St. Maarten (The southern Dutch side)

[Woorace]

I beleive you mean Carolina's. Shouldn't have to pay almost double for 2 girls in the same time period.

Sorry. You are right about the name.

[Ath Trainer]

Was in Christina's the week before Christmas right around opening time. Just a couple of girls were in the bar, but as it got closer to noon, it got busier. Not much to look at, so I was just enjoying a beer, when a young lady with huge natural tits approached me. Not normally my type, but they were huge, so I said why not. But, I said, let me finish my beer first, and in walks "My Type', a slim natural built lovely from Columbia named Paola. Ny my dilemma, is which one do I take. Hey, why not both, so I start talking to the 1st girl (don't remember her name) about doing a double. The price now goes up from $60 for 1 to $100 each for 2. I say OK, provided both girls get into each other, and she brought over Paola. I got agreement on what I wanted and off to the room. They both starter on me, which was fine, but I asked them a couple of times to start on each other. The 1st girl, who was more in charge, didn't seem to get the hint, so I finally said that if you want to get paid, get to it. She got the hint and went down on Paola and Paola seemed to enjoy it. One I started skiing Paola, the other girl didn't exist, and from then on, it was all about Paola. I did let both of them do bobby on me, but the best was when Paola was kissing me my the other girl was sucking. Finally, I finished off with Paola doing a great Cowgirl. Wished I was going to be there a couple of days, as I would have down my best to take Paola out, but had to get back on the ship.

I beleive you mean Carolina's. Shouldn't have to pay almost double for 2 girls in the same time period.

[Woorace]

Was in Christina's the week before Christmas right around opening time. Just a couple of girls were in the bar, but as it got closer to noon, it got busier. Not much to look at, so I was just enjoying a beer, when a young lady with huge natural tits approached me. Not normally my type, but they were huge, so I said why not. But, I said, let me finish my beer first, and in walks "My Type', a slim natural built lovely from Columbia named Paola. Ny my dilemma, is which one do I take. Hey, why not both, so I start talking to the 1st girl (don't remember her name) about doing a double. The price now goes up from $60 for 1 to $100 each for 2. I say OK, provided both girls get into each other, and she brought over Paola. I got agreement on what I wanted and off to the room. They both starter on me, which was fine, but I asked them a couple of times to start on each other. The 1st girl, who was more in charge, didn't seem to get the hint, so I finally said that if you want to get paid, get to it. She got the hint and went down on Paola and Paola seemed to enjoy it. One I started skiing Paola, the other girl didn't exist, and from then on, it was all about Paola. I did let both of them do bobby on me, but the best was when Paola was kissing me my the other girl was sucking. Finally, I finished off with Paola doing a great Cowgirl. Wished I was going to be there a couple of days, as I would have down my best to take Paola out, but had to get back on the ship.

[Barkey]

That forum is often dominated by know-it-alls, who take every opportunity to criticize others about how they go about their business and to boast that they have the only secret formula for success in MDE. Getting in disagreements / arguments in the forum is exhausting and it takes away from sharing quality information that helps all.

I hear you. Have fun!

[Mel365]

As the discussion here tended to Colombia I wanted to share a bit of experience.

I use Seeking Arrangements in the USA with Great success. I tried for Bogota last week.

I could not believe the response 80-100 US for TNL. It seems that the chicas are on vacation from University and need money.

Unbelievable!

Mel.

[LookingToSwing4]

Hi. Sorry to hear that your experience wasn't what you had hoped for or what you expected. I hope that you have better luck in MDE.

Unfortunately you only were able to get the flavor of Carolinas in the afternoon. Normally the PM is pretty quite when compared to the night and even worse if no ships were in. I believe that unless the girls have been taken out they are generally required to be available during the afternoons while not necessarily sitting in the bar. When no ships are in port I think there is a lot more freedom given to the girls and they can go out and run some errands or just get caught up on some sleep thus the selection is not the best. The nights are usually much more entertaining with maybe 25-30 chicas to choose from at Carolinas.

For first timers to SXM I have to agree that entering the casas at night can be a bit daunting. A couple of years ago in my first visit I too was questioning my wisdom about going in but thought "what the hell" and haven't looked back since. With the local standing on the street in front of Carolinas or even hanging out in the hallway leading to the entrance looks scary but I don't think that anyone who is behaving properly should have a problem. At least I haven't. I will admit, however, I was questioning my wisdom more than once during my last visit when I arrived when the area was without power. There were many, many more guy hanging out (in the almost complete darkness) than usual and I did feel uncomfortable but all turned out OK.

