Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Mr Enternational]

I have location settings on for we chat but its throwing up people from Cebu saying they are 100 mtrs from me and I'm in Dumagete, now I'm no geography expert but Cebu is deffo more than a few hundred mtrs from Duma, something ain't right.

I think Cebu is more like a few thousand meters from Dumaguete. I forgot which part of Cebu me and my ex went to that resort in, but when I was scuba diving one American guy on the boat said his son was working with the Peace Corps in Dumaguete while pointing to the land across the water. We were only maybe 2 minutes from the Cebu shoreline at the time. On the map, that corner piece of land on the right side of the water is where we were diving from in Cebu, while on the left is Dumaguete. Appears to be no more than 4km of water between the two.

[Sammon]

Typically I rely on face to face options (bars, shopping malls, freelancers etc) for hook ups. However, I'm in Dumaguete heading to Cebu tomorrow so I thought I would try my luck at using PinaLove to prearrange some options.

Let me say upfront that I have zero experience with the Chat sites and zero Game when it comes to on line hook ups. Despite that I've been flooded with options for meetings and within one or two messages, I've got their number and an ok to meet up when I arrive. Only one girl told me outright that she will not meet at the hotel (perhaps she will be ok with returning after an introductory coffe, who knows? All the other seem keen as mustard. I realise that some / a lot will just be promises and will fall by the way side but the odds are still looking good for a busy time in Cebu.

My question is what value do others see in extended online correspondence with the girls? I read of guys having long conversations with them, video chats etc. Is there value in this? I've got no interest in dirty talk nor swapping naked pics. I've already got their contact details and know what they look like so why the courting period online?

My plan is to meet at a convenient coffee shop or similar for final interviews. If the profile photos are 5 years or 50 lbs ago we can just shake hands and walk away. I've only lost the cost of a coffee. That's a small price to pay for the opportunity to judge the viability. Is this a good plan or have I missed something?

I have done both. Have the girls come to the room and met them outside. Video chat is good in the sense you get to see each other and also discuss intimate details which cannot be done in chat sites. Can plan plan how many days and find out what benefits she is expecting. Sometimes it is better to interact so that Ice is broken. Many of the girls are scared to be with a stranger. Once they feel you can be trusted rest is easy. Sex is better. It is also easy to convince girls to take a trip to be with you, go on vacations. I have gotten girls to come from the provinces and stay with me many times.

Meeting outside gives you and the girl to easily escape if you do not like each other. Problem is sometimes they do not come alone. Sometimes with family and sometimes with a friend. It is impossible to talk when families are present and delicate when friend is present. If the girl likes you she will come with you.

Generally coming to the hotel is good although you have not seen the girl in person. I insist on coming alone which they do. I also have had ladyboys pretending to be a girl come to the hotel. Security usually warns you and I tell them to not to let the person to my room. Sometimes I met downstairs in the lobby. If I do not like the girl I give some money for the taxi and tell them I am not interested.

Overall I have had good experiences getting girls from dating sites. Need to be patient and treat them like a GF rather than a prostitute although money definitely changes hands. I have taken girls on vacation and had great sex with them.

[BaddHabbit]

My question is what value do others see in extended online correspondence with the girls? I read of guys having long conversations with them, video chats etc. Is there value in this? I've got no interest in dirty talk nor swapping naked pics. I've already got their contact details and know what they look like so why the courting period online?

My plan is to meet at a convenient coffee shop or similar for final interviews. If the profile photos are 5 years or 50 lbs ago we can just shake hands and walk away. I've only lost the cost of a coffee. That's a small price to pay for the opportunity to judge the viability. Is this a good plan or have I missed something?

There are people who argue that getting on a video chat is important for a couple of reasons. One: To ensure that the pics really do represent the person you are connecting with. Two: The argument is that if you can convince them to send naked pics and / or strip down to any extent on video, you both guarantee that they are DTF, pretty much end any LMR, and also hugely increase the likelihood that they will show rather than flake (they have now 'invested' in seeing you.). As to long conversations, that doesn't seem necessary!

Cheers,

BH.

[Goferring]

Typically I rely on face to face options (bars, shopping malls, freelancers etc) for hook ups. However, I'm in Dumaguete heading to Cebu tomorrow so I thought I would try my luck at using PinaLove to prearrange some options.

Let me say upfront that I have zero experience with the Chat sites and zero Game when it comes to on line hook ups. Despite that I've been flooded with options for meetings and within one or two messages, I've got their number and an ok to meet up when I arrive. Only one girl told me outright that she will not meet at the hotel (perhaps she will be ok with returning after an introductory coffe, who knows? All the other seem keen as mustard. I realise that some / a lot will just be promises and will fall by the way side but the odds are still looking good for a busy time in Cebu.

My question is what value do others see in extended online correspondence with the girls? I read of guys having long conversations with them, video chats etc. Is there value in this? I've got no interest in dirty talk nor swapping naked pics. I've already got their contact details and know what they look like so why the courting period online?

