Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[SfoCowboy]

Whats her SA ID? Any hints about insta ID as well?

Gentleman,

This is my first post on this forum and I thought of sharing my bitter experience in SA and to warn you about.

How I got scammed in SA by a girl so that no one else reading this will go through my experience and get scammed.

First of all, I completely admit that it was my mistake for being so naive and stupid and getting scammed.

So last year in June, I came across this girl in SA in Hyderabad. She travels between Hyderabad and Mumbai.

I don't want to take her name and handle but she has been there on the forum since 2021. But she is currently a model.

And aspiring to become an actress. Have acted in couple of webseries too but very short roles. Her age is about 24 and.

She is petite, slim and not very tall. She is from UP, Lucknow and is very fair and good looking.

We initially started conversing in telegram, exchanged pics and god she has a way with her words and has a beautiful.

Voice. Me being stupid and naive got hooked on to her charms. Even before meeting her, I started liking her and after.

A week, we met for the first time. She comes across as very charming and through her talks she made me.

Fall in love with her so much that I started missing her after the very first meet itself.

Right after the very first meet she said that she missed me a lot and started "sharing" lot of her personal stuff like her periods.

Menstrual issues and things like that and I thought she has taken me very close and genuinely started believing and trusting her.

I am fool to expect love and a relationship in a forum like SA but I did and I paid a huge price for it. I thought that.

I had found the love of my life and that she is THE ideal girl that I was looking for all along for a long term relationship.

So anyways she understood me very well and started love bombing. I fell for it and after a couple of weeks, she tried her first scam that.

She has to go through a surgery and falling short of funds. Initially I did resist and had all the red flags in my mind but.

Eventually transferred some money.

The way it started and the way it went between us, I genuinely thought that I am in a relationship with her and we kept.

Texting every day for almost 10 months now initially in telegram and then moved to WhatsApp. We texted pretty much from morning.

Till night and leaving voice messages to each other. Although she will never pick my calls saying that she is busy in meetings and all but.

Will call me only if there is a need. Since she hardly stays in Hyderabad for a few days a month, I would have met her only 5-6 times.

In this period. Initially it used be once in a while she would ask me money giving some reason but later she wanted help to setup a cafe.

And by this time I was completely madly in love with her that I transferred lots of money. Lots. And this happened in Nov-Jan 2024.

Timeframe after which I could start seeing a difference in her attitude. She started to talk less citing various reasons that she is down / low.

Her career is not picking up, brother died, friend died etc etc. But even in between every once in a while, there used to be some reason.

For which she would ask me for money and I used to think that she really is in trouble and help her in any which way I can.

Its only recently I managed to find out that I had been living in a world of lies and deception since June 2023 and from the.

Very beginning it was all nothing but a ploy to extract as much as she can from me. Everything that she had said had been.

A lie. I genuinely was in love with her (yeah ashamed now) and I did everything to make her happy but I paid the huge price.

For being such a dick.

She is a complete narcissist. Love bombs initially that she loves you, misses you, will call you honey, dear, my love, baby etc.

Mirrors you in every single thing that you do and say, says that you are the best thing that has ever happened to her, no one.

Else understands her better. Yada yada yada and at some point devalues you and goes to the next victim / supply and then.

Eventually disengages with you. And the cycle obviously would continue with the next person and the next next person and so on.

As much as I lost lot of money, the thing that hurts me the most is that someone who you think you know for 10 months.

And genuinely took close, showed love, affection, care, wanted only goodness and happiness for that person, had been.

Backstabbing you betraying you all the time.

For me, it was not about sex, and not about multiple partners, but it was about a sugar relationship and a long term one with.

The right one and so I was thinking it was ok to help and support this person, but these girls just deserve to be treated.

As prostitutes and nothing more.

Now although she has not changed her handle in SA, now that she knows that I know, she might change her handle, and.

Tell a different profession, different story about her, different scams etc etc with her next victim, but fundamental.

Traits such as love bombing and scamming cannot change.

She is a public figure and her facebook and insta accounts are all available to anyone, but yet, I don't know what gave.

Her that audacity to do what she did to me and what she was thinking that she can get away with whatever she did.

Thinking back, am sure I am not the first person who she tried all these tricks as she has been on SA since 2021 and.

There are incidents that now I think were based / backed up based on her past experiences and for sure I will not be.

