Medellin Reports

[Kafka]

Cuba is outstanding but the women do not compare to Colombia not even close, not for looks or even feigned sweetness. And there is a rough edge to Colombia that Cuba does not have. Been to both many times.

Honestly, that is really where I want to go, however the damn country is still closed. I have been chatting with a bunch of Cuban girls online (I will confess, in many cases I sent a $20 USD phone recharge) and the situation there sounds really desperate. The news media confirms this.

Holguin has the lightest skinned people in Cuba (my personal preference; I even have a real blonde Cuban facebook friend) and is in the poorer eastern part of the island. There are tons of attractive girls from Holguin on Latin American Cupid. I have a feeling that right now, a good meal, a hot shower and some beer would get you a lot of attention. Additionally, I really don't like implants, which are much rarer in Cuba.

I think I'm going to try and hold out for Cuba. Medellin might not be my cup of tea.

[DiavelLoco]

Honestly, that is really where I want to go, however the damn country is still closed. I have been chatting with a bunch of Cuban girls online (I will confess, in many cases I sent a $20 USD phone recharge) and the situation there sounds really desperate. The news media confirms this.

Holguin has the lightest skinned people in Cuba (my personal preference; I even have a real blonde Cuban facebook friend) and is in the poorer eastern part of the island. There are tons of attractive girls from Holguin on Latin American Cupid. I have a feeling that right now, a good meal, a hot shower and some beer would get you a lot of attention. Additionally, I really don't like implants, which are much rarer in Cuba.

I think I'm going to try and hold out for Cuba. Medellin might not be my cup of tea.

Just to let you know that I live in Cuba. Be very careful with the phone recharge please and stay away from cupid too. If you have to use any app, I would recommend badoo. Install it and change your location to Cuba and try your luck there. Happy to share any tips with you if you need any. Good luck!

[HarryDubois]

To be honest, that would fly in Cuba. I am not too sure in medellin though.

Honestly, that is really where I want to go, however the damn country is still closed. I have been chatting with a bunch of Cuban girls online (I will confess, in many cases I sent a $20 USD phone recharge) and the situation there sounds really desperate. The news media confirms this.

Holguin has the lightest skinned people in Cuba (my personal preference; I even have a real blonde Cuban facebook friend) and is in the poorer eastern part of the island. There are tons of attractive girls from Holguin on Latin American Cupid. I have a feeling that right now, a good meal, a hot shower and some beer would get you a lot of attention. Additionally, I really don't like implants, which are much rarer in Cuba.

I think I'm going to try and hold out for Cuba. Medellin might not be my cup of tea.

[Member #4665]

During that month, I doubt he will make her pay rent, food, drinks, gifts, utilities, laundry etc. , etc. , etc. I know these things don't get her rent paid but if she doesn't have to pay rent, this may be a suitable arrangement for some.

El Mechanico.

Some flexibility he could get a better deal than a full-time living. For example, how about considering seeing her multiple dates during the month but not a full-time 30 day live in. Dedicate other days to working and to your career. The days she is not there you can be happy Thinking about her and remembering her kindness. Let her date other guys that way she already has a high income and you don't have to pay For this. Even when you're in Columbia use WebCam chat. This will be cheap but it will strengthen your relationship With conversation. It will still be just as good if she doesn't stay over the complete 30 days. And it will be more affordable. At the beginning you may have to pay a little bit more to lure her with an attractive offer. Then if both of you decide to make this a repeat relationship then you can go closer to standard prices.

[El Mechanico]

$250 for a whole month? Colombia is poor but not that poor.

During that month, I doubt he will make her pay rent, food, drinks, gifts, utilities, laundry etc. , etc. , etc. I know these things don't get her rent paid but if she doesn't have to pay rent, this may be a suitable arrangement for some.

El Mechanico.

[DiavelLoco]

I am a US citizen from New York City. I am divorced 8 years and 60 years old, but could pass for 45. I am white, blue eyes, athletic and I want to learn Spanish.

