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09-14-21 23:11 #49235
Posts: 1261Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 22:40 #49234
Posts: 371Exactly
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
Just a quick message. Short and to the point. Get the whatsapp and off of the FB ASAP for more efficient results.
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09-14-21 22:39 #49233
Posts: 371Huh?
Originally Posted by MojoBandit [View Original Post]
Show me where I said anything about waiting until the last minute. You can't, because I didn't. You do realize that you and a girl can send an unlimited amount of messages and private, through messenger for as ong as you want without ever actually 'friending' each other, don't you?
I also have noticed that chicas are about half as likely to reply to me when I am not in their friends list.
I have not noticed this at all. The only reason a chica won't reply is if she thinks you aren't going to pay what she wants.
I am also curious of how you "find" them in the first place before you message them?
There are a few I have as friends-not many, just ones I have seen already and would see again-that's a very small list-- you can see friends lists from people you aren't friends with. Perhaps you can see more if chicas setting limit who can see their friends to only friends. But, it is rare that a facebook girl does that IMO.
This leaves me wonder if I have a different attitude too because to me it is about finding what I think are the hottest of the hottest chicas.
I think this furthers my style, not yours. Why bother being friends with 200 you just said you don't think are very hot? Why friend average chicas? All I want is the hottest-no need for hundreds of friends when hundreds aren't the hottest!
As far as restricted lists, custom lists, editing friends lists, and 2nd profiles. Seems like a lot of work when all you have to do is just message with them without friending them to accomplish these goals.
Are the ONLY women you find found through 'friends' ?? I doubt it,. Usually its through friends lists of girls you aren't friends with. Ike friends of friends. Maybe you get more girls on your list--but I can't see how / why friending hundreds of chicas in Medellin is anything but wasting time and trying to validate the ego by saying look at all these girls I found! As if that is some college degree needing skill LOL.
Go on facebook. Find 'Medellin Rich' or any of the well known chicas out there--mine their friends lists-click on the ones you like, if they posted recently--check their friends lists--and if you want send them and those friends messages. This isn't very complicated and is often made out to be much more than it really is.
I have been in and out of MDE for almost a decade now. Barely 'friending' any of them. Yet finding more than enough top quality talent to enjoy my time. And rarely do I need or want to message and begin the chat more than a couple of weeks before my next arrival--that's just wasting time.
The one's I am interested in-I send a photo with the view from where I am staying and a note that lets them know I am in MDE and ready. That's all they care about $$.
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09-14-21 22:02 #49232
Posts: 16001Originally Posted by MojoBandit [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 21:28 #49231
Posts: 1261Originally Posted by JustIncognito [View Original Post]
Maybe we have different organizational styles because for me organizing is a big part of finding them and I cannot see how one can do this without "friending" the chicas. I also have noticed that chicas are about half as likely to reply to me when I am not in their friends list. It can be done, I have done it but I have found my chances are better if I am in their friends list. Also I like to avoid the flakey ones that will be no-shows and I need to build a rapport to do this. I am also curious of how you "find" them in the first place before you message them? Without already having chicas in your friends list to go off of, how does one go about finding them? There are some extremely gorgeous (IMHO) chicas on FB but they were not that easy to find.
This leaves me wonder if I have a different attitude too because to me it is about finding what I think are the hottest of the hottest chicas. I realize tastes can vary but there is a variety of prepagos on FB no matter your tastes. For me the numkber of gorgeos chicas is about 1 out of 50 of the prepagos that I have found on FB and maybe less than that. I have over 2500 "friends" of which maybe 50 are gorgeous. Over the last couple of years, a little bit of time here and there and it has probably taken me a cumulative hours to do this. Now it feeds itself.
By chicas showing up in my "people you may know" and "friend requests" feeds. These are the honeys that are like finding the special eater egg with the prize in it.