The last person as well.

The reason why I posted this is because this person is back on SA again and she travels between Hyderabad and Mumbai.

So don't fall prey for her. Just stick to paying and fucking these bitches and nothing else. Let my life and.

Story be a reminder for you about the old saying that if something looks too good to be true, it probably is.

[JPoppen]

Any reviews wrt this profile.

Enchanting girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-74ecbfc0d893

20 k for a short meet.

Video call confirmation done ☑65039;.

Planning on meeting her soon.

Did you finally meet her Bro?

[FunForSandy]

Else understands her better. Yada yada yada and at some point devalues you and goes to the next victim / supply and then.


For me, it was not about sex, and not about multiple partners, but it was about a sugar relationship and a long term one with.

Story be a reminder for you about the old saying that if something looks too good to be true, it probably is.

Hey buddy,

Sorry to hear this. Take this as a learning and move on. And also name the handle so that others know whom to avoid.

[Phil50]

SensualMiss. Has separate rates for day and night (15 & 25 k).

Bongfish23 - 20 k.

Alexa - 13 k + cab.

They look good in pics, but do a VC to confirm. Similar profiles have pics lifted from another person's Insta.

The reason I'm posting this is that these profiles have a good idea what the market rate is. There's no need to pay more.

[Phil50]

I get what you are saying. I have met a grand total of 3 in Bangalore who I could hold a conversation with. But somewhere I was chasing a unicorn that I could find a smart, sensible girl whom I can connect with beyond sex also. It's very very rare. Also the efforts required, the shitty attitude and the abysmal ROI are putting me off. I am going to change my approach going forward.

Cheers.

Since 2019, I've met just 2 girls I could connect with beyond sex and felt I had a bond with. One was on SA for a month, the other is inactive. The third person I met in the last 3 years, and see multiple times, I don't really connect with. That sums up SA for me. The quality has only got worse. It takes too much effort to find the right person. For e.g. among the new profiles, all seem to be professionals or pimp operated. The only one who was not `Victoria', just ghosted before our first meet.

One reason the experienced mongers like me get scammed is because we have to take calculated risks to find a real SB.

[Christmas Tre]

I get what you are saying. I have met a grand total of 3 in Bangalore who I could hold a conversation with. But somewhere I was chasing a unicorn that I could find a smart, sensible girl whom I can connect with beyond sex also. It's very very rare. Also the efforts required, the shitty attitude and the abysmal ROI are putting me off. I am going to change my approach going forward.

Cheers.

One of the other reasons I do not take Bangalore SA very seriously is that 3-4 times in a year, I monger in a certain other country using SA. The returns there are outstanding and makes the Bangalore SA scene a laughing stock. Therefore, it is very easy for me to say no and kick a girl out. I subscribed to SA two weeks ago only for entertainment purposes and did not really have much hopes. I met 2 girls so far for sex and one for a platonic first date (who I quickly rejected). I would strongly recommend that everyone adopt this mindset of letting suspicious profiles go. There are plenty out there and more and more will join.

Best wishes!

[FunForSandy]

Thanks for your honest report FunForSandy. The reason why they go for even small amounts is that they expect that it won't make much of a difference for a well to do person to part with and also because they potentially have multiple s

We have all lost money and faced disappointment in this cat and mouse game. With experience and sharing of these sorts of incidents, we collectively learn.


Almost 95% of girls who hint at long term arrangements or 2nd meet sex have some wicked plan up their sl

What works for me is a straight up arrangement at the hotel. I rarely bargain down the price. If it's too high, I don't take it. If I like the girl I will continue to see her regularly. I have no interest in wining and dining with these ladies since their level of intellect puts me to sleep.

I get what you are saying. I have met a grand total of 3 in Bangalore who I could hold a conversation with. But somewhere I was chasing a unicorn that I could find a smart, sensible girl whom I can connect with beyond sex also. It's very very rare. Also the efforts required, the shitty attitude and the abysmal ROI are putting me off. I am going to change my approach going forward.

Cheers.

[Christmas Tre]

I am middle aged and a senior executive who believed that I have seen a lot and I can tackle what women throw in me. As they say Hubris leads to failure and same was the case for me.
for such small amounts and not lok at the future potential earnings.

Learnings for me:

- no advance. Even in kind.

- be sceptical.

