Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[GuyNextDoor9]

How much is the typical monthly allowance for a long term one and how many meets do you propose?

[RipVanTinkle]

Did she told that she need money upfront while inside the hotel room?

My condition is payment after the deed. But she did not agree. She told she is ok with no-advance but needs payment before anything.

I passed her as may be she will start nakhras after getting the money or I donot know what new trick will be invented or may be everything will be ok. But why to take risk? If she thinks I will not pay after the deed, then I choose not to meet.

After reading so many posts, I have become very strict to to following terms:

1) No advance in any form. If anyone asks, then I will never meet her although later on she tell that she does not require advance. Any mention of advance means I will avoid the profile fully.

2) I will book the hotel myself and the hotel will be a reputed brand which allows unmarried couples or visitors officially. I try to book the hotel which allows free cancellation till the final day. Will not share the room number.

3) Will meet her at the hotel lobby at first and then do the check in and proceed to the hotel room.

4) Payment in cash after the deed just before leaving.

Fortunately, it is all working fine with me. By the grace of GOD, never faced any problem till now.

Actually no discussion around advance at all. Like you, I also have a no-advance policy. She just stopped responding to messages at about the time of the meeting and finally responded 4 hours later.

Anyway, if her rule is to take advance, then I guess it is good that the meeting did not happen.

[Aksmn]

Had fixed to meet her yesterday evening. Had been speaking to her for a couple of days prior to that. Came across as well educated and decent.

Settled for 12 k and obviously, no advance or anything.

Also shared her real ID for me to give to the reception so that check in would be smooth when she came. (I cross checked the ID with her socials and seemed genuine).

However, she just didn't turn up at the designated time. Stopped responding to messages and her telegram didn't have calls enabled.

Pinged me after 10 pm saying she wasn't feeling well and fell asleep.

Anyway. Either I dodged a bullet, or in hindsight, maybe I should have been the one asking for advance payment. LOL!

Did she told that she need money upfront while inside the hotel room?

My condition is payment after the deed. But she did not agree. She told she is ok with no-advance but needs payment before anything.

I passed her as may be she will start nakhras after getting the money or I donot know what new trick will be invented or may be everything will be ok. But why to take risk? If she thinks I will not pay after the deed, then I choose not to meet.

After reading so many posts, I have become very strict to to following terms:

1) No advance in any form. If anyone asks, then I will never meet her although later on she tell that she does not require advance. Any mention of advance means I will avoid the profile fully.

2) I will book the hotel myself and the hotel will be a reputed brand which allows unmarried couples or visitors officially. I try to book the hotel which allows free cancellation till the final day. Will not share the room number.

3) Will meet her at the hotel lobby at first and then do the check in and proceed to the hotel room.

4) Payment in cash after the deed just before leaving.

Fortunately, it is all working fine with me. By the grace of GOD, never faced any problem till now.

[Qganesha]

There are creative ways to structure deals with girls who have apparently outrageous demands and you want to see long term.

I know a guy who 'gifted' a car to his girl. But, it was a loan where he was paying the EMI, which would continue as long as she was his exclusively. The cost per session would be lower than the average ask on SA.

My girl wanted me to finance a bank guarantee (needed for her new job). Rather than pay her 1.5 lac her bank was asking her to deposit, I got my bank to do it. It cost just 0.75% of the amount because I have more than that amount as a bank FD anyway.

Car? FD? Next is what. Your house in her name?

Please stop this madness guys, be a master, not a slave.

Negotiate a fair price, which is mutually beneficial and don't become like my married relative, who within few years lost everything to mongering and became a pauper. I beg you, please have some control over prices, for your own / people like my relatives, sake. Please. Please.

[Bhamsookh1]

With these prices I'd rather have a trip to Myanmar, Phuket or Moscow. For this money may even get a virgin in South America, Eastern Europe and South Asia!

Tinder works well in Mumbai, Delhi and Kolkata but Pune etc need SA big time.

[DesiGuy3]

There are creative ways to structure deals with girls who have apparently outrageous demands and you want to see long term.

I know a guy who 'gifted' a car to his girl. But, it was a loan where he was paying the EMI, which would continue as long as she was his exclusively. The cost per session would be lower than the average ask on SA.

My girl wanted me to finance a bank guarantee (needed for her new job). Rather than pay her 1.5 lac her bank was asking her to deposit, I got my bank to do it. It cost just 0.75% of the amount because I have more than that amount as a bank FD anyway.

That some people does not understand. If you like someone and she knows you, you do not need to explain your expectation every time. It is like meeting your GF without no commitment (NSA).

[DesiGuy3]

I'm dealing with this kat. Asking 30 k for night. Down them 20 k and confirm services. FR from any members will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...9-0d119c761ff0

Was chatting with her. The pic Payal send me is not what I am looking for. Please try her and let us know.

[Cvvv21]

I'm dealing with this kat. Asking 30 k for night. Down them 20 k and confirm services. FR from any members will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...9-0d119c761ff0

[Phil50]

Any reviews on her? Definitely hot and nice to talk to. Any reviews would be much appreciated. I think I had seen a review earlier but couldn't find it. Ask is 30 k for a few hours.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...7-bd6a46e2249e

I messaged her. Not worth it for 30 k. There are girls with similar looks available at 15. She got sarcastic when I said I could not meet her price.

[Phil50]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-fef92e247d14

Asking 20 K for 2 or 3 hours.

She's said she's a student in a leading college. Nice looks. Not met her, but she'd probably agree to 15 k. That was my budget and we chatted based on that.

[Phil50]

Yeah bro these Kats are going crazy with their demands. They are now demanding as much as a normal wife would have you spend in a month on her for just one night!

If things keep going this way I'll have to rob a bank or do some crypto scam to be able bang these Kats LOL.

There are creative ways to structure deals with girls who have apparently outrageous demands and you want to see long term.

I know a guy who 'gifted' a car to his girl. But, it was a loan where he was paying the EMI, which would continue as long as she was his exclusively. The cost per session would be lower than the average ask on SA.

My girl wanted me to finance a bank guarantee (needed for her new job). Rather than pay her 1.5 lac her bank was asking her to deposit, I got my bank to do it. It cost just 0.75% of the amount because I have more than that amount as a bank FD anyway.

[Shukracharya]

Yeah bro these Kats are going crazy with their demands. They are now demanding as much as a normal wife would have you spend in a month on her for just one night!

If things keep going this way I'll have to rob a bank or do some crypto scam to be able bang these Kats LOL.

On a humorous note, a chick recently told me that she's buying a XUV700 and is looking for a Venture capitalist to fund her business. I told her; babes kindly slap yourself and wake up from your dreams. Rightly done, blocked me. No dearth of pussies looking to fleece to the maximum. Crazy demands I'm hearing nowadays. Thank God, no more a member of SA since 2 months now, and my itch to become a member is overpowered.

Regards.

[Shukracharya]

Bro 30 k for a few hours in too much. She looks good in the pic but ain't no kat worth that kinda money unless she's a virgin!

Any reviews on her? Definitely hot and nice to talk to. Any reviews would be much appreciated. I think I had seen a review earlier but couldn't find it. Ask is 30 k for a few hours.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...7-bd6a46e2249e

[RoniG]

Search by name their is a review.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-fef92e247d14

Asking 20 K for 2 or 3 hours.

[AjayGunner]

Any reviews on her? Definitely hot and nice to talk to. Any reviews would be much appreciated. I think I had seen a review earlier but couldn't find it. Ask is 30 k for a few hours.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...7-bd6a46e2249e