Sosua Reports

[RonnyRon]

Jesus, how can you enjoy yourself when you have to constantly employ such tactical maneuvers dealing with that shyt. I hated that ghetto f*ckin vibe from Sosua and am happy to be dealin with African / Asian women in this part of the world. I really did not like Sosua. Thugged out women not my style. You fellas take care over there.

Don't know about the ghetto vibe, but I am heading there soon. I am not new to this game, mostly a Rio traveler. This is just a new location, which I have heard some good things about from friends of mines. I am just not someone who over thinks what is the motivation or intent of everyone I meet. I mean DAMN, I am going on vacation. I am sure I will have a great time. Pretty sure I can skip all that psychoanalysis.

RR

[Tarriqq]

Can you supply more background and feedback on the situation? Where are you hooking up with these women? Sosua, met them online, where? Describe what they are doing and how you respond?

In general, I have encountered some aggressive chicas that like to approach and put the moves on you to take them. 1st off, I avoid making long eye contact with chicas I think might be trouble or I don't find attractive. Any prolonged eye contact many will take that as an invitation to stop and turn towards you. If I see one of these types, and they are easy to spot, I may give one look, a quick nod but turn my attention away. If they still come over, I say as little as possible. I don't answer any questions (or avoid answering specific questions I consider prying) , but I may tell them I am waiting for a chica or my girlfriend.

Or I say anything to get them to keep it moving. The main thing is not to be concerned about them acting offended because you aint biting...

First of all thank you very much for the reply. I think it is very important to never show any signs of weakness by not being evasive etc. An example is a chick I was seeing for a couple of days tried to put the guilt thing on me like I had promised her something else. The thing that gets to me is when they girls say you like mucho chicas. I always tell them you are a prostitute you like mucho chicos. Then they tell you well I have to do this. I tell them your ass can sell fruit or get a job you do not have to. I think that that my problem has been like many guys, American Men are too nice which is a weakness in the Dominican Republic. Many Dominicans IMO see generosity and too much kindness as a weakness.

The bottom line is exactly what you said "Bottom line, how you carry yourself may be the crux of why you are getting stalked" I will take your constructive criticism to heart. Thank you.

[Tarriqq]

Don't ever spend TLN with a girl named Chili, from a place called Cristal. The word avarice comes to mind. She barely had sex with me, and the whole time kept asking for gifts, then had the nerve to demand a huge tip.

A Picture would have been great so we can see her face or more details.

[Shamester]

arrived at 1200pm from sd. room not ready. walked around. lots of nice natural large tits with curves everywhere. the older ones are still sexy but the wrinkled face eliminates them from consideration.

while walking around i secured a hot manicurist named rosie from across the street, a hot massage therapist named kelly who speaks english from 2 buildings away and an english speaking student named jessica with a nice face but fat. obtained tel numbers.

once the room was ready, secured rosie. rosie is 22 years old from puerto plata. incredible natural rack that is firm and too large for her torso. nice nails with sexy ass and nice curves. negotiated 1000 peso for massage with no sex. 1500 pesos to do nude massage. 2500 for massage and sex. opted for the 1000 massage. decent swedish massage. requires direction where to massage. after 1/2 hour, renegotiated. attempted to get sexo for 1500 pesos. only able to get her naked with hand job. for some reason her hand job caused me to have a giant eruption of white plasma.

after more massaging, started playing with her incredible rack and finger banging her tight pussy that was wet. directed her to massage my balls. she claimed to have an orgasm. paid her 1500 pesos. she wanted 2000. no sexo. 1500 pesos. unhappy.

previously, i secured a 700pm date with kelly. maybe 20 yards to the right of hotel. speaks good english. taller curvy chica with a nice rack. face is pretty good. reconfirmed around 500 pm after a walk.

after rosie, ate a meal. walked to sousa beach. plenty of chicas good to go everywhere. easy as pie. the beach area is interesting. overcrowded with shops and restaurants. nice shade if you want to be around the beach without direct ultraviolet rays. i live in a tropical place and thought the sun hitting the ocean was a beautiful sight. this an overcrowded beach town with a combo caribbean vibe and american beach town type layout. it is easy to see why people get bored after several days or why people can stay for extended periods. imo 5 days is more than enough time. too many old angry loud us white dudes.

ran into a hot newly arrived haitian named melanda. negotiated her from 2000 pesos (laughed loud) to 1000 pesos for una hora. got tel number for follow-up.

