Rants, Stupid Shit and Coronavirus in Thailand

[Syzygies]

Most guys who write reports aren't doing it to share information. In fact, most guys just don't share info and keep the good looking girls for themselves, as a secret. The guys who write reports (this is a free website, you get what you pay for) tend to be self-absorbed narcissists, myself included. They are addicted to external validation from both the girls and the boys. They need to be seen as important because they are unable to view themselves internally as such. Oh and these manipulative gold digging hoes can spot a narcissist a mile away, even if the said hoe is self-absorbed herself. Just having sex isn't enough for some members, they need the hooker to "like" them as well or use "game" without understand that said hooker is just stringing them along to massage their ego (for a fee).

Why do you care so much about the other guys motives, to make a post, and include the girl pics? His own view of his behaviour might be quite different to your assumptions. Better to analyse yourself as you do.

Could the pics be a form of "bragging" like look how hot my chicks are, so hot that you other guys can't even believe it. I don't really feel the need to decide what his motives were. More like is the information or post funny, entertaining, or any useful info? I don't really care if he has an ego or very confident in him self. I am not keen on those who write very condescending type stuff though, or negative all the time. If he writes about how he has his fun, or what he doesn't like, that is fine for me. It is great he has little concern about the forum posters and does his own thing. I like MPs pics even if they are ill advised, as many other pics appeared that were not worth viewing. He sets a higher standard.

Lets face it. Some of us are bored and have nothing better to do than make some posts. We can easily disappear when we have better things to do or other priorities. Looking at the better side, some guys feel they should share information, to let others experience interesting places too. We are not all jealously guarding our secrets.

The biggest reason for secrecy in the case of many, would be fear of being identified when girl reads the post. Many times I went too far with the detail. Another reason guys don't share, is they are scared to attract psycho cases to their favourite lovely girl. LOL Girls mention the weird shit that customers pull, perhaps I hear a lot more about psycho cases than the normal ones. Some guys have not yet been burned by divulging too much, but they will be.

Everyone can choose which posts or posters they wish to read. Hopefully choose the ones you like, guys. Plenty don't like my posts so don't have to read them. I skip posts too.

I love to criticise guys that are overly negative in their posts particularly when replying to what other posters wrote about their experiences. So knock the knockers.

Seems to have been a history of people second guessing someone else's experiences.

I think Monkeypaw is a top poster in some ways with a good attitude. He posts experiences, where he offers more than so many others. I am only jealous because I don't have much exciting experiences of something new or different to offer. I am stuck repeating same things as before. Yeh could be fun for a stodgy old cout like me to tag along with the Monkey Paw once or twice to see something different.

[ParkVille]

Now there's a book I'd like to read. Since seeing your post out of curiosity I did some checking with some regulars here in Bangkok and alas can find none that either keep or share the kind of detail you mention. I'm not familiar with Pattaya which is obviously a more tight knit expat community and where it may make sense for the girls to know the M. O. Of regular punters but apparently at least with the girls I know it doesn't seem to happen in Bangkok. Then again who knows maybe it does and it's a well-kept secret. Would love to know my ratings if so.

It's all in Thai and youth slang, which is the kind which is impossible for google translate to even compute. Any girl will easily deny it, as it is a strict rule to do so. And there isn't 1 single group or even a small handful of groups. There are tons of groups and line chats. Many of them have advertisements about work positions (bar, salary, etc). Some with scams / [CodeWord908] about going to Singapore. From what I've seen, it's mostly business, then there are the customer ones. These girls are more interested in their Thai BF's, they are not gossiping about customers per se. They are really just posting alerts about what customers are going where and when (business info), and if he is bad / red flag and mostly if he is cheap. It's mostly all business, not so much personal gossipping. But of course, the power of Thai gossip is strong so the business aspect (flagging bad customers) easily spills into drama / gossip as well. So of course, based on what I have heard from mongers, they also talk about gossip stuff like how good he is in bed as well.

Me personally, I couldn't bear to look at such stuff. It's just so uh. Specific to thai's and pretty mundane and it isn't laid out as an easy to browse forum. As usual tech in thailand is like 20 years behind, they do everything in new posts and direct messages. So instead of searching for something, they just post a new thread asking people directly if they know someone and then get results by direct messaging each time. It's really more of a gossip machine / chat.

