Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[WaterBoy747]

Humbleprincess: 29 years Nice pics. Same person. But looks 5 yrs older. Bengali girl with big floppy tits, short and stout. Polite and friendly conversationalist. Heavy smoker. Such a heavy smoker that the smell of smoke from her kisses on my hand didn't go even till the next day. Different soaps didn't work. I had to spray some industrial grade odour neutralizer on my hand for it to go. Strong working girl vibes but has a marketing job, a boyfriend etc etc on her Instagram. 15 k damages. WIR. No.

Think she even visited Chennai recently. Agreed for 10 k but never went ahead with it. Felt some strong photoshop vibes on her pics.

[Phil50]

Wow! I thought such things happen in movies or books only. If I had a beautiful woman in my arms I would definitely want to do far more than just reading poetry.

I agree with you on both the points:

- there are enough desperate and frustrated men around andnthey are willing to throw money. If I was in their place, I would just go abroad.

- the "SBs" - at least some of them project as if they are super rich. I once took one to a 5 star hotel for lunch. She didn't even know the place, but when we were eating, she told me that this is where she comes for her spa sessions. And she is not the only one that I have met in the last 3 months when I started on seeking.

Do you think there is any better alternative to seeking?

Cheers.

I understand where the OP is coming from, though I think the reality is more nuanced.

All girls who do not consider themselves to be WGs have stories of how men pay them huge sums just to talk to, cuddle, read poetry etc. That is one of the reasons their peers inflate prices.
If I have to pay someone a large sum to talk to, it would have to be my lawyer or CA and he'd have to be really good.

That said, I do pay for platonic dates, even if all they want is platonic. That's because it attracts a class of girls who are not in this for money and genuinely like the other things like a successful older man can being to the table. However, there are a lot of caveats:

- I pay 6 k for platonic, so it weeds out all the working girls, yet compensates her for her time.
- Either this is part of a long term arrangement with a mix of platonic and intimate dates, or we meet very infrequently, when I need attractive arm candy and she too likes the occasion.
- She has to be not just gorgeous, but have common interests with me and comfortable in the environment I move in, looking like my GF and not a WG.

I have met such people who come from affluent families had interests I would learn from and are now doing well professionally, but this very difficult to find on SA today.

I also like SBs for whom my allowance makes a visible difference and shares my own attitude to money (that I worked hard for it and don't like to waste it). If a 20 y.o talks of getting LV handbags, or drinking 3 single malts in half an hour, or going to spas in a 5 star, I'll drop her after our first casual meet, because I will invariably be in a bidding war with others she is seeing and she will not value my company as much as other girls will, or as much as the guy paying more.
The ideal person for me is someone in a full time job or a serious student, who needs a bit of money to move from struggling to comfortable, values experiences that she can't afford and does not have the time to meet more than 2-3 times a month (does not see the need for more than 1 SD).

[Mad Hatter]

Wow! I thought such things happen in movies or books only. If I had a beautiful woman in my arms I would definitely want to do far more than just reading poetry.

I agree with you on both the points:

- there are enough desperate and frustrated men around andnthey are willing to throw money. If I was in their place, I would just go abroad.

- the "SBs" - at least some of them project as if they are super rich. I once took one to a 5 star hotel for lunch. She didn't even know the place, but when we were eating, she told me that this is where she comes for her spa sessions. And she is not the only one that I have met in the last 3 months when I started on seeking.

Do you think there is any better alternative to seeking?

Cheers.

Right now, it appears that India seeking has become 90% working girls and pimps. And an expensive option at that. We are kinda stuck until seeking decides to do a good clean up. And that will only happen if subscriptions in India drop en masse. I know I am not renewing my subscription anytime soon.

[Bhamsookh1]

Any review on this profile called flirtydeity from Pune / Mumbai? https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-fe3fe0acb26a

So finally she reduced price. Shebhas access to this forum. She has changed many ID and few cities. Finally 25 k after exorbitant charges. 15 k is her value I feel. Few bros had bad experience with her but otherwise she is very eloquent.

She is neither good not bad. But to each their own.

