Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[MongerMama]

Hi brothers,

Hope you are all having good times. I am not someone who had great frequencies. So can't comment much.

My only experiences have been with sp girls, indies and off late, a few couples. There is always a hit and a miss. And intimacy is the last thing to expect, when you are paying for it. Most girls or women in trade, try to grab that the# down there, and probably kiss your nipples to make you hard. Perhaps a routine?

There is no foreplay or intimate discussions or anything of that sort. Because of a rotten marriage, where compromise is my future, I wanted to try dating sites or apps.

Some men have no issues uploading pics. But being a tied out man, I am not sure how to proceed further though there is a paid incognito feature. But again, it significantly decreases your chance.

So,

If we are open for a discussion, which I guess should probably help others as well, can you share your experiences please.

1. Your age. No specifics. Just a range in 10's. 30-40 for ex.

2. Dating sites or apps you tried.

3. Any fling you found and how you got there. Not too many specifics. But, just a direction or a lead.

4. Have you uploaded your pics? If so, is there anything you considered?

5. Are you married?

I know some of this is personal. But feel free to share what you are comfortable with. It helps everyone out there to explore and have a good time.

The routine of contact requests and meets, aka all paid stuff is kind of routine except for a few. It makes sense for us to invest in ourself, find flings and partners and live life with no judgements. Rather than paying whatever these people are asking and burning our pockets.

I might have talked much. But hope this makes sense, and look forward to understand and learn a bit.

Cheers to good times.

Have fun and a great time.

[I AMdevil]

Recently tried BOLDCARE delay spray and here is my experience.

Applied it before the act, got a bit irritating sensation for about 1-2 minutes like I have applied chili powder but then it went off, now after 10 - 15 minutes washed my big bro with water and proceeded for the show, had a lot of oral sex and lot of chit chat in between which lasted for an hour after which I began with the main drilling and still was easily able to bang for good 20 minutes in various positions, could have lasted longer but wanted to get over as it decreased my sensation and was using cover too.

It does increase you timing significantly and will do wonders if you are fit enough and want to go an extra mile but it does decreases the sensation and with cover on won't enjoy that much, it does smell good though.

My suggestion would be try it if you are not using a cover. Cheers.

[MidtownGuy]

Thank you brother. One has a create those 'special occasions' to use a condom this expensive.

I have bought. 003, . 002 and. 001 all from Amazon. 0. 001 is bloody costly though, so I reserve it for 'special occassions' if you know what I mean.

https://amzn.in/d/7PuXLD2

Check here.

[RedBull691]

What is the most popular ayurvedic sex pill around these days in India. I'm looking for some as a alternative to the usual ed pills I take. Can anyone on here give me a few names of pills to try. And are they any good.

Is there anyone here who can give me info on where I can purchase wholesale pattaya nights capsules and x- gold capsules.

[RashidZ]

Fellow brothers. From where do you buy Okamoto 001 condoms? I have been looking for it online but couldn't find my seller.

I have bought. 003, . 002 and. 001 all from Amazon. 0. 001 is bloody costly though, so I reserve it for 'special occassions' if you know what I mean.

https://amzn.in/d/7PuXLD2

Check here.

[MidtownGuy]

Fellow brothers. From where do you buy Okamoto 001 condoms? I have been looking for it online but couldn't find my seller.

[Rocky767]

So recently have got something called jock itch in my groin which is basically a fungal infection. Its symptoms are severe itching and I am taking medicines for that. But I saw something new near to the jock itch which seemed like wart. Well I haven't done my test to confirm if it's hsv but if it's really hsv. Wanted to know you guys opinion how bad is genital herpes as std and how much time it will take to recover from it.

[Srid18]

What is the most popular ayurvedic sex pill around these days in India. I'm looking for some as a alternative to the usual ed pills I take. Can anyone on here give me a few names of pills to try. And are they any good.

You can try Confido. I am not sure if it works but many of my ED patients report improvement in performance after taking it.

[RedBull691]

What is the most popular ayurvedic sex pill around these days in India. I'm looking for some as a alternative to the usual ed pills I take. Can anyone on here give me a few names of pills to try. And are they any good.

[Rishabs]

Hi Bro, Thanks for throwing in some light on the PE issues which older men go through and glad the technique of WOT has worked for you. My partner is not in BBJ 🫤. Gives lame excuses that my fellow is too large for her small mouth 🤷. So instead I go down on her and follow with fingering and then she rides, so overall the entire session goes into 10-15 minutes all combined.

I thought Tadalafil is for ED issues. Does it help with PE as well?, if so what would be dosage you recommend for a mid 40's fellow like me or any other suggestions. Delay cream is already in use.

My SB came through a job interview process. I understood what her aspirations was and she knew my contacts and connects will get her to what she was aiming for, so technically there is no direct pay out involved. It is benifits and the cost of travel, party, drinks, stay, gifts, some financial assistance when she needs and be her support system emotionally, financially and sexually. If I average it out over the past 2 years I would say 30 k monthly. We meet once or twice in a month Max and do two long holidays for 5- 6 days in a year.