My plan is to meet at a convenient coffee shop or similar for final interviews. If the profile photos are 5 years or 50 lbs ago we can just shake hands and walk away. I've only lost the cost of a coffee. That's a small price to pay for the opportunity to judge the viability. Is this a good plan or have I missed something?

[Mogwai]

I have location settings on for we chat but its throwing up people from Cebu saying they are 100 mtrs from me and I'm in Dumagete, now I'm no geography expert but Cebu is deffo more than a few hundred mtrs from Duma, something ain't right.

That's because those people have chosen to fill in Cebu as the region where they live in their profile. Like you said there are only 4 choices, so they take the one that's the closest to where they live.

When you are in Angeles and use WeChat you will see that almost all of the people that show up in People Nearby are from Manila. But most of them are not really from Manila but live in Angeles and are really close to you.

[RengadeMaster]

I suppose you are talking about the region you have to enter in your profile? It doesn't matter what you fill in there. You can fill in your home country and region or any other country and region.

Just click on 'Discover' and then 'People Nearby' and WeChat will find the people who are close to you, based on the location setting of your phone. So that must be turned on and set to 'high accuracy'.

I have location settings on for we chat but its throwing up people from Cebu saying they are 100 mtrs from me and I'm in Dumagete, now I'm no geography expert but Cebu is deffo more than a few hundred mtrs from Duma, something ain't right.

[WestCoast1]

My experience too. And they see no point in continuing wiith it.

From their perspective, floss is also expensive. Also the girls brush for fresh breath, I'm not sure they are familiar with plaque.

[Soapy Smith]

No. I've shown several girls, but they think its odd.

My experience too. And they see no point in continuing wiith it.

[WestCoast1]

But did you ever see one who uses floss, or, if you introduce her to it, knows how to use it?

No. I've shown several girls, but they think its odd.

[Soapy Smith]

As for dental hygiene the girls and filipinos in general brush their teeth extensively.

But did you ever see one who uses floss, or, if you introduce her to it, knows how to use it?

[WestCoast1]

Instead of keeping her false teeth in a jar of water on the nightstand next to the bed, she promised to hide them in the medicine cabinet in the bathroom so he would not be frightened in the mornings. Love really does conquer all.

That, and a thousand pesos.

Haha you're killin' me Smalls!

[Mr Enternational]

He also had a phobia of false teeth and was terrified of kissing girls with dentures. I think in the end, he decided to make the girls take out their dentures before kisses and blowjobs. In spite of the ubiquity of rotten teeth and dentures in the Philippines,

I knew that broad had dentures. I used to mess with a pinay chick here in Pattaya that is married to a well off European. Her teeth were pretty much perfect in the front and when I kissed her it felt like plastic on the roof of her mouth. I had my suspicions but now I guess it was true.

[Member #4558]

Thanks Red. I may have to try this since DIA kicked me out and I have had only moderate success with Fiilpino Cupid. So many scammer chicks. On another topic, have you been to Ozamiz City? Is it safe there? There is a cupid chick there I would like to see. Or maybe fly her to Cebu. Cheers, mate.

One of my fellow co workers is from Ozamiz and states its challenged these days but within city limits you would probably be safe. We were jibber jabbering regarding this prior to me reading this thread and he told me if he picked me up I would be safer than if I traveled by myself because back home he would through "the word of mouth" get an idea if any unwanted activity was nearby. I don't know if I would trust a online girl though to take care of your safety and all that.

[Chocha Monger]

As long as she does not get her braces caught on your todger BD during a BJ. I agree they clean their teeth a lot (well the ones I know do) but it surprising the number who have dentures. Oral hygiene is very important in many way and if you sploodge on her dentures the taste may linger if some gets trapped LOL.

There was a 60-year-old fella on the Davao board looking for girls to cuddle and kiss. Anyway, his greatest fear was catching his foreskin between the girls' braces and their teeth during a blowjob. He also had a phobia of false teeth and was terrified of kissing girls with dentures. I think in the end, he decided to make the girls take out their dentures before kisses and blowjobs. In spite of the ubiquity of rotten teeth and dentures in the Philippines, he was able to find a Pinay to cuddle and kiss in the end. He was planning to marry one of the girls in Davao and take her back to Italy. Apparently, they arrived at a compromise. Instead of keeping her false teeth in a jar of water on the nightstand next to the bed, she promised to hide them in the medicine cabinet in the bathroom so he would not be frightened in the mornings. Love really does conquer all.

[Mogwai]

Waste of time, we chat was off the hook in manila but no good as it ain't in the search criteria (at least I can't find it) theres only 4 areas listed, Cebu, Caloocan, Davao and manila. Am I missing something?

I suppose you are talking about the region you have to enter in your profile? It doesn't matter what you fill in there. You can fill in your home country and region or any other country and region.

Just click on 'Discover' and then 'People Nearby' and WeChat will find the people who are close to you, based on the location setting of your phone. So that must be turned on and set to 'high accuracy'.