[ScubaDo]

My primary flaw is I don't do the video call for fear of being recorded into something. Even with tg, calls can be recorded. Disappearing pics themselves don't need to disappear. In the past this was OK since the deviation from the actual pic would be 20-30% max which was acceptable. However, the deviation from pics is now over 50-60%. It is a huge weapon against us men. Going forward I will also have to jump on to the bandwagon of video calls.

Christmas, totally with you on this. I'm vary of phone calls and video calls and rely on pics but now slowly realising after bad experiences that pics can be heavily doctored and filtered.

I'm a sucker for eyes And have met people purely based on how they look whereas real-life they are very different.

I'm also now going to use online tools which analyse photos for free to give some idea of whether images are doctored. Not sure if these are reliable but why not try them, is what I'm thinking.

[FunForSandy]

Enough of armchair warrior reports. Let's go play the field. Please note how I got screwed this time.

My primary flaw is I don't do the video call for fear of being recorded into something. Even with tg, calls can be recorded. Disappearing pics themselves don't need to disappear. In the past this was OK since the deviation from the actual pic would be 20-30% max which was acceptable. However, the deviation from pics is now over 50-60%. It is a huge weapon against us men. Going forward I will also have to jump on to the bandwagon of video calls.

2) 90+% of profiles on SA are hard-core working girls who regularly move around the city fucking everyone. As mentioned by Phil before, if you want to get laid in a few hours of joining the app and don't want to interact explicitly with a pimp, there is no better app / website than SA right now. If you a looking for some sweet innocent thing to defile, then you will come out disappointed.

Whoa!

The post gave me the jitters. And I admire that you maintain your grace and sense of humour post such trauma.

If this is what a veteran like you is going through I. A relative newbie. Have lost all hopes.

[FunForSandy]

After a failed Monday night, I had messaged my British MILF to come have breakfast with me.

She arrived nice and early at about 8:00 am. My flight wasn't till 6:00 pm so we took our time slow.

Most of her other SD experiences have been duds mainly because of the way guys behave. There are many "businessmen" and politicians. Think typical Babu types. For whom throwing 1 L on a "white" girl is no problem. She rejects them because they tend to be crass an
And there lies the crux of the issue. In India, the whole scene is skewed. In other Asian, African, western countries there has been very little taboo about sex. So casual hook ups etc have been common for decades now. Indians are only just experiencing this and that is only among the younger generations. So we have a huge population of 30+ year old men who are successful and haven't experience dating or casual sex.

Another observation

Happy hunting everyone. It appears the India scene is going from bad to worse.

Wow! I thought such things happen in movies or books only. If I had a beautiful woman in my arms I would definitely want to do far more than just reading poetry.

I agree with you on both the points:

- there are enough desperate and frustrated men around andnthey are willing to throw money. If I was in their place, I would just go abroad.

- the "SBs" - at least some of them project as if they are super rich. I once took one to a 5 star hotel for lunch. She didn't even know the place, but when we were eating, she told me that this is where she comes for her spa sessions. And she is not the only one that I have met in the last 3 months when I started on seeking.

Do you think there is any better alternative to seeking?

Cheers.

[SymonWestt]

Hi Bro.

She and her friend are addicted to Weed. ( Both are staying together)

Its not the smell of normal smoking, its the smell after smoking weed.

SW.

Enough of armchair warrior reports. Let's go play the field. Please note how I got screwed this time.

My primary flaw is I don't do the video call for fear of being recorded into something. Even with tg, calls can be recorded. Disappearing pics themselves don't need to disappear. In the past this was OK since the deviation from the actual pic would be 20-30% max which was acceptable. However, the deviation from pics is now over 50-60%. It is a huge weapon against us men. Going forward I will also have to jump on to the bandwagon of video calls.

Foxygorgeous - 25 years with some irrelevant IT job. Sends fantastic pics but only the tits match the pics. Face, skin tone, body shape, teeth. Everything is different. But I assure you that it is her pics that she sends. 20 k. Slightly thick, however, a decent fuck if you like the titties. Soft spoken and Dresses well. WIR. No.

