away!

[SymonWestt]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this one Izza John from SA Bangalore?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-bcd587fbbd66

Thanks.

SW.

[Oddeven123]

I understand where the OP is coming from, though I think the reality is more nuanced.

All girls who do not consider themselves to be WGs have stories of how men pay them huge sums just to talk to, cuddle, read poetry etc. That is one of the reasons their peers inflate prices.
If I have to pay someone a large sum to talk to, it would have to be my lawyer or CA and he'd have to be really good.

That said, I do pay for platonic dates, even if all they want is platonic. That's because it attracts a class of girls who are not in this for money and genuinely like the other things like a successful older man can being to the table. However, there are a lot of caveats:

- I pay 6 k for platonic, so it weeds out all the working girls, yet compensates her for her time.
- Either this is part of a long term arrangement with a mix of platonic and intimate dates, or we meet very infrequently, when I need attractive arm candy and she too likes the occasion.
- She has to be not just gorgeous, but have common interests with me and comfortable in the environment I move in, looking like my GF and not a WG.

I have met such people who come from affluent families had interests I would learn from and are now doing well professionally, but this very difficult to find on SA today.

I also like SBs for whom my allowance makes a visible difference and shares my own attitude to money (that I worked hard for it and don't like to waste it). If a 20 y.o talks of getting LV handbags, or drinking 3 single malts in half an hour, or going to spas in a 5 star, I'll drop her after our first casual meet, because I will invariably be in a bidding war with others she is seeing and she will not value my company as much as other girls will, or as much as the guy paying more.
The ideal person for me is someone in a full time job or a serious student, who needs a bit of money to move from struggling to comfortable, values experiences that she can't afford and does not have the time to meet more than 2-3 times a month (does not see the need for more than 1 SD).

The last paragraph is summary of my thought process too. Basically, Dealing with working gals (SA, spa Or dating apps) is a game of rejection till you find a combo of your choice gal with value and price (plus minus 10-20%.

Scarcity of time, easy money and dheela naada are the main factors why a 5 k gal expects 25-30 k on SA and I see that trend not stopping anytime soon.

Got a feedback from a seasoned monger about the Aweful experience recently at SA as he renewed his membership but no good stuff available below 15 k. So the cream is eaten by the rich and extravagant guys and leaving mediocre stuff for the Ameatuers.

Best strategy is to focus on our strength and price points and find gemselse there will be disappointment in my opinion.

I a a spa person and after reading almost 200 pages of SA page, hardly found 5-10 happy experience so far, so woder if it's worth it after so much money and efforts. In fact, dating apps have been much better in terms if conversation and experience.

Happy mongering.

[Phil50]

Wow! I thought such things happen in movies or books only. If I had a beautiful woman in my arms I would definitely want to do far more than just reading poetry.

I agree with you on both the points:

- there are enough desperate and frustrated men around andnthey are willing to throw money. If I was in their place, I would just go abroad.

- the "SBs" - at least some of them project as if they are super rich. I once took one to a 5 star hotel for lunch. She didn't even know the place, but when we were eating, she told me that this is where she comes for her spa sessions. And she is not the only one that I have met in the last 3 months when I started on seeking.

Do you think there is any better alternative to seeking?

Cheers.

I understand where the OP is coming from, though I think the reality is more nuanced.

All girls who do not consider themselves to be WGs have stories of how men pay them huge sums just to talk to, cuddle, read poetry etc. That is one of the reasons their peers inflate prices.
If I have to pay someone a large sum to talk to, it would have to be my lawyer or CA and he'd have to be really good.

That said, I do pay for platonic dates, even if all they want is platonic. That's because it attracts a class of girls who are not in this for money and genuinely like the other things like a successful older man can being to the table. However, there are a lot of caveats:

- I pay 6 k for platonic, so it weeds out all the working girls, yet compensates her for her time.
- Either this is part of a long term arrangement with a mix of platonic and intimate dates, or we meet very infrequently, when I need attractive arm candy and she too likes the occasion.
- She has to be not just gorgeous, but have common interests with me and comfortable in the environment I move in, looking like my GF and not a WG.

I have met such people who come from affluent families had interests I would learn from and are now doing well professionally, but this very difficult to find on SA today.

I also like SBs for whom my allowance makes a visible difference and shares my own attitude to money (that I worked hard for it and don't like to waste it). If a 20 y.o talks of getting LV handbags, or drinking 3 single malts in half an hour, or going to spas in a 5 star, I'll drop her after our first casual meet, because I will invariably be in a bidding war with others she is seeing and she will not value my company as much as other girls will, or as much as the guy paying more.
The ideal person for me is someone in a full time job or a serious student, who needs a bit of money to move from struggling to comfortable, values experiences that she can't afford and does not have the time to meet more than 2-3 times a month (does not see the need for more than 1 SD).

