Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Phil50]

Hi mate,

Of course I'm on SA for paid flings, having banged a few already. But the issue is the ones I banged were quiet upfront about the transactional aspect, which made life a lot easier for me. But this chick doesn't have this WG vibe and have never popped up the issue of money. Not having this WG vibe makes her all the more tempting. I'm not naive and expect to sleep with her for free, but am worried if me popping up the issue would offend her.

I take your advise and will get some gift for her during our coffee date, and will see how it proceeds. Should be able to handle the situation from there on 😅. Thanks for taking out the time and replying.

Happy mongering.

I've been in the same position. I've had several long term arrangements and I don't believe any have been working girls or saw our meets as purely transactional. While I only like to be with those who look like they genuinely like my company, I am clear that a hot girl literally half my age, wouldn't hook up with me if we met on tinder. In that contact, I suggest that I'm happy to compensate them for their time, in whatever way makes sense to them, though I would not like to be judged only by how much I'm willing to pay. Money is a part of what they need and qualifies you to be her possible sugar daddy. The coffee meet is a good time to explore what got them on SA and what exactly they are looking for. Do remember that they would have got messages from a lot of other men and will have a good idea of what they are worth.

[LoneWolfer2]

What! If true this is a huge setback. I really liked reading Shukracharya's reviews. I am not sure the reason for the ban but hope it will be reversed soon.

What a shame, Indeed he was great contributor well articulated, hope he gets back soon.

[SumSteamySex]

Hello Bro.

I know how you feel about this situation.

If you don't ask or give allowance then it might be the end of whatever is happening.

And if you ask she may be offended as she might only be here to have luxury dates and gifts etc and not money.

So best is that when you meet give her a classy gift. Not to mention the traveling expenses. The restaurant be upmarket too.

I have a feeling she is not into money. She must be bored of the immature and not so rich boys of her age group and wants someone who has a class.

Broach the subject of private meeting subtly and use your charm. No direct questions but hints. If she is into that meet she will get the idea.

One thing I cannot overemphasize is the need to very carefully listen to whatever she is telling you. Women never never never are direct, especially if not WG type.

You'll come to know what she is looking for.

So next step is meet her for coffee and ask again the forum.

There are other people too here who can also give their advice.

My gut feeling is that you've found the elusive unicorn who is ready for guilt free, cashless sex with you.

SO play very carefully now.

Your experience might become one of the Hall of Fame experiences like Shukracharya, Devsagar brothers.

TC and Safe mongering.

Mate,

I have never seen such a well explained reply in this forum, which I have been following for the past 3-4 months. You have peeked into my mind and read my feelings, which I couldn't even articulate in my post.

Your reply is just the guidance I needed. Don't know how it will go, but I appreciate your insightful reply and your taking the time to write such a lengthy reply. I'll try to follow what you have advised.

Picking up other SA chicks have been very easy for me as they are here for wham bam slam sex, and are quiet upfront about payment. The reason I'm being extra cautious about this bird is I find a different charm in having a fling with someone whose not there primarily for the money, rather the kick they get out of it. Maybe she turns out to be a nympho. They are much more involved in the act, as they themselves enjoy it. Not that I'm looking for free sex. By god's grace I have the ability to maintain few SBs simultaneously. But I hope you understand what I'm trying to convey.

I'm relatively a newbee in this world. Started mongering just a couple of months back. Reaching the level of legends like sukracharya, devsagar is a distant dream.

They are mongers of some different altitude. But I really hope you're words turn out to be true and I get hold of a diamond in a coalmine. Will be meeting the girl tomorrow. Wish me luck.

Thanks again.

[Aarun21]

Planning for her soon, please give me a review if anyone has tried.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...4-a9ca5e7dab7c

I think I'have seen her profile in AFF as well. She's 35 since last 7 years. Old chick, pics are highly photoshopped. Please do a VC before proceeding.

Rgrds,

Aarun.

[VickyD6]

Hey Mat, thanks for that effort. It's very detailed and will help a lot of fellow hobbyists.

