Medellin Reports

[Surfer500]

I'm youngish (under 35) The mongering life is the way to go.JW.

Yes indeed, unless you want to have offspring, getting married is a total waste of time.

And after you have been married and divorced, like myself, and get to bang anything and everything under the sun you will ask yourself, what the fuck was I thinking to get married to begin with, as a variety of new pussy is hard to resist.

The "mongering life" if you can afford it is like being a kid in a candy shop.

If I knew what I know now, I would of never gotten married.

[SlapShot10]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

Surfer is right, but I wouldn't let others' experiences or beliefs keep you from trying SA. I've had several freebies off SA, which started off with normal chat and an invitation. As another poster said, I'd avoid the full day stuff. Now, to be fair, I think the SA freebies were hoping for the Disney movie fairytale, and only ended up with a fun night. It would have been easy to fall into something with a few of them, but that's not what I was looking for, and when I notice they are looking to hook a gringo, I'm out. On the flip side, one of the few times I've been tricked by photos was also SA. You're a young guy, so you should understand the concepts of photo filters and angles. If you notice too many of either, it's probably for good reason. As Surfer mentioned, I have used SA as a mid-30's into my late-30's and that might actually be a benefit. The age range of the freebies was typically the 22-25 range, where they think they know more than the newbie chicks and they have more to offer. As far as that is from the truth, that's their mentality. I'd say a week before your trip, get a month premium account, spend a few days mining for connections / likes / conversations. I always try to take the conversation to WhatsApp, and then in the contact, I save their name with SA + MDE + user name. This way, I have something to go back to if they don't have a clear profile photo on WhatsApp or don't send any photos there. I don't want to start the debate, but Spanish definitely has helped me. I can now tell stories and joke around, even though I can't understand everything they say. Good luck and do it your way!

For those feeling stuck and hopeless in Medellin, or looking for a different option, Mexico is the wild wild west. I carry a mask for the one step into a restaurant, store, or bar. Side note, my buddy that was in Medellin for a couple months left for the US to get his vaccination and handle some personal things, and ended up getting COVID. He left on a Thursday and got symptoms Sunday or Monday, so I'm assuming he got it while traveling. Good thing he had to pay to get a test before leaving! Anyway, he was in pretty rough shape. He is maybe mid-50's and in decent shape; no underlying health issues that I'm aware of. He ended up going to the hospital to get the COVID cocktail pump. Stay safe & cheers. With all that's going on, I'll probably hold off returning to Medellin until late May or June.

[JohnnyWalker55]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

I'm youngish (under 35) and see where you're coming from. The mongering life is the way to go. Get a senior membership so we can DM bro.

Cheers.

JW.

[MarquisdeSade1]

Having serious issues with Spirit airlines, does anyone know a corporate office fone number?

Google is failing me.

Muchas gracias.

[Tomasb]

This is not a forum for these topics and arguments. Nobody here gives a shit about what happens at your local townie bar in North America. Nor whether you are afraid of viruses, clowns, boogiemen, or dark spaces. Take it elsewhere.
See post #45473 to learn how to contribute properly to this forum

Drop dead, pal. I have contributed considerably more to this forum than you have, including MDE, and my response was to someone else's illogical arguments made on this page. If you have got a beef, then write to him (Marquis deSade1).

[RamDavidson84]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

I am assuming you don't want to use FB for discretionary reasons which is why you are asking about SA. The biggest problem with SA is not your race or age, its the availability of the girls and you. Many will not want to communicate with you much until you are just a few days from arriving to the city because you are just one of a hundred guys they are communicating with on the SA platform. Medellin is saturated with beautiful girls willing to fuck for cash. If you have the cash, you will get some very beautiful women. If you put the time in, you will also make a lot of contacts on SA, but its really not necessary. You can easily just roll into Medellin with no contacts and immediately start scoring very high level girls from multiple different sources, Parque Lleras, FB, Milerticos, strip clubs, LOL cab drivers who know girls, etc. If you are really looking to spend a lot of time with a single girl for a few days and form a real friendship / relationship, then SA is a good option. Some girls will be offended if you are very forward offering money for cash as they want to be more discreet about what you are both doing, but the vast majority will not care and understand they want to get fucked for cash and have a good time just like you. Be yourself, be upfront with what you want, be respectful, be cautious, and enjoy the process and you cannot fail in Medellin. My best advice would be to learn as much Spanish as you can, its a life long skill that always gives back and you will enjoy your trips much more besides just the girls. I would also not recommend getting tied up with a single girl for a whole day, especially if your just starting out in your 20's. Your probably going to want to run the gauntlet once you see what you can get. Good luck.