Humbleprincess: 29 years Nice pics. Same person. But looks 5 yrs older. Bengali girl with big floppy tits, short and stout. Polite and friendly conversationalist. Heavy smoker. Such a heavy smoker that the smell of smoke from her kisses on my hand didn't go even till the next day. Different soaps didn't work. I had to spray some industrial grade odour neutralizer on my hand for it to go. Strong working girl vibes but has a marketing job, a boyfriend etc etc on her Instagram. 15 k damages. WIR. No.

Aditi: I have been with hard-core wgs from bars abroad in my early days of mongering since that is usually how the inexperienced begin. This one was a peach. Albeit a rotten one. Again, cheated by filters. She is a dark, tubby Bengali girl claiming to be from Darjeeling. Face and tits looked good in her pics, but different story in real. Demands money (politely) up front. Has a pimp who she informs when she reaches. Tits are OK, BJ is good. 15 k. I don't want to discuss anything further since I am having PTSD. Please understand the rest.

WIR. No, going for therapy.

Learnings -.

1) Video call is a must, even though it isn't foolproof. Filters can be added. I must consider adding a filter to myself.

2) 90+% of profiles on SA are hard-core working girls who regularly move around the city fucking everyone. As mentioned by Phil before, if you want to get laid in a few hours of joining the app and don't want to interact explicitly with a pimp, there is no better app / website than SA right now. If you a looking for some sweet innocent thing to defile, then you will come out disappointed.

[Christmas Tre]

Enough of armchair warrior reports. Let's go play the field. Please note how I got screwed this time.

My primary flaw is I don't do the video call for fear of being recorded into something. Even with tg, calls can be recorded. Disappearing pics themselves don't need to disappear. In the past this was OK since the deviation from the actual pic would be 20-30% max which was acceptable. However, the deviation from pics is now over 50-60%. It is a huge weapon against us men. Going forward I will also have to jump on to the bandwagon of video calls.

Foxygorgeous - 25 years with some irrelevant IT job. Sends fantastic pics but only the tits match the pics. Face, skin tone, body shape, teeth. Everything is different. But I assure you that it is her pics that she sends. 20 k. Slightly thick, however, a decent fuck if you like the titties. Soft spoken and Dresses well. WIR. No.

Humbleprincess: 29 years Nice pics. Same person. But looks 5 yrs older. Bengali girl with big floppy tits, short and stout. Polite and friendly conversationalist. Heavy smoker. Such a heavy smoker that the smell of smoke from her kisses on my hand didn't go even till the next day. Different soaps didn't work. I had to spray some industrial grade odour neutralizer on my hand for it to go. Strong working girl vibes but has a marketing job, a boyfriend etc etc on her Instagram. 15 k damages. WIR. No.

Aditi: I have been with hard-core wgs from bars abroad in my early days of mongering since that is usually how the inexperienced begin. This one was a peach. Albeit a rotten one. Again, cheated by filters. She is a dark, tubby Bengali girl claiming to be from Darjeeling. Face and tits looked good in her pics, but different story in real. Demands money (politely) up front. Has a pimp who she informs when she reaches. Tits are OK, BJ is good. 15 k. I don't want to discuss anything further since I am having PTSD. Please understand the rest.

WIR. No, going for therapy.

Learnings -.

1) Video call is a must, even though it isn't foolproof. Filters can be added. I must consider adding a filter to myself.

2) 90+% of profiles on SA are hard-core working girls who regularly move around the city fucking everyone. As mentioned by Phil before, if you want to get laid in a few hours of joining the app and don't want to interact explicitly with a pimp, there is no better app / website than SA right now. If you a looking for some sweet innocent thing to defile, then you will come out disappointed.

[Sammy1702]

Any review on this profile called flirtydeity from Pune / Mumbai? https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-fe3fe0acb26a

I had an chat with her 4 months ago. She wanted 25 k as an sugar baby, no time constraints she mentioned.

I had declined.

Today she messaged back me after 4 months again.

[Binmbb]

Any review on this profile called flirtydeity from Pune / Mumbai? https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-fe3fe0acb26a

[FunForSandy]

Hello Guys,

Any one has met this girl from SA Bangalore? Please help me with some details and review.