[Franciscass]

What I do know about these things is they share details like name, occupation, duration, what condo you stay in (hint hint they ALL know where you live if you ever invite 1 over), if you are cheap, how long you last in bed, how good you are in bed, and if you are creepy, etc etc etc. Mostly they will review guys the same way we review girls.

Now there's a book I'd like to read. Since seeing your post out of curiosity I did some checking with some regulars here in Bangkok and alas can find none that either keep or share the kind of detail you mention. I'm not familiar with Pattaya which is obviously a more tight knit expat community and where it may make sense for the girls to know the M. O. Of regular punters but apparently at least with the girls I know it doesn't seem to happen in Bangkok. Then again who knows maybe it does and it's a well-kept secret. Would love to know my ratings if so.

[Nyezhov]

To me, what's stupid shit is you guys spending hours and brain cells and been with discussing who, what, where, how and why of dudes looking to bang prostitutes. I'm in the camp just providing information, not a blow-by-blow description. That being said, I always found mr. Paws posts to be well written and frequently amusing.

That further being said, you can view my opinion as coming from a guy whose idea of mongering is blowing a load in 15 minutes or less, and then go find something more important to do.

[ParkVille]

It's not hard to believe that he gets the top go go girls because he's indeed posting pictures of them and several members have met him in person. However I think there's not 'some' embellishment in his stories, like you say, but quite a lot. So when he posted a story in the Pattaya thread about this really pretty girl Ning, and all the things he had done with her in bed, and claimed he found her on Beach Road, I made the following remark:

"I think we need a new thread called "Erotic stories and other fantasies". The days you could find a girl like that on Beach Road are long gone."

To my surprise the admin did indeed start a new thread called "Stupid Shit in Thailand" (the title wouldn't have been my choice LOL). Since then things have gotten a little bit out of control, because originally I was only expressing my doubts about the location where he picked up Ning.

If he is a big time and frequent visitor at gogos, then I am sure the gogo girls have info about him on their secret facebook groups. Just like how he / we shares pictures of girls, the girls share pictures / reviews of guys. I have no idea how this system works from their perspective, but I know for a fact that bargirls have a huge gossip mill online. It usually works by posting a picture of a guy if they know he goes to a certain city / soi like "do any one here know this guy __picture__ with __name__ ?" Or if the guy is really popular, he will have a dedicated thread. I wonder if his stories here match up with the stories that they write about him 5555.

What I do know about these things is they share details like name, occupation, duration, what condo you stay in (hint hint they ALL know where you live if you ever invite 1 over), if you are cheap, how long you last in bed, how good you are in bed, and if you are creepy, etc etc etc. Mostly they will review guys the same way we review girls.

[Paolo99]

To my surprise the admin did indeed start a new thread called "Stupid Shit in Thailand" (the title wouldn't have been my choice LOL). Since then things have gotten a little bit out of control, because originally I was only expressing my doubts about the location where he picked up Ning.

I saw others "stupid shit thread" coming out maybe at the same time (at least one for Medellin) so it was probably not a thread for talking about MP. It's you guys that made it his thread by talking only about him. As far as I'm concerned I saw a few suspicious probable BS in some of his posts but I find them entertaining and as he said, at least he provides reports. I would add that his last posts are also quite funny to read.

[Mogwai]

The photos of various girls in a room with teddy bears and eating what appears to be home cooked meals is proof enough for me. He is a young, wealthy, Asian guy so why is it hard to believe he gets the top go go girls? While there may be some embellishment and some of his methods disagreeable, I find it obvious The Paw isn't just a talker / dreamer. Several members here, both new and old (and respected), have met him in person. He has reached out to first timers and spent time with them which is a good thing. I find his posts helpful, interesting, and above all entertaining. Not many individual posters get a thread dedicated to them so The Paw obviously interests others as well. Don't get too worked up about anything you read in this forum.

It's not hard to believe that he gets the top go go girls because he's indeed posting pictures of them and several members have met him in person. However I think there's not 'some' embellishment in his stories, like you say, but quite a lot. So when he posted a story in the Pattaya thread about this really pretty girl Ning, and all the things he had done with her in bed, and claimed he found her on Beach Road, I made the following remark:

"I think we need a new thread called "Erotic stories and other fantasies". The days you could find a girl like that on Beach Road are long gone."

To my surprise the admin did indeed start a new thread called "Stupid Shit in Thailand" (the title wouldn't have been my choice LOL). Since then things have gotten a little bit out of control, because originally I was only expressing my doubts about the location where he picked up Ning.

