Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[MBrando]

Hope alls well.

Reading thorough all the reports I found one thing in common here. Most of you are saying 15 k - 20 k is normal for SA. Let me tell you brothers, it is not. I have had arrangements as less as 5 k though 10 k is what I would be willing to go at the max. Having said that I have also had girls come down for free. SA is not about money but how you treat the girls. Here are some tips.

1. It all starts with the photo. I never even bother to look at the profiles with glam / great looking photos on them. All these so called models with fancy pictures are automatically filtered out. WG don't mind having the face shown all over. Another no go options are for girls who are too revealing in the picture. Go for the profiles with blurred, hidden, low quality photos. This is against what our mind will probably do but with experience I can tell this.

2. If someone passes this first test, then comes the bio and headline tags on their profile. This is where common sense comes in picture. "hot lingerie model in Mumbai", "Sugar baby is waiting for her sugar daddy", "just another dream of yours", "looking for someone to bless me with gifts", "I love sugar candies" are all a no go for me. The confident tagline here are a shouting that all of them are seasoned and would dig a hole in my pocket. (all these are actual tagline from the profiles). Instead I tend to go for something like this: "I am probably NOT what you are looking for", "thinking out of the box", "hey there", "Curiously Shy", "pretty, observant, full of life".

Avoid those money centric bio. I hope you can make out the difference here.

3. IF both the tests are a pass then, make a common sober message one time (which has no mention of arrangement, money, sex, night rates blah blah) and send it them. And now it is all a waiting game. DONOT ping them back if they don't reply you. Its fine. On to the next one.

4. If one does reply to you read her bio again before replying. Many common threads can be found in the bio which become good point to talk about. Try to get her off the application either on telegram or WhatsApp within the first 15 messages. That's a deal breaker. At some point surely you would be asked about your intentions on seeking. Don't bring in sex, intimacy here. Thank me later for this. All you need to reply is "looking for a great companionship" or something on these lines. See where the conversation goes. We all know our ultimate goal, but don't say it loud.

5. Do not expect sex in the first meet like a hungry tiger. Let things fall in place first. Start with basic conversations. Get to know the girl. Likes, dislikes see what brings her on seeking. Talk nothing about arrangement whatsoever at this stage. Now, when after 25 odd messages if the Money still is not in the picture a WG or a cash hungry girl will sure pop the question up. That's your red flag. See if their tone starts to change. IF you are lucky and she never asks you for money ask her for a coffee / drink. This is the point when most of them would surely ask for money. If she's happy to meet you without a financial term for a coffee / drink they you have almost reached the finish line.

6. Any girl whose meeting you generally and not expecting any kind of money for that 99.99% she's real and you have hit the jackpot. I have had experiences when even after we have had a good session money question has never popped out.

Lastly, seeking is all about patience patience and patience. If you want quick sex then places like NL or your trusted SP is absolutely VFM and value for time. Seeking is an elevated experience. There are many kinksters on seeking. If you have such sort of lifestyle then it is super simple to find such people on seeking. All I would say is read the profiles, read between the lines. Don't pitch yourself to the girls get to a point where they start pitching themselves to you.

Happy seeking peeps.

Agree with you. The regulars I have from SA is in 6 - 7 k. Though I have also paid 10,12, 15 K the more I have paid the more I have regretted the experience. The trick is in catching new comers, girls with fewer pics, girls not in stunning outfits with pics taken in five star hotels, girls who take a longer time to meet. Most of these girls won't stay in SA or any site for a long time so the early bird will get the worm.

[AndySutton123]

Hope alls well.

Reading thorough all the reports I found one thing in common here. Most of you are saying 15 k - 20 k is normal for SA. Let me tell you brothers, it is not. I have had arrangements as less as 5 k though 10 k is what I would be willing to go at the max. Having said that I have also had girls come down for free. SA is not about money but how you treat the girls. Here are some tips.

1. It all starts with the photo. I never even bother to look at the profiles with glam / great looking photos on them. All these so called models with fancy pictures are automatically filtered out. WG don't mind having the face shown all over. Another no go options are for girls who are too revealing in the picture. Go for the profiles with blurred, hidden, low quality photos. This is against what our mind will probably do but with experience I can tell this..

Great post!

Few questions for folks new to SA (though answers can be found by doing it).