[Mad Hatter]

Wow! I thought such things happen in movies or books only. If I had a beautiful woman in my arms I would definitely want to do far more than just reading poetry.

I agree with you on both the points:

- there are enough desperate and frustrated men around andnthey are willing to throw money. If I was in their place, I would just go abroad.

- the "SBs" - at least some of them project as if they are super rich. I once took one to a 5 star hotel for lunch. She didn't even know the place, but when we were eating, she told me that this is where she comes for her spa sessions. And she is not the only one that I have met in the last 3 months when I started on seeking.

Do you think there is any better alternative to seeking?

Cheers.

Right now, it appears that India seeking has become 90% working girls and pimps. And an expensive option at that. We are kinda stuck until seeking decides to do a good clean up. And that will only happen if subscriptions in India drop en masse. I know I am not renewing my subscription anytime soon.

[Bhamsookh1]

Any review on this profile called flirtydeity from Pune / Mumbai? https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-fe3fe0acb26a

So finally she reduced price. Shebhas access to this forum. She has changed many ID and few cities. Finally 25 k after exorbitant charges. 15 k is her value I feel. Few bros had bad experience with her but otherwise she is very eloquent.

She is neither good not bad. But to each their own.

[ScubaDo]

My primary flaw is I don't do the video call for fear of being recorded into something. Even with tg, calls can be recorded. Disappearing pics themselves don't need to disappear. In the past this was OK since the deviation from the actual pic would be 20-30% max which was acceptable. However, the deviation from pics is now over 50-60%. It is a huge weapon against us men. Going forward I will also have to jump on to the bandwagon of video calls.

Christmas, totally with you on this. I'm vary of phone calls and video calls and rely on pics but now slowly realising after bad experiences that pics can be heavily doctored and filtered.

I'm a sucker for eyes And have met people purely based on how they look whereas real-life they are very different.

I'm also now going to use online tools which analyse photos for free to give some idea of whether images are doctored. Not sure if these are reliable but why not try them, is what I'm thinking.

[FunForSandy]

Enough of armchair warrior reports. Let's go play the field. Please note how I got screwed this time.

My primary flaw is I don't do the video call for fear of being recorded into something. Even with tg, calls can be recorded. Disappearing pics themselves don't need to disappear. In the past this was OK since the deviation from the actual pic would be 20-30% max which was acceptable. However, the deviation from pics is now over 50-60%. It is a huge weapon against us men. Going forward I will also have to jump on to the bandwagon of video calls.

2) 90+% of profiles on SA are hard-core working girls who regularly move around the city fucking everyone. As mentioned by Phil before, if you want to get laid in a few hours of joining the app and don't want to interact explicitly with a pimp, there is no better app / website than SA right now. If you a looking for some sweet innocent thing to defile, then you will come out disappointed.

Whoa!

The post gave me the jitters. And I admire that you maintain your grace and sense of humour post such trauma.

If this is what a veteran like you is going through I. A relative newbie. Have lost all hopes.

[FunForSandy]

After a failed Monday night, I had messaged my British MILF to come have breakfast with me.

She arrived nice and early at about 8:00 am. My flight wasn't till 6:00 pm so we took our time slow.

Most of her other SD experiences have been duds mainly because of the way guys behave. There are many "businessmen" and politicians. Think typical Babu types. For whom throwing 1 L on a "white" girl is no problem. She rejects them because they tend to be crass an
And there lies the crux of the issue. In India, the whole scene is skewed. In other Asian, African, western countries there has been very little taboo about sex. So casual hook ups etc have been common for decades now. Indians are only just experiencing this and that is only among the younger generations. So we have a huge population of 30+ year old men who are successful and haven't experience dating or casual sex.

Another observation

Happy hunting everyone. It appears the India scene is going from bad to worse.

Wow! I thought such things happen in movies or books only. If I had a beautiful woman in my arms I would definitely want to do far more than just reading poetry.

I agree with you on both the points:

- there are enough desperate and frustrated men around andnthey are willing to throw money. If I was in their place, I would just go abroad.

- the "SBs" - at least some of them project as if they are super rich. I once took one to a 5 star hotel for lunch. She didn't even know the place, but when we were eating, she told me that this is where she comes for her spa sessions. And she is not the only one that I have met in the last 3 months when I started on seeking.

Do you think there is any better alternative to seeking?

Cheers.