As written here many times each of us have a different way of going about our business. It sounds like you are more in favor a a club atmosphere than being in the casas. Good for you. If I were a lot younger maybe I would feel the same. However since I have way too many years, I prefer the casa scene. I prefer to get comfortable at the bar, check our the talent and have fun selecting out my novia for the night, and having fun. At first I was all for the quick pop and run but now I find that spending time with just the right one (they do put on a great show and make you feel wanted) and spend time including TLD / TLN makes for a fantastic time. For me it makes the mongering experience just so much better.

Anyway, again, good luck in MDE. I hope to see your reports since a couple of my more recent novias would really like me to visit them in Colombia. Wonder whY? LOL.

Barkey.

As you said, it is all about our preferences. Like the last poster, I do suspect I missed out by not visiting at night. Just being honest about my level of comfort and, for once, was thinking with my big head vs the little one. And in response to his comments, el Centro in MDE is far worse, but it is an area I NEVER go to after dark, and that was the closest comparison I could come up with.

I think I will travel to SXM again, because the SCUBA diving was fantastic, especially on Saba. And having the opportunity for fun after the dive day is over is a plus. But, for me, I think it is one of those places that fits a few days versus the week model. Going to a casa-like place fits when I am just looking to take the edge off. When I have more time, I prefer the GFE-like experience that MDE offers. But I will also know to be more informed about the cruise ship schedule to maximize the girls who are working the days that I do go.

Barkey, you will not see a post of my MDE trip. Sorry. I go thru phases, but have chosen not to post there for awhile. That forum is often dominated by know-it-alls, who take every opportunity to criticize others about how they go about their business and to boast that they have the only secret formula for success in MDE. Getting in disagreements / arguments in the forum is exhausting and it takes away from sharing quality information that helps all. I do not see that much on this board, so I was willing to post my experience. You really should visit Colombia. I have never been to other cities, but can tell you MDE is awesome. And having a Facebook account will connect you up with more 8-10's than you can handle or have leche for.

[Puntz79]

If you want my honest opinion, I think you missed out especially with evening action. I've been to SXM several times, and am always solo. Never had an issue. I would not venture out to El Centro in the evening, but I would not have an issue with the SXM clubs / bars. On my first trip ever to SXM, I stopped by El Capitan first since it was most visible. While it can seem sketchy at first, it's really not especially if you have been to RLD's around the world. I have seen far more dangerous areas in Europe. It's simple. Park your car, walk in, have a drink at the bar if you see a bunch of chicas, if not interested then you can walk out back to your car, drive on over to the next club. I'm a little surprised you were concerned about the area at night considering you have been to Colombia. I rate Santa Fe (Bogota) and El Centro (Medellin) as areas where I'm far much more concerned about what is going on around me than in SXM, although I have not personally faced issues in either Colombia or SXM. Most of the patrons at the club are there solo. I have met a couple stunners at Carolina's and Hypnotic that were in Santa Fe (Bogota) before, I never have an issue finding quality in SXM at any time of the year.

OK. I drove by the other night, but did not go in. I just felt too uncomfortable with the scene surrounding the bar areas to get out of the car as I am solo. Felt too much like being in el Centro at night, in MDE. But I did go back yesterday, during the day and went in; probably arrived about 1:30. Was a very slow day as there were ZERO cruise ships in port. I did not know that happened based on the 3-5 that were in port every other day of my visit. LOL The selection was limited and a few were napping. I did go back with a decent looking Colombiana from Cali. Bar is OK with some sofas surrounding a small dance stage. Not sure how much dancing that goes on there, but that could be a fun place to be when the girls are dancing and having fun.

Pretty much what you get is a casa-level experience. Chat with a chica over a drink, then head back to the room after she has man-handled your package to full attention. LOL Rooms are OK, as the girls live in their rooms, so that aspect was better than I would have thought from the look of the outside. Both bar area and rooms were far better that what it looked like on the outside.

After the deed was done, I was satisfied and did not regret going. And even though I did not see the full selection of chicas, I have determined it is not really my kind of place. Price was right, but I am not a casa guy and that is exactly what it is. Carolinas appears to get decent looking Colombianas who are just a bit over the age threshold for consistent business in their home country. The one I went with fit that profile, but she also preferred St Maarten as she did not want to do this kind of work in her home country for fear of family or friends discovering what she was doing. Those who enjoy the casa experience will enjoy the place; low investment, pop and leave. And while I prefer the experience / service I receive in MDE, I can see visiting again if I was here for just a few days, or in-port on a cruise.