I am looking for a girlfriend in Medellin. Sex is NOT required. I am interested in someone 18 to 25, very beautiful and sexy for a long term relationship, love, affection and romance. I am lonely.

I would like to visit Medellin for a month once or twice a year. We would stay together in nice airbnb. I would give my girlfriend $250 USD each month we are together and $100 USD when we are separated however I would like to video chat or text message often.

I don't care if she's with other men when I am out of the country.

Does this sound realistic in terms of the compensation? Would Seeking Arrangements be the best website?

To be honest, that would fly in Cuba. I am not too sure in medellin though.

[SpiderRider]

I am a US citizen from New York City. I am divorced 8 years and 60 years old, but could pass for 45. I am white, blue eyes, athletic and I want to learn Spanish.

I am looking for a girlfriend in Medellin. Sex is NOT required. I am interested in someone 18 to 25, very beautiful and sexy for a long term relationship, love, affection and romance. I am lonely.

I would like to visit Medellin for a month once or twice a year. We would stay together in nice airbnb. I would give my girlfriend $250 USD each month we are together and $100 USD when we are separated however I would like to video chat or text message often.

I don't care if she's with other men when I am out of the country.

Does this sound realistic in terms of the compensation? Would Seeking Arrangements be the best website?

This forum is primarily dedicated to hobby sex, sex for sport and recreation, partying, those who seek variety of experiences. It is not your best resource for what you describe to be looking for. If you send a pm To me I will be happy to give you some advice for what it is worth.

[SlapShot10]

This is a personal question for you as it relates to me as well. Do you worry about one of the women coming over might be infected? I know you must have some concerns and am curious if you don't mind sharing your thoughts on this.

I'm slated to return in a few weeks and am having some doubts because of how I roll, and am trying to put things in perspective, albeit how I roll will have to be modified. I almost look at things right now as a roll of the dice, perhaps Russian Roullette in returning. The thought of getting COVID in Colombia is a boner killer for sure and could turn out to be a nightmare being in a foreign Country. Albeit there are probably lots of arguments that wouldn't be the case.

Maybe others have an opinion as I am ready to pillage in El Centro, yet very apprehensive to return just yet.

Surfer, in a word, "No" - Although, I don't worry about things like that, much. I'm more worried about the old lady with her mask around her neck that coughed towards me on La 70, yesterday. At least a 18-21 yo Paisa chick could give me a nice going away present, with the COVID. The sense I get down here is that the Colombians are fearful of the virus. Maybe not the zombies lurking in your dark corners of Centro, but the average Paisa. I have had several girls say they had a sore throat or fever or lived with an older / younger family member and put themselves into isolation. I'm not saying it couldn't happen, and again, remember, I am in my 30's. Maybe that is also a factor, or maybe it's just personality / mentality. I think the same girl that would drug and rob you is the same girl that would knowingly put you at danger of contracting the virus. The girl that you have a great session with and goes back to her normal life is not the same person.

I won't call you a pussy for being careful, and you know your risk level far better than I, but to be honest, I may have already had it, down here.

Considering the huge of number Medellin girls on SA, I'm a little surprised that more people don't have more detailed information.

I guess I will have to come over and explore.

HarryD (love this nickname), I have had what you are looking for twice, in the last 6-7 months. I could have had it a few other times, as well. I believe the freebies cost more than the putas, in the long run, but that seems to be more the type in which you are looking for. So, yes, you can sift through SA and find some one. $1000 is too much, $250 is too little. I had an 18 yo for maybe 400 k / mo, but add in food, drinks, drugs, taxis, gifts, and you start inching towards $1000. I, personally, think the best route for you would be to come down to Medellin. Go out for coffee, go cruise the mall, go out for dinner, take in a night at La 70 or Mercado del Rio, and see what you can find. Start the relationship off platonic, if you want it to be platonic. See what she is like, what her needs are, and establish your allowance based on her, rather than what a bunch of BM's think the average is. You might be able to find a waitress, a store clerk, or talk to a cutie that recommends her aunt or neighbor. It might be a fun process, compared to thinking some one is going to be a great match because they, literally, have all the boxes checked. In reality, it might not be as great of a fit as SA wants you to believe. If you run into some one that speaks English (a Paisa), explain your situation and see if they know some one that might be worth meeting, or could point you in the right direction.