[Mogwai]

This thread was started for you. Go for it.

The post from MP that you are quoting was originally posted in the Pattaya thread and not in this new thread. It was moved by the admin. You can see that if you go back to the very beginning of this thread.

[Paolo99]

Consequently, for this purpose it must be understood from either an agreement beforehand or past experience with the girl that she will swallow and not spit. Swallowing at the end without her making sure you were aware that she would swallow at the end is kind of a wasted opportunity. Maybe it's a nice surprise, but hardly enhances anything in terms of pleasure for the reasons I just stated. It essentially misses and denies the whole point of swallowing at the end instead of spitting.

I 've met a few girls that swallowed and I have to admit that I liked it. Maybe it gives more intimacy with the girl or something like that. But these girls did it because they liked it and they didn't told me beforehand. It's a bit exciting, the moment you've just CIM and look at her being curious, will she swallow or is she going to spit or worst run in the bathroom? It's always been a good surprise for me when they would swallow. But it's been a long time that I didn't met any girl that swallows, I now tend to ask them (only to girls that I see after many sessions) but most of the time it's a no go, I try to persuade them very briefly, but then I don't insist much on it. I guess that I would probably like it less than if she takes the lead and does it by herself without talking about it first.

[Banana Boi]

I tend to agree with Parkville as well if I didn't misunderstand the gist of his post. I am also one who does not write specifics of what I did with a girl. I try to keep my comments factual and let guys know what bar / area is hot and what is not. There are some posters on here who just post about their successes and imo it comes across as bragging. Oddly these guys never have poor experiences either. It's not difficult to figure out who these guys are. Sometimes I touch a nerve of some members like I did in the Jakarta thread when I said Malioboro had many 40 year old ladies or something like that and the member accused me that I have never set foot in Malioboro.

Yes, I keep some places I go to very close to the vest and do not divulge that information on here.

[EihTooms]

Most guys who write reports aren't doing it to share information. In fact, most guys just don't share info and keep the good looking girls for themselves, as a secret. The guys who write reports (this is a free website, you get what you pay for) tend to be self-absorbed narcissists, myself included. They are addicted to external validation from both the girls and the boys. They need to be seen as important because they are unable to view themselves internally as such. Oh and these manipulative gold digging hoes can spot a narcissist a mile away, even if the said hoe is self-absorbed herself. Just having sex isn't enough for some members, they need the hooker to "like" them as well or use "game" without understand that said hooker is just stringing them along to massage their ego (for a fee).

So these p4 p workers are used to dealing with various "kinds" of guys and will put a guy into one such category within seconds of meeting. The 2 biggest I can think of are: guy who needs just sex and guy who needs validation. They have so much experience dealing with so many different guys, it becomes obvious to them which is which and how to proceed with a script. They know how to distance emotional / aggressive types and set up boundaries, string emotionally weak guys on with validation (pretending to like them, going into GFE mode which is fake mostly but the guy thinks it's real), and give guys who just want sex just sex and little talking. They aren't stupid, at least not socially or at that aspect of their job.

I think with reading reports, it's having to deal with people. You have to know the types and know what's going on technically. Know what type of person some is to get an idea and overall gist of what they're saying. Because, people rarely ever speak the truth, even to themselves. All these reports are lies and you have to read in-between the lines and make your own informed (Hopefully) observations to pry information out. Honestly, people just don't like being honest. And I'd reckon to say most all of us, all human beings, have difficulty with grey areas, white-lies, misinformation. People are so accustomed to needing black or white facts.

Interesting post. I agree with much of it. I am one of those members here who does not write many detailed reports about what happened in the bed or alone in the room with this specific girl or that one. But I won't proudly declare that is because I am NOT a "self-absorbed narcissist" or have those tendencies as much as others. For my side of it, I can only say I don't write those kinds of detailed reports because I honestly can't remember exactly when I put which appendage into which orifice, whose legs went this way or that, at what moment I flipped her over and stuff like that. I'm pretty much in the moment when those things are happening and not thinking about how this will look in print.

I am amazed guys remember exact names and badge numbers of girls in the first bar they entered 6 hours before they finally chose another girl in another bar, not to mention the names and badge numbers of girls they bought lady drinks for a week earlier or banged a month earlier! Then again, as you say, maybe some of that "flipped her over" stuff is more literary drama than actual reportage.