Hi,

I am middle aged (45). In mid twenties, after marriage, it was premature and embarrassing. Then, I learned and evolved. Even till 35, I used to climax 4 -5 times within 2-3 hrs, even with the condom on. So, when I took girls, I always discussed MSOG. By 40, I realized that my first climax was relatively short, and I couldn't climax even a second time (unless the girl was exceptional: which has happened only twice in the last 3 yrs). At this point, I took long BBJs, which I enjoyed. I suggest you do that. I never climax now with BJ. Then I let her ride me, to prolong the act, and when I want to finish, go to mish and be done in 5 min. Few things:

1. Taking tadalafil prolonged ejaculation so much and many a times, I could not finish, despite being hard. I have stopped them. It just gives me a headache.

2. WOT helps the girl attain their orgasm, definitely. Mish and doggy, are when you want to finish.

3. In the former, the action pace is set by the partner, which might not be the best for your finish. In the latter, you set the pace as to when you finish.

Its a well and true observation. If some one can provide an alternate explanation, it would be great.

BTW, in a SB-SD relation, how much do you pay as monthly allowance and what are the terms?

Cheers.

[Srid18]

Hi I have been in the mongering scene for around 6 years now although I discovered this group quite late. I need advice and opinions of seniors regarding this issue. I have a huge attraction for big asses and I think this is quite normal for most of us. I really nut hard when I'm banging a thick derriere in doggy. I have been wondering of late what does A-level feel like. Can any senior suggest me if it is worth taking a chance once. Yes I am aware of the preparation it need and all. How has your experience been with A-level?

Waiting for your replies.

Stay safe and enjoy.

[ZOrchid]

Hi,

I am middle aged (45). In mid twenties, after marriage, it was premature and embarrassing. Then, I learned and evolved. Even till 35, I used to climax 4 -5 times within 2-3 hrs, even with the condom on. So, when I took girls, I always discussed MSOG. By 40, I realized that my first climax was relatively short, and I couldn't climax even a second time (unless the girl was exceptional: which has happened only twice in the last 3 yrs). At this point, I took long BBJs, which I enjoyed. I suggest you do that. I never climax now with BJ. Then I let her ride me, to prolong the act, and when I want to finish, go to mish and be done in 5 min. Few things:

1. Taking tadalafil prolonged ejaculation so much and many a times, I could not finish, despite being hard. I have stopped them. It just gives me a headache.

2. WOT helps the girl attain their orgasm, definitely. Mish and doggy, are when you want to finish.

3. In the former, the action pace is set by the partner, which might not be the best for your finish. In the latter, you set the pace as to when you finish.

Its a well and true observation. If some one can provide an alternate explanation, it would be great.

BTW, in a SB-SD relation, how much do you pay as monthly allowance and what are the terms?

Cheers.

I have a complex situation during my sessions with my GF. I have a very sensitive fellow and he always gives up in a minute once I enter in Missionary. Which I tried improving upon with spray and gel. Still not major improvement.

Since my partner is a SB and half my age, and there is money and reputation involved. I decided to get her to drive me after prolonged fore play. To my surprise she went on to have multiple orgasam (At times 4 in a row) and when she was done and exhausted. I used to take my turn and finish it off. This has for sure changed her perspective about an older man and sex and now she longs to drive me every single time.

I don't get this logic of my fellow. Why he behaves in this manner.

Has anyone else with PE issues experienced this phenomenon?

Cheers and keep rocking!

[Rishabs]

I have a complex situation during my sessions with my GF. I have a very sensitive fellow and he always gives up in a minute once I enter in Missionary. Which I tried improving upon with spray and gel. Still not major improvement.

Since my partner is a SB and half my age, and there is money and reputation involved. I decided to get her to drive me after prolonged fore play. To my surprise she went on to have multiple orgasam (At times 4 in a row) and when she was done and exhausted. I used to take my turn and finish it off. This has for sure changed her perspective about an older man and sex and now she longs to drive me every single time.

I don't get this logic of my fellow. Why he behaves in this manner.

Has anyone else with PE issues experienced this phenomenon?

Cheers and keep rocking!

[MongerMama]

As far as I read, don't consume these for a period of time. Give them a break. It has its own side effects if consumed in excess over a period of time.

Start and stop them. How about consulting an ayurvedic doc and asking if you can switch something like shilajit for some time, ashwagand for some time and so on.

In moderation, it is good. Just these shilajit or ashwagandha may not helo. They should be supplemented by healthy habits.

Excercise, Hit workouts, fruits like pomegranate, leafy veggies and so on. Focus on diet, workouts, have one steady relationship, practice edging and other techniques.

Multiple partners might give some sort if kick. But, in the long run, a steady relationship with someone whom you connect with, can be more blissful. Obviously chances are less for males, but if you are in age, give it a shot.

Ayurved, or whatever, consult an expert before you pick that dose. You don't have to put stress on your kidneys and other organs for a few minutes of pleasure, and we don't have to or we are not obliged to let her climax especially if is paid sex.

The max she will do is fake it, as she might have had enough. So don't stress about it, unless it bothers you. Its all in our brain.

Stay safe. Take care.

Peace.

I have been consuming Shailajit for more than a month (little amount mixed with water / milk) every day. I see a light improvement in stamina during activities. The company claims usage of 90 days and above will give substantial results.

Is it safe to consume shailajit on daily basis for long term? Does it have any side effects in long term?

[Maddy0070]

Go to a doctor and get a prophylactic for HIV and STDs. You can take it within 24-72 hours of the encounter to reduce your chances by 70-85% for all STDs, including HIV.

I knew that there was PEP to prevent HIV. But was not aware that the same kind of medicine exists to prevent all STDs. That is truly an amazing news. Will it prevent herpes also?