[Cagep1967]

Are there drawbacks to using a US credit card for restaurants and such? My bank charges no transaction fees.

I used my card (one I very infrequently) in a gas station, near the airport once on the way into santo domingo. Car had no gas and I had no pesos. I think it was the esso (exxon) before the highway into santo domingo.

A day later got a call from my bank to see if I tried to purchase something from J R electronics, for around 1, 100 dollars. The only thing that probably saved me from a big headache is the idiots passed the charge 2 times and the back caught that as a mistake and contacted me.

My mother use her AMEX card in a toy store down here, Juegeton and later it was used again to charge something. Amex reimbursed her for the fraud.

But this has happened to me in the states as well. Every time it has been caught.

[Grub1]

This is not just Sosua, this is the entire country. I reported on this a couple of months ago. Time to start bringing cash to exchange, unless you can bear the brunt of paying $4 for every $115 (3%) that you take out plus the charges of your home bank.

This sucks.

I don't use credit cards unless the establishment I am at is trying to charge me to much then I will hit them with it just so they pay the 3 percent and don't get cash. Now that theory goes to shit.

What about money orders or travelers checks are these good options in the DR as far as having cash to spend. Do banks or western union deal with these

[Monger#77]

Don't ever spend TLN with a girl named Chili, from a place called Cristal. The word avarice comes to mind. She barely had sex with me, and the whole time kept asking for gifts, then had the nerve to demand a huge tip.

[Naked Gunz]

Can you supply more background and feedback on the situation? Where are you hooking up with these women? Sosua, met them online, where? Describe what they are doing and how you respond? In general, I have encountered some aggressive chicas These are some things I do in general.

Jesus, how can you enjoy yourself when you have to constantly employ such tactical maneuvers dealing with that shyt. I hated that ghetto f*ckin vibe from Sosua and am happy to be dealin with African / Asian women in this part of the world. I really did not like Sosua. Thugged out women not my style. You fellas take care over there.

[Wrx2005]

Anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with women who stalk you. It almost feels like they are trying to "strong arm" or force themselves on you. How do guys deal with aggressive chicas. I find if you make a mistake and keep seeing them it becomes a huge mistake. Any advice?

Can you supply more background and feedback on the situation? Where are you hooking up with these women? Sosua, met them online, where? Describe what they are doing and how you respond?

In general, I have encountered some aggressive chicas that like to approach and put the moves on you to take them. 1st off, I avoid making long eye contact with chicas I think might be trouble or I don't find attractive. Any prolonged eye contact many will take that as an invitation to stop and turn towards you. If I see one of these types, and they are easy to spot, I may give one look, a quick nod but turn my attention away. If they still come over, I say as little as possible. I don't answer any questions ( or avoid answering specific questions I consider prying ) , but I may tell them I am waiting for a chica or my girlfriend.

Or I say anything to get them to keep it moving. The main thing is not to be concerned about them acting offended because you aint biting. Many aggressive types like to bust out with attitudes as if you are doing something wrong not allowing yourself to be charmed by their approach. Or they may give you their spiel and in the next instant ask you to buy them some beer, or give them money to eat. Risk offending them. Just say "no gracias". Let them walk off in a huff. They werent your friend or going to be your friend anyway. They are just opportunists looking for a way in so they can get something.

Also, I don't allow those aggressive types to interrupt me when I am engaged in conversation with another person. That goes for touts and venders too. A quick acknowledgement of their presence followed by,"were talking here" or "no gracias", and then I turn my attention back to who I was talking to.

These are some things I do in general.

In your case, you are talking about women you've smashed. The only thing I can think of offhand ( without more feedback ) , is that perhaps there is something you are doing that makes them feel they can stalk you? With women I encounter and intend to see again, I usually initiate a conversation with them, letting them know I know why they are here (Sosua) and I let them know why I'm here. I am not looking for a GF or a wife. I may tell them that up front, if I feel there could be a problem down the road. I tell them, I aint jealous of any man you spend time with, and I don't want you acting jealous or crazy seeing me with other chicas. If I see you with a guy, no problem, I can see you another night. At the end of that convo, I try to get acknowledgement that they understand and agree.