Thanks to all for the help and insight. Felt that deserved a report-out!

[Barkey]

OK. I drove by the other night, but did not go in. I just felt too uncomfortable with the scene surrounding the bar areas to get out of the car as I am solo. Felt too much like being in el Centro at night, in MDE. But I did go back yesterday, during the day and went in; probably arrived about 1:30. Was a very slow day as there were ZERO cruise ships in port. I did not know that happened based on the 3-5 that were in port every other day of my visit. LOL The selection was limited and a few were napping. I did go back with a decent looking Colombiana from Cali. Bar is OK with some sofas surrounding a small dance stage. Not sure how much dancing that goes on there, but that could be a fun place to be when the girls are dancing and having fun.

Pretty much what you get is a casa-level experience. Chat with a chica over a drink, then head back to the room after she has man-handled your package to full attention. LOL Rooms are OK, as the girls live in their rooms, so that aspect was better than I would have thought from the look of the outside. Both bar area and rooms were far better that what it looked like on the outside.

After the deed was done, I was satisfied and did not regret going. And even though I did not see the full selection of chicas, I have determined it is not really my kind of place. Price was right, but I am not a casa guy and that is exactly what it is. Carolinas appears to get decent looking Colombianas who are just a bit over the age threshold for consistent business in their home country. The one I went with fit that profile, but she also preferred St Maarten as she did not want to do this kind of work in her home country for fear of family or friends discovering what she was doing. Those who enjoy the casa experience will enjoy the place; low investment, pop and leave. And while I prefer the experience / service I receive in MDE, I can see visiting again if I was here for just a few days, or in-port on a cruise.

Thanks to all for the help and insight. Felt that deserved a report-out!

Hi. Sorry to hear that your experience wasn't what you had hoped for or what you expected. I hope that you have better luck in MDE.

Unfortunately you only were able to get the flavor of Carolinas in the afternoon. Normally the PM is pretty quite when compared to the night and even worse if no ships were in. I believe that unless the girls have been taken out they are generally required to be available during the afternoons while not necessarily sitting in the bar. When no ships are in port I think there is a lot more freedom given to the girls and they can go out and run some errands or just get caught up on some sleep thus the selection is not the best. The nights are usually much more entertaining with maybe 25-30 chicas to choose from at Carolinas.

For first timers to SXM I have to agree that entering the casas at night can be a bit daunting. A couple of years ago in my first visit I too was questioning my wisdom about going in but thought "what the hell" and haven't looked back since. With the local standing on the street in front of Carolinas or even hanging out in the hallway leading to the entrance looks scary but I don't think that anyone who is behaving properly should have a problem. At least I haven't. I will admit, however, I was questioning my wisdom more than once during my last visit when I arrived when the area was without power. There were many, many more guy hanging out (in the almost complete darkness) than usual and I did feel uncomfortable but all turned out OK.

As written here many times each of us have a different way of going about our business. It sounds like you are more in favor a a club atmosphere than being in the casas. Good for you. If I were a lot younger maybe I would feel the same. However since I have way too many years, I prefer the casa scene. I prefer to get comfortable at the bar, check our the talent and have fun selecting out my novia for the night, and having fun. At first I was all for the quick pop and run but now I find that spending time with just the right one (they do put on a great show and make you feel wanted) and spend time including TLD / TLN makes for a fantastic time. For me it makes the mongering experience just so much better.

Anyway, again, good luck in MDE. I hope to see your reports since a couple of my more recent novias would really like me to visit them in Colombia. Wonder whY? LOL.

Barkey.

[LookingToSwing4]

You can't really compare MDE and SXM. I've been to each several times now, and both have their advantages / disadvantages. But you are comparing an island where you can drive around in maybe 60 minutes, vs. A big city. A population of 60,000 vs. 3 million. Obviously with a larger city, there's a good chance there's a lot more of everything including crime. There's also a lot more women, but you are also going to require a lot more patience and work in MDE. If you don't speak spanish, forget it. Very little of the population speaks english, and you'll need to know at least conversational spanish to ensure a decent experience. With SXM, you get good quality, in a much more manageable location, and the girls eventually know a little bit of english although I still advise anyone visiting Latin America to learn a little bit of spanish. And when I say conversational spanish, I mean exactly that. Not pulling out your phone and having to type in a sentence and show the chica. You might be able to get away with that in SXM as it's all business for the chicas, but in MDE that's not working. I enjoy MDE (and Colombia) for the GFE, large selection of pro / semi / non, and the value (exception being Cartagena) but I would not go there if I was not able to at least have good understanding of spanish and could carry a proper conversation that extended beyond me asking hola como estas?

