Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Phil50]

There are some ways to check how well you are doing in the 'funnel'. This time for e.g (in Bangalore).

In my 1 month membership, I messaged 271 girls in B'lore. 170 replied.

75% of those you message should read it and 75% of those should reply.
You'd get around 50 replies per 100 messages, rarely more than 60% (if you are selective).
The number I message has been increasing each time, though I am more selective. That is the positive part of SA.
For e.g. 2019-2022 I would not be able to message more than 200 profiles in Bangalore.
The percentage who read and replied have also been fairly consistent.

Of the 170 replies, there are messages exchanged with 80. That resulted in 8 meets (you have to chat with 10 to get 1 meet).
2 ghosted, so I was left with 6, though I have one more prospect to meet.

Most of these message exchanges are fairly short.

[Phil50]

What you see here, are mainly profiles that are bad. Most good profiles are not shared because that goes against the very nature of a SB.

Use this forum as a guide on how to approach SBs and which profiles to avoid.

Absolutely! The kind of SB we ideally want, will not remain on SA for long (my best finds have been on SA 1 month) because they have limited time to sugar date, have a particular amount they need and are fairly selective. Once they find the right person, they don't want to remain on SA and be treated as a WG in the messages they get, or the exploratory meets they have. They only return when a relationship ends.

This forum works best to share feedback on those we have interacted with an let people know whom to avoid, not 'share contacts'.

[FunForSandy]

Outside India the hit rate was about 1 out of every 3 girls that I would meet. By that I mean, 1 out of every 3 girls checked the right boxes. I would have ended up sleeping with all 3 of the girls. But to actively spend time with regularly, it was about 1 out of every 3 on average.

In India, the hit rate is closer to 1 out of every 5/6 girls. The problem in India is getting to the meeting stage. This is due to all the problems with low class women, scammers, pimps ets. Essentially, thanks to us wonderful Indians, we tend to ruin every good thing we have.

That's an impressive strike rate for you, Phil and Rajm. For me the top of the funnels has been similar - contacted 50 odd. I did find 3 who I thought I could have as SBs. Two chose to back off after a couple of introductory meets. To the extent one went off SA, one went on a hiatus and resurfaced today only. The third one is regularly in touch but again it hasn't materialised. And none of them brought up money. So I don't know where I am going wrong.

Maybe I should try some more.

[Phil50]

Having been on SA from last 7 years, I have mostly been able to strike atleast one good match everytime I take SA monthly subscription. And here I mean meeting a non-working girl. A typical college girl / non-Pro girl and not a big burn on pocket. I am mostly able to continue the girl for few months before I get bored and go back to SA for fresh hunting.

And to score this one good match, probably I am required to hit atleast 50+ profile, get talking to atleast 15 of them and also to meet atleast 3-4 of them. So yes, its quite time consuming project. But then that one GEM I am able to strike, has mostly been worth it.

Cheers.

Raj.

My numbers are similar (10 years on SA) but it is getting more difficult to find the kind of non WG, that you and others have described.

Whenever I take my 1 month sub, I have found someone who I have had a relationship lasting a year at least. However, it requires an increasing amount of effort.
Last year, the one person I found, lasted 5 dates before ghosting.
This year, I think I have found one (who I described in an earlier post), we have had 1 date, so its early days.

Typically, I have to chat with 60+ girls, before agreeing to meet 8 for an unpaid 'meet & greet'.
2 will ghost at the last minute. 4 of the remaining 6, I would not like to meet again.
This time, I did want to see 3 of the 6 again. 1 scammed, 1 had a high allowance ask and the 3rd I did meet (I've posted details earlier).

[Rajm007]

Having been on SA from last 7 years, I have mostly been able to strike atleast one good match everytime I take SA monthly subscription. And here I mean meeting a non-working girl. A typical college girl / non-Pro girl and not a big burn on pocket. I am mostly able to continue the girl for few months before I get bored and go back to SA for fresh hunting.

And to score this one good match, probably I am required to hit atleast 50+ profile, get talking to atleast 15 of them and also to meet atleast 3-4 of them. So yes, its quite time consuming project. But then that one GEM I am able to strike, has mostly been worth it.

Cheers.

Raj.

Thanks for your encouraging words. I have had come close to finding SBs but it hasn't materialised yet.

My question to you and others who have been successful is how long did it take for you to find your first genuine SB?

It's been 3 months for me (subscribed twice) - I don't know whether I should persist or not.

Thanks.

[TharkiInsaan]

I have been going through the past few pages of Seeking. For anyone jumping on board, this forum is just all doom and gloom.

To all these punters, I just want to say, there is a silver lining.

What you see here, are mainly profiles that are bad. Most good profiles are not shared because that goes against the very nature of a SB.

Can't agree more with this. Most SBs are usually only looking for one or max 2 SDs and for relatively long term. The scene was much better few years back, now it's just full of pimps and WGs, but there are some genuine girls looking for pure SB-SD arrangement. They usually check out of the site the moment they get into a long term arrangement and ideally I'd prefer that as well, the exclusivity makes it worth it. Otherwise WGs can be had for much cheaper from any other platform too.

[Eanf2003]

Any one has met this girl? Wanted to get review. Not that good but says student and agreed for a good low cost as well. Need to know before meeting for a coffee.

[Bhamsookh1]

Guys which has worked most and best for you?

Premium or Diamond?

One time or subscription?

