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07-08-12 19:13 #1662
Posts: 269Be Careful. Very careful!
Originally Posted by Apache [View Original Post]
I admit, I thought to myself after we moved in together "damn, I'm going to be buried in that stuff every night!" NOT! I get my wife 3-4 times a week generally, but sometimes only a couple. They are women, and are no different than any other woman. If she is mensturating or stressed from work, she isn't always in the mood. However, because my wife understands what men do when their wives don't put out, she knows they end out in the strip clubs or brothels, she generally takes care of me when she sees me getting "testy." Also, don't consider yourself their "savior." They survived without a man, most are very independent, and really don't need one to survive. They want a true companion and best friend. For those girls who are torn about their involvement in the sex trade, their greatest need is being appreciated for something other than whether they BBJ! If they enjoy that industry, I would steer clear because they will probably want to return to it. My wife was still kind of new to the industry. She hadn't hardened to it yet nor submitted to it. She wasn't a brothel girl turning $60. 00 tricks five times a day. In fact, she thought that was nasty. But she also knew her future was doing exactly that if she didn't get out. We talked allot about the process the girls go through as they age. Price goes down and down until you are giving $20. 00 BBJ or working at a bar, brothel, or the streets. The hardened girls can't get past seeing men as money; it is hopeless with them.
Finally; be careful! Early on my relationship with my future wife was pure business. I remember about a month in she hit me up for money because I had never paid for her after our first weekend together (I was gaming her). I looked right at her and said the following "look, I thought we moved beyond this. If you see me as a client, I'm not coming back to see you." She stopped, looked at me, and said "I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. I don't see you as a client at all." The biggest test for these women, if you are trying to move beyond the client role, is get them out on their time, and keep money out of the equation. If they keep coming back to money for their time, drop them in a hurry. 99. 99999% of the time once you remove money from the relationship they will be gone. Mine wanted out of the industry, and was looking for stability and security. Trust me; many nights I held her while she cried in shame about her past and her actions. She explained her "career" like this " Its like cleaning shit out of a kennel. It stinks, it is dirty, but it has to be cleaned, so you protect yourself, and clean it. Some times you find a dog you like in the process."
Now, I'm also not stupid. I know my wife, and more importantly I know women. There's NO doubt in my mind she calculated every move we made. She knew she would get her green card, she knew I was stable financially although far from well off, and she knew I was a good man. Clearly she weighed allot of her options / benefits when she dropped her life in Mexico for me. But truth is; all women think the same way. They all expect financial stability in a relationship.
Again; I hope nobody reads this and runs off to their favorite thinking about love! I had to be VERY careful the first 6-months in my relationship, and watch every move she made until I could trust her, and then I always wondered "is this a confidence game for her." It was really two years in to our relationship I knew she was in it for the long haul. I got laid off and was broke. I mean broke. Spent all my pension, everything due to massiove cuts in education. That woman stepped right up, and carried us financially for over a year. It was then I knew she was for real. And of course the wedding. She wept when I proposed to her. It was truly a dream come true for her. Someone truly wanted her as a wife, not an hour.
All in all it has been a good life with her. I think there were just the right stars aligned when I met her. It just kind of happened. It wasn't like I pursued it or intended for it to happen. Maybe that's why it worked. I suppose if I had kept running down there to Mexicali with a stiff cock in one hand and a dozen roses in the other she would have played me out. Who knows. We just grew on each other. My dad was alive when I married her, and being a simple man, he said it like this "when you find a woman that fits you like an old glove, you better grab her and not let go." We just kind of fit! We cuddle every night just like we did early in the relationship. More than 24Hrs. Apart and we are going nuts. It was just meant to be.
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07-08-12 16:11 #1661
Posts: 135Settling Down w/ a Mexicana
Hammer and Joe, congratulations to you both!
True that most girls in Mexico will either see you as:
A) a typical gringo only wanting them for sex.
B) a 'walking wallet' to be exploited for financial gain.
I've mongered in Tijuana & Mexicali over the last 8 years or so. I've been played the few times that I put myself in that situation. I've had my share of drama w/ druggies, alcoholics and overall sharks that make up a good deal of the population of sex workers (and their padrotes) in border towns. I've even had a "civilian" try to play me.
Still, there's a part of me hoping that I might "click" with the right girl and settle down. I don't know if it will ever happen but you guys give me inspiration that it could. Thanks for posting!
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07-05-12 06:03 #1660
Posts: 269Los Algodones
Originally Posted by Super Gato [View Original Post]
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07-05-12 05:02 #1659
Posts: 382Originally Posted by The Hammer1169 [View Original Post]
I've been so acclimated to the scene in Tijuas that I always have a great time. I'm pretty good at figuring out a girl in the club and so the ones I invite to the room tend to not disappoint. If she's good she becomes a favorite and after a while I can meet favorites outside the club and not have to deal with concepts ilke bar fines. I tend not to dig TLN with chicas I don't know so I like using short time hotels to bang and then go back to my hotel to get some sleep.
