General Info - Nampa

[BionicMan]

Short answer, yes. Proceed with caution.ES

Well. Then indeed, proceed with caution, but the chances of her slipping condom content to get pregnant are not much. A psycho can look for a pregnancy from a stranger, then would just go BB. She tried, she failed. She could simply search for another "victim".

Nevertherless giving yoru own biz card to a stranger with te target of bedding her, well. Not wise.

[Tokyo1]

Is she Fillipina?

She is Japanese. All good, I think she is ok, had a full day of action and drinking with her.

She did not remember asking for bareback the last time as we had drank a lot.

Will post some pics later.

[BigManJapan]

I was out in a bar with some friends and meet a girl, she said she was married but bored.

I gave her my meishi and she contacted me the next week and we meet up for drinks. After a few drinks things progressed to a hotel.

She had a fantastic body and really into it but she asked twice for me to do nama (bareback) which I refused to do. I think she will let me do her in the ass next time (today).

The thing I am being paranoid about is when I pulled the condom off she grabbed it out of my hand and I did not think anything of it at the time. I`m hoping she did not try to put my cum inside her. I don't think she did but will be flushing them today for sure.

Am I being paranoid?

Is she Fillipina?

[Evan Stoner]

Does she have all your details?

Short answer, yes.

Proceed with caution.

ES

[BionicMan]

I was out in a bar with some friends and meet a girl, she said she was married but bored.Am I being paranoid?

Maybe a bit.

I mean, what could happen if she did this? Does she have all your details?

[Naniwan]

I was out in a bar with some friends and meet a girl, she said she was married but bored.

I gave her my meishi and she contacted me the next week and we meet up for drinks. After a few drinks things progressed to a hotel.

She had a fantastic body and really into it but she asked twice for me to do nama (bareback) which I refused to do. I think she will let me do her in the ass next time (today).

The thing I am being paranoid about is when I pulled the condom off she grabbed it out of my hand and I did not think anything of it at the time. I`m hoping she did not try to put my cum inside her. I don't think she did but will be flushing them today for sure.

Am I being paranoid?

Hmm, I want to say "nah, it's all good" but there are some alarm bells ringing there I think. Chances of her getting preggers from the cum in the condom are pretty low too. I'm not always worried about getting the girl pregnant but more STDs, though I'm so freakin stupid that I've actually barebacked a hotel health girl a few times; yes, I am a retard.

Sounds like she's a keeper though so just keep your eye on her.

[Laydher]

Then there's the weird ones. One I met said she needed money but didn't want sex to get it. So I just asked her how she means to approach the situation. My next suggestion will be a BJ session. Naturally naked and for less money. Its weird tho. Give me money but I won't fuck you.

Give me money but I won't fuck you. It sounds like she has been married before.

[Tokyo1]

I was out in a bar with some friends and meet a girl, she said she was married but bored.

I gave her my meishi and she contacted me the next week and we meet up for drinks. After a few drinks things progressed to a hotel.

She had a fantastic body and really into it but she asked twice for me to do nama (bareback) which I refused to do. I think she will let me do her in the ass next time (today).

The thing I am being paranoid about is when I pulled the condom off she grabbed it out of my hand and I did not think anything of it at the time. I`m hoping she did not try to put my cum inside her. I don't think she did but will be flushing them today for sure.

Am I being paranoid?

[Hatguy]

Then there's the weird ones. One I met said she needed money but didn't want sex to get it. So I just asked her how she means to approach the situation. My next suggestion will be a BJ session. Naturally naked and for less money. Its weird tho. Give me money but I won't fuck you.

[Cougar Cookie]

Hey guys, I'll be meeting a J-girl tonight from a Metropolis Personals ad I posted recently. This is how the basic contact went:

Me (My ad) : Looking to spend some time together and see what happens.

Her: I liked your ad and want to meet you.

Me: Sure, tell me more details about you and send a pic.

Her: I'm 30, single, no kids, like art, movies, etc. Live in vicinity of Tokyo. Never been with western guy before. Looking for serious relationship. Has no mobile phone. (sends a pic from last year, typical OL face and body type).

Me: Let's meet up for coffee one of these days. (I send my pics)

Her: You're cute. Let's have Japanese dinner next week on Tuesday.

Me: I can't meet Tuesday, how about Monday?

Her: Sure, but can I stay at your place? I have a job interview in Tokyo on Tuesday and need a place to stay. (My reaction: Wow!)

Me: Uhm, well, how about I get a room for us somewhere? (I can't host or spend the night out.)

Her: Sure, it's good. But be sure to buy condoms, I don't want unsafe sex. (My reaction: Damn!)

Me: I got a room in the area. Meet me at this time tonight. Are you sure this is for serious relationship?

Her: Yes, I want real. I look forward to seeing you.

Something about this girl is giving me a strange vibe. Am I being setup? Is this come kind of trap? Or am I just thinking too much and should enjoy the chance for a fun fling with a seemingly decent girl? I saw her FB and she seems rather. Dull. Whatever the case, the room is reserved and I'll be there tonight and report on it tomorrow. Wish me luck.

Good Luck. Hope it goes well. Generally agree with most the comments below. I would be on guard but would go through with the plan.

This is JPN, so the worst that can happen is that she stands you up and your out of pocket for the hotel. The fact she referred you a FB page, probably means she is real, as opposed to some bored gaijin having fun with metropolis ads at your expense. The mobile phone issue, well maybe that is just a privacy issue. She doesn't want to give you the number / email?

But save all the detective work until the post-shag de-briefing. Stay focused on the shag!