I had subscription ages back that I cancelled but seems its different game now. I will use mostly for Pune and wee bit for Mumbai and Europe.

[ScubaDo]

Sunshine. Profile looked good. Chatted well and suddenly blocked me after I shared my pics (she asked for pics). I am above average in looks and height. And I am fit. Probably a time passer.

Dhanya: claims to be in Coimbatore. Says has a real estate business. I smell scam.

Fiercevenus looks genuine though the profile pic is fake. Does anyone have any feedback about her?

Do you mean Sunshine Pop? I'd messaged her but no response.

FierceVenus profile pic is of a fitness model / influencer in the US. I'd been in touch with her and she's great to chat with but did not do a video call but shared some "too good to be true" pics. My instinct is to avoid. I did not reach till discussion of arrangement.

[Mad Hatter]

Thanks for your encouraging words. I have had come close to finding SBs but it hasn't materialised yet.

My question to you and others who have been successful is how long did it take for you to find your first genuine SB?

It's been 3 months for me (subscribed twice) - I don't know whether I should persist or not.

Thanks.

Outside India the hit rate was about 1 out of every 3 girls that I would meet. By that I mean, 1 out of every 3 girls checked the right boxes. I would have ended up sleeping with all 3 of the girls. But to actively spend time with regularly, it was about 1 out of every 3 on average.

In India, the hit rate is closer to 1 out of every 5/6 girls. The problem in India is getting to the meeting stage. This is due to all the problems with low class women, scammers, pimps ets. Essentially, thanks to us wonderful Indians, we tend to ruin every good thing we have.

[FunForSandy]

Sunshine. Profile looked good. Chatted well and suddenly blocked me after I shared my pics (she asked for pics). I am above average in looks and height. And I am fit. Probably a time passer.

Dhanya: claims to be in Coimbatore. Says has a real estate business. I smell scam.

Fiercevenus looks genuine though the profile pic is fake. Does anyone have any feedback about her?

[FunForSandy]

I have been going through the past few pages of Seeking. For anyone jumping on board, this forum is just all doom and gloom.

To all these punters, I just want to say, there is a silver lining.

What you see here, are mainly profiles that are bad. Most good profiles are not shared because that goes against the very nature of a SB.

A good SB is someone who has a career, is classy, NOT a WG and can become a friend.

I know, I have met a few and have a few regulars / friends that I can call on. I will not share these contacts because, they are not WGs, they are SBs. They themselves do not want me to share their contact. And as importantly, I don't want to share their contacts because it could ruin a good thing (either through too many arrangements, increasing prices, or bad behaviour by punters. This is a seriously big problem).

So when you go through the forum you will automatically think that situation is bad in India. The truth is, India is not as good as Asia, Africa or Europe in seeking. But there are gems that can be had with a bit of work and some common sense.

Use this forum as a guide on how to approach SBs and which profiles to avoid.

Do not be disheartened by the moaning of old farts like myself and others. We yearn for a better time that only exists in the fog of nostalgia.

Thanks for your encouraging words. I have had come close to finding SBs but it hasn't materialised yet.

My question to you and others who have been successful is how long did it take for you to find your first genuine SB?

It's been 3 months for me (subscribed twice) - I don't know whether I should persist or not.

Thanks.

[Mad Hatter]

I have been going through the past few pages of Seeking. For anyone jumping on board, this forum is just all doom and gloom.

To all these punters, I just want to say, there is a silver lining.

What you see here, are mainly profiles that are bad. Most good profiles are not shared because that goes against the very nature of a SB.

A good SB is someone who has a career, is classy, NOT a WG and can become a friend.

I know, I have met a few and have a few regulars / friends that I can call on. I will not share these contacts because, they are not WGs, they are SBs. They themselves do not want me to share their contact. And as importantly, I don't want to share their contacts because it could ruin a good thing (either through too many arrangements, increasing prices, or bad behaviour by punters. This is a seriously big problem).

So when you go through the forum you will automatically think that situation is bad in India. The truth is, India is not as good as Asia, Africa or Europe in seeking. But there are gems that can be had with a bit of work and some common sense.

Use this forum as a guide on how to approach SBs and which profiles to avoid.

Do not be disheartened by the moaning of old farts like myself and others. We yearn for a better time that only exists in the fog of nostalgia.

[NaughyBoy]

Arey itna Sannata kyon hai Bhai? This forum quite since last 2 days.

[Phil50]

My paid sub is ending. Feedback on a few profiles before I sign off.

ScarletCharming: If the pics are her, she is the model she says she is. Chats well. Wants 30 k for a couple of hours.

A profile in the same league (pics, quality of chat) was Hadid, who has been discussed. She is also at 30 k. They both seem to know what to quote, so this is probably the top end in quality / price among the be'lore profiles.

Abhi. Andhra girl, Profile says 25 years, looks older, 15 k.

Vinu. Met her. Looks good but a waste of time, unsure about the SA thing and not really looking for someone. She's into makeup / small time modelling, not in IT / Biotech as she conveyed in her chat.

Afsu. Wants platonic only.

New profile Rithika (with good pics) is now Krithika (22 why. O Delhi girl in the description). Pics can be traced to someone else's insta account.

The reason for all the fake profiles are probably a 'bait & switch' tactic. If one has booked the hotel and wants some action, you are less likely to turn down a reasonably passable girl, who does not match the profile pics.

Brightseductress: Wants virtual 'at first'. I don't think there will be anything more than virtual.