Bangalore

[Baba1986]

Hello all,

This ask for help may have been ideally suited for a different forum / thread, since it pertains to needing help in Bangalore, reaching out to this large base to seek some inputs. Warning slightly long post to describe the situation so there is plenty of detail to know (and also avoid simplistic solutions / suggestions that have been tried already).

I am a 48 year old male (almost 49 now). I am at a stage where I need help to get erections (I can still get erections) but the biggest challenge is to keep them for a reasonable period to enjoy penetrative sex. Foreplay (kissing / touching / caressing alone) does not give me the full erection but Oral sex makes me hard or hand play makes me hard. If I penetrate and start having sex, things start off normally the first minute or so. Unless I keep up the stroking pace fast enough, the erection starts going soft. If I pull out to change positions, I lose my erection. Once I lose my erection, again it takes long to get it back. Here is the result of this situation.

1) Keeping up the pace of stroking causes me to cum too soon, in about 1-2 minutes and the partner is left unsatisfied (and I too don't feel sexually satiated).

2) If I slow down the pace, the penis softens resultant loss of erection needs addressing.

3) If I withdraw to change positions, I end up softening and losing hard erection.

4) If I use hand strokes or ask for other help to try and regain my erection, that stimulation causes me to reach my orgasm most of the time or just about as I penetrate back, I end up ejaculating.

5) Condoms are an absolute no no. By the time I try to put the condom on, there is a chance I might lose part of the erection and also the sensation is extremely reduced...

Avoid carbs. Start jogging exercise. Eat plenty green veg. If possible half boil. / Stir fried. If no diabetes problem then eat banana regularly. Stop eating rice. Loose weight. At least 4 kg. If you have belly fat try to reduce it. If you need to discuss more pm me.

[JohnSlayer]

Mates,

We have shared 2 BHK mongering place shared by 3 mongers which costs 3.5 k all inclusive per month.

One of the monger is moving to Hyderabad as transfer, so there is vacancy for adding one new monger.

Place is behind Aster CMI Hospital, Hebbal Bangalore.

Do PM if sounds interesting to you. Happy new year to all and wish you more pussies in new year.

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Can you share further details?

[VickyVerma]

Bro,

I said as you said and they declined stating they don't provide any therapist who do B2B.

Now can you provide inputs.

As their first time customer, I had asked for B2 B therapists. These spas thrive on repeat business from reliable clients so they will tell which therapists can provide B2 B. However, a therapist who agreed for B2 B with you can decline B2 B with your friend or another client due to various reasons. A therapist who provided B2 B during her first visit can decline B2 B on her third, depending on her financial, mental and physical circumstance. Nothing is guaranteed.

Of course, no spa will disclose FS providers to even regulars.

[Luckyguy7198]

Not a good advice bro, unless you have a repo with the spa and a regular customer. 1st timer of that spa can't ask directly. That's the reason I am asking for inputs.

As their first time customer, I had asked for B2 B therapists. These spas thrive on repeat business from reliable clients so they will tell which therapists can provide B2 B. However, a therapist who agreed for B2 B with you can decline B2 B with your friend or another client due to various reasons. A therapist who provided B2 B during her first visit can decline B2 B on her third, depending on her financial, mental and physical circumstance. Nothing is guaranteed.

Of course, no spa will disclose FS providers to even regulars.

[Stealth Boy]

Anyone recently met Sapna G0 mbe?

I believe FB messenger is the only way to contact.

Is it too difficult to contact her like Pencil & Bips.

No response.

Cheers.

George.

Check my recent FR. Its much easier to contact her when compared to Bips / Pencil.

[VickyVerma]

Thanks bro for suggesting to ask the spa directly. Not sure if its good idea or not. As they won't directly tell as I am not a regular customer of that spa. For Cali we have many reviews so can figure out who provides FS. But when it comes to bolg and png, not much.

That's the reason asking for inputs, who in these two provide FS. Specially looking for NE profile.

[VickyVerma]

Not a good advice bro, unless you have a repo with the spa and a regular customer. 1st timer of that spa can't ask directly. That's the reason I am asking for inputs.

Ask the spas for B2B profiles. They will confirm who will not do B2B.

Most B2B profiles will agree for FS if they are not menstruating, you can pay the price they desire, or if you resemble Tom Cruise (between 1985 and 95).

[HellvelMan]

Anyone recently tried A periyar from FB?

Would love if somone can input.

Stay safe.

ATH.

Worst in terms of service and look. Do not waste your time and money.

Stay safe.

[Sstrika]

Paid fun is just one source. You have to look for fun without money involved in your surroundings. It doesn't happen overnight.

It takes time and energy. Thrill is of different league of it's own. But you have to play safe so that you are not exposed / image is not tarnished.

I have hardly paid for sex in past 5 years.

I haven't posted none of my experiences here as I can't share those numbers. Since they are not into profession and common people like you and me.

I understand that you cannot share those numbers / people. Please share your methods for the benefit of larger group. Is it FB, dating Apps or other methods? For me, every FB member starts with min of 10 K. Problem with paid fun is that it becomes mechanical or they start looking at time. Very rare to make it win-win situation. If the other person also wants only enjoyment then its ideal.

By the way, I am close to strike one such person in my known circle but it is taking so much of effort.

[VictorStar]

Went there last week. Similar stuff as earlier, was offered a mallu and nothing great with massage, didn't enjoy much, all access available though. No changes to price as well.

I did see couple of new faces, anyone tried those? What services available?