I am confident that NightHustle is a scam. I had interacted with them on and off for a couple of weeks. They run multiple telegram accounts and claim to have a main international team and an India affiliate. But I was able to verify through reverse image search that many of the models they claimed to be visiting India are sharing status updates from other parts of the world on Instagram. That was a major red flag and I confronted them with this fact, taking as an example a particular model they mentioned. They claimed it was a mistake made by their affiliate and offered discounts. Same problem with another model later and this time these scammers claimed she landed the same day. I asked for proof, and they played coy. Claimed they don't usually provide such verification, but as a show of faith sent me a self-destruct image, in which the model appears to be sitting on a yacht near the Mumbai Gateway of India. Thankfully I was alert and captured that image. I was able to locate the original image taken in Brazil, and now I was sure it was stolen from the model's Facebook profile. These scammers had doctored it to add the gateway of India to its background. These folks are organized, skilled and articulate, but ultimately they are scammers. Be cautious!

[Shahiste72]

She is associated with night hustle so won't meet. Did you speak to her? I had a long conversation with her (not a pleasant one) today, when I asked her if NH was legit and she got offended.

Thanks for the heads up. I gave up immediately and the profile is deleted too.

[JustForFun02]

Planning for her soon, please give me a review if anyone has tried.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...4-a9ca5e7dab7c

[SumSteamySex]

I assume you are on SA for paid intimate meets. So are the girls. They aren't going to sleep with you for free. I think it's a good sign that she hasn't discussed money so far, which means she's not a.

Working girl. You need to ask her during your coffee meet (which is unpaid, though you might like to cover cab fare, or a small gift).

If the coffee meet goes well, you could tell her you'd like to see her for intimate dates and ask how she'd like to be compensated for those dates. A new girl would expect you to take the lead.

What the girl asks for has nothing to do with trust. If its within your budget go ahead. Assume there are many on SA she has contacted, so she will have a good idea of what the market rate is.

Hi mate,

Of course I'm on SA for paid flings, having banged a few already. But the issue is the ones I banged were quiet upfront about the transactional aspect, which made life a lot easier for me. But this chick doesn't have this WG vibe and have never popped up the issue of money. Not having this WG vibe makes her all the more tempting. I'm not naive and expect to sleep with her for free, but am worried if me popping up the issue would offend her.

I take your advise and will get some gift for her during our coffee date, and will see how it proceeds. Should be able to handle the situation from there on 😅. Thanks for taking out the time and replying.

Happy mongering.

[DesiGuy3]

Shukracharya bro is showing as banned member. Any idea why?

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/forum/member.php?644768-Shukracharya

Surprised. He may pissed off admin.

[Gussy]

Hello Bro.

I know how you feel about this situation.

If you don't ask or give allowance then it might be the end of whatever is happening.

And if you ask she may be offended as she might only be here to have luxury dates and gifts etc and not money.

So best is that when you meet give her a classy gift. Not to mention the traveling expenses. The restaurant be upmarket too.

I have a feeling she is not into money. She must be bored of the immature and not so rich boys of her age group and wants someone who has a class.

Broach the subject of private meeting subtly and use your charm. No direct questions but hints. If she is into that meet she will get the idea.

One thing I cannot overemphasize is the need to very carefully listen to whatever she is telling you. Women never never never are direct, especially if not WG type.

You'll come to know what she is looking for.

So next step is meet her for coffee and ask again the forum.

There are other people too here who can also give their advice.

My gut feeling is that you've found the elusive unicorn who is ready for guilt free, cashless sex with you.

SO play very carefully now.

Your experience might become one of the Hall of Fame experiences like Shukracharya, Devsagar brothers.

TC and Safe mongering.

Hello brethren,

I'm in a dilemma. Been chatting with this Kolkata SA chick for a couple of months now. She is quite happy to chat. And we chat about everything under the sun, almost on a daily basis. Without any rush from her side to meet. She shared her pics and had vc. Pure girl next door type GF material. Actly she's the type whom you would want to cuddle the whole night, rather than fuck wildly. I waited for her to pop up the question for a meet. But she never did. I was confused how to ask her to jump onto bed. So finally asked her for a coffee date. Which she readily agreed to. Will be meeting her in a couple of days over a cup of coffee.

Now the issue is never in the past two months we discussed about money. Even now when we decided for a coffee date, she didn't ask for allowances. She never brought up the issue. I'm confused how to tackle the situation. Would I pop up the question as to how much she wants? Or let it flow as it is going? I'm afraid if she asks for a bomb after we meet. Can't trust birds in SA however good they sound or look.

Anybody been in this situation? Any advice?

[Phil50]

Completely understand your pain.

Seeking has become a scamming platform in India although sugar dating is running successfully in many countries for years. With a real meaning of sugar dating.

In India, this site has been fucked up in last couple of years only. Kudos not only to girls but also some shit people who force a girl against her wishes like anal, not paying money, blackmailing etc.

Sorry but I get annoyed too when I read about scamming incidents and also when girls get abused by some idiots.

See forums like sugarlifestyleforum. Scamming is rampant in the US too.

I first joined SA in India in 2014 and it was much better then. Its been 4 years since I found anyone with whom I could have a long term sugar relationship because there are a higher proportion of full time working girls, which is not what I look for. On the positive side, the increase in the number of girls is more than the men. Since supply is rising relative to demand, prices in real terms have reduced. Scamming will always happen if we are not careful and don't learn from each other, which is why this forum is very useful.

[Phil50]

Hello brethren,

I'm in a dilemma. Been chatting with this Kolkata SA chick for a couple of months now. She is quite happy to chat. And we chat about everything under the sun, almost on a daily basis. Without any rush from her side to meet. She shared her pics and had vc. Pure girl next door type GF material. Actly she's the type whom you would want to cuddle the whole night, rather than fuck wildly. I waited for her to pop up the question for a meet. But she never did. I was confused how to ask her to jump onto bed. So finally asked her for a coffee date. Which she readily agreed to. Will be meeting her in a couple of days over a cup of coffee.

Now the issue is never in the past two months we discussed about money. Even now when we decided for a coffee date, she didn't ask for allowances. She never brought up the issue. I'm confused how to tackle the situation. Would I pop up the question as to how much she wants? Or let it flow as it is going? I'm afraid if she asks for a bomb after we meet. Can't trust birds in SA however good they sound or look.

Anybody been in this situation? Any advice?

I assume you are on SA for paid intimate meets. So are the girls. They aren't going to sleep with you for free. I think it's a good sign that she hasn't discussed money so far, which means she's not a.

Working girl. You need to ask her during your coffee meet (which is unpaid, though you might like to cover cab fare, or a small gift).

If the coffee meet goes well, you could tell her you'd like to see her for intimate dates and ask how she'd like to be compensated for those dates. A new girl would expect you to take the lead.

What the girl asks for has nothing to do with trust. If its within your budget go ahead. Assume there are many on SA she has contacted, so she will have a good idea of what the market rate is.

[RahulWiz]

Shukracharya bro is showing as banned member. Any idea why?

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/forum/member.php?644768-Shukracharya

What! If true this is a huge setback. I really liked reading Shukracharya's reviews. I am not sure the reason for the ban but hope it will be reversed soon.

[Deeeveee]

Can any one help with telegram I'd or any type of contact detail of a seeking profile name by middle later only of *are* located Dhanbad jharkhand.

I ll give 5 contact details in exchange.

Dm please.

I think I know who you are referring to (CCU forum) - did you manage to get in touch? Any feedback?

Sorry I don't have a paid membership here.

[SumSteamySex]

Hello brethren,

I'm in a dilemma. Been chatting with this Kolkata SA chick for a couple of months now. She is quite happy to chat. And we chat about everything under the sun, almost on a daily basis. Without any rush from her side to meet. She shared her pics and had vc. Pure girl next door type GF material. Actly she's the type whom you would want to cuddle the whole night, rather than fuck wildly. I waited for her to pop up the question for a meet. But she never did. I was confused how to ask her to jump onto bed. So finally asked her for a coffee date. Which she readily agreed to. Will be meeting her in a couple of days over a cup of coffee.

Now the issue is never in the past two months we discussed about money. Even now when we decided for a coffee date, she didn't ask for allowances. She never brought up the issue. I'm confused how to tackle the situation. Would I pop up the question as to how much she wants? Or let it flow as it is going? I'm afraid if she asks for a bomb after we meet. Can't trust birds in SA however good they sound or look.

Anybody been in this situation? Any advice?