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06-17-16 04:12 #19948
Posts: 695Thank you for your insights
Several times, the members, if not me, have had heated debates on that "ideological" issue, namely, 1) whether or not you should take pros to public restaurants / clubs, and 2) whether or not you should date pros. The debate was very emotional, contentious, and often ugly. So I keep the mouth shut, and you may want to do the same.
Originally Posted by Rodeo9112 [View Original Post]
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06-17-16 03:25 #19947
Posts: 1026Originally Posted by MattPsyche [View Original Post]
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06-17-16 01:55 #19946
Posts: 50Originally Posted by TellAll [View Original Post]
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06-17-16 01:49 #19945
Posts: 695Somehow I enjoy dating girls, ie. Walking in parks, dining at nice restaurants, regardless whether or not I have sex with them. Also, I enjoy easy sex in Colombia. But it does not substitute the fun I can have when I date girls I like. Perhaps the two things are totally different things without means-end relationship.
Originally Posted by Dveight [View Original Post]
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06-17-16 01:44 #19944
Posts: 1755Originally Posted by TellAll [View Original Post]
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06-17-16 01:43 #19943
Posts: 1755Originally Posted by Turgid [View Original Post]
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06-17-16 01:42 #19942
Posts: 409Originally Posted by Dveight [View Original Post]
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06-17-16 00:53 #19941
Posts: 223Originally Posted by EstebanH [View Original Post]
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06-16-16 22:55 #19940
Posts: 151Originally Posted by SavePros321 [View Original Post]
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06-16-16 22:10 #19939
Posts: 2927Originally Posted by TellAll [View Original Post]
I'm in my early 30's. I made my first official mongering trip to Blackbeard's in Puerto Plata (DR) at the age of 26. The dating game in the US is just as TellAll described it. Even today I luck up and can get a chick that I met online to come over to chill without having to go through the song and dance of meeting up for coffee, dinner, walk in the park, etc. But that may happen once out of every 20 chicks I come across. You'll go fucking broke before you get laid dating here, LOL. I meet a lot of women online, but I don't have the time, money, nor energy to go on a date every single night of the week or multiple dates with a handful of chicks.
Most of them explicitly state upfront "I'm not coming to your house, and you are not coming to mine!" And I have also found that most of the women here work just as much as I do, if not more. Double that if they have a kid or two. Mongering works for me because it allows me to keep more of my time, which is just as valuable as money to me.
It'd be a lot different if I looked like a young Chris Hemsworth (Thor) and had to beat women off of me with a stick daily. But I am the one that has to do the chasing and it's just not worth it most of the time.
When I think about it, all of my paid pussy (including here in the US) looks-wise was 10x hotter than any of my non-p4p American pussy.
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06-16-16 21:58 #19938
Posts: 3359Originally Posted by ElMechanico [View Original Post]
The way to master the subjunctive, which is rarely used in English but continually used in Spanish, is first to be able to recognize it when you hear it, from the change in the vowel of the conjugated verb: 'a' becomes 'e' and 'e' and 'i' become 'a'; unfortunately 'hacer' is irregular in the subjunctive so the pattern doesn't hold. Those verbs you just have to memorize. Then, once you can recognize it, every time you hear it, ask yourself why the speaker used the subjunctive.
The acronymn 'WEIRD-O' covers most of the triggers that, when occurring in the subject or independent clause, require the use of the subjunctive mood in the dependent clause (if there is a change in the subject; if no change in subject, the infinitive would be used).
W: Wishes.
E: Emotions (such as 'I'm sorry that')
I: Impersonal expressions: Es necesario que, es bueno que, es mal que, con tal que, etc.
R: Recommendations: Te aviso que, te mando que, te digo que, sugiero que, etc.
T: Doubt: Dudo que, no creo que, es posible que, es probable que, es difícil que, es raro que, etc.
O: orders, or the command or imperative tense. While not technically the subjunctive, the second-person formal or Ud. commands are formed the same way as the third-person subjunctive (el, ella).
Hope that helps!
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06-16-16 21:39 #19937
Posts: 5709Originally Posted by Cerebro [View Original Post]
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06-16-16 16:16 #19936
Posts: 334RTFF has some great Intel
When I first joined in April, I posted a few questions & was promptly told to RTFF!! I wasn't to happy about it, however, having 3 months to research & gather intel on the MDE, I started reading posts from 4/2014 which is about page 380 ish right now. I am 'up' to page 165 & have about 120 or so pages to get caught up to the point where I joined.
I must say, whoever told me to RTFF was correct! All of my initial questions were answered plus a ton more. There is so much info in the posts that almost any topic has already been answered ad infinitum! In reading all of the posts in chronological order, I can understand why the regulars get aggravated with newbies (I still consider myself a newbie!) asking a question that was discussed a page or two earlier.
Anyway, great forum & thanks for the advice to RTFF. There is a vast wealth ok knowledge in this forum!!
Thanks,
El Mechanico
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06-16-16 15:59 #19935
Posts: 334What do you consider "Fluent Spanish"?
In RTFF posts from the last 2 years, the subject of learning, speaking & IMO, most importantly, understanding Spanish has come up from time to time. I consider myself a fairly good Spanish speaker after 13 semesters of university level Spanish & probably 40+ trips to Mexico, & several Central Am. Countries as well as being married to a Honduran woman for a short while.
My definition of 'Fluent' in Spanish is speaking well enough to go to court in a Spanish speaking country & completely understand what is being said to me. I have no problem getting around, talking to the chicas, traveling, ordering food or whatever, however, from time to time, I have to ask whomever I am talking to to repeat themselves & eventually get what they are saying. And of course the dialects & slang is different from country to country, as I discovered in Panama last December in speaking to a Colombian, Cuban, Venezuelan & local girls.
I know that someone who grew up in a Spanish speaking household or in a Spanish speaking country & Spanish is his first language, would be considered fluent. What I find amusing are the people that speak cartoon Spanish.
In the Del Rey 2/8 in the lobby bar, I overheard a fellow monger talking to a chica at a table behind me.
His sentence verbatim, "I sorry my friend make you cry. I no make you cry!
He was using baby babble to say, "I'm sorry my friend made you cry, I won't make you cry!
What is up with this I don't know Spanish, so if I talk like (I'm talking to) a baby in broken English, they will understand me!
If she understands the baby babble, she will understand you when you speak correct English. One does not assimilate into another culture by speaking slow, loud, broken English Baby Babble!
When I was in Thailand in the mid-80's (oilfield) a fellow employee would use this slow, louder than normal, broken English to pretend like he was speaking Thai. Simply idiotic in my opinion.
My point is, why not put out 5 minutes worth of effort & learn how to say 'Lo siento que mi amigo te hizo llorar! Yo no voy a hacerte llorar!
Even if what I just typed is broken Spanish, it's a gazillion times more appropriate than cartoon broken on purpose English!! Spanish is not that hard to learn people.
So, if that is the only thing I have to ponder on today, it'll be a good day!
Your thoughts gentlemen?? Feel free to guff, harass & call me out as needed!
Thanks,
El Mechanico
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06-16-16 14:51 #19934
Posts: 334Exactly
Originally Posted by TellAll [View Original Post]
Lots of useful intel here. So thanks to everyone!
El Mechanico