What you are looking for is not what most members are on this forum to find information about. So, go take a journey. Report back to us when some hot 19 yo has recommended her mom, and don't forget to include information on where we can find the daughter! We can all be one big happy family.


P.S. - SJobs?!?!?!? Has anyone checked the local paper? No reports? Anyone want to take it upon themselves to unveil this fraud? Not sure if I'm more confused by the SJobs saga, or what I watched on tv, last night!

[Osteoknot]

Considering the huge of number Medellin girls on SA, I'm a little surprised that more people don't have more detailed information.

I guess I will have to come over and explore.

Is because you keep asking questions that others cannot answer for you. You described yourself as being very attractive in Waspy, Anglo-Saxon sort of way. Great. The girls like that down there. That also puts a bullseye on you for more nefarious activities. You sound inexperienced and "lonely" to use your own words. The chicas will smell that like a shark smells blood. I am not trying to scare you off. But take it slow. I would recommend against going down to Medellin with some sort of preconceived master plan of finding a novia for XXX pesos to be your GFE on a monthly basis or whatever it is you are trying to set up. ALL the great girl things that have happened to me in Medellin, and other continents, were more or less unplanned. I was in the right place at the right time. Chance favors the prepared mind. And then you have this theme of trying to cheap out on prices. Do you think that helps your cause? I dunno, maybe you need a wingman or someone who can show you the ropes. I think you are setting yourself up for disappointment and hopefully nothing worse. But don't let me dissuade you. That is the point. You have to make your own way. There are some basic principles but there is not a formula for success and happiness. My best Gringo friend committed suicide in Medellin because he thought he would find all the sex and love he wanted, and when he didn't, and got trapped by the quarantine, it was too depressing for him. That's a real downer to post here but I think it's germane. If you are unhappy where you are now, don't expect Medellin to be some of kind of magic bullet. I was very happy before discovering Medellin, and now I am happier than I have ever been in my entire life. I hope you find what you want, but there is usually no such thing as geographical happiness, short of getting released from prison, jajaja.

[Nounce]

Considering the huge of number Medellin girls on SA, I'm a little surprised that more people don't have more detailed information.

I guess I will have to come over and explore.

That is what I will do and report back to fill in the blanks. You can pay the premium membership fee and chat with girls to make emotional connection now. I think you will have some takers for $100 platonic relationship before your arrival.

[HarryDubois]

Considering the huge of number Medellin girls on SA, I'm a little surprised that more people don't have more detailed information.

I guess I will have to come over and explore.

[Nounce]

I am getting a feeling that rather than $250 a month for a sugar baby, a starting price would be $1000. Is that reasonable? That is still a definite possibility for me. I am talking about using Seeking Arrangement. There seem to be tons of Medellin girls on there now.

I have never asked for full time arrangement so I don't know the rate they are expecting. I suspect for full time arrangement, it may be more of taking care of all her need, or her family, it could cost more, or it could cost less.

For US$1000, you may get 2 or 3 part time arrangements that are a few hours at a time. It's not practical to jump directly to full time arrangement. You can make a part time arrangement to see where it leads. If you do find one with connection, it may cost less than you are expecting.

I guess my feeling is that the difference between a sugar baby and a prostitute is safety. A sugar baby is going to be staying in a nice a condo with a man who she has gotten to know, who is clean (physically and also clean drug wise), polite, non-violent etc. She's not taking much of a risk of being beaten up or ending up with her dismembered torso in dumpster, which I assume is a factor which street walkers have to add into their prices.