The other thing that I think is important is remembering you have the right to be with anybody you want to be with. If you are manifesting weaknesses with those women, like letting them make you feel like you are doing something wrong by not seeing them on YOUR own time, then you need to nip that shit in the bud. Also, don't be telling these women that you will see them later or tomorrow when you really dont want to, or not sure.

When later or tomorrow comes and you don't take them, now you might find yourself defending yourself. Which makes you look weak, IMO. They have a tendency (and this also applies to venders and touts beggars etc) to try to hold a person to their word. Meanwhile they can lie their asses off any time it's convenient. But you, your word is supposed to be your bond. Fuck that. You have the right to keep your business to yourself too. You don't have to give anybody any information. For instance, if they ask you where you are, just tell them you are out. Or with friends. You don't have to tell them exactly where you are and what you are doing in that moment. Letting them keep tabs on you is a subtle form of control being exercised towards you.

So never say shit like later when you really don't want to be bothered or you arent sure when you want to see them. I usually say "Cuando mi lista por ti, yo llamarte" I don't know if that is correct. But I am trying to tell them. When I am ready for you, I will call you.

Just last night a chica I was with 3 weeks ago came up to me and asked me how come I haven't called her. The reason I havent called her, is because I do not want to be with her. It's that simple. And the only reason she came up to me is because it was a slow night on the strip. She purposely avoided eye contact every time I spotted her somewhere. But now all of a sudden she decided to "see" me sitting on a bar stool and came over. My answer to her was, "Estoy no lista por ti." "Cuando estoy lista, voy a llamarte" If she says when? "no sabe" and shrug my shoulders. Meaning, I dont know. Playing dumb can help in a lot of situations too.

The thing is, most of these women try to act like there is some personal interest involved when they inquire about you not calling them. The real deal though is that the main thing they are focused on is getting their next client in order to earn some cash. And includes keeping a client, and earning as much dinero with that client as possible. That even goes for enough of the real sweet nice ones that may not come to Sosua. You can have a sweet chica say "you haven't called me, how come?" I may tell them I don't have much dinero tonight, I will call you another night. Instead of them saying, thats ok I still want to be with you, money is no problem, enough will usually agree to seeing you another night. That there is your reinforcement that it aint really about you with many of them, no matter how much sexual chemistry you think you have with a chica, it's mostly about the financial benefit you have to offer when spending time with them.

Bottom line, how you carry yourself may be the crux of why you are getting stalked. Analyze that, and the chicas in question and maybe there are things you havent considered. Things you can change this instant.

However, your feedback and info can help the board perhaps be more helpful in giving you better advice in your regard. This is just some stuff that comes to mind.

[MiamiSammy]

I spent the first week of August last year in Sosua at Rick's Blues and BBQ- great place. I ran into this little cutie having dinner with her girlfriend and didn't see any reason to look further. I will say that as much as I enjoyed to hotties per square inch on the main strip in Sosua, they don't hold a candle to the hotties in Medellin. Whoa, baby! Much love to CubaDave for his great advice, and I don't challenge his take on Sosua. I just found a little bit of heaven in the incredibly gorgeous Paisas of Medellin.

[RonnyRon]

Like Mr. E said, clear out PM box and send me a message.

I have more info for you.

Tomjackin & Mr. E, I have cleared up my PM.

RR

[Wrx2005]

it might be a bit less helpful, because businesses tend to relocate or close down over time. That's all.

I'm confused. Are you still wondering if the map is a bit outdated, or are you now acknowledging that was all along?

[Wrx2005]

But the map does give a sense of how small the town is and I think the hotels are still in the right place.

Yes it does and yes they are. It's still a good map. I have a copy somewhere too!

[TomJackin]

TomJackin,

Thank you for the map. I touch down on the 25th. Really looking forward to getting away for a week. Only traveling I have done international of late is crossing the broader into Tijuana for dental work and some fun at Hong Kong. Thanks again.

RR

Like Mr. E said, clear out PM box and send me a message.

I have more info for you.

[TomJackin]

Looks like a pretty useful map, but I wonder if it is a bit out of date, because the position of Orange telecom (#6) seems a bit out of place and I think it ought to be between the Playero minimarket and Banco Popular.

I'm sure the map is outdated, I got it for my first trip 4 years ago.

But the map does give a sense of how small the town is and I think the hotels are still in the right place.

And the name of the streets are still right on.

If I was a computer wiz, which I am far from, I would try to fix the not so important errors.