South China - Shenzhen

[SE Asia Joe]

H Joe,

I won't be taking her up on the full time option but might give a run at the one time event. She does have a full time job teaching and she and I have video called a few times over the past year while she was at work.

Overall, I agree with your assessment. Thanks for your input.

LA.

I hope that you realize that teachers in China do NOT make good money at all. More like a VERY few hundred RMB's in rural areas and I'd say maximum of 2K in Shenzhen.

Good that you're NOT going to commit yourself and that you will be trying her out for a trial run. But I got to gree with Sammon, RMB 2K for a China Gal? Especially an old gal like her? And let me tell ya, late 30's is ANCIENT as far as what's out there. I think most here would even agree that she should be glad anybody would want to do her, never mind having to pay for the privilege; Sorry to be a bit unkind, but I want you to really smell the coffee.

SEAJ

[Sammon]

It has been a long time since I posted any report though I have been a member for a long time. Not much time for mongering in Shenzhen and my activities have been mostly in HK and Thailand.

One of my QQ friends recently broke up with her bf. She is in the late 30's, educated, has a good job and is by anyone's estimation a fine looking woman. She asked if I needed a lover. Her offer was 10, 000RMB / month for whenever I want to get together o 2000RMB for a single night.

I know this is a mongering forum but thought my old buddies SE Joe, OldAsiaHand or other oldtimers would give me their perspectie. I have been in China for a long time and have not found an educated, financially secure woman ask for this kind of relationsip. What's your take on it?

LA

I had supported a young 18 year old girl who I met in a Karaoke bar. She was from hubei considered very pretty and could sing very well. I guess that was the qualification for her to get a high end Karaoke bar job.

She wanted out and her requirement was 4000 RMB per month. She found a studio apartment for 1200 RMB per month in Shenzhen. Very friendly girl. Break up was bad for her. Although she did know that I mongered all over.

Maybe she went out with other guys when I was not around.

For a late 30' s woman there is no demand in China when young pretty women are everywhere. Do not understand why she is asking for money if gainfully employed. Finding a sponsor at her age will be very hard for her. 10, 000 RMB goes a long way in China for a single girl. All poor Chinese girls know how to manage within 3-4000 RMB per month. Another GF of mine showed me all the cheap places to get massages, food, groceries, clothes etc.

Nobody in shenzhen pays 2000 LT per night. If very beautifull may go up to 800 RMB. Many who stay LT are not really into sex like their Phi or thai counterparts. You will be lucky if you get a shot in the morning.

If somebody wants to sponsor a girl there are many willing girls in shenzhen.

[LoveAsia]

H Joe,

I won't be taking her up on the full time option but might give a run at the one time event. She does have a full time job teaching and she and I have video called a few times over the past year while she was at work.

Overall, I agree with your assessment. Thanks for your input.

LA.

I'd say first thing first is for you to tryand determine if she indeed has " a good job". For there's a lot of "Kept women" in Chian and especially in Shenzhen who, for whatever reason, tells everybody that she's financially self-reliant because she's got a good job. Yeah right!

Gals with "good jobs" and who ARE financially self reliant are NOT all of a sudden going to change and offer herself for RMB2K a pop; what, just because she's broken off with her BF? More likely its her sugar daddy recently dumping her.

As far as the actual RMB amount to YOU, Well, I really don't know your own financial situation. For all I know, such amounts be trifling amounts OR all that you got! LOL! So on the absolute amount of money, I'd have to let you decide yourself. But I would advise you to proceed with caution, and in any case take her "introductory offer" first before committing yourself to anything more. And the situation as it is. I'd say you'd have a lot of room to negotiate a lower price. And even a free honest to goodness trial ride!

And please do remember, Late 30's women in China are actually worth not much at all!

SEAJ

[SE Asia Joe]

It has been a long time since I posted any report though I have been a member for a long time. Not much time for mongering in Shenzhen and my activities have been mostly in HK and Thailand.