Gorgeous women are out there but one has to look for them. It takes time and effort to cultivate a crop of truely gorgeous women, no matter your preferences. I find that a person needs an organized method to do this and for me that has meant have chicas in my friend list who will cause other putas to send me friend requests and to cause other chicas to show up in my "people you may know feed".
It has been also covered here a several times that one should have a FB profile used just for mongering, I have been made aware that this has becaome increasingly difficult and FB has been cracking down more on duplicate profiles (you could not tell that from Lleraldine Gomez who has a least 8 profiles that I have seen).
If a person is unable to start a profile just for nmongering there is a function that can be done to "restrict" even your friends from seeing anything that you do not post as "public" - once you are friends with them you go to there profile andclick on the button that says "friends" then a menu pops up that has "unfollow" "unfriend" and also it says "edit freind list" and when you click on that another menu pops up and one of the choices is "restricted" , click on that and they cannot see anything on your profile that you have not made public (which is what anyone who you are not "friends" with can see).
Another aspect of this "edit friends list" can be found if you go to your FB home page and on the left side is a menu of options, you will see "friends" - click on this and another menu comes up where you find an item called "custom lists" scroll to the bottom and click on "create list" and you can organize lists of friends in any types of lists you want. I have lists for chicas in various places like Cali, Barranquilla, Cuba, etc. And for example I have a list called "Top Chicas" - now when I go to make a post there is a shaded box that shows who my "audience", more times than not by default is says "friends" or maybe even "public" but I can click on that and a box pops up to let me choose my audience, and if I scroll it shows my custom lists, so if I want to anounce that I am going to Medellin but I only want my Top Chicas to know this, that is the audience that I would choose.
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09-14-21 21:08 #49230
Posts: 5496Originally Posted by JustIncognito [View Original Post]
If you have to worry that friends, family or your employer will find out you're mongering in Colombia, stay off Facebook and stay out of Colombia, because there will always be a risk your activities will be discovered.
If you're going to use Facebook, you're not really minimizing your exposure by not friending the girls, you're just limiting your options.
If you're just going off of girls reviewed by other mongers, there's no need to add friends, you can just keep sending messages to the same 20 or 30 girls until you get a reply.
However, there are some reasons why you should add the girls. Every reason doesn't apply to everyone.
1. Some accounts are fake, just used to scam money or sell pictures. If you're seeing their daily updates it's pretty easy to figure out which girls are a waste of time.
2. Some girls travel. There's no need to wait 2 hours for a reply when the girl just posted from Panama City.
3. Some girls are impacted by major events, death in the family, sick pet, or showing symptoms of Covid. The day of the funeral probably isn't the best time to ask if she wants to fuck.
4. Some girls have hot friends, hot friends who have never been with a gringo.
5. New girls are turning 18 all the time. It's helpful to know when they celebrated, especially if the girl has been telling you for 7 months that she's 18, but just had a birthday party yesterday.
6. Knowledge is a good thing. If you pay attention you can learn a lot about the girls from what they put on Facebook.
7. When other plans fall through, pop open messenger and you can see who is active. Right now I have 144 friends active. I don't need to hope I can find someone. I know who will receive my message instantly.
8. 1,000 girls are hard to keep track of. My favorite from last trip might have put on 40# since I last saw her. Another one might be pregnant, or with a jealous boyfriend. Every day it takes me about 5 minutes to see who is looking good.
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09-14-21 20:10 #49229
Posts: 68Colombian Holidays?
Questions to the seasoned, to the expats, the long-terms in Medellin:
* What is late October like in Medellin from October 18 to November 7 range?
** Temperature and seasonal atmosphere?
I've heard the "City of Eternal Spring" mentioned more than once so temperature wise it should be fine, but is it rainy everyday?
** Are there Colombian holidays to consider that really shuts down the city, its women?
Are there national or religious holidays that cripple the city.