[Surfer500]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

Your probably one of the youngest posters here, as a lot of us here are "old farts", with I would say the majority of the members on the Medellin thread being over 40 years old.

And as far as Seeking Arrangements, I have no experience with them, but from what I can gather it sounds like a sugar daddy site, hence the clientale are going to be older males versus someone your age, at least that is what I think.

So in thinking about this, this may be to your advantage in you that you may hook up with someone your own age which some of the women might also like besides an old, fat, and wrinkled dude.

Yet you have to keep in mind though that at the end of the day, it's going to be a monetary transaction.

And given your young and tender age, this whole mongering business must be very new to you.

Whatever you do, you need to be flexible, and consider maybe Facebook as an option as well. Lots of posts here, about how it works, along with pricing and some of the "pitfalls" you might encounter with it.

Regardless, when you show and if Medellin is not under any extreme lockdowns, there will be all kinds of casa's and clubs you can patronize as well. And even El Centro might be an option for you!

[SpiderRider]

You know what, my local bar in my home town in North America recently reopened after being shuttered most of the year. But they adopted a new policy, which requires proof of vaccination card to enter, though you can sit outside in the cold if you don't have a vaccination. I stopped in last week, showed my card info on my cell phone and went into the bar to enjoy a few cocktails without having to worry that the other patrons may be infected.

I frankly don't care that people like you feel inconvenienced. My health and safety and the success of the bar is much more important than whether or not you feel discriminated against.

This is not a forum for these topics and arguments. Nobody here gives a shit about what happens at your local townie bar in North America. Nor whether you are afraid of viruses, clowns, boogiemen, or dark spaces. Take it elsewhere.
See post #45473 to learn how to contribute properly to this forum

[Nounce]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

There is another thread here dedicated to SA. You should look it up.

On seeking, the most common terms I have seen used is seeking "mutually beneficial relationship". They will tell you they want help economically. That is what you can start with if asked, and the girls know what it means. I think it is better not beating around the bush by asking them to show you around and stuff like that. You want to have sex on the first date and that is what you should focus on directly or indirectly. I have never met a Colombiana that has problem talking about sex.

It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+.

Where do you get this idea from? Never heard of it.

[SavePros321]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

None of that matters.

The most important factors are:

1) Do you speak (passable) Spanish and can understand in written form enough to have an intelligible message exchange?

2) Are you going to pay the chicas on Seeking what they are asking for?

3) If you are not her "preference", keep moving until you find chicas who are more open.

[Paulie97]

You know what, my local bar in my home town in North America recently reopened after being shuttered most of the year. But they adopted a new policy, which requires proof of vaccination card to enter, though you can sit outside in the cold if you don't have a vaccination. I stopped in last week, showed my card info on my cell phone and went into the bar to enjoy a few cocktails without having to worry that the other patrons may be infected.

I frankly don't care that people like you feel inconvenienced. My health and safety and the success of the bar is much more important than whether or not you feel discriminated against.

You are preaching to the choir and completely misinterpreted my post. Hit up the guy the I was responding to, or make better use of the quote function. Cheers.

[BlackCrystal]

Okay. I am new here and plan on going to Medellin for the first time in the next month or two. I am an African American male, age 24. I have a great paying job where I am making 80 K USD as a single man. I was wondering how do I start meeting people on Seeking Arrangements. It seems like all the girls on there are only looking for white males aged 35+. I mean, I am attractive and have a good built. Any suggestions? Like how should the initial convo start? Straight to the point like " hey, I need a companion for a day and will pay you 350 k to show me around and have some fun". Or less subtle like " Wow you are beautiful. Want someone to show me around."

Best,

And damn I see a lot of playa's on here so please put me on to game.

[Ghosty101]

I wouldn't normally post links to the chicas on a public forum but these twins are wide open about their activities with gringos. They are very nice girls too.

Thank you very much! As you said, I'll make sure to stay on point with the pricing!

[Lucky Nuts]

I checked their photos and they look pretty cute. I assume you were happy with the experience. I plan on visiting Cartagena in mid October and might consider a detour to MDE if they are still available.

I find them to be average for facebook girls. But yes they check all the boxes of what is expected for standard services. Still neither makes my repeat list or I wouldn't post the link here lol

[Tomasb]

I checked their photos and they look pretty cute. I assume you were happy with the experience. I plan on visiting Cartagena in mid October and might consider a detour to MDE if they are still available.

I wouldn't normally post links to the chicas on a public forum but these twins are wide open about their activities with gringos. They are very nice girls too.

https://www.facebook.com/evelyn.giraldo.50