With that said, I've had very good experiences in SXM and I find it to be an excellent destination especially if you are going for just a few days or a weekend. Value wise it's good as well, no it's not the cheapest on this of the hemisphere but I've never felt like I'm paying too much. Cost of living for these chicas on the island and what they have to send back home is a lot different compared to living in MDE. So if you want cheap sex and don't care about quality, look somewhere else. SXM generally delivers very good looking chicas (I've never had a problem finding one) and service for what you pay. I have had a couple not so good experiences at SXM but I've also had the same in Bogota, Medellin, Sosua, San Jose, Pattaya, Bangkok, Amsterdam, Berlin etc etc. The bars in SXM are not the fanciest, but you can figure that one out easily from the moment you get on the side of the island anyways. I've never had a problem with the inside of the bars, I like the atmosphere at night and the rooms in Hypnotic are very good, roomier, and with A / see's. Carolina rooms are smaller, not as comfortable but there is a restaurant on site with good food, and it does have the largest selection of Colombian chicas.

To anyone trying to decide between SXM and MDE, or trying to do a comparison I'd advise you to rethink that and just experience both at different times of the year if you have the time and money to do so. They are both different, and I consider one to be much easier than the other but that's because everything is there within a short drive (SXM), and you're at locations where it's all business. MDE is different, you need to speak spanish, you need to have some game, and for a chance at having a good experience you need to create some chemistry with the chica. You could also just stick to MP's and clubs in MDE, but that's not going to be much different than going to a club in SXM either. I have work in Colombia now so I'm a bit used to it after the last several months, but SXM has always been a favorite of mine. Forget what the bars look like on the outside, get in there, and see the quality for yourself. If you're on the island for a couple nights then go during the day and the evening (after 8 PM), and this time of year at night you'll find a very good selection of some beautiful women that make you wonder if they picked some of the best looking girls in Colombia and put them on the island for a few months. Drive everywhere between the clubs, regardless of distance and how it seems so close to the next club (I'd say you're OK to walk across the street from Carolina to Crystal's, but everything else nope). When it comes to cost, yes MDE is going to be lower but you are definitely working for that experience, and many guys prefer the ease of SXM. You pick, and you go. Want some more? You can stay in the same location and sample another one, or do the quick 30 second drive to the next place. Visit both and experience for yourself. If you lack english and can't get rid of the hard on when thinking about going to Colombia for the first time, then go with Cartagena.

Understood. I guess the main reason the comparison was so relevant was because I am heading to MDE today, for a week. Hence, no real incentive to visit SXM clubs when I knew what tonight and the next week has in-store for me. Posted a review of my visit to Carolina's, yesterday. Had a satisfying experience despite the limited number of girls being available. And I agree, I think it would be better at night and suspect the girls are more in a fiesta-mood and the stage gets used to entice customers. Would go again in the evening if I had a friend or friends with me. Still not sure I am all that comfortable in that area after dark. I agree with your assessment; probably better for a few days. With more time, I prefer the GFE-like vs 3-G's. LOL.

[LookingToSwing4]

You shouldn't have a problem. Once you get in you likely will be greeted by at least one, if not two or three Colombianas and you will forget your concerns. Just enjoy.

And don't forget to give us a report!

Barkey.

OK. I drove by the other night, but did not go in. I just felt too uncomfortable with the scene surrounding the bar areas to get out of the car as I am solo. Felt too much like being in el Centro at night, in MDE. But I did go back yesterday, during the day and went in; probably arrived about 1:30. Was a very slow day as there were ZERO cruise ships in port. I did not know that happened based on the 3-5 that were in port every other day of my visit. LOL The selection was limited and a few were napping. I did go back with a decent looking Colombiana from Cali. Bar is OK with some sofas surrounding a small dance stage. Not sure how much dancing that goes on there, but that could be a fun place to be when the girls are dancing and having fun.

Pretty much what you get is a casa-level experience. Chat with a chica over a drink, then head back to the room after she has man-handled your package to full attention. LOL Rooms are OK, as the girls live in their rooms, so that aspect was better than I would have thought from the look of the outside. Both bar area and rooms were far better that what it looked like on the outside.