[Jpn Dude]

I've had countless japanese chicks set up the first sexual encounter. Usually they don't come right out and say it but they ask if they can stay over for similar reasons yours used or ask if they can shower at my place after we go out which always ends in sex. I did have one one time asked me to meet her at a specific station just to say hi as she was supposedly in a big rush, I showed up and she kept mailing me she couldn't find me (it was a big station, but I was in an obvious place) she mailed all upset that she had to catch her train and let's try again tomorrow. I think it was someone fucking with me and she wasn't even there so I never mailed her back.

BMJ and RickRock, thanks for the comments.

As for me, I've been with ladies who have hinted and / or given signals, been very affectionate, flirtatious, etc. That lead to sex. But it's the first time I recall a situation where she actually said / wrote the words directly within a couple of emails before I even implied, hinted or said anything suggestive or even met. Hahaha.

My first "love hotel" encounter was with a 30-year-old sexy OL (I had just finished college). After meeting at a lounge and having two friendly dates together, we met in Shinagawa and she suggested going to Shibuya. I thought we're taking the train but she hailed a taxi and mentioned "Dogenzaka". In the taxi, I naively asked,"What's that?" And she just grabbed my hand, placed it on her lap and kissed me on the cheek.

Boy did I learn a lot that day! LOL! After doing the deed, she hesitantly opened up that she liked girls too and had a female "se-fure" (sex friend). Had my first "surii-pii" (3P = threesome) after a few more dates. Got to love Japan!

[Rick Rock]

Yep, but not always a guarantee in my experience.

I had one plan such a thing "need to get to work early in the morning, it's closer to your hotel than my apartment." But after about 3 minutes of what I thought was soft sex, she said my cock was too big (it's not, not even close) and I was fucking her too hard (I wasn't going hard at all!). Then she just went to sleep, naked. That was the second time I had a problem like that. A previous girlfriend didn't fuck anyone for 6 years and was tight I literally could not get my cock in, no matter how much I lubed, fingered or licked her pussy!

Another I knew (though business contacts) for a few months from a previous trip asked to stay at my hotel when I returned, so I obliged. She showed up, after some kissing and touching said she was saving herself for marriage. Seriously. She felt bad about my hard on and gave me one hell of a lotion hand job while letting me grope her big rack though.

[BigManJapan]

Yes BMJ, that was one of the reasons for the cautious vibe.

Anyway, I've met plenty of ladies from online via various websites and have had my good share of rendezvous through the years. And usually it's a case of ME starting the moves to get her into bed within the first two dates.

But this girl has so far thrown me a curve ball. Let's hope I hit it out of the park.

I've had countless japanese chicks set up the first sexual encounter. Usually they don't come right out and say it but they ask if they can stay over for similar reasons yours used or ask if they can shower at my place after we go out which always ends in sex. I did have one one time asked me to meet her at a specific station just to say hi as she was supposedly in a big rush, I showed up and she kept mailing me she couldn't find me (it was a big station, but I was in an obvious place) she mailed all upset that she had to catch her train and let's try again tomorrow. I think it was someone fucking with me and she wasn't even there so I never mailed her back.

[Rick Rock]

Hey guys, I'll be meeting a J-girl tonight from a Metropolis Personals ad I posted recently. This is how the basic contact went:

Me (My ad) : Looking to spend some time together and see what happens.

Her: I liked your ad and want to meet you.

Me: Sure, tell me more details about you and send a pic.

Her: I'm 30, single, no kids, like art, movies, etc. Live in vicinity of Tokyo. Never been with western guy before. Looking for serious relationship. Has no mobile phone. (sends a pic from last year, typical OL face and body type).

Me: Let's meet up for coffee one of these days. (I send my pics)

Her: You're cute. Let's have Japanese dinner next week on Tuesday.

Me: I can't meet Tuesday, how about Monday?

Her: Sure, but can I stay at your place? I have a job interview in Tokyo on Tuesday and need a place to stay. (My reaction: Wow!)

Me: Uhm, well, how about I get a room for us somewhere? (I can't host or spend the night out.)

Her: Sure, it's good. But be sure to buy condoms, I don't want unsafe sex. (My reaction: Damn!)

Me: I got a room in the area. Meet me at this time tonight. Are you sure this is for serious relationship?

Her: Yes, I want real. I look forward to seeing you.

Something about this girl is giving me a strange vibe. Am I being setup? Is this come kind of trap? Or am I just thinking too much and should enjoy the chance for a fun fling with a seemingly decent girl? I saw her FB and she seems rather. Dull. Whatever the case, the room is reserved and I'll be there tonight and report on it tomorrow. Wish me luck.

If you were anywhere but Japan I'd probably say that sounds fishy. But since I know this kind of stuff happens in Japan, and since I've actually been in similar situations (and thought the exact same thing. Am I being set up?) I'd say it's probably no problem.

I was once nampa-ed by an office lady in a Dotour Cafe. Sat herself down, started chatting in her terrible English, and within 10 minutes was asking about love hotels for her first "Western experience." Thought it might be a scam, but let the little head do the thinking. An hour later I was balls deep in her pussy humping away. Went our separate ways and stayed in touch via email. Nothing special so didn't repeat.

At the end of the day you have to weigh your odds. The odds in Japan are that nothing bad is going to happen.

Of course you'll have to find out yourself. Good luck and look forward to report.

[Jpn Dude]

Sounds real but she doesn't have a keitai? WTF is she really japanese? I thought they are born with a keitai in their hand. Looking forward to your report!

Yes BMJ, that was one of the reasons for the cautious vibe.

Anyway, I've met plenty of ladies from online via various websites and have had my good share of rendezvous through the years. And usually it's a case of ME starting the moves to get her into bed within the first two dates.

But this girl has so far thrown me a curve ball. Let's hope I hit it out of the park.