One of my QQ friends recently broke up with her bf. She is in the late 30's, educated, has a good job and is by anyone's estimation a fine looking woman. She asked if I needed a lover. Her offer was 10, 000RMB / month for whenever I want to get together o 2000RMB for a single night.

I know this is a mongering forum but thought my old buddies SE Joe, OldAsiaHand or other oldtimers would give me their perspectie. I have been in China for a long time and have not found an educated, financially secure woman ask for this kind of relationsip. What's your take on it?

LA

I'd say first thing first is for you to tryand determine if she indeed has " a good job". For there's a lot of "Kept women" in Chian and especially in Shenzhen who, for whatever reason, tells everybody that she's financially self-reliant because she's got a good job. Yeah right!

Gals with "good jobs" and who ARE financially self reliant are NOT all of a sudden going to change and offer herself for RMB2K a pop; what, just because she's broken off with her BF? More likely its her sugar daddy recently dumping her.

As far as the actual RMB amount to YOU, Well, I really don't know your own financial situation. For all I know, such amounts be trifling amounts OR all that you got! LOL! So on the absolute amount of money, I'd have to let you decide yourself. But I would advise you to proceed with caution, and in any case take her "introductory offer" first before committing yourself to anything more. And the situation as it is - I'd say you'd have a lot of room to negotiate a lower price - and even a free honest to goodness trial ride!

And please do remember, Late 30's women in China are actually worth not much at all!

SEAJ

[China Maverick]

Love Asia:

I had a similar offer from a office girl in Shanghai about a year back when I got in touch with her on the Craiglist. The deal was either a LTR / marriage or "Pay for Play" and this was all cash and no kind! I tried to understand her thoughts and she mentioned that if not a LTR then she wants to make money out of it!

It has been a long time since I posted any report though I have been a member for a long time. Not much time for mongering in Shenzhen and my activities have been mostly in HK and Thailand.

One of my QQ friends recently broke up with her bf. She is in the late 30's, educated, has a good job and is by anyone's estimation a fine looking woman. She asked if I needed a lover. Her offer was 10, 000RMB / month for whenever I want to get together o 2000RMB for a single night.

I know this is a mongering forum but thought my old buddies SE Joe, OldAsiaHand or other oldtimers would give me their perspectie. I have been in China for a long time and have not found an educated, financially secure woman ask for this kind of relationsip. What's your take on it?

LA

[Sammon]

Looks like Chinese government has relaxed laws on ads from women.

There are plenty of ads in the list of Shenzhen offering a variety of favors. Do not know the cost?

Has anybody tried this?

Previously I saw this only in Beijing ads.

[LoveAsia]

It has been a long time since I posted any report though I have been a member for a long time. Not much time for mongering in Shenzhen and my activities have been mostly in HK and Thailand.

One of my QQ friends recently broke up with her bf. She is in the late 30's, educated, has a good job and is by anyone's estimation a fine looking woman. She asked if I needed a lover. Her offer was 10, 000RMB / month for whenever I want to get together o 2000RMB for a single night.

I know this is a mongering forum but thought my old buddies SE Joe, OldAsiaHand or other oldtimers would give me their perspectie. I have been in China for a long time and have not found an educated, financially secure woman ask for this kind of relationsip. What's your take on it?

LA

[Tylerpd]

Stayed in Marco Polo hotel. When going for walk to buy some cigarettes met a streetwalker in the vicinity of the hotel. She approached me for massage and I thought why not.

Took her back to the room without any question asked by hotel staff.

She was not a stunner but still ok in her end 20 with name Mey or similar.

Had a shower together. Than to action on bed. Got some catbath and BBBJ. Didn't allow DATY. After a while on the cap and started with cowgirl. Than miss and finish in doggy. Some (fake) moans but still ok.

You don't need to walk far outisde of the Marco Polo they will find you very quickly once the sun sets.

[Pekshy]

Stayed in Marco Polo hotel. When going for walk to buy some cigarettes met a streetwalker in the vicinity of the hotel. She approached me for massage and I thought why not.

Took her back to the room without any question asked by hotel staff.