Hope you all learn from my mistakes and if someone is in touch with her, please cease or tread very cautiously.

Thanks for your honest report FunForSandy. The reason why they go for even small amounts is that they expect that it won't make much of a difference for a well to do person to part with and also because they potentially have multiple sources to get these small amounts for.

Many who ask for allowances for platonic dates are unlikely to meet the 2nd time for sex. They make their money out of these dates by luring us. An unpaid first platonic date may have better outcomes.

We have all lost money and faced disappointment in this cat and mouse game. With experience and sharing of these sorts of incidents, we collectively learn.

Some things I would like to reiterate.

1) We are the buyers, we have the money. Therefore we should have choices and we do.

2) There will ALWAYS be a better pussy out there.

3) If the deal is heavily favoured towards one party, it is not going to end happy.

4) If things don't feel right, don't bother pursuing it, just end it then and there.

Almost 95% of girls who hint at long term arrangements or 2nd meet sex have some wicked plan up their sleeves and always throw out red flags for me. The remaining 5% are too ugly to fuck. These are the statistics that I perceive.

What works for me is a straight up arrangement at the hotel. I rarely bargain down the price. If it's too high, I don't take it. If I like the girl I will continue to see her regularly. I have no interest in wining and dining with these ladies since their level of intellect puts me to sleep.

[BeStill]

One Bro said she used to charge 15 k just a few months back. Now she starts with 25 k and settles on 20-22 K.

Her service is good though. I have met her as well twice.

Thats the demand and supply game here in Bangalore!

She had quoted 20 k to me too, but agreed to meet for 15 k. I was still pushing for 12 k but that she didn't agree upon.

After that discussion, she ghosted me.

[FunForSandy]

Not sure when you met her but Phil Bro wrote an FR about Nezuko / Naami on 4/23. Did you read this before meeting her?

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...431&viewfull=1#post2910431.

Yes, I had read it. I knew she wanted only platonic. I just thought she might convert into a SB. I never suspected fraud.

[JPoppen]

I had been in touch with her for two weeks now. She kept telling me that she is in Chennai.

Hotnerd is a waste of time. She is either too busy or doing time pass on SA. I managed to meet her for a coffee by the way after 3-4 weeks for chatting. I did not pay her for the coffee date. Sat for 20-30 min. And then dropped her. She is an average looker, fair skin, educated, can talk well, has a big ass, nice boobs. It is up to people to judge if she is good looking or not, but she is not worth the time it takes to wait for her replies on chat. She just disappears for multiple days and then sends a cute voice message to keep you engaged.

[JPoppen]

Thanks! I don't mind dark skin as much as others. But she does have a weird face (from the pics she shared). I don't think she will agree to meet for 10 k /2 since she has been successful getting 20 k in the past.

One Bro said she used to charge 15 k just a few months back. Now she starts with 25 k and settles on 20-22 K.

Her service is good though. I have met her as well twice.

Thats the demand and supply game here in Bangalore!

[BeStill]

I have met her, she is good to talk to and average looking, attitude is good but I was just not attracted to her, she has dark uneven skin, face was kinda weird and had a belly (she is just 24!) boobs are okish and her best trait but apart from that I couldn't really enjoy my time with her, also like a fool I paid her 20 k (negotiated from 25 k) she was not agreeing to 15 k and I was horny.

Now I feel even 15 k is too much for her, maybe 10 k for 2 is a more appropriate price.

Thanks! I don't mind dark skin as much as others. But she does have a weird face (from the pics she shared). I don't think she will agree to meet for 10 k /2 since she has been successful getting 20 k in the past.

[JPoppen]

Hope you all learn from my mistakes and if someone is in touch with her, please cease or tread very cautiously.

Not sure when you met her but Phil Bro wrote an FR about Nezuko / Naami on 4/23. Did you read this before meeting her?

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...431&viewfull=1#post2910431.

[FunForSandy]

I had been in touch with her for two weeks now. She kept telling me that she is in Chennai. Kept sending me voice notes in a sultry, husky voice with many grammatical errors. So in my mind she was the good looking dumb blonde types. She kept promising that she will meet me once she is back in Bangalore. We had all pleasant conversations. And suddenly she blocked me on TG. I have no idea why. She did it around the time Naami / Nezuko blocked me. Maybe they are friends and are sharing notes.