After the deed was done, I was satisfied and did not regret going. And even though I did not see the full selection of chicas, I have determined it is not really my kind of place. Price was right, but I am not a casa guy and that is exactly what it is. Carolinas appears to get decent looking Colombianas who are just a bit over the age threshold for consistent business in their home country. The one I went with fit that profile, but she also preferred St Maarten as she did not want to do this kind of work in her home country for fear of family or friends discovering what she was doing. Those who enjoy the casa experience will enjoy the place; low investment, pop and leave. And while I prefer the experience / service I receive in MDE, I can see visiting again if I was here for just a few days, or in-port on a cruise.

Thanks to all for the help and insight. Felt that deserved a report-out!

[Puntz79]

You can't really compare MDE and SXM. I've been to each several times now, and both have their advantages / disadvantages. But you are comparing an island where you can drive around in maybe 60 minutes, vs. A big city. A population of 60,000 vs. 3 million. Obviously with a larger city, there's a good chance there's a lot more of everything including crime. There's also a lot more women, but you are also going to require a lot more patience and work in MDE. If you don't speak spanish, forget it. Very little of the population speaks english, and you'll need to know at least conversational spanish to ensure a decent experience. With SXM, you get good quality, in a much more manageable location, and the girls eventually know a little bit of english although I still advise anyone visiting Latin America to learn a little bit of spanish. And when I say conversational spanish, I mean exactly that. Not pulling out your phone and having to type in a sentence and show the chica. You might be able to get away with that in SXM as it's all business for the chicas, but in MDE that's not working. I enjoy MDE (and Colombia) for the GFE, large selection of pro / semi / non, and the value (exception being Cartagena) but I would not go there if I was not able to at least have good understanding of spanish and could carry a proper conversation that extended beyond me asking hola como estas?

With that said, I've had very good experiences in SXM and I find it to be an excellent destination especially if you are going for just a few days or a weekend. Value wise it's good as well, no it's not the cheapest on this of the hemisphere but I've never felt like I'm paying too much. Cost of living for these chicas on the island and what they have to send back home is a lot different compared to living in MDE. So if you want cheap sex and don't care about quality, look somewhere else. SXM generally delivers very good looking chicas (I've never had a problem finding one) and service for what you pay. I have had a couple not so good experiences at SXM but I've also had the same in Bogota, Medellin, Sosua, San Jose, Pattaya, Bangkok, Amsterdam, Berlin etc etc. The bars in SXM are not the fanciest, but you can figure that one out easily from the moment you get on the side of the island anyways. I've never had a problem with the inside of the bars, I like the atmosphere at night and the rooms in Hypnotic are very good, roomier, and with A / see's. Carolina rooms are smaller, not as comfortable but there is a restaurant on site with good food, and it does have the largest selection of Colombian chicas.

To anyone trying to decide between SXM and MDE, or trying to do a comparison I'd advise you to rethink that and just experience both at different times of the year if you have the time and money to do so. They are both different, and I consider one to be much easier than the other but that's because everything is there within a short drive (SXM), and you're at locations where it's all business. MDE is different, you need to speak spanish, you need to have some game, and for a chance at having a good experience you need to create some chemistry with the chica. You could also just stick to MP's and clubs in MDE, but that's not going to be much different than going to a club in SXM either. I have work in Colombia now so I'm a bit used to it after the last several months, but SXM has always been a favorite of mine. Forget what the bars look like on the outside, get in there, and see the quality for yourself. If you're on the island for a couple nights then go during the day and the evening (after 8 PM), and this time of year at night you'll find a very good selection of some beautiful women that make you wonder if they picked some of the best looking girls in Colombia and put them on the island for a few months. Drive everywhere between the clubs, regardless of distance and how it seems so close to the next club (I'd say you're OK to walk across the street from Carolina to Crystal's, but everything else nope). When it comes to cost, yes MDE is going to be lower but you are definitely working for that experience, and many guys prefer the ease of SXM. You pick, and you go. Want some more? You can stay in the same location and sample another one, or do the quick 30 second drive to the next place. Visit both and experience for yourself. If you lack english and can't get rid of the hard on when thinking about going to Colombia for the first time, then go with Cartagena.

Thanks to all for the assistance in helping me find the clubs. I was out touring the island today and drove by while I was in the area. To be perfectly honest, the places kinda spooked me. They look pretty run-down and I wonder if I will be sorry I even went there. I am sure there are some lovelies in there, but wonder if I will be sorry I went inside. Can someone help me understand what it is like inside the bar and the rooms. I am quite selective with where I shag. And since I am heading to MDE for a week after I leave here, I wonder if I should just save my pesos, and leche, for the MDE Beauties that will visit me at my cozy and safe apartment.