1. Do we need to put our picture too and either ways does it makes any difference?

2. Premium Subscription works for most cases? Or Diamond has advantages?

[IntMain123]

I would advice you to take a bit of caution and don't pay anything in advance.

Thank you, I will not contact the below fake profiles. Will definitely also not pay advance to anyone. I will ask for a coffee of drink date and see how it goes from there.

[Hsjsnan]

I would advice you to take a bit of caution and don't pay anything in advance.

Going through some profiles in SA, and received texts from a few. Want to know from the veterans here if I can directly avoid some of them:

Jasmine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-f7707fc7da62

Brilliant girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-2ad7db61ff1e

Tania66.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...9-7ab5de4febf1

Chicgurl.

[IntMain123]

This Brilliant girl now spamming Bangalore SA too. Before she was changing and creating new IDs on Delhi sa.

Username is changed everytime. I remember the pics, many adviced here to avoid as she is trans or somthing maybe.

Understood, thanks for your input. I will skip her.

[SEXciting]

Excellent write-up. I second all the points he has mentioned. I recently got into the SD scene in the country I'm working, and I made many of the mistakes at sexciting has pointed out. The best fuck I have had is from a girl with a blurred photo through a mirror and the camera covering most of her face, and fully covering dress. She turned out to be a 19 yr old stunner who I coached how to kiss and fuck. Another buddy pulls girls for as less as 5 k or even for free as they were new to the scene and just wanted company after all the covid lockdowns.

My first one was a WG who even took extra from me for a condom and lotion.

Yes, it is a waiting game and by the second month, I could easily judge the girl and personality from the profile and first msgs.

If she is not a WG, she will really appreciate not bringing up the topics, and this will turn advantageous when the time comes. This also brings an excitement which we cannot get from regular P4P. Reminded me of my initial dating days.

Absolutely agree with you.

I had similar not one but multiple instances with girls on SA who were max 23 yrs and super new to this whole game. In fact so new that they were not even aware what is this all about. I had to take time to explain them and some dis even delete the accounts here. But kept in touch with me offline.

Seeking becomes part of your life to a point where we can't start uploading reports of every girl you are in arrangement with. Please feel free to drop in more ideas and help each other.

Cheers.

[Raks09]

Going through some profiles in SA, and received texts from a few. Want to know from the veterans here if I can directly avoid some of them:

Jasmine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-f7707fc7da62

Brilliant girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-2ad7db61ff1e

Tania66.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...9-7ab5de4febf1

Chicgurl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-2d76165aa9e7

Dynamic geek. Profile says platonic.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-6c5c119bec16

Lisha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-70f4105a2361

Sagarika 15.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...c-dcd4b007fde3

This Brilliant girl now spamming Bangalore SA too. Before she was changing and creating new IDs on Delhi sa.

Username is changed everytime. I remember the pics, many adviced here to avoid as she is trans or somthing maybe.

[IntMain123]

Going through some profiles in SA, and received texts from a few. Want to know from the veterans here if I can directly avoid some of them:

Jasmine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-f7707fc7da62

Brilliant girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-2ad7db61ff1e

Tania66.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...9-7ab5de4febf1

Chicgurl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-2d76165aa9e7

Dynamic geek. Profile says platonic.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-6c5c119bec16

Lisha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-70f4105a2361

Sagarika 15.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...c-dcd4b007fde3

[IntMain123]

Hope alls well.

Reading thorough all the reports I found one thing in common here. Most of you are saying 15 k - 20 k is normal for SA. Let me tell you brothers, it is not. I have had arrangements as less as 5 k though 10 k is what I would be willing to go at the max. Having said that I have also had girls come down for free. SA is not about money but how you treat the girls. Here are some tips.

1. It all starts with the photo. I never even bother to look at the profiles with glam / great looking photos on them. All these so called models with fancy pictures are automatically filtered out. WG don't mind having the face shown all over. Another no go options are for girls who are too revealing in the picture. Go for the profiles with blurred, hidden, low quality photos. This is against what our mind will probably do but with experience I can tell this.