I connected with her. Good pics. Nepali girl. Chats alright.

But bailed out the day we were supposed to meet citing some work.

[FunForSandy]

Sushi. Sushi is a fair, short and fat chick from Delhi. She is educated and good in conversing. She is looking for a long term arrangement, which I also prefer. However I am into slim chicks so I dropped her.

Peaches. Peaches is a dusky chick, with good figure. Again, she is educated and good in conversing. She is a South Indian. I am still conversing with her and yet to meet her for a coffee date.

Thanks mate for your inputs.

[Mad Hatter]

After a failed Monday night, I had messaged my British MILF to come have breakfast with me.

She arrived nice and early at about 8:00 am. My flight wasn't till 6:00 pm so we took our time slow.

Ordered room service. Ran the bath and really enjoyed each other's company. We finally took a breather at about noon and were just lying in bed taking a breather when I asked her about her seeking experiences. Something I tend not to ask too much.

She was very honest and told me she had another regular SD who gave her 60 K a month to just come and hang out with him. So the guy is in his mid 30's a high flying finance wizz kid with serious social issues.

He gives her the money to just come over, lay in his arms as he reads poetry to her. That's it. I thought it was a joke initially, until she showed me their chats. He not only likes to read it to her, he also writes and shares poetry with her.

Most of her other SD experiences have been duds mainly because of the way guys behave. There are many "businessmen" and politicians. Think typical Babu types. For whom throwing 1 L on a "white" girl is no problem. She rejects them because they tend to be crass and quite vulgar. But then there are many many rich well groomed guys who are more than willing to throw 50 K+ for a meeting. A lot of them are stuck in shitty marriages and just get desperate for some good action in India.

And there lies the crux of the issue. In India, the whole scene is skewed. In other Asian, African, western countries there has been very little taboo about sex. So casual hook ups etc have been common for decades now. Indians are only just experiencing this and that is only among the younger generations. So we have a huge population of 30+ year old men who are successful and haven't experience dating or casual sex.

Another observation I had personally, was that Indian "SBs" (and I use this term loosely) tend to exaggerate their lifestyle and accomplishments. It appears to be a uniquely Indian problem. The SBs I have met in Europe, Asia and South Africa tend to be very honest about their situation.

Happy hunting everyone. It appears the India scene is going from bad to worse.

[Mad Hatter]

So I spent anothet evening relaxing and indulging in the wonderful street food of Bombay. Monday, the itch came back and I decided to meet this Estonian Girl. Profile name "Liza" (no link because I think she has blocked me now).

Chat was going good. Pics seemed alright. A little on the older side but well dressed. We agreed to meet at 1522 for a drink and some light bites.

She arrived on time (a good sign) at about 7:00 pm. Pics are quite accurate. She is a bit on the older side in terms of looks. Although she claims to be in her mid 30's. Looks like the result of a lot of sun and partying.

Conversation was alright, much better than the previous girls. And about an hour in, she asks for 3 K. Says she owes money to a friend who is on the way to collect it. "Friend" is outside the bar in about 15 minutes. I offer to go pay her friend off (as I was concerned she would run away when she steps out of the bar), but she outright refused. She said she will leave her bag at the table and will be back in 5 minutes. I agreed because that bad was worth much more than 3 K and gave her the money.

She steps out, and a few minutes later I see her walking in to the bar and she heads straight to the restroom. 10 minutes later she is back at my table and I realise what just happened.

The next hour passed by with a couple of more visits to the restroom and the girl getting more and more animated. I am pretty much done with this and am trying to exit this. After paying the bill, she gets super clingy with me and insists we go on to a place nearby where we can dance and she promised "it will feel incredible". I have to admit it sounded so very tempting. But common sense prevailed and I shoved 5 K in her hands and just jetted.

Never! Ever! Mess around with people using hard drugs. The night will go one of 2 ways. And they are both extreme. Either you will have some amazing mind blowing sex or you will have the worst time of your life (getting robbed and attacked is not out the question) - nothing in between.

I ended the evening with a message to the British MILF. She came over the next morning and what followed was a conversation for another post.