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11-29-13 10:44 #13061
Posts: 262Just my 2 cents
There's been talking going on here that whether you pay the girl's tuition or expensive gifts, etc, we are all just "mongers" in denial.
Well, I've never liked that word and the attitude it implies (I prefer hobbyist or P4P myself, although I know that's somewhat vague). Words have all kinds of connotations. If all hobbyists are categorized as mongers, and all hookers are dismissed as w*s, well then no wonder people get mad when someone is blowing wads of cash on some chica's college tuition, LOL!
But there can be shades of grey when it comes to these things. There was an era once when affluent men fell in love with courtesans, or had kept women they supported on the side. Such things hardly exist nowadays but guys like Legal Tender keep some of those old practices going. Most guys on this board are on a tight budget, especially nowadays, but if you have the money to burn, I don't see what the big deal is. Myself, I don't have that kind of money to spare, but if I did, I would consider doing it for the "right girl." As long as you have your eyes completely open and realize no amount of cash can guarantee affection or loyalty or trust.
So enjoy the game but realize it's a fantasy. And all fantasies end. Of course, once one ends you can begin another one with someone else. The new fantasy will be a little different from the previous one, but with the right attitude can be just as fun (even more!). My approach comes from my user name. The main question is: are you having fun? If no, it could be from lack of knowledge or experience (not really your fault) or it could be the wrong approach or attitude (mostly your fault).
I've noticed a lot of guys here recently posting concern about the girls true feelings or intentions. When I was younger that worried me a lot as well. Now as I start to get older and less age-compatible it actually seems less an issue. I just take for granted that of couse holding things equal a chica is going to want to be with a guy her age from her part of the world. But once you accept that, you can actually be more relaxed around her. Remember, these girls can have doubts about you as well. They are probably thinking, this guy has had so many women, and he has money, he probably just sees me as another notch on his bedpost, or a trophy for his collection.
Sorry about rambling but the basic point is you will go insane if you obsess over these things. Just focus on having fun and being affectionate with these chicas, you will have mostly good experiences and minimize your chances of "being taken to the cleaners!"
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11-29-13 09:08 #13060
Posts: 137I Am # 3
Originally Posted by Razor77 [View Original Post]
Thanks,
Kukulkan
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11-29-13 05:58 #13059
Posts: 2874Originally Posted by SlamCity7777 [View Original Post]
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11-29-13 05:24 #13058
Posts: 2874Originally Posted by Razor77 [View Original Post]
You named 3 good reasons.
I'll add nbr 4: a convicted Felon.
If he hasn't come to see her in 4 years or so, he's probably not coming, especially if she's so hot.
We'd all have been there after a couple weeks of chatting LOL.
She'll wake up eventually though and realize, and then be sad and pissed off and probably hate gringos or all men, etc LOL
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11-29-13 04:37 #13057
Posts: 2927Originally Posted by WiltTheStilt [View Original Post]
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11-29-13 04:12 #13056
Posts: 1094Centro casas
I think New Life is probably the only casa that let's you pay AFTER. Paying upfront to the manager is not a big deal for me, it's just how business is done here. I always ask to chat with the chica first before committing to the session.
Went to Coffee Shop (Cra 45 #55-45) and it's sister casa, Sarita / Leidy (Calle 55 #43-72) today around 3-ish. Did not session, only 1 chica out of a lineup of 6/7 in each would have been do-able if I had not just sessioned at Afrodita (Cra 45 #56-45) These 3 places all charge 35k / 60k.
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11-29-13 03:48 #13055
Posts: 500Originally Posted by SavePros321 [View Original Post]
Is Coffee House any good these days? I went once and was impressed but I didn't have time to session. A couple other times I have gone, it was pretty dead.
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11-29-13 03:29 #13054
Posts: 410I hope we all agree
Originally Posted by WiltTheStilt [View Original Post]
Only good energy, amigo
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11-29-13 03:25 #13053
Posts: 2927Originally Posted by partypooper87 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by partypooper87 [View Original Post]
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11-29-13 02:28 #13052
Posts: 500That's a pretty odd situation but hopefully it works out.
I've got nothing against helping someone and I don't advise against it per se. I advise against it as a means of you getting something out of it, whether emotional, sexual or both. If you're doing it just to get something, your heart is in the wrong place probably and, more importantly you probably won't get what you're after. This turned into something confrontational that may have obscured that. My last GF down here, I paid all her study prep for university entry and a lot of other shit for her. It didn't work out and for that reason I'm glad I did what I did and not a whole lot more. The last thing I would advise people to do is be cheap and make mongering all about some sort of Coupon Wars-style game to see who can get the most service for the least money. I always advise people to tip for good service and show respect to a woman whether she is a prepago, the Virgin Mary or one of the many women in between. That said, don't get over-invested. It's easy to do!
