Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Michelle01]

Friends,

I am very much afraid after receiving oral sex from a sex worker. I read a lot of articles online. Every article says there are 100 percentage possibilities for catching STD form unprotected blow job. It's been a month and what should I do now. Please help me on this friends.

You should relax a bit, because if you don't have symptoms, yet it's because you didn't catch any STIs.

The articles you've read are right in that you can catch an STI through unprotected oral sex, some diseases of this kind show symptoms over the following days, but others don't, but having regular check-ups is enough to detect any diseases.

[Bhulakkad]

Thanks to this forum, was able to get BBJ from a spa in Aundh. The girl licked everywhere and was an amazing experience. However, now worried about if I caught any STDs.

Does anyone know any reliable lab where anonymous STD testing can be done? Also, any reliable doctor recommendations (perhaps there are doctors on this forum itself?) for consultation if needed?

[Member #4727]

Friends,

Any suggestions to test and consult a doctor in Chennai discretely. I don't want big hospitals due to fear of hitting someone known. PM me please if you can.

You can check Rah man doc at 3 pli cane for basic troubleshoot.

[LongShanks007]

Friends,

Any suggestions to test and consult a doctor in Chennai discretely. I don't want big hospitals due to fear of hitting someone known. PM me please if you can.

[Member #4727]

Were you symptomatic (had visible skin lesions) at the time of the latest blood test?

Blood tests can be inconclusive or misleading because they look for a type of antibody produced by the body in response to an infection, rather than detect the presence of the virus itself.

A viral culture or nucleic acid amplification from a swab of the symptomatic area will be more reliable.

I received blowjob from a sex worker aft that for some days inside of my foreskin become red colour. There was no itching or rashes.

I had BJ exactly on Oct 14 and took test on nov27.

[Luckyguy7198]

I have tested for herpes and the results are shared below. It's negative but it is very close to the positive range. My doctor said it might go higher in future. But after that he didn't respond me. Do you guys know how the values might go higher and how can I avoid it.

HSV. IGg -- 0.66.

HSV. IGm -- 0.47.

When I tested 2 years back it was.

HSV. IGg -- 0.15.

HSV. IGm -- 0.22.

Please help me. It's killing my happiness.

Were you symptomatic (had visible skin lesions) at the time of the latest blood test?

Blood tests can be inconclusive or misleading because they look for a type of antibody produced by the body in response to an infection, rather than detect the presence of the virus itself.

A viral culture or nucleic acid amplification from a swab of the symptomatic area will be more reliable.

[Random Dude]

Brothers, I had accidental condom slippage yesterday. Possible unproteted for 5 minutes with wg.

Can anyone help with doctors / hospitals in recommendation in Delhi to get PEP?

At Major hosital like Ap*llo M*x F*rt*s?

Please PM if not comfortable sharing details here.

Bloody the*lh* goverment AIDS department website is down.

[Member #4727]

I have tested for herpes and the results are shared below. It's negative but it is very close to the positive range. My doctor said it might go higher in future. But after that he didn't respond me. Do you guys know how the values might go higher and how can I avoid it.

HSV. IGg -- 0.66.

HSV. IGm -- 0.47.

When I tested 2 years back it was.

HSV. IGg -- 0.15.

HSV. IGm -- 0.22.

Please help me. It's killing my happiness.

Can someone please share knowledge on herpes and it's test. Please.

[Nuntis18]

Hey guys,

I am kind of a noob, have been to a couple of MPs in Chennai.

And have kept it very simple, only HJ.

Is BBJ a good idea in MPs or should I avoid and spend a lot more on so called top models.

[Member #4727]

I have tested for herpes and the results are shared below. It's negative but it is very close to the positive range. My doctor said it might go higher in future. But after that he didn't respond me. Do you guys know how the values might go higher and how can I avoid it.

HSV. IGg -- 0.66.

HSV. IGm -- 0.47.

When I tested 2 years back it was.

HSV. IGg -- 0.15.

HSV. IGm -- 0.22.

Please help me. It's killing my happiness.

[Yuktaukta]

Dear mates,

I have run through the previous posts and applied these basic rules.

1. More time foreplay and stay calm.

2. Don't loose hope, There is always second round to try.

For me it worked and I came out very happy man after almost 6 encounters.

Hello friends,

My age is 40 and married also. I explore mongering whenever my family goes out for long vacation. Though I find attractive girls though SP. I'm not able to fully enjoy with them. My body temperature rises up with anxiety and come very soon just after 10 strokes or in 1 or 2 min. I feel very bad about it. Any suggestions please.