Part of what I like is shopping in the clubs which is why escorts never appealed to me. To me the cost of a girl drink is worth it to figure out if there's something worth pursuing.
As part of the monger experience I like to check out the scene in other places I visit which is why I've gone to Mexicali when I'm in the area. One of these days I'll try out that place across the line from Yuma to fill out all the crossings between the Tijuana and Reynosa.
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07-04-12 18:07 #1658
Posts: 269Advice
Originally Posted by Super Gato [View Original Post]
Take out policy varies from club to club. The girls Miau Miau make a salary of $40. 00 a shift so you would likely pay it as a bar fine and the agreed sum with your girl.
I suggest you get to the club at 7:00. Shift change occurs at 9:00 and if you see what you like you make arrangements for after their shift and avoid bar fine. The variety of girls is less earlier shift, but let me tell you there are good lookers that shift. Many want to get out of the club early. The girl I dated always worked that early shift and she was / is drop dead gorgeous.
Right across the street is a motel. Most girls will only go there anyway because they feel secure. Place runs about $27. 00 a night. Simple room but clean if you are only there for one thing. When you leave they want your room key, and when you check-in from partying they give it to you. They have no problems with brining in girls; I brought my lady friend there many times. Allot of guys don't like the key policy because they fear getting ripped off, but the motel does that because the girls from out of the area who travel to different cities to 'work' were all filling up a single room but paying a single price. They would work different shifts and crash or turn their tricks in one room so the motel stopped it.
Look, I mentioned some time ago on here that if I was still 'hunting' I would tank Mexico all together and go on backpage. Com, and search your area for escorts. Bottom line is the strippers in Mexico want the same price unless you get a washed out working girl, plus traveling expenses, motel, bar fines, and shitty fucks. It is cheaper and you get your selection on backpage. Com as their pics and prices are loaded right there for review. Most have specials at $60. 00-$80. 00, the same as Mexico or less. In my experience, most strippers in Mexico want $160-$200. 00 for an hour and up-sale or give shitty service. It is a rush experience. Bar San Diego is also a good option for you in Mexicali.
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07-04-12 04:29 #1657
Posts: 382Originally Posted by The Hammer1169 [View Original Post]
Since Tijuana is 20 minutes away I don't make it to the desert often but sometimes Disneyland is gets sort of boring and you go to Magic Mountain instead. I learned here from Joe Arturo and Tempe Jon about the various clubs (I read that I couldn't get into Establo w / o long pants and only had shorts the last trip so I save cab fare on that).
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06-30-12 19:17 #1656
Posts: 269Good decision!
Originally Posted by Joe Arturo [View Original Post]
I don't want to get into a moral issue, but most of the girls down there do what they do because they can't survive without it. There's no safety net in Mexico; you know that. My wife had to survive. At this moment she's sitting in my kitchen, my house is loving, and we are living life to the fullest. I heard everything you can imagine from my friends "she's going to rob you, she's going to bolt after she gets her visa, she is playing you" yet Joe, we snuggle together every night, and I couldn't budge her from this house. You know why? Because this is a dream come true for her.
I don't mean to get sentimental nor encourage AT ALL that newbies do what I did because 99. 9999% of the time you will get taken for every dollar you have. But, I found that one in the. 9999% category. After we saw each other, no money ever exchanged hands, and we started a normal relationship. I asked her to stop stripping and she lept at that opportunity. I have wrote on here, and read on here allot about "dead fucks" complaints. They are that way because they hate what they do, and hate themselves for doing it. Others I know love it.
Best of wishes my friend. By the way, I lived in San Luis RC with her for almost three years until we immigrated to the states. I actually like it there except for the damn dogs! I have never seen so many dogs in my life. Hilarious; the dog catchers try to catch them but the dogs know their truck and run out in front of it so what you have is a truck with its bed full of Mexicans, long poles hanging out, and 30 panting dogs trotting out in front of them! Best comedy show I ever saw.
Attached photos of my bride for you.
The Hammer
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06-30-12 05:36 #1655
Posts: 330Retiring from mongering
Well guys it looks like I am now retiring from mongering. I will turn 65 in July and have been mongering in Mexico since 2003. I have done my fair share of 18 to 25 year olds and have a long list of GFE providers that I have developed over the years. I made a lot of mistakes in the beginning like falling in love with them and letting them suck my money and my soul away from me but eventually learned the ropes and became pretty good at separating the good providers from the terrible providers. Having a good grasp of the Mexican language (It is not really Spanish) has helped a whole lot.
I have been dating a non professional 33 year old in San Luis Rio Colorado, Sonora for a awhile now (while still mongering in Tijuana and Mexicali) and today we began a serious relationship and started looking for a house to rent for us to live in. She is a hair stylist and earns extra money by cleaning houses, selling jewelry and burritos in the street. Is very passionate and treats me like a king. She waits on me hand and foot. I am really beginning to enjoy this.
So I am done with being a monger. Ya me quite el puto y me voy estar bien fiel.
