Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[The Cane]

Usually they ask for messenger or whatsapp / imo, messenger only needs a facebook ID, but Whatsapp / imo needs to enter their phone in your contacts, very rarely seen line, or almost never may be. For phil.

The girl I have been chatting with has both LINE and WhatsApp. The issue was that she didn't seem to be able to use the apps very well. The knowledge was not there. Especially for WhatsApp. Well, she seems to have figured it out. Have to hook those sponsors!

[Albert9989]

On PinaLove I've run across girls that have their WeChat or Whatsapp numbers listed and have to say most of the time my app can't find their contact. Wonder if its due to my location or just the app itself. Should I put their number into my phone in order for those apps to work? I really prefer LINE, so much easier to find the girls on that app when they give out their ID. One girl even sent a screenshot of her QR code which let me scan it off my laptop screen. Do girls use LINE in the Philippines?

Usually they ask for messenger or whatsapp / imo, messenger only needs a facebook ID, but Whatsapp / imo needs to enter their phone in your contacts, very rarely seen line, or almost never may be. For phil.

[PedroMorales]

It may end in a bar girl brawl for possession of the cane. The girls can be very territorial if they get it in their heads that you are a big fish and lotto ticket to the good life. Getting your contacts and messaging you each day is part of her job to land sponsors. You are not the only one who she is trying to hook. The fucking is transactional for you, and for her, the ongoing chatting is part of the game to get into your wallet on a longer basis. There is always an ulterior motive when a sweet hooker tries to give you the soft sell into a relationship. LOL! You can avoid it in the future by declining her request for your contact info. Just tell her you can find her in PlanB again if you need to fuck PlanC because Plan A did not work out.

You guys who give out digits, even of a throw away SIM. Do they not pester you for hook ups with texts etc?

[Breadman]

But there will be all sort of scams, to be discarded, and a few gems will appear in the middle of alll chats. Ask for messenger or other chat tools in order to go out of DIA ASAP.

On PinaLove I've run across girls that have their WeChat or Whatsapp numbers listed and have to say most of the time my app can't find their contact. Wonder if its due to my location or just the app itself. Should I put their number into my phone in order for those apps to work? I really prefer LINE, so much easier to find the girls on that app when they give out their ID. One girl even sent a screenshot of her QR code which let me scan it off my laptop screen. Do girls use LINE in the Philippines?

[Albert9989]

With PinaLove, DatingInAsia, FilipinoCupid and Tinder what's the best option to hook up with some of these girls? Am I missing any websites? What's the procedure upon touching down, send out a bunch of messages to various girls and see which one's reply?

For me, mainly with DIA, I just do a search based on some criterias, location and age mainly, then for every I like I just send Hi.

And I wait to see what comes back.

Usually a Hi, then how are you, etc. And just see what follows.

And when you say I am here in makati or manila, then more answers are coming.

One important thing is to say quickly that you are not here for long term relation, and amongst 10 or 20 Hi, you will see that some are continuing exchanges.

But there will be all sort of scams, to be discarded, and a few gems will appear in the middle of alll chats. Ask for messenger or other chat tools in order to go out of DIA ASAP.

It works also quite well from home, but goal is different, not for immediate meeting, but for longer chats on messenger usually, and at the end having meeting when you come to the country. More difficult but good result also as you can know more about the girl.

I use also fdating, some good contacts came fromp here too.

[Breadman]

With PinaLove, DatingInAsia, FilipinoCupid and Tinder what's the best option to hook up with some of these girls? Am I missing any websites? What's the procedure upon touching down, send out a bunch of messages to various girls and see which one's reply?

[X Man]

Many years ago I pulled a real hotty out of an EDSA bar. She stayed with me several days, missing work. The GFE was really working its charm on me. Fortunately, I had a plane to catch.

The next time in Philippines I texted her. I was in Cebu but was scheduled to be in Manila the next week. She tells me she's in Manila but has a flight the next day to Cebu. Lucky me. She's from Cebu, BTW.

Turns out she was no longer in the bar, but had flown Cebu to Manila to meet a guy. We can assume he bought the ticket. Oh, and she also was engaged to marry some guy who had recently returned to the US. She spent the night with me and I got to have my way with some guy's fiance. Nevertheless, the GFE wasn't there and then she declined a trip to Bohol with me. I was a bit sad, but realized that she'd hooked a big fish and had no reason to pretend (with me) anymore.

We kept in touch for a while and she was working in a fast food joint in the US. She complained that her husband kept their money in a joint account and she wanted her money to be separate. I guess she was already planning the split. Poor guy.