Heding to the shower. Hope someone can share some insight or I might just hit the strip joint instead.

[Lucky Strike]

I think the chances of having any problems whatsoever during the daytime are near zero.

Chances are small, but sh*t can happen even during daytime (just as it can happen anywhere else.) Here's something that happened a while ago, about 30 min after I drove down that alley, so I remember the incident:

http://smn-news.com/st-maarten-st-ma...y-updated.html

Again, this happened in an alley BETWEEN bars, not inside one of them. Never walk between the bars, drive or hire taxi.

[John2526]

I don't know what kind of girls visit you in MDE, but I guarantee you that unless in MDE you deal with high class chicas, you'll be safer in SXM. And I'm saying this considering that "bad things" happen only to a tiny minority of mongers in MDE. Yes, you may get poor service in SXM, but I've yet to hear of a single incident where a monger got robbed or poisoned by a chica (s) in SXM. I've seen people completely wasted and / or stoned, and not once did I hear that they got robbed or something happened to them.

If you don't feel comfortable, try going to Carolina during the daytime, right after 11 am. That's when all girls have to "register" at the bar. Yes, you may waste a lot of time in traffic, but on the other hand you'll be able to see most of the chicas under "normal" daylight so you'll have a better idea if they're worth $53 for 30 min.

First time I was in SXM I too felt uneasy, and drove drove back to the hotel. It was before forums like this one, so I had a lot less info. It all changed once I've entered the bar and spent a few hours inside.

A final bit of advice: stick to Carolina and Hypnotic, at least initially (never walk from one to another. Drive or take a taxi.) Also try El Capitan. Those 3 are safest. Casa Blanca, Sunset, Petit and Defiance, once inside everything will be ok, but if it's past midnight and you see suspicious individuals loitering on the parking lot, just drive to the next bar. The bars are safe, but the area around them unfortunately is a different thing.

I'll be there Feb 11 through Feb 16 if anyone wants to get together.

I've never felt unsafe in Carolina's, Hypnotic or El Capitan. Petite can attract a rough and scary crowd, but I've never actually been bothered the few times I was there.

I think the chances of having any problems whatsoever during the daytime are near zero.

[Param Ahmad]

I seem to have seen one before, but have been searching this morning, but cannot seem to locate.

Look at my report 3204 on September 30,2010 in this thread. If you have a GPS, these coordinates will get you there:

GPS coordinates for LE Petit Chateau are N18.02972 W63.04454.

GPS coordinates for Carolina's are N18.03500 W63.04203.

GPS coordinates for El Capitan are N18.03506 W63.03992.

GPS coordinates for Seaman's Club are N18.03592 W63.04120.

GPS coordinates for Defiance are N18.04631 W63.03449.

GPS coordinates for Casa Blanca are N18.05598 W63.02246.

[Lucky Strike]

I wonder if I should just save my pesos, and leche, for the MDE Beauties that will visit me at my cozy and safe apartment.

I don't know what kind of girls visit you in MDE, but I guarantee you that unless in MDE you deal with high class chicas, you'll be safer in SXM. And I'm saying this considering that "bad things" happen only to a tiny minority of mongers in MDE. Yes, you may get poor service in SXM, but I've yet to hear of a single incident where a monger got robbed or poisoned by a chica (s) in SXM. I've seen people completely wasted and / or stoned, and not once did I hear that they got robbed or something happened to them.

If you don't feel comfortable, try going to Carolina during the daytime, right after 11 am. That's when all girls have to "register" at the bar. Yes, you may waste a lot of time in traffic, but on the other hand you'll be able to see most of the chicas under "normal" daylight so you'll have a better idea if they're worth $53 for 30 min.

First time I was in SXM I too felt uneasy, and drove drove back to the hotel. It was before forums like this one, so I had a lot less info. It all changed once I've entered the bar and spent a few hours inside.

A final bit of advice: stick to Carolina and Hypnotic, at least initially (never walk from one to another. Drive or take a taxi.) Also try El Capitan. Those 3 are safest. Casa Blanca, Sunset, Petit and Defiance, once inside everything will be ok, but if it's past midnight and you see suspicious individuals loitering on the parking lot, just drive to the next bar. The bars are safe, but the area around them unfortunately is a different thing.