[Yuktaukta]

Hello friends,

My age is 40 and married also. I explore mongering whenever my family goes out for long vacation. Though I find attractive girls though SP. I'm not able to fully enjoy with them. My body temperature rises up with anxiety and come very soon just after 10 strokes or in 1 or 2 min. I feel very bad about it. Any suggestions please.

[Member #4720]

I am having a problem with ejaculation during my visits with girls. I am having the erection during the penetration phase and able to try positions like WOT, Missionary and BJ. But I am not able to have the ejaculation nor am I able to go close the feeling during the penetration. It usually ends up either the girl or me jacking it off. Same scenario for both shots. Is something wrong with me? I used to masturbate almost daily but these experiences left me jarred and reduced it to once a week. Still no results when I visited the girl today.

Not a smoker nor a serious drinker. 1-2 can of beer a week at max. Is it just stress or lack of sensation due to condom?

Thanks.

Sympathies towards your daunting experience. Virility and vigour maketh the man, after all. Not erectile dysfunction or retrograde climax, good start. Let me pitch in, as a practicing Doctor, help you narrow down to a potential root cause wherein this stems. Begin with eliminating a barrage of differential diagnoses off the list by a screening questionnaire as below:

-Am I obese (BMI 40)?

-Hypertensive / Cardiovascular patient (history of dyslipidaemia, atherosclerosis, IHD, CAD, stroke)?

-Been subjected to a recent surgical event involving spinal anaesthesia to lumbar region OR traumatic back injury?

-On medication for insomnia (diazepam, alprazolam), SSRIs (fluoxetine, risperidone etc) for clinical depression etc, history of recreational narcotic abuse (opioids, cocaine).

-Low free T levels, detected via simple blood test and supplemented via medication, if need be. Oligozoospermia, can undertake semen analysis.

-Difficulty whilst urinating indicating at undiagnosed BPH impinging on pudendal nerve / vas deferens thereby affecting ejaculatory reflex.

-Psychological stigma against woman involved or environment not feeling conducive to orgasm. Say insecurity of being at a spa with curtains, vulnerable to LE raid at the back of your mind.

-Law of diminishing returns. Believe this is a huge contributing factor at play, w. Are. T your self-pleasuring addiction. Your dopaminergic channels has possibly been retuned to bank on the instant gratification obtained from jerking off and in turn developed tolerance to the arduous and laborious task of coitus. Other factors reinforcing this tendency is her loose kitty, delayed action local anaesthetic laden thick condoms as well. Ruling out chronic smoking and alcoholism, taking your negligible intake into account.

My suggestion, take time off. Commit to No Nut November through December. Restore libido. Hands off policy, child lock that browser. Look to your specific kink or fetish. Host her at a private and secluded venue. More simulated date than wham-bham, thank you ma'am. Should be okay. Good luck.

Fellas, any buxom NE indie contacts. Please DM. Thanks.

[Cyril F]

Hi bro,

These are common concerns. Most imp. Do not feel low or depressed. Work in it. Few tips -.

(1). Keep emotions low. And try to enjoy the moment. We usually tend to think of only the climax. So involve in fore play etc.

(2). Exercise- if possible do planks for few minutes daily. Lot of water consumption.

(3). At least 1 HR before the act / meet, have sweet lime juice or tomato juice (less or no sugar).

(4). Usually erection is directly linked with our thoughts. So do not bring 100 things in your mind. Just relax and have a goal of only enjoying the time as much possible.

(5). Go for 1 shot initially. Do not preplan for 2-3 . That adds stress.

(6). Keep caffeine, red bull, coke kind of drinks at bay for few weeks.

These may help improve. May not show Imm results though.

Cheers.

I am having a problem with ejaculation during my visits with girls. I am having the erection during the penetration phase and able to try positions like WOT, Missionary and BJ. But I am not able to have the ejaculation nor am I able to go close the feeling during the penetration. It usually ends up either the girl or me jacking it off. Same scenario for both shots. Is something wrong with me? I used to masturbate almost daily but these experiences left me jarred and reduced it to once a week. Still no results when I visited the girl today.

Not a smoker nor a serious drinker. 1-2 can of beer a week at max. Is it just stress or lack of sensation due to condom?

Thanks.

[Halwa]

I am having a problem with ejaculation during my visits with girls. I am having the erection during the penetration phase and able to try positions like WOT, Missionary and BJ. But I am not able to have the ejaculation nor am I able to go close the feeling during the penetration. It usually ends up either the girl or me jacking it off. Same scenario for both shots. Is something wrong with me? I used to masturbate almost daily but these experiences left me jarred and reduced it to once a week. Still no results when I visited the girl today.

Not a smoker nor a serious drinker. 1-2 can of beer a week at max. Is it just stress or lack of sensation due to condom?

Thanks.