[ParkVille]

When guys write that such things are impossible, it makes them look just a little bit jealous, or feeling too superior. It must be impossible for MP to get better than me, right?

Most guys who write reports aren't doing it to share information. In fact, most guys just don't share info and keep the good looking girls for themselves, as a secret. The guys who write reports (this is a free website, you get what you pay for) tend to be self-absorbed narcissists, myself included. They are addicted to external validation from both the girls and the boys. They need to be seen as important because they are unable to view themselves internally as such. Oh and these manipulative gold digging hoes can spot a narcissist a mile away, even if the said hoe is self-absorbed herself. Just having sex isn't enough for some members, they need the hooker to "like" them as well or use "game" without understand that said hooker is just stringing them along to massage their ego (for a fee).

So these p4 p workers are used to dealing with various "kinds" of guys and will put a guy into one such category within seconds of meeting. The 2 biggest I can think of are: guy who needs just sex and guy who needs validation. They have so much experience dealing with so many different guys, it becomes obvious to them which is which and how to proceed with a script. They know how to distance emotional / aggressive types and set up boundaries, string emotionally weak guys on with validation (pretending to like them, going into GFE mode which is fake mostly but the guy thinks it's real), and give guys who just want sex just sex and little talking. They aren't stupid, at least not socially or at that aspect of their job.

I think with reading reports, it's having to deal with people. You have to know the types and know what's going on technically. Know what type of person some is to get an idea and overall gist of what they're saying. Because, people rarely ever speak the truth, even to themselves. All these reports are lies and you have to read in-between the lines and make your own informed (Hopefully) observations to pry information out. Honestly, people just don't like being honest. And I'd reckon to say most all of us, all human beings, have difficulty with grey areas, white-lies, misinformation. People are so accustomed to needing black or white facts.

[EihTooms]

You don't really comment on what the girls are looking for. Surely you have worked that out? Perhaps you are being too modest. It is conceivable that girls are looking for a good fuck in some cases. My regular Gik told me exactly what reasons I qualify, so not completely unlucky. LOL I hesitate to write it here though. I can at least write she likes to get help with her rent money. That part is obvious. Also seems to like DATY but not all guys do that to a suitable standard. So my Gik is horny enough and needs a fuck from whoever are the best options at the time, when her official main BF is not around.

You're right, I did not get a chance to address that question in the previous exchange. When it comes to the non P4P girls I meet around town or online, they are no doubt looking to trade some sexual favors and intimacy for a hoped for long term relationship, ideally leading to marriage or similar support commitment. Pretty much the same as women the world over from the beginning of the time. Sure, I'd like to think they are also very happy to cum in ways they perhaps hadn't or as well or as often as with other guys. But I have no way of knowing for sure if they really mean that. I just do the best I can for them in that way. And I don't think it would change the arrangement and goal from their point of view all that much if they weren't getting that with me.

For girls like that I feel I am giving them the chance to prove there is a reason I would give up the freedom and variety I have now for what they offer. You know those three basic sexual requirements I've mentioned a few times already? Turns out I have not been so convinced by a girl who provides all three with such satisfying and impressive determination and purpose that I am compelled to stay faithful to them for longer than a few days before I am searching for another candidate who might be a better match for me. LOL. But that doesn't mean it is an impossible mission for them to try. As far as practical matters go, I naturally take care of any and all expenses necessary for them to comfortably travel to and from my room to be with me, all expenses while we are together and other pocket money as needed. Nothing like the direct P4P girls to whom I would give 2,000-3,000 for all night. We're talking 200-300 baht kind of pocket money if they don't wave it off without even seeing how much it is. Maybe a minor shopping "spree" that sets me back 1,000-2,000 baht every few weeks.

In the case of the main GF I mentioned in this particular exchange, she has her own decent job and does not need me to support her financially. However, I offer her pocket money, say between 100-300 baht to cover costs of motorcycle taxi travel to and from me every week or so. Most of the time she pushes back those offers with a scowl. Not out of the question that she is trying to make me feel she isn't with me for the money, any amount of money, true or not. She has elbowed her way in to pick up the tab for a couple of things for both of us that cost a couple hundred baht. However, there was that 30,000 baht smart phone I bought her for her birthday! She'd been pining over that one and it was obvious she would not say no to that gift. If she lost her job and needed some monthly support until she got another job, I'd happily do it in her case. She has more than earned it.