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11-29-13 01:41 #13051
Posts: 12After, mongering in Medellin for 1 week I have a good idea of the place. First, this place is completely beautiful. I have not visited Brazil but this place has the most beautiful women on the face of the earth that I've seen. If you can speak Spanish fluently there is plenty of opportunity for you to find a girl friend or wife. Colombian women are completely open to dating foreigners. Even middle-age women look gorgeous here. Now for mongering, I would recommend the casas. Why? I went to a casa picked out a chica 7 in looks con grande culo. In the casas you don't pay first. I love this concept. I went in expecting trienta minutos and had sex for 2 hours. No one knocked on the door or bothered us. Damage 120k for 2 hours. Included BBJ and anal for 50k tip. This chica was amazing. Now, I've visited the strip clubs Maracibo and Executive. I wouldn't recommend visiting them more than twice. Bad service and someone knocks on the door even when you're not finished. Chicas in Maracibo are between 5-7 in looks however they have lots of energy. Now in reality there are more beautiful women walking the street of Medellin than in any club you go to. I got a phone number from a chica 10 in looks just hanging out at a restaurant. Colombians love to party and have fun. I would truly visit this country again without the intention of mongering. However, again Spanish is a must. I stayed here for 1 week and only met 1 person who could speak English semi-fluently. Also, this place is far safer than what most people imagine. Also, I didn't meet one monger while I was here which means it's a pretty big and sophisticated city.
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11-29-13 00:16 #13050
Posts: 72Video Chat
Originally Posted by Ricker [View Original Post]
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11-29-13 00:06 #13049
Posts: 42Happy Thanksgiving Everyone
Cheers! Hope You all enjoy the holiday!
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11-28-13 23:05 #13048
Posts: 716Say what? MTV Catfish?
Originally Posted by Ricker [View Original Post]
Do what ever you like and who cares what the next man thinks? Dude ain't got to walk in my shoes, pay my bills, worry about my troubles, so why care who the next guy is? Some dudes love cheap cheap pussy, right on. Some guys like the GFE or from the sounds of it Wifey Exp. Right on.
I've wifey up a few working girls before my time. It's hard to not get jealous, it's hard to have guys come here and talk shit about a girl you care about (if that is the case). Being cool and not cheap is my theme song in life and not with just these working girls. A few times I had great months with huge commission checks (IMO and for the time, some of ya'll might have taller stacks) so what's a Western Union to me? $150 is nothing to me. That's like one new shirt, two hands of black jack, a round of drinks. To Working girl it's rent, bills, her kids school, her moms pills. So fudge it. I offered, she accepted and we both felt happy. Yes I've had girl try to play me. And yes I've fallen for it! Most everybody what has had a girlfriend foreign or domestic has had been in a money situation with a girl. It's a part of life. That's part of the game. Either you're playing the game or being played. If you don't know which you're doing then you being played.
Just because the next man thinks you're a chump. Good for him. Just because the next man wants to send Wendy to College. Good for him. No matter to me because I ain't the next man, I can only be me. I have a novia. A real novia. At fist I was worried she was catting around on me, I learned to trust her and I think she turns the blind eye to me sneaking off every one a week when I visit. Do I help her out with bills? Yep. Casue she's my girl. NOT because I'm getting played or I'm trying to feel like King of the world. But because I feel it's the right thing to do. This girl is special to me. An amazing girl who I honestly feel I can trust.
"Do what you feel" Slim Charles "The Wire"
Once again I've flame battled many guys here so yeah I know how odd it sounds coming from me! LOL!
About the story I quoted.
Dude that makes Manti To'e thing seem plausible! So many questions and things that don't seem to add up. 4 years and he's never come down for a visit? Granted we don't have the same number of holiday weekends like Colombia but "shhhheeeesshhh!"
If dude was in his 20's and she was in her mid teems. Something sounds and smells fishy. Granted I can see where she would be enomorada with this guy. He got her when she was super young (not of age?) and he got his hooks into her. I just can't see why he'd do what he do. Maybe the idea of a girlfriend is enough for this dude.
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11-28-13 21:53 #13047
Posts: 2874Originally Posted by Razor77 [View Original Post]
I hope at least they video chat LOL.