Besides that, if she's a "regular" girl, in college for example, there isn't the stigma of walking the streets and being seen by people who know her. She's just hanging out with her American "papi". Maybe a little embarrassing, but no different than Melania Trump.

The problem is there are many people fit that description and are willing to be generous. You are basically dating a girl who has issues so don't expect it to be a simple monetary transaction long term.

Plus you are "buying in bulk" which should get a discount.

To the SB, it may mean a completely different thing which means taking care of her whole family. You can get a discount in that case if you do it for a full year, but probably not one month at a time

What you want is not the norm. Even if it works for someone, it does not mean it will work for you. I think you need to try it to find out on your own.

[HarryDubois]

Where does that feeling come from? A person is more likely to get beat and/or killed by someone they know period. Beating and killing does not draw the line at what kind of dwelling someone stays in and if they wash their ass or not as your feelings are leading you to believe.

Would you really feel safer if your 18 year old daughter were a streetwalker rather than your 18 year old daughter living with her boyfriend? Therefore streetwalkers charge high prices because there are few women who want to do that unless they get paid pretty well.

If woman is with a person whose passport she has a photo of and she has his address and phone number and she's texted all that to her friends and relatives, I think she has better odds of seeing the sun come up than if she just walks off with a total stranger and all the police would have to go on is other hookers saying "She left with some guy with brown hair".

And this is more true once some of her friends and relatives actually meet the guy, as would I think happens in a long term sugar relationship.

[Mr Enternational]

I guess my feeling is that the difference between a sugar baby and a prostitute is safety. A sugar baby is going to be staying in a nice a condo with a man who she has gotten to know, who is clean (physically and also clean drug wise), polite, non-violent etc. She's not taking much of a risk of being beaten up or ending up with her dismembered torso in dumpster, which I assume is a factor which street walkers have to add into their prices.

Where does that feeling come from? A person is more likely to get beat and/or killed by someone they know period. Beating and killing does not draw the line at what kind of dwelling someone stays in and if they wash their ass or not as your feelings are leading you to believe.

I spend $15 on a chick for 1 hour or whatever. You are talking about spending $1000 on a chick for 1 month PLUS all the other expenses you will incur due to her being with you. Seems like you would be more likely to do beating and killing than I would be. I am only there long enough for the fucking then it is hug and see you next time. You are there seeing all of her bad habits and long enough to possibly feel you are wasting $1000 on a no good broad that you realize you really can not stand. Then the Mr. Hyde comes out and you start mistreating her mentally, and beating her, and dismembering torsos. Your familiarity will breed contempt, whereas me and the girl as strangers will be like ships passing in the night.

[HarryDubois]

I agree with pretty much everything you said.

If I were him, I would hit the dating sites and just come down and meet some girls. Don't talk about money or arrangements. Just have a good time. But in the end expect that you'll be dishing out money for the girl, but don't write it up in a contract.

I am getting a feeling that rather than $250 a month for a sugar baby, a starting price would be $1000. Is that reasonable? That is still a definite possibility for me. I am talking about using Seeking Arrangement. There seem to be tons of Medellin girls on there now.

I guess my feeling is that the difference between a sugar baby and a prostitute is safety. A sugar baby is going to be staying in a nice a condo with a man who she has gotten to know, who is clean (physically and also clean drug wise), polite, non-violent etc. She's not taking much of a risk of being beaten up or ending up with her dismembered torso in dumpster, which I assume is a factor which street walkers have to add into their prices.

Besides that, if she's a "regular" girl, in college for example, there isn't the stigma of walking the streets and being seen by people who know her. She's just hanging out with her American "papi". Maybe a little embarrassing, but no different than Melania Trump.

Plus you are "buying in bulk" which should get a discount.

About sex, I mean it's not a must for me. For that, I can just watch porn and masturbate. We'll see how we feel about each other. I am looking mainly for the emotional connection. That's important.

Please comment if I am getting this right or not.