** How does Colombia treat Halloween?
I've been in Europe for several Halloweens. If there are expat bar, they push it and the Euros arrive and love a good costume party. Great atmosphere in the cities and it seems to have grown. Any idea how Halloween is regarded in Medellin?
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09-14-21 14:44 #49228
Posts: 371Why 'friend' them?
Originally Posted by FlagRunner77 [View Original Post]
You gain nothing by friending these girls. The point is to find them and message with them, not to see what they post on their timelines or for them to be able to snoop your profile.
If you are not friends with them. You can message them and they can message you just the same.
I have never understood wy so many of you insist on 'friending' these girls and then spend so much energy trying to work around that when there is zero reson to be friends with them in the 1st place.
Find a girl you like on FB, send her a private message. She will respond or not--they don't care if you are 'friends' or not they care if you pay them a rate that works for them--and that's all figured out in messenger and WhatsAPp not on Facebook timelines and walls.
Friending these girls is pretty stupid IMO and I don't understand how, for years, I seem to be one of very very few people who thinks this way.
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09-14-21 14:36 #49227
Posts: 1792Originally Posted by GeneHickman [View Original Post]
Sharing is caring and so basically we all share the girls.
I have seen this played out so many times as I live in Medellin for almost 5 years now. Just one very recent example and I have dozens and dozens of these is my special girl who stayed with me in my apartment for 7 months during the lock down last year, my gawd 7 months with 2 cute sweethearts at my beckon call day or night, well she finally found a gringo guy from Miami early this year, he looks like a cool guy so hats off and hope they are good to each other. Again just one recent example which I see weekly now.
Never forget guys, "she is not your girl rather it's only your turn" and this is so true especially here in Colombia.
Much love and respect to all!
The Tall Man.
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09-14-21 13:33 #49226
Posts: 2First Time to MDE. Validate my Stupidity. Going solo next week
Originally Posted by JohnnyWalker55 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by GeneHickman [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 13:28 #49225
Posts: 407Originally Posted by Belisaj [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 13:09 #49224
Posts: 2966Originally Posted by Belisaj [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 08:17 #49223
Posts: 3330Originally Posted by ColombiaLover [View Original Post]
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09-14-21 07:56 #49222
Posts: 3330Originally Posted by Nounce [View Original Post]
When the travel ban was in effect (when I thought it would be short) I helped out some women out. I thought if money would ever have an effect it would then when the women really needed it and there were very few gringos around. I figured some women would just forget about my being generous the second they got the cash, and some did, and that is what I would expect almost all women to do in a normal situation.
I think the performance went up a little due to the cash, but I think was more out of appreciation than payment. Some women were in really bad shape then. Every woman I paid showed up (one was late by a day) and all but one went bare with me. Looking back on it, what the money did get me was availability and trust / going bare but not really performance. There were two women I never would have met unless I gave them a little money to keep my place waiting.
I will say though the one thing that did have an effect, and that was a play on self-worth with a sugar baby. I had a prospect who was a great girl but lousy in bed, and she hit me up for cash after we first met. She didn't kiss or give BJs and was like "That is gross. I do not do that. " I told her that I was paying for a woman to please me and giving me a BJ and kissing me pleased me and why would I hang around her when she didn't give a shit about pleasing me.
She promised to do better, and the next time I saw her she was great and fucked the shit out of me bare. She didn't do a BJ or DFK but she promised she would try in the future. I gave her up because of better prospects but the one thing that definitely got me better performance was being critical of how a women performed. I am not sure that would work with a ho though.
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09-14-21 05:05 #49221
Posts: 546Originally Posted by Kerty9 [View Original Post]
My Spirit flight landed 10 minutes early but we could not get an empty gate to unload because some other plane had issues. So we ended up waiting 20 minutes so ended up being 10 minutes late. The next gate had been moved (unknown to some of us running across the airport to the wrong gate). Flight missed. 2 hour wait. So choose a 1.5 - 2.0 hour rather than 1 hour plane change.