I once had some other unknown urinary tract infection, and was tested, but never found out what it was or if could have been sexually transmitted. One buddy hooked up with low class girls in Bangkok and caught the Gonnor. In his first week here.

A few years ago I had what the doctor only identified as Non-Specific Urethritis. He prescribed a two-day, four tablet antibiotic regime and it was gone. My dick was sore and there was slight pain on taking a leak (avoiding the coded words here) so I went to a clinic ASAP. Like you, he could not or would not relate it to sex except that I had the night before experienced one of those "rough", overly aggressive cowgirl riding ladies who did not want to stop her aggressive riding until she'd broken her previous orgasm record or something. I knew there was damage being done to my willy around the 15 minute mark but didn't have the heart to say honey we're done. Went on for another 10 minutes at least.

[Syzygies]

Anyone who goes to gogo bars often enough will know who MP is. I figured out who MP was before I officially met him. I had to watch his behavior from afar before I decided he was ok to meet!

Like Blancquiceleste, I will vouch he is the real deal.

Thanks for clearing that up. Hopefully the nay sayers will go away. We must remind them that we can't decide what the other guy experienced when we were not actually present. LOL While the beach road may have a lot of shitty girls, a fluke is always possible.

When guys write that such things are impossible, it makes them look just a little bit jealous, or feeling too superior. It must be impossible for MP to get better than me, right?

Even if guys are sceptical about some report (in general), I always say "who cares"? The forum is just a collection of stories, true or distorted, with hopefully a smattering of useful facts thrown in. I have never been 100% sure that a guy writes bullshit, even if he is new and apparently fishing for publicity for a specific venue. Clearly MP was never in that category. So allow for the possibilities.

One guy wrote he had a 9 inch dick. It is possible if he is the one in 10000. Makes him disadvantaged as will get a lot of refusals and probably never gets full penetration. I don't care if it is true or not. It can be possible. There have to be some freaks around, and no he did not grow it using pills. LOL

Refute incorrect facts, post your own experiences, but don't try to know the other guy's experience too much. Guys that are always posting negative stuff should try to enjoy life more.

[Syzygies]

Maybe I would be diagnosed as a sex addict because having regular gfs does not stop me from shopping and partaking of go-go girls and FLs around town or online. Doesn't stop me from searching for new potential regular gfs either.

Yeh yeh we are all sex addicts, no big deal. LOL I can't quite eliminate my desires for young beautiful pussy. I can't even quit bar girls, when I know is not best value for money. I have cut down, so some minor level of control. I still enjoyed looking at some nice naked girls the other day, because pussies were shaved, bodies natural and good, nice tits. Have not seen that for awhile. Perhaps I am not a full addict as have gone for several weeks with no fuck on occasion (not in Thailand).

I don't have a desire to accumulate extra GFs. Too difficult to manage. LOL Just 1 is more than enough on the non-sexual level and less than enough on the sexual level. That is the problem.

You don't really comment on what the girls are looking for. Surely you have worked that out? Perhaps you are being too modest. It is conceivable that girls are looking for a good fuck in some cases. My regular Gik told me exactly what reasons I qualify, so not completely unlucky. LOL I hesitate to write it here though. I can at least write she likes to get help with her rent money. That part is obvious. Also seems to like DATY but not all guys do that to a suitable standard. So my Gik is horny enough and needs a fuck from whoever are the best options at the time, when her official main BF is not around.

You seem to have been very lucky with STDs. I have caught Chlamydia twice over a 25 year period, and I am in the category I don't do bareback normally with miscellaneous girls, so I assure you that while HIV maybe very difficult to acquire, some others are not. You have to asses the likelihood with each girl. Girls willing to do BB with anyone are more risky, and obviously girls with a drug problem etc. Are more risky. Girls with Thai pimp probably more risky too. The good thing is the easily caught diseases are easily curable.

I once had some other unknown urinary tract infection, and was tested, but never found out what it was or if could have been sexually transmitted. One buddy hooked up with low class girls in Bangkok and caught the Gonnor. In his first week here.

I had long term test for Herpes types HSV 1 & 2 (I think called IgG test), since never having any actual symptoms (but heard possible to have no symptoms). One test was positive and another was negative. False positives and negatives are quite possible, so in the end I am still none the wiser. Might get yet another test to see if positives or negatives dominate, or maybe I just don't care any more.