2. If someone passes this first test, then comes the bio and headline tags on their profile. This is where common sense comes in picture. "hot lingerie model in Mumbai", "Sugar baby is waiting for her sugar daddy", "just another dream of yours", "looking for someone to bless me with gifts", "I love sugar candies" are all a no go for me. The confident tagline here are a shouting that all of them are seasoned and would dig a hole in my pocket. (all these are actual tagline from the profiles). Instead I tend to go for something like this: "I am probably NOT what you are looking for", "thinking out of the box", "hey there", "Curiously Shy", "pretty, observant, full of life"..

Hope alls well.

Reading thorough all the reports I found one thing in common here. Most of you are saying 15 k - 20 k is normal for SA. Let me tell you brothers, it is not. I have had arrangements as less as 5 k though 10 k is what I would be willing to go at the max. Having said that I have also had girls come down for free. SA is not about money but how you treat the girls. Here are some tips..

Excellent write-up. I second all the points he has mentioned. I recently got into the SD scene in the country I'm working, and I made many of the mistakes at sexciting has pointed out. The best fuck I have had is from a girl with a blurred photo through a mirror and the camera covering most of her face, and fully covering dress. She turned out to be a 19 yr old stunner who I coached how to kiss and fuck. Another buddy pulls girls for as less as 5 k or even for free as they were new to the scene and just wanted company after all the covid lockdowns.

My first one was a WG who even took extra from me for a condom and lotion.

Yes, it is a waiting game and by the second month, I could easily judge the girl and personality from the profile and first msgs.

If she is not a WG, she will really appreciate not bringing up the topics, and this will turn advantageous when the time comes. This also brings an excitement which we cannot get from regular P4 P. Reminded me of my initial dating days.

[IntMain123]

Hope alls well.

Reading thorough all the reports I found one thing in common here. Most of you are saying 15 k - 20 k is normal for SA. Let me tell you brothers, it is not. I have had arrangements as less as 5 k though 10 k is what I would be willing to go at the max. Having said that I have also had girls come down for free. SA is not about money but how you treat the girls. Here are some tips.
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Excellent write-up. I second all the points he has mentioned. I recently got into the SD scene in the country I'm working, and I made many of the mistakes at sexciting has pointed out. The best fuck I have had is from a girl with a blurred photo through a mirror and the camera covering most of her face, and fully covering dress. She turned out to be a 19 yr old stunner who I coached how to kiss and fuck. Another buddy pulls girls for as less as 5 k or even for free as they were new to the scene and just wanted company after all the covid lockdowns.

My first one was a WG who even took extra from me for a condom and lotion.

Yes, it is a waiting game and by the second month, I could easily judge the girl and personality from the profile and first msgs.

If she is not a WG, she will really appreciate not bringing up the topics, and this will turn advantageous when the time comes. This also brings an excitement which we cannot get from regular P4P. Reminded me of my initial dating days.

[WaterBoy747]

Bros,

Any update or reviews on Fit at 24.

She looks fit AF but not sure how the experience was. Saw only one review on the BLR forum. Help and inputs would be appreciated and the ideal damage for the exp.

TIA & stay safe.

Her pricing seemed a bit ridiculous when she was in Chennai. 30 k for overnight or 25 k for 2-3 hours. LOL!

[SEXciting]

Hope alls well.

Reading thorough all the reports I found one thing in common here. Most of you are saying 15 k - 20 k is normal for SA. Let me tell you brothers, it is not. I have had arrangements as less as 5 k though 10 k is what I would be willing to go at the max. Having said that I have also had girls come down for free. SA is not about money but how you treat the girls. Here are some tips.

1. It all starts with the photo. I never even bother to look at the profiles with glam / great looking photos on them. All these so called models with fancy pictures are automatically filtered out. WG don't mind having the face shown all over. Another no go options are for girls who are too revealing in the picture. Go for the profiles with blurred, hidden, low quality photos. This is against what our mind will probably do but with experience I can tell this.

2. If someone passes this first test, then comes the bio and headline tags on their profile. This is where common sense comes in picture. "hot lingerie model in Mumbai", "Sugar baby is waiting for her sugar daddy", "just another dream of yours", "looking for someone to bless me with gifts", "I love sugar candies" are all a no go for me. The confident tagline here are a shouting that all of them are seasoned and would dig a hole in my pocket. (all these are actual tagline from the profiles). Instead I tend to go for something like this: "I am probably NOT what you are looking for", "thinking out of the box", "hey there", "Curiously Shy", "pretty, observant, full of life".