She was not a stunner but still ok in her end 20 with name Mey or similar.

Had a shower together. Than to action on bed. Got some catbath and BBBJ. Didn't allow DATY. After a while on the cap and started with cowgirl. Than miss and finish in doggy. Some (fake) moans but still ok.

[Fast Eddie 48]

Online dating in Shenzhen is great if you speak Chinese. City. QQ. Com is really awesome because just about everyone who has a QQ is on that site, and most of the pics aren't photoshopped so it's pretty easy to filter through who's interesting. When I have the urge I just go on that site and send about 30 short messages introducing myself, and really soon I get requests to add and chat.

The Westerner friendly sites. I'm thinking SZParty and DateInAsia are mostly photoshopped or straight up stolen pics, or unclear to the point of being useless. Hitting on girls, particularly stationary targets (masseuses, hair wash girls, sales girls) is so much more rewarding.

More on topic, things are pretty strict. Xiang Xi Cun is only happening after 3am, or in the afternoons. Luohu Cun seemed completely dead when I went there a couple of days ago. Got to go all the way to Futian for pussy now, or have those touts deliver.

I read a story of a dude walking through alleys that sound similar to this, and being grabbed by a girl. When he refused to fuck, she called a bunch of her "older brothers" over. They came with these big butcher knives, threatened him, saying either you pay 50 for fucking her, or 10 for touching her. Go at your own risk.

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I agree online dating is a big waste of time is for people with too much time on their hand, most girl are looking for husband not one night stand why waste your own time and hurt other feeling.

Xiang xi cun bbs open at 12 noon and closed at 8pm and reopen late 3 am it been like this for over 16 month, it been post here many time unless there are a major crack down it can closed down for weeks and Lowu you can kiss this place goodbye mongering is Suck now there are some small bbs pop up here and there all over SZ.

Fast Eddie 48

[Da Dicknotist]

Online dating in Shenzhen is great if you speak Chinese. City. QQ. Com is really awesome because just about everyone who has a QQ is on that site, and most of the pics aren't photoshopped so it's pretty easy to filter through who's interesting. When I have the urge I just go on that site and send about 30 short messages introducing myself, and really soon I get requests to add and chat.

The Westerner friendly sites. I'm thinking SZParty and DateInAsia are mostly photoshopped or straight up stolen pics, or unclear to the point of being useless. Hitting on girls, particularly stationary targets (masseuses, hair wash girls, sales girls) is so much more rewarding.

More on topic, things are pretty strict. Xiang Xi Cun is only happening after 3am, or in the afternoons. Luohu Cun seemed completely dead when I went there a couple of days ago. Gotta go all the way to Futian for pussy now, or have those touts deliver.

If you get to the stone gate of the Huan bei ling cun, to the immediate left are a bunch of small shops that sell tubing, metal rods, and that type of construction material. These "dark alleys" are behind this area. Imagine the "catacombs" area in Changping but much more weird / scary / and almost pitch black. Picture narrow, claustrophobic, dank alleys with garbage blanketing the ground and random girls loitering around in front of their brick shacks, waiting for customers.

I read a story of a dude walking through alleys that sound similar to this, and being grabbed by a girl. When he refused to fuck, she called a bunch of her "older brothers" over. They came with these big butcher knives, threatened him, saying either you pay 50 for fucking her, or 10 for touching her. Go at your own risk.

[Superforce99]

SZParty sucks. I've met 1 or 2 hot ones in their events but they're mostly bit*es. But you knew that.

Do you chat up with them after meeting up or do you proceed straight to action? That's quite a pull 6 out of 10, LOL.

It's better for finding "normal" entertainment activities, such as hiking, etc.

I've done both. Most of the time I have to exchange info, chat online a bit, and then meet up. If they meet up, I basically expect to bed them. I've found the ones that want to meet up more quickly are actually more attractive than the ones that go slow and expect you to "get to know them more." Anyway, if it were based only on looks, my "pull" rate would be much lower because I wouldn't even bother, for example, if I had met them on the street, in a bar, etc. But I feel like I already invested the time / energy / effort, so might as well, ha.