I will be lurking on these boards and try to give the best advise I can to those newbies that keep coming along and falling in love with their "favorita" and generally making the same mistakes that I made when I started out in this hobby.
Good luck to all and safe hunting!
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06-28-12 19:04 #1654
Posts: 269Miau Miau
Was in Mexicali Monday and Tuesday. Lived there from 2008-2010 so I know most of the clubs well as I dated a stripper there for those two years. I was with her and we hit Miau Miau. Place was dead but it was a Monday of course. There was one tall, dark skinned girl that was a 8-10. Body was incredible and a very petite little snapper. Allot of those tall women require a board tied to your ass to keep from falling, but this girl looked tiny and small. I talked with a waiter there a bit and he said it has been real slow. Most of the girls are hungry and will go to the Hotel Reforma across the street for $60. 00-$100. 00 depending on the guy who is asking. He said if they like you, you are attractive and the right moment is on, that price is good. He told me the girls will still try to hold you to the old $200. 00 an hour but respond with a "no" and tell them in the states escorts are working for specials at $60. 00-$80. 00 with full service for $160. 00. The girls know that. They will come back to you if they are hungry. We left Miau Miau and went Gau Gau. There were more girls and clients, but they were all big; like heavy and tall! I like very short and petite women so none did anything for me. There was one that should I have been single I might have been interested in. She was cute, but about 5'3 and 160Lbs. But muscled. Her clit was the lize of my pinky. She went up the pole like a monkey and flipped upside down. Security is really good their too.
I have been around Mexico allot, from Ensenada to Tijauna, Penasco, Cancun, etc. With the girl I was dating. We used to travel and follow the tourist events. Had many strippers in my bed. For the most part they are all the same; rush service and try to get you to pop ASAP and get out the door. I always made it clear; one hour means one hour, period, not one shoot off. They love working guys who have limited Spanish and are timid. They will get you to the hotel, blow you in 5-minutes and want their $200. 00 because to them "one hour" translates into "one orgasm." The girl I dated bragged to me that one time she had an American from El Centro that she gave a great BJ and who shot off in less than 3-minutes and she cleared $200. 00 and was back to the club within 20-minutes. My strong advice: Be kind, well mannered, but assertive in the bed. If they work you too hard and too fast pull them away and take your time. Another trick they pull is cowboy, they know guys shoot off faster that way, or doggie so they will try to use that to clear the "deal" faster. I ALWAYS controlled position and action. I have actually had them complain. I figure if paying for something I'm going to get every minute. If you need a translator ask a waiter, most have been in the states and deported so they have language skills. Explain straight up that you want one full hour minimum, and also exactly what you expect. They will try to up-sale you too and ask for more money if you want anal or other "unique" services. I always firmly said "Tell her she is mine for one hour." Finally, most were dead in bed! Now, I'm not hung like a horse, I readily admit that as a afct, but I know my way around a woman and have never had complaints. Truth is most of the girls have husbands or boyfriends and are bisexual. They know how to moan at the right time and scream your name, but generally they have that "get it over with" look.
Happy times!
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06-26-12 17:57 #1653
Posts: 264Thanks for the Update!
Originally Posted by Joe Arturo [View Original Post]
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06-25-12 01:43 #1652
Posts: 330Bars Open
Originally Posted by Reinaldo [View Original Post]
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06-25-12 01:13 #1651
Posts: 524I can't speak for Mexicali but in Tijuana all the bars will be open and selling alcohol beverages. That's because both federal and state electoral laws were changed years ago to allow more flexibility for states and cities to decide for themselves.
Originally Posted by Granjefe [View Original Post]
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06-24-12 18:21 #1650
Posts: 264July 1 Presidential Election. Mexico
Sunday July 1 is the Mexican National presidential Election. You will probably find no where in the country on this day selling alcohol! Hence all the clubs will be closed that day!
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06-23-12 17:55 #1649
Posts: 382Originally Posted by Tempe Jon [View Original Post]
I recommend getting a passport card and applying the regular non-expedited way. When I did it a few years ago, it took 2 weeks. Like a regular passport it lasts 10 years. I keep mine I my wallet so I always can run into Mexico without stopping at home first.
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06-21-12 15:26 #1648
Posts: 253Rush Processing Is Available
What you will want to do is to go to a very large USA Post office in your area (only the really big ones offer the passport service) and ask for the expedited passport or passport card processing. It will cost $60 more for expedited. You will also have to pay for the cost of overnight mail both to and from. They can then overnight the passport or passport card to you.
http://travel.state.gov/passport/hurry/hurry_831.html
https://www.usps.com/shop/apply-for-a-passport.htm
http://travel.state.gov/passport/fees/fees_837.html
Some other services that offer overnight passport services:
http://www.rushmypassport.com/?gclid...FUQ0QgodRV-Z3w
http://www.visapassportpro.com/?gcli...FQ5bhwodHQiJ2g
http://www.itseasy.com/us-passport-e...FQgJRQod1HJy0g
http://www.overnightpassport.com/
GOOD LUCK!
Originally Posted by Nightryder [View Original Post]