Where was the charges?

Did you take FS or only massage.

[Mature Inblr]

Hello all,

This ask for help may have been ideally suited for a different forum / thread, since it pertains to needing help in Bangalore, reaching out to this large base to seek some inputs. Warning – slightly long post to describe the situation so there is plenty of detail to know (and also avoid simplistic solutions / suggestions that have been tried already).

I am a 48 year old male (almost 49 now). I am at a stage where I need help to get erections (I can still get erections) but the biggest challenge is to keep them for a reasonable period to enjoy penetrative sex. Foreplay (kissing / touching / caressing alone) does not give me the full erection but Oral sex makes me hard or hand play makes me hard. If I penetrate and start having sex, things start off normally the first minute or so. Unless I keep up the stroking pace fast enough, the erection starts going soft. If I pull out to change positions, I lose my erection. Once I lose my erection, again it takes long to get it back. Here is the result of this situation.

1) Keeping up the pace of stroking causes me to cum too soon, in about 1-2 minutes and the partner is left unsatisfied (and I too don't feel sexually satiated).

2) If I slow down the pace, the penis softens resultant loss of erection needs addressing.

3) If I withdraw to change positions, I end up softening and losing hard erection.

4) If I use hand strokes or ask for other help to try and regain my erection, that stimulation causes me to reach my orgasm most of the time or just about as I penetrate back, I end up ejaculating.

5) Condoms are an absolute no no. By the time I try to put the condom on, there is a chance I might lose part of the erection and also the sensation is extremely reduced.

All these are classic symptoms of ED I understand.

Here is what my background is.

1) I have had Diabetes for a few years now but it is under control always through pills I take.

2) I have hypertension which again is addressed via medication.

3) My Testosterone is in mid-range for my age bracket and no thyroid problems.

4) Cholesterol is also on the higher side of normal range.

5) Vitamin the is below normal and I take supplements for the same.

6) I maintain a reasonably active lifestyle, Brisk walking 3-4 times a week, 30 minutes each covering about 3 Kms each time. I also do weights about 3-4 times a week. My weight is in mid-80's and I am 5. 8" (I guess doctors will say reduce further).

I do occasionally masturbate, and have a healthy desire (to have sex). Try making love 2-3 times a week. I do not watch porn (haven't visited porn sites in over 8-9 months). I do watch erotic pictures / posts on FB / Other portals on which I am. I have tried lot of solutions based on (re) search on Google – Supplements, Sildenafil, Tadalfil etc starting from 25 MG to higher dosage on Sildenafil and up to 20 MG on Tadalafil. I could not get verdanafil from Pharmacies, available only online and that requires prescription. I heard it works better for people with Diabetes (google research says so). These medicines give me slightly accelerated erections (in having them) but the problem of maintaining the erection still seems to persist.

What is it that I want to achieve: Ability to keep hard erections for a reasonably longer period of time to be able to have enjoyable penetrative sex. Stamina is not an issue based on my active lifestyle.

What help am I looking for: Looking for a good sexologist or good doctors advice in Bangalore who can do a thorough comprehensive examination and assess what could be the root cause of this issue and also offer a solid treatment for the same. I have been to one who took a lot of case history, was patient in listening to and also enquiring, had questions and then offered me health supplements as a solution for a month. Never did a physical exam. I am not very sure this is a good evaluation without any tests (I don't know any better so not really judging). So anyone with a medical background can offer more insight or others who can add value to this thread is more than welcome. I do not have email privilege so responding to the thread is probably the best way to benefit everyone. I have laid Bare my soul so to say, really looking forward to a solution to my problem so I can enjoy my sexual life as do others.

Regards.

M.

[GeorgeOfJungle]

Anyone recently met Sapna G0 mbe?

I believe FB messenger is the only way to contact.

Is it too difficult to contact her like Pencil & Bips.

No response.

Cheers.

George.

[YumYum1]

Back after couple of years! Godspeed bro. Monger wins.

An avid reader and member of the forum from couple of years ago, had to let go of this due to marriage but now I have been back on the block for the past few months. I just had retarded mongering the pandemic struck and I had to return to my native. Now that I'm back in namma bengaluru I have started pursuing my old flames (frs coming soon). Although I was out of the game for a while I never stopped going through the forum everyday. Happy to know that everything is creeping back to normal. Looking forward to make new acquaintances and also giving back in any way I can.

[Gsrn111]

Went there last week. Similar stuff as earlier, was offered a mallu and nothing great with massage, didn't enjoy much, all access available though. No changes to price as well.

I did see couple of new faces, anyone tried those? What services available?

It's been a long time since I went to that spa.

That place is nearby and a vfm option for me.

Thought of going out again.

Any updates on the girls and rates which are going now.

Previously it was too good of a vfm option with girls there.

Want to know the situation now.

[Baba1986]

Paid fun is just one source. You have to look for fun without money involved in your surroundings. It doesn't happen overnight.

It takes time and energy. Thrill is of different league of it's own. But you have to play safe so that you are not exposed / image is not tarnished.

I have hardly paid for sex in past 5 years.

I haven't posted none of my experiences here as I can't share those numbers. Since they are not into profession and common people like you and me.

Agree and liked your. Fb is best source. Mostly I tried MILF. Or middle aged. We can easily engaged them. Success rate 50%. Most of them are hungry but not wild. Once they are wild they are wild. You need to give them time through chat. Then the game begins. More than 50 contact I have but can't share useless as they are not professional.