Yeah, that's me! And I'm already feeling a little cautious about one I did the nasty with out of PlanB in Manila. She is a very pretty girl, otherwise I would not have barfined her. Took her out of the club and we spent LT together.

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In the meantime maybe the "shorty" who keeps messaging me is just being nice, but I sort of doubt It. I always assume ulterior motives until proven otherwise.

[Engine Driver]

I'm constantly amazed by how the girls will try their luck with little expectation of success.

I guess they must get enough suckers to keep rolling the dice regardless of the long odds.

It's just a numbers game, which they play very well. They might not have gone to school, but know how to apply probability theory in real life. If they hit up 20 guys a week for money and one sucker sends $100, then that's a great outcome for a few minutes work. If they can get $100 each week, then that's 20,000 PHP a month, which is a lot more than the average wage. I would say most girls have received or are receiving money from a foreign sponsor, even though it might only be a few dollars ad hoc. Every street smart WG with a smart phone will have hundreds of foreigners in her contact list. Just ask to see it next time. Most will proudly show you. Good luck to them. Their survival skills are way better than those of most western women.

We also play the numbers game. For every outright rejection we get at the bar, or for every girl who's suddenly "got her period" when we go to barfine, there's 20 of them who will drop their panties for $60.

[Mr Enternational]

Of course she was joking! Everyone knows you are the slam bam 1 k to you ma'am guy. If you had said yes, she would have had a heart attack along with 99% of us.

LOL. This chick was not a hooker though. So she knows nothing about my 1 K habits. She knows about my 0 habits!

[Dg8787]

Man women are full of shit. The other day this chick asked me to borrow $200. When I said no she said she was just joking. If I had said yes you think she would have still said it was a joke?

Of course she was joking! Everyone knows you are the slam bam 1 k to you ma'am guy. If you had said yes, she would have had a heart attack along with 99% of us.

[Chocha Monger]

Man women are full of shit. The other day this chick asked me to borrow $200. When I said no she said she was just joking. If I had said yes you think she would have still said it was a joke?

They certainly are full of it. Recently, one told me that since I used to fuck her best friend who borrowed money from her and never repaid, I should take it upon myself to repay the debt seeing how her friend was my ex-girlfriend. Well, I offered her the opportunity to earn the money herself and she got mad. LOL! At that point, I told her fuck her feelings and fuck off! Even the non-bar hoes are bold when it comes to making a run for your wallet.

[Goferring]

Man women are full of shit. The other day this chick asked me to borrow $200. When I said no she said she was just joking. If I had said yes you think she would have still said it was a joke?

I'm constantly amazed by how the girls will try their luck with little expectation of success.

I guess they must get enough suckers to keep rolling the dice regardless of the long odds.

[Mr Enternational]

She says she "wait for me" and wants to see me again, then said (allegedly joking according to her) that maybe next time "we travel together". I don't think it was just a joke

Man women are full of shit. The other day this chick asked me to borrow $200. When I said no she said she was just joking. If I had said yes you think she would have still said it was a joke?

[The Cane]

It may end in a bar girl brawl for possession of The Cane. The girls can be very territorial if they get it in their heads that you are a big fish and lotto ticket to the good life. Getting your contacts and messaging you each day is part of her job to land sponsors. You can avoid it in the future by declining her request for your contact info. Just tell her you can find her in PlanB again if you need to fuck PlanC because Plan A did not work out.

I asked her if she knew the other girl just to see how she would react (didn't tell her I bar fined her). She did not respond to the question LOL! The only one of my messages she has not responded to. Ha! She wrote to me again this morning. I think I just won't reply anymore. The next time she will hear from me is when she sees me in PlanB again. Getting ready to fuck her best friend! Hey, don't get mad at me! You know what they say. With friends like that, who needs enemies? Hahaha! It's interesting about the contact info. She was insistent on getting it before leaving. Like you said, she must "develop" sponsors.

[Goferring]

You can avoid it in the future by declining her request for your contact info. Just tell her you can find her in PlanB again if you need to fuck PlanC because Plan A did not work out.

If she's good fun, no need to cut her off by blocking her number or walking past her and fucking her best friend in the bar.

It's not rocket science here. Just tell her she's great but your relationship is not BF / GF. No need to say what it is just that it's not an ongoing romance.

My favourite when she starts mentioning undying love is to say "you know this is not BF / GF, yeah? You're ok with that?" That's polite enough not to loose her contact, should you want to go back, and reinforces that there is no need for mind games.

Enjoy, G.