Today, went to an totally unreported area today with a friend. After finding out a significant amount of information and Chinese versions of ISG, we headed to Huan Bei Ling Cun to try some very "local" type of places. Now, there are regular 150 RMB short-time BBS girls in the area, but that wasn't what we wanted to check out. There are actually 50 RMB short-time girls that we were interested in checking out. After arriving, I realize there was no way in hell anyone could "stumble" onto these places and even know, it's hard to describe exactly where it is. If you get to the stone gate of the Huan bei ling cun, to the immediate left are a bunch of small shops that sell tubing, metal rods, and that type of construction material. These "dark alleys" are behind this area. Imagine the "catacombs" area in Changping but much more weird / scary / and almost pitch black. Picture narrow, claustrophobic, dank alleys with garbage blanketing the ground and random girls loitering around in front of their brick shacks, waiting for customers. There are plenty of guys of all ages / shapes / sizes floating around, too, trying to find a lady to fit their momentary whim. It's supposed to be mostly older women but my friend and I found very decent looking young girls that, with added make-up and proper slutty clothes, could easily work at any of the more well known BBS areas in SZ or Dongguan. My friend found a tall-ish, thin 20 year old and I found an 18 year old that was actually very cute. Honestly, the majority of women in this area are closer to 30 than 20, but we walked around for 20 minutes or so and were actually about to give up when we stumbled upon these girls. If you come here, my advice is choose any girl that strikes your fancy immediately. It's like choosing a KTV girl during prime time. Except in almost pitch black conditions in cramped, horror-movie conditions with lots of other dudes walking around.

Anyway, I had a good time but you get a limited time and the girl only takes off her bottoms, local style. But, in.

This case, I was happy to get what I pay for. PM me if you need more specific directions.

SF

[Temujin87]

Walked through the Shekou bar street tonight after someone mentioned it being busy.

Completely empty except for a stray dog sniffing around and a security guard who kept looking at all the doors for some reason (make sure they're closed?).

The good news is I got some great deals on some clearance items at the International Food markets nearby! HA!

Hey man, I can't seem to PM you.

I've read your previous post comparing girls on tons of different places in China and want to ask you something.

[Temujin87]

I was wondering what kind of experiences people have had on the szparty. Com website? It's probably the most popular website for expats in the city and the classified section is pretty active. I've met about 10 women off that website in the past 6 months, ended up bedding 6 of them, and they have all been borderline plain-looking to borderline hideous. Has anyone ever met an attractive girl off this site or another site in SZ? I find that online women are usually very evasive in terms of pics / cam / etc. So I not surprised when I meet them in person and all I can do is have an extra chuckle about how certain women describe themselves as "cute","attractive", etc.

SF

SZParty sucks. I've met 1 or 2 hot ones in their events but they're mostly bit*es. But you knew that.

Do you chat up with them after meeting up or do you proceed straight to action? That's quite a pull 6 out of 10, lol.

It's better for finding "normal" entertainment activities, such as hiking, etc.

[Sky Ryder]

Randy, Shekou is pumping again. Just go down to the bar streets and you will find around 15 bars open again. There is some very good quality there but be patient & take your time. They will all try to drag you in first bar you pass.

If you are at Seaworld just walk about 1km to the west & you will hit the bars.

Also the Terrace bar has some hot Filipino talent on wed, thurs fri 7 sat.

WC, I am wondering when the last time you were in the Terrace. I live in the area, and haven't seen any Fils WG's in the bar in almost 2 years. I know that on occasion some gals will come to watch the band, but the days of making a HK visa run and "working" a little in the process ended a long time ago, sadly.

I am sure there is the occasional exception, but unless something's changed in the last couple of weeks, your information is contrary to my experience. I suspect this is part of getting Shenzhen "ready" for the University games this summer. It was similar to what happened during the Olympics. I also suspect it is the "new" mayor still flexing his muscles.