Avoid those money centric bio. I hope you can make out the difference here.

3. IF both the tests are a pass then, make a common sober message one time (which has no mention of arrangement, money, sex, night rates blah blah) and send it them. And now it is all a waiting game. DONOT ping them back if they don't reply you. Its fine. On to the next one.

4. If one does reply to you read her bio again before replying. Many common threads can be found in the bio which become good point to talk about. Try to get her off the application either on telegram or WhatsApp within the first 15 messages. That's a deal breaker. At some point surely you would be asked about your intentions on seeking. Don't bring in sex, intimacy here. Thank me later for this. All you need to reply is "looking for a great companionship" or something on these lines. See where the conversation goes. We all know our ultimate goal, but don't say it loud.

5. Do not expect sex in the first meet like a hungry tiger. Let things fall in place first. Start with basic conversations. Get to know the girl. Likes, dislikes see what brings her on seeking. Talk nothing about arrangement whatsoever at this stage. Now, when after 25 odd messages if the Money still is not in the picture a WG or a cash hungry girl will sure pop the question up. That's your red flag. See if their tone starts to change. IF you are lucky and she never asks you for money ask her for a coffee / drink. This is the point when most of them would surely ask for money. If she's happy to meet you without a financial term for a coffee / drink they you have almost reached the finish line.

6. Any girl whose meeting you generally and not expecting any kind of money for that 99.99% she's real and you have hit the jackpot. I have had experiences when even after we have had a good session money question has never popped out.

Lastly, seeking is all about patience patience and patience. If you want quick sex then places like NL or your trusted SP is absolutely VFM and value for time. Seeking is an elevated experience. There are many kinksters on seeking. If you have such sort of lifestyle then it is super simple to find such people on seeking. All I would say is read the profiles, read between the lines. Don't pitch yourself to the girls get to a point where they start pitching themselves to you.

Happy seeking peeps.

[IntMain123]

You can not use SA without upgrading, neither can you read messages or send messages. If you are looking at a one time meet in Bangalore better to put an ad on locanto and take a premium ad there which is peanuts for a week or so.

I will check out Locanto too. Had some bad experiences with Locanto in KL.

I think I would still take the SA membership for a month to get a feel. I will be in 2 cities overseas and 2 cities in India during 1 month, so maybe can try and find some gems. I'm not new to sugar apps, so I'll be able to weed out the WG's, and line up some dates before I get here.

[PuneConsultant]

Hi, she's genuine. She will meet only in hotels the first time. Quotes 25 k but will meet for 15 k for couple of hours.

Hey.

Did you meet her, can you kindly post an FR if you had. Anyone who has met Jerry, will be really helpful if you guys can post a report.

Thank you.

[Hunter999]

Hi friends,

Lets come straight to the point, when we are talking about SA, I am using SA since last 4 to 5 years, I am on and off on it (mean when I need it I renew the subscription or else I just keep on checking the new birds), so it goes like this with me on SA plat form. In these 5 years. My experience is as below.

1) Majority of girls you will found will be working girls, very few of them are genuinely part time girls.

2) All the working girls prices are sky high.

3) I have done so far 4 meetings with SA and all of them have gone well.

4) In one of the meeting (that was my first one with SA), I came across a south Indian Bgrade film actress, and we met in a 5 star hotel in Gujarat (before 3 years), we met for lunch, and after the ice was broken she started bragging about herself, like she was a superstar with a years of stardom and was asking for 5 figure allowances per month, which will have 2 to 3 meetings, and initially it will be casual meets and there after if the chemistry is good, something could be thought for it. I quickly finished my lunch and was back to my work.

5) Second excapade I had was quite good in Delhi, the girl was a girl next door type, not much educated, but she was well dressed, well behaved, super horny and very experimented with sex, we had good connection and I repeated her 3 to 4 times. Even she didn't charged much as she was new to this environment. Only draw back was that she was not doing any BJ's. Rest everything was on the menu.

6) There after I had a local encounter in the city I live in, initially we started very casual, the allowance was only for meeting and talking and sex was not on the menu initially, but slowly and gradually the chemistry developed and that too came nicely served, I placed that girl with a nice company, and now I am enjoying my free meals since last